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Looking back at hobbying return on investment over past 3 years. Yuk! Spending $$ for seedy hotels, scams, cash and dance, druggie providers handled by scummers. It's actually embarassing.

Maybe 3 solutions:

A) Mongers post top 5 providers weekly (a top 10 would be unrealistic).

B) Mongers post Top 10 worst which would be very competitive with lots of honorable mentions.

C) Mongers strike for 30 days relying on AMPs, self-service and / or more attention to significant others.

Anyone with union organizing experience?

[QUOTE=VaeVictus;4567249]I'm in the same boat. 2 out of my last 3 visits have been the worst 2 I've ever had. Until some shit changes around here, I think I'm done.[/QUOTE]

I sent this in earlier in response to the fellow senior members who have posted here today about quitting the hobby. It seems there are a number of us that have been doing this for a while and are all getting to a point where we are tired of being treated poorly. I have a few ideas that may help us collectively, which I will be glad to post if there is interest. Meanwhile, the message I sent earlier is below. I don't know if it didn't post when I accidentally hit the back button or if it just got delayed. At any rate, if it ends up being a duplicate, my apologies.

I've seen some talk on the threads here lately about the state of things in town lately, and sadly they are true. While it was mentioned that there are some jerks out there mistreating providers, it is becoming more prevalent that providers are mistreating clients too. I don't think they realize they are driving away the target market of people they actually want to see, I. E. Those who visit regularly, treat them with respect, and are reliable appointments. I've been doing this for a number of years, and am not waxing nostalgically here, but basic common courtesy is at an all time low with providers these days. Over the years, I've developed good relations and rapport with some of the ladies, but that seems to have been replaced by people who view clients as nothing more than a walking wallet these days.

I have myself considered hanging it up lately. There isn't one girl out there listing (yes, including the ones that have been around a while and get rave reviews) that can consistently be relied upon to even keep a basic dialog to set up appointments. I get it that they have lives and they are busy, but we do too, and I'll match anyone's busy schedule with mine. If I have time to keep in touch about making appointments, then they should too. Sadly, the ones who are the most guilty of no shows or ghosting on a regular basis are the ones that put "don't waste my time" or "no games or bs" type messages on their ads. I'm not the type to name names, but I've been stood up, ghosted on, or just plain downright ignored sometimes by people who know I've seen consistently. And it sounds like this is common for all of us here. If these ladies want this to be "business like" then they need to be professionals at all times too, not just when it suits them.

I'll get off my soapbox now. LOL. But when I see members here saying they are quitting, I think the ladies need to start taking their own advice and remembering that we deserve the same treatment and respect that you are asking for too. Otherwise, they are driving away the good ones and leaving the field open for nothing but the jerks they complain about. I haven't decided if I'm staying yet myself. I guess a lot will be decided on the next few months. I work too hard for my money and have so little free time, that I won't continue to have it wasted by people who don't show me the same respect they demand for themselves. I've never broken an appointment, always been respectful and mindful of those I see, and never set an unreasonable expectation for anyone I contact. I expect the same in return. If I can't get that, I will probably quit also. Bottom line is, I want to be as appreciated as a good client just as they want to be appreciated as a good provider. I don't expect providers to deal with bad behavior, but I will not either. Stay safe all.

Curious about this one, would like to hear any reviews before I toftt. Looks quality and no red flags that I can see.

[URL]http://ft-wayne.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/latin/been-a-long-day-come-relax-wit/069930678006[/URL]

[QUOTE=FwLooper;4567895]Curious about this one, would like to hear any reviews before I toftt. Looks quality and no red flags that I can see.

[URL]http://ft-wayne.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/latin/been-a-long-day-come-relax-wit/069930678006[/URL][/QUOTE]I almost saw her before I ended up with my last awful visit. But she decided she didn't want to do outcall my direction. Only thing that stuck out to me was slighter high rate and she told me all covered, otherwise I didn't pick up on any red flags either. Go for it and let us know!

[QUOTE=CaptivaHeat;4567453]Looking back at hobbying return on investment over past 3 years. Yuk! Spending $$ for seedy hotels, scams, cash and dance, druggie providers handled by scummers. It's actually embarassing.

Maybe 3 solutions:

A) Mongers post top 5 providers weekly (a top 10 would be unrealistic).

B) Mongers post Top 10 worst which would be very competitive with lots of honorable mentions.

C) Mongers strike for 30 days relying on AMPs, self-service and / or more attention to significant others.

Anyone with union organizing experience?[/QUOTE]I like the idea of a strike, but I don't want to mess with anyone's livelihood en masse. I think we should start with something less drastic and see if things can be turned around with some better intel. My first idea would work to help people conveniently compile the aforementioned top 5 and bottom 10 list as well as keep current on the situation. Since even the one's we consider to be better than most can go bad too, it pays to have more direct real time stats on who is worth seeing and who isn't.

My idea is that we collectively start issuing a short scorecard report on each person we contact. Make the subject title the name of the provider only (makes a search by name convenient to see all intel easily on any one particular person) list on a scale of 0 to 10 a category for communication, attitude, and appointment (if you make one). Then just a quick sentence or two with any needed comment. This is not to take the place of reviews, just a quick scorecard that you post for every person you contact. It would take two minutes, and give an overview for everyone as to what they are experiencing. It may also stop people asking "does anyone have intel on this one?" if they can just type in a name and get a good set of scorecards.

