[QUOTE=JimShorts;3314104]Whatever dude, you are officially both dumb and boring- congrats.[/QUOTE]Oh no, words on the internet!! What shall I do!! ROTFLMFAO.
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[QUOTE=JimShorts;3314104]Whatever dude, you are officially both dumb and boring- congrats.[/QUOTE]Oh no, words on the internet!! What shall I do!! ROTFLMFAO.
[QUOTE=Sicilly;3320317]Not what I've heard from many. They laughed when I asked them if the guy got lucky after diner and they laughed and laughed and said NO WAY. Meanwhile, I buy them coffee and they end up licking my asshole. Go figure.[/QUOTE]Really leave me wondering what you purpose is here. I can think of only one that went south after dinner (not jax) and that was very early in my SA experience when not properly screening. She still texts every week or so and wants another go but I rarely get to that town. I mean really, if they gather the desire and courage to meet you're 90% there.
[QUOTE=Sicilly;3312447]Ok, I'll test your theory tomorrow at noon. I'll tell her about this site and then get some sphincter action. And post a pic. Then I can say neener neener since you know, you can relate to that.
By the way, we reject the premise that there is any rationale to be explained, which is the reason why its so hard to do. Your words brah.
You're battling a war on all fronts and stinky pete on your flank isn't going to help you and neither is slimy Simon to the north. Everyone is out for themselves and your prognostications won't fly.[/QUOTE]You promised us a report on your meeting, & a pic.
[QUOTE=MyDarkSide;3320589]Really leave me wondering what you purpose is here. I can think of only one that went south after dinner (not jax) and that was very early in my SA experience when not properly screening. She still texts every week or so and wants another go but I rarely get to that town. I mean really, if they gather the desire and courage to meet you're 90% there.[/QUOTE]This meeting puts them at greater ease because its at a public place first and also loosens them up with a drink or two. Its not big money and I'm not poor, so its no big deal. It also helps the ones w mixed emotions about bonking for bucks feel like its a "date".
I don't negotiate $ there- I do it beforehand. If I meet somebody for drinks it is always with the understanding that if we are comfortable with each other we go DIRECTLY to playtime afterwards. I don't want 2 separate meetings.
HAVING SAID ALL OF THAT, the majority of these gals I believe can be convinced to meet for FIRST meeting at a hotel for play and drinks in room. I offer to meet them in lobby if they want to decrease their nervousness about coming directly to the room and walk up with them.
[QUOTE=JimShorts;3321102]This meeting puts them at greater ease because its at a public place first and also loosens them up with a drink or two. Its not big money and I'm not poor, so its no big deal. It also helps the ones w mixed emotions about bonking for bucks feel like its a "date".
I don't negotiate $ there- I do it beforehand. If I meet somebody for drinks it is always with the understanding that if we are comfortable with each other we go DIRECTLY to playtime afterwards. I don't want 2 separate meetings.
HAVING SAID ALL OF THAT, the majority of these gals I believe can be convinced to meet for FIRST meeting at a hotel for play and drinks in room. I offer to meet them in lobby if they want to decrease their nervousness about coming directly to the room and walk up with them.[/QUOTE]I agree with the 1st paragraph. The 2nd paragraph, depending on your definition of a sb, is where we part. For me if the arrangements are decided before the m / g then its no different than dealing with BP, CL, or whatever source your using to find a sb. A sb making an arrangement by text or phone before actually meeting you is a pro, utr or pro sb (one who has a rotation of sd's). The m / g is your chance to actually move forward or walk away for both. If the m / g is going good then you can hammer out the arrangement and details there. If not either can walk away. If the girl say bring x amount of $$ and we can go to fc after the m / g then no different than BP. Thats not my idea of a sb. The 3rd paragraph I leave up to them, whatever makes them comfortable.
[QUOTE=JohnHandCock;3321210]I agree with the 1st paragraph. The 2nd paragraph, depending on your definition of a sb, is where we part. For me if the arrangements are decided before the m / g then its no different than dealing with BP, CL, or whatever source your using to find a sb. A sb making an arrangement by text or phone before actually meeting you is a pro, utr or pro sb (one who has a rotation of sd's). The m / g is your chance to actually move forward or walk away for both. If the m / g is going good then you can hammer out the arrangement and details there. If not either can walk away. If the girl say bring x amount of $$ and we can go to fc after the m / g then no different than BP. Thats not my idea of a sb. The 3rd paragraph I leave up to them, whatever makes them comfortable.[/QUOTE]I'm really not out to define an SB or use a standard arrangement of any kind. I'm out to get laid by young good looking chicks that are typically clean and friendly, The goal is once, and if I like them a lot I'll repeat.
[QUOTE=LuvSoftHands;3320919]You promised us a report on your meeting, & a pic.[/QUOTE]Shortjimmy doesn't deserve to see it and he ruined it for everyone. It was marvelous and tight.
