[QUOTE=Sparky911;7674892]I knew I shouldn't have gone to S View! So stupid. She says she is independent so I arrived early to check out the situation. She told me she was driving to the hotel and I should meet her there. She wasn't driving anywhere. I watched her and her pimp get set up outside the room with another guy as well. They didn't know I was watching. I'm not saying they were going to rob me but it sure felt like it. I got out of there! Stay safe and stay off the View. I knew better!
[URL]https://yolo.com.listcrawler.eu/post/escorts/usa/tennessee/memphis/212794240[/URL][/QUOTE]Thanks for the update man! I was checking that one out and definitely was intrigued. But I was also nervous about it. Looked kinda familiar, but in a way that a lot of them do. Skinny, white, tattoos. The 870 area code made me think she might be a legit out of towner which we see arkansas people come through and start posting here bc it's a larger market, whatever whatever.
But what really raised red flags for me was the way the ad was written. A legit neophyte isn't going to write an ad like that, it's too straight to the point and all business, not at all how a new young woman would write it organically to attract people which would usually be a softer tone and more welcoming. Especially the 'no pimps' line. From what I've seen, most of the girls who are truly independent don't have that in their ad. It's usually used as a kind of dog whistle to signal that one is 'already taken' and therefore off limits to others. But it's ambiguous enough that the posters can claim that they just want to stay independent and not be bothered by guys like that.
There is no silver bullet. And ofc just having that line doesn't mean a poster isn't independent. But it's one of the earliest warning signs on a brand new to the area account. A poster who has been posting for a while who adds that line to their account after a while makes more sense to me. It could mean they are no longer independent. But it could also mean they are more experienced now and don't want to be bothered or annoyed by guys who just want to take their money.
But your very first post as introduction to a city. Why would you even know about that being an issue yet? Maybe your friends told you to add that or you just copied it from other ads you saw, but it's just a big red flag to be considered in the totality of the circumstances.
I'm going to share another ad that has that line in it, but you can compare how the rest of the ad feels very organic and how that part is just added kind of more as an afterthought.
[URL]https://escortbabylon.net/posts_view/227828875/3134510035[/URL]
And you can compare that newer post to one of the first posts she made on this profile.
[URL]https://escortbabylon.net/posts_view/225107677/3134510035[/URL]
The no pimps line is conspicuously absent here. Indicating either she wasn't yet told to add the line. Because she was, in fact, truly independent. Or she hadn't yet felt she needed to add the line. Because she was truly new to the area and didn't know how big of a problem it was yet and thus didn't see the need to try and dissuade annoying boys like that from contacting her. Regardless, newer post in the area. She doesn't include it because no one tells her she should include it. Seems much more legitimate and likely leads to a better and safer experience.
