Thanks to all the wonderfull gals who responded to my overnite posting at the Casino!
Happy new year!
The Bootman
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Thanks to all the wonderfull gals who responded to my overnite posting at the Casino!
Happy new year!
The Bootman
[QUOTE=PhatDaty; 1637675]Generally ladies that make such statements publicly do all of us a favor because they pretty much prove themselves to be drama ice queens that I do not really want to spend time, money, or energy with.
-PD[/QUOTE]There's nothing wrong with sharing information about men who pose a physical or transaction threat. And posting it here may be the most effective way to get the info out. This doesn't make a women a 'drama queen'. Johns post all kinds of shit here to blackball providers and I suspect much of it is exaggerated or due to YMMV issues.
I'd say the real 'drama queens' are the guys who need to get nasty. Especially when they haven't been personally attacked. Guess some just don't like 'uppity' women. That's too bad.
[QUOTE=D Nut; 1637529]I have seen blacklists ruin so many boards- the old canine board not being the only one. Eventually, some provider gets it in her head to leverage the blacklist and declares herself queen of the universe with a little clique of provider followers."I will blacklist you!", becomes a mantra.
Blacklisting, no matter how much of a good idea in the beginning, with good motives, eventually just becomes a weapon. That scares guys away, and the business of providing suffers. It's worse for the providers because they may have their feeling of power, but the guys who didn't indulge still have the cash. You can't use feelings of power to pay rent or buy food.
Guys see providers for the drama free, hassle free, no strings attached experience.
If you want to add an element of drama to the negotiations, then do so at your own risk.[/QUOTE]I think that the moderator would have the final say in this. To have either side with the "power" is not good.
Of the lovely ladies and to the men who have shared info with me and who I hope I have helped also. The overnight bidding comes to an end tomorrow at 5 and it is down to two lovely ladies at this time and point. Thanks for all who showed interest. If any ladies can suggest a great hotel to stay and some nice restaurants in the Dayton Cincinatti area I would be appreciative. I really want to spoil the lady who I chose to share time with me. This a one time occurence. Again thanks to all the men and ladies and have a Happy New Years Eve and Day and a great new year. The best to all. BMack
[QUOTE=BigMack;1637980]Of the lovely ladies and to the men who have shared info with me and who I hope I have helped also. The overnight bidding comes to an end tomorrow at 5 and it is down to two lovely ladies at this time and point. Thanks for all who showed interest. If any ladies can suggest a great hotel to stay and some nice restaurants in the Dayton Cincinatti area I would be appreciative. I really want to spoil the lady who I chose to share time with me. This a one time occurence. Again thanks to all the men and ladies and have a Happy New Years Eve and Day and a great new year. The best to all. BMack[/QUOTE]This is your third post on this topic today. Don't you think that's sufficient?
[QUOTE=CooperCincy;1637985]This is your third post on this topic today. Don't you think that's sufficient?[/QUOTE]Was some misconceptions and it is imporant to make sure there are no misconceptions. If I offended you then sorry, not my intent. I have a lady from two different areas so it is important to keep them in the loop. Happy New Year sir
[QUOTE=BigMack;1637988]Was some misconceptions and it is imporant to make sure there are no misconceptions. If I offended you then sorry, not my intent. I have a lady from two different areas so it is important to keep them in the loop. Happy New Year sir[/QUOTE]If you could do that via PM that would be great. Thank you.
[QUOTE=CooperCincy;1637991]If you could do that via PM that would be great. Thank you.[/QUOTE]Thank you for the recommendation Cooper. You have a happy new year also
[QUOTE=Bobby1862;1637920]I think that the moderator would have the final say in this. To have either side with the "power" is not good.[/QUOTE]I am kind of new to all of "this". I was advised to use this site by a provider. She indicated her better deals would be found here. Plus adds a level of safety, quality, and consistency when compared to BP. I am very pleased with said provider and probably will not switch unless there is a scheduling issue or just a really good deal or something like that. But I also travel a lot and enjoy being able to do some research and build some credibility on the site. So all in all I must agree.site is overall a good thing. But in recent days talk of black lists, real identities, families being made aware, loose lips, etc by people in the network. Makes me kind of nervous. There is some inherent risk. Granted. But I just want to have some fun. I am not charismatic enough to go into a bar and walk out with a lady, and frankly right now. (going through a divorce and travel for a living). I don't really have time for anything real serious. And lets admit it. Even the most vanilla of providers will do more for us than any girlfriends or wives (or ex's as the case may be). Plus I enjoy the friendly smile and banter and unconditional intimacy. So all this really fits the bill for me. I hope the recent issues are not the norm. I don't want to be run off. I intend to faithfully fulfill my part of the deal, I hope everyone does the same. I am sure 99. 9% on here probably do.
