Don't argeu, just block the idiots
The former discussion had me receive a number of PMs from one of the most racist and bigoted members I have ever come across here.
All I can say is I should have blocked the dumb jackXXX when I got the first idiotic PM. Don't waste time arguing and feeding their delusions, just block them!!
Had totally forgotten we can do that!!
I'm all for truth in advertising but.
How many of the ads posted on BP are actual photos of the providers? I would really like some feedback on this question.
My experiences would be maybe 20% of the time it's a pic of the actual girl. If you factor in highly flattering poses that hide noticeable weight gain or baby damage, the percentage probably falls to 10%.
And still I see ads with pics of known supermodels posing as providers, my assumption is that if they are still up, men are using their services and taking what ever answers the door. You can always walk away but at least in my schedule, I've alloted this play time and the anticipation factor usually wins over consumer outrage. Usually there is some resemblance but afterwards I vow, like most of us, to stick with my regulars.
My point is that isn't it the norm to expect to be hoodwinked on the pics? I'm all for sharing information on how accurate the pics are, especially if there is a huge deviation from what you see and what you get. And you can always walk away as many mongers have pointed out on this very forum. But I would rather TOFTT and share a good experience or report on a bad one, either way helping all of us, even seniors LOL!
[QUOTE=Anonymous123;2305839]The only problem I have with anything you said is having a problem with us not liking to go into a situation knowing it's not the girl in the pics. I think most of us like one less variable in these situations and at the very least, want to know what the car I'm renting looks like. So it is a big deal. Now if I've seen her before, than I could see your point but I don't feel comfortable seeing any provider using fake pics. But everything else, I'm with ya buddy.[/QUOTE]
It is certainly an individual thing
[QUOTE=JaxDog;2305901]Restless, I can understand why some would be fearful of sending pictures and it's not something I normally do but have in certain circumstances when I thought it was worth the trouble that I could possibly encounter. I'm not married so that is a non factor for me. Other than a provider working with LEO or perhaps posting the picture on line, why they'ed even want to is beyond me, I don't see a lot of down side in it for me. As I stated earlier, some of the best providers I've ever seen, this is after almost thirty years in this hobby, have requested photo's! But everyone has to decide for themselves what their comfort level will allow them to do, I personally don't have an issue with sending a beautiful woman a picture of myself. JD.[/QUOTE]Personally, I plan on stepping out of this game soon and I don't want any loose ends tying me back to this hobby. If you are single, that is one factor that might cause you to not hesitate in sending someone a picture. Obviously if you are married, I would think one would hesitate in sending that type of information. You know, some of these girls (especially so called high end ones) want a lot of personal info on you (the guys) but I wonder will they provide you with the same info on themselves. It seems it's more a one way thing on their part. I can only speak for me though. I am just not that comfortable. If it was a dating site, I'd have no problem sharing a picture or 2; however, because of the nature of this business (hooking), I must exercise as much discretion as possible. Not only because of a spouse situation but job, other family members, and a host of other things. I was looking at CL before and apparently some guy sent a provider a picture of himself. It appears he must have pissed them off because they took his picture and place it on an ad telling people about him. It is this vindictive nature of people that would cause me much hesitation. Anyway, again, individual preference in these things.