[QUOTE=Sicilly;3322098]Shortjimmy doesn't deserve to see it and he ruined it for everyone. It was marvelous and tight.[/QUOTE]Well. You could always PM me. Otherwise it just looks like coudn't back up the boast.
[QUOTE=LuvSoftHands;3322351]Well. You could always PM me. Otherwise it just looks like coudn't back up the boast.[/QUOTE]Yes I could, but if you knew better then you would know I post plenty of pics and not just to back up my post (not a boast brah, just info).
If folks want to take a lass to dinner then good for them. If they think telling them about this site will hurt their chances then that sux for them.
Point I was making that everyone is going to do what they are going to do regardless and they can take or leave the info provided on here.
Stinky pete screaming at some unknown monger isn't going to change anything either.
Are the pics real, does she put out, is she a scammer, does she waste time. These are the things I take away from here. Not how to woo a dame.
I agree with most of what is being said here.
I had my first sugar baby over 6 years ago via a posting I made on Craig's List. I would not try that now for many reasons. It was a great relationship for 18 months or so and we became very close. Never forget that the girls are in it for the money regardless of what your heart will tell you. Next up was a young lady 40 years my jr with a great body. This lasted for awhile but ended in time. I met her through a worn out sugar daddy site that is still up with poor choices. I currently have a young lady who does what I ask and pleases me.
Now the approach.
These sites are pay for play. I am not interested in arm candy or long distances relationships. The first meeting is always in public and usually a lunch. This is window shopping. She knows why she is there. Half the time we go to a hotel in my car so we can establish the deed and future dates. Most of the girls want the money now and know what they must do to get it. In a few weeks they will have some additional need (things for kids) and it is up to you to decide if you want to pay more. Most of the girls are single mothers, occasionally the older ones are the "hot wife" who may or may not share the adventure with their husband. The advantages of the sugar baby setup is better looking and class of girls, lower clients traffic and in my case, bareback. These are low volume providers, safer and have a life they maintain. Be safe!
I agree. At the end of the day almost everyone wants to sleep with you for considerations. I had a luck with one who is MILF. That was a way good experience than Eros for average BP price. There are many who also waste our time by asking too many questions or money up front. Here are 2 of them who I found not worth. If you got lucky let me know.
She wants to meet for lunch at first. Then she changes her mind for not available during day time and asking me suggestions. Asking too many questions about my work.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/d583ed97-3cf6-090e-2216-ad9ec105eceb[/URL]
She need cash money as well as free drinks for just meeting in public place. But does not talk about benefits. Waste of time.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/89d60e9a-8855-09a3-eca4-500b7094d23e[/URL]
[QUOTE=PuurFit;3322555]I agree with most of what is being said here.
I had my first sugar baby over 6 years ago via a posting I made on Craig's List. I would not try that now for many reasons. It was a great relationship for 18 months or so and we became very close. Never forget that the girls are in it for the money regardless of what your heart will tell you. Next up was a young lady 40 years my jr with a great body. This lasted for awhile but ended in time. I met her through a worn out sugar daddy site that is still up with poor choices. I currently have a young lady who does what I ask and pleases me.
Now the approach.
These sites are pay for play. I am not interested in arm candy or long distances relationships. The first meeting is always in public and usually a lunch. This is window shopping. She knows why she is there. Half the time we go to a hotel in my car so we can establish the deed and future dates. Most of the girls want the money now and know what they must do to get it. In a few weeks they will have some additional need (things for kids) and it is up to you to decide if you want to pay more. Most of the girls are single mothers, occasionally the older ones are the "hot wife" who may or may not share the adventure with their husband. The advantages of the sugar baby setup is better looking and class of girls, lower clients traffic and in my case, bareback. These are low volume providers, safer and have a life they maintain. Be safe![/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=FunJaxMan;3324915]I agree. At the end of the day almost everyone wants to sleep with you for considerations. I had a luck with one who is MILF. That was a way good experience than Eros for average BP price. There are many who also waste our time by asking too many questions or money up front. Here are 2 of them who I found not worth. If you got lucky let me know.
She wants to meet for lunch at first. Then she changes her mind for not available during day time and asking me suggestions. Asking too many questions about my work.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/d583ed97-3cf6-090e-2216-ad9ec105eceb[/URL]
She need cash money as well as free drinks for just meeting in public place. But does not talk about benefits. Waste of time.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/89d60e9a-8855-09a3-eca4-500b7094d23e[/URL][/QUOTE]They are both fugly. They should be paying you.
[QUOTE=Sicilly;3324923]They are both fugly. They should be paying you.[/QUOTE]LOL. They are the ones who initiated contact with me. I was going through the flow.
[QUOTE=FunJaxMan;3324985]LOL. They are the ones who initiated contact with me. I was going through the flow.[/QUOTE]I hate when that happens. You get the email notification and you're thinking, I hope she's hottt. Then she is either yuck! Or she is very hott, but lives in California, OR. They want ONLINE ONLY.
Personally I'm annoyed at having a paid subscription to seek women and having to filter through men pretending to be women they classify as women.
I think they need another category for those specifically interested.