I have made a couple rookie mistakes on some posts. Just trying to be funny / have fun. But I am learning. But I would never do some of the stuff that is being discussed. No one deserves that.
Life is short they say. So do what you want. I am trying.
[QUOTE=BigMack;1637988]Was some misconceptions and it is imporant to make sure there are no misconceptions. If I offended you then sorry, not my intent. I have a lady from two different areas so it is important to keep them in the loop. Happy New Year sir[/QUOTE]He is just playing one town off another and trying to have a Happy New Year, no wasted ink, it's all digital don't you know!
Ps did you hear about the three way chili in Cincy? Fine dining can't get no better unless you visit the Y!
Been kept in the loop he has two ladies one from Cincy and one from Dayton so he is trying to keep both aware. Cooper is correct though and I have told him to keep it backchannel in contacting the ladies. He is a great guy and whoever gets his overnight with him is going to be spoiled rotten. It is just the kind of guy he is. He treats women with respect, has a more wide open menu than probably most of us but comes well skilled to deliver a very memorable session with a willing lady. I have done a three way with him and a provider and he REALLY gets into it. But he is more than that, he respects who he spends time with and goes out of his way to try and leave a wonderful impression. I don't know which lady he will end up with but he has two fine ladies who want to spend the evening with him for more than the usual and whichever one gets him, is in for the ride of her life and the best of amenities. No brag as I have seen him work on a woman LOL You are correct though and I have told him to keep it backchannel which he agrees. He is very excited though about the two bids he has and think he just got "carried away" LMAO. Happy New year to the men and ladies. Hope you all had a great NYRs eve PT
[QUOTE=UnfortunateSon;1637879]There's nothing wrong with sharing information about men who pose a physical or transaction threat. And posting it here may be the most effective way to get the info out.[/QUOTE]Just want to clarify that I meant that posting something here that suggested providers share information and how that can be done was perfectly legit and understandable. But I wasn't suggesting. And neither did the original post. That this forum be used for that purpose.
[QUOTE=D Nut; 1637529]I have seen blacklists ruin so many boards- the old canine board not being the only one. Eventually, some provider gets it in her head to leverage the blacklist and declares herself queen of the universe with a little clique of provider followers."I will blacklist you!", becomes a mantra.
Blacklisting, no matter how much of a good idea in the beginning, with good motives, eventually just becomes a weapon. That scares guys away, and the business of providing suffers. It's worse for the providers because they may have their feeling of power, but the guys who didn't indulge still have the cash. You can't use feelings of power to pay rent or buy food.
Guys see providers for the drama free, hassle free, no strings attached experience.
If you want to add an element of drama to the negotiations, then do so at your own risk.[/QUOTE]D Nut you are 100% percent right. What you stated happen on Big doggie a few years back and it was a three ring circus. It got to a point where there were providers providing half ass services at best and would say if you complain or don't like what happening I will put you on the list and no other provider will touch you. Power is the great aphrodisiac that corrupt the mind and soul.
I'm sorry however I did respond and I didn't change names due to a bad rep as you mentioned in your post. I changed due to other circumstances that if you wish to know more than pm me on here and I will inform you. I was known as another provider on here and I posted quite a bit however I had to let that old handle name go sorry for any confusion to anyone. I just want to look out for myself as well as any more clients I meet up with. I will go check my PM's again just to make sure I responded to you.
[QUOTE=D Nut; 1635282]I also PMed EnvyMe, and asked her what her old handle was. No response.
A provider's greatest asset isn't what's between her legs, but a good reputation as providing a top notch companionship experience. It's not just about sex, but what goes on before, during, and after. I used to see a particular girl fairly regularly. I liked seeing her not because she was the prettiest or had the skills to join Cirque du Soleil. I repeated with her because from the moment she walked in the door, to the time she left, I had a great time; 20-25 in bed and 35-40 minutes hanging out and laughing. I remember the 35-40 minutes more than I do what happened in the bedroom.
The other side of the coin is that a provider's biggest hindrance to making money is a lousy reputation of cash-and-dash, clock watching, robotic sex, unhygenic policies, bait-and-switch, even shilling. (If you have a shill, even that will make customers not want to see you.).
If EnvyMe really is a provider using a different handle, I'm guessing that she has a bad rep. ; one that will cause customers to stay away. You know, a rep. Like HotSquirt does right now. That one newbie review by "Boom 72" didn't really help- made things worse, in fact. (I'm sure HS has her fans, and more power to them. I'm just stating an opinion that her rep isn't what a customer wants to read about.)
So, my opinion, for whatever it's worth, EnvyMe is "suspect" and I will not be seeing her. If she can prove that she was a provider in good standing, then I might change my mind.[/QUOTE]