It's just an idea, and it won't work if we don't all participate. But if you contact 2 or 3 people to try to get a date, it might be nice to know who isn't even bothering to respond or who is difficult with you while even trying to set up an appointment, or who ghosts on you in the middle of making plans, etc. If anyone has thoughts on how to arrange it differently or add to it, feel free to comment. An example would look like the following:

Title - (provider name from ad).

Communication 5/10 (or note if never responded).

Attitude 4/10.

Appointment 4/10 (or note that you decided not to see them).

Comments. Nothing special, not worth a repeat visit unless there are no other options.

Something short and to the point would take just a minute to write, but if we get enough members to fill out a simple scorecard, it helps give a more complete picture of what everyone is experiencing. You can always write a review later if you feel one is helpful, but this would at least be a start to be able to put some stats together on most of the ones that have ads even if there aren't any reviews. As mentioned, this would take some unified participation, but it could maybe stem the tide of bad providers if real time info is being shared every time. If someone has a better idea though, I'm all for that too. I just know that there were at least 3 senior members posting here today they are thinking of quitting, and two that said they would rather drive a few hours to a better city than see someone here. If we don't do something, the situation is never going to improve.

No report just a general WTF. Twice now in as many weeks I've had two different girls try to put a condom on inside out. One would think an action like that would be second nature but no. I'm not interested in BBFS at all so I'm going to start bringing spares. Ffs.

[QUOTE=VaeVictus;4567915]I almost saw her before I ended up with my last awful visit. But she decided she didn't want to do outcall my direction. Only thing that stuck out to me was slighter high rate and she told me all covered, otherwise I didn't pick up on any red flags either. Go for it and let us know![/QUOTE]Texted with her a bit. Responsive. Verification pic checks out. Seems legit. Only issue is that she is over in Goshen / Coliseum area. I just don't go over there. If she moves to a better location, I'd be game. If the pics are real, she's a cutie.

Contacted this one but location is the popular one. Searched and couldn't find any feedback. Anyone tried?

[URL]http://ft-wayne.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/early-bird-specials/314548505452[/URL]

I think we should all just take a minute and remember that this is the crazy season by no way am I sticking up for the providers and how they've been treating clients lately I myself have decided to take a break until spring I just don't understand what the providers are thinking maybe they should think about it's almost tax time and a lot of the returns will go straight to them it's just a shame that they say no drama in the ads and that's all they bring to the table I have taken my business to Ohio and Michigan and believe it or not fellows it's the exact same stories that the girls here tell my go-to girl went crazy on me I get endless text from new girls that I've met and a lot of the providers are dead fish with a pretty face so it's all just a game of Hit and Miss I guess good luck all happy holidays.

It's a sign from the hobby gods. Had an appointment with one of our premier never a bad review providers and she ghosted me.

I'm pretty sure it is me at this point.

Going to deactivate this account and stick to self serve.

Happy Holidaze. Be safe.

Noah.

[QUOTE=JerryM;4568889]Contacted this one but location is the popular one. Searched and couldn't find any feedback. Anyone tried?

[URL]http://ft-wayne.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/early-bird-specials/314548505452[/URL][/QUOTE]She recently just got released from uncle LEO's house. She's a heavy heavy pharma user and does not have a great body. As far as the service provided it was about average. Hope this helps.

[QUOTE=NoahVail;4569318]It's a sign from the hobby gods. Had an appointment with one of our premier never a bad review providers and she ghosted me.

I'm pretty sure it is me at this point.

Going to deactivate this account and stick to self serve.

Happy Holidaze. Be safe.

Noah.[/QUOTE]Who ghosted?

Guess I'll try out my first scorecard review. I hope others will do the same. Even if you don't end up seeing the person, please share the basics so we all know who to avoid or see. Link and scores below.

[URL]https://ft-wayne.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/nurse-victoria-is-seeing-new-p/701357830795[/URL]

(scale of 0 to 10).

Communitation 3/10 (ended up ghosting).

Attitude 5/10.

Appointment 0/10.

Comments: this one set up an appointment, responded to confirm, then 2 minutes before I arrived texted a two word cancellation. She had already texted me 10 minutes prior saying she was at the location, ready and waiting, then blew off the appointment just before I arrived. Had seen this one before, so it wasn't first visit jitters, she just stood me up. This is the kind of bs we don't need. I have reason to believe she made appointments for two people at the same time and just blew off the one that didn't get there first. Thanks for nothing, Victoria!!

Didn't see this one, but talked to her. She seemed way nicer than most of the regulars. Sounds like she could really use some help and thought I would at least give her a mention here to let others know she's pretty responsive. If someone sees her, please post a review.

[URL]http://ft-wayne.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/21-and-pregnant-but-lots-of-fu/729645241995[/URL]

(scale of 0 to 10).

Communication 9/10 (prompt responses, full answers, and easy to talk to).

Attitude 9/10 (very friendly and forthright).

Appointment (none-inquired, but did not set one up).

Comments: given the current lineup around here, she was a breath of fresh air just to talk to. Not a hint of bad attitude. Again, haven't seen her, but she seems pretty down to earth.

[QUOTE=Toddp;4569988]Guess I'll try out my first scorecard review. I hope others will do the same. Even if you don't end up seeing the person, please share the basics so we all know who to avoid or see. Link and scores below.

[URL]https://ft-wayne.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/nurse-victoria-is-seeing-new-p/701357830795[/URL]

(scale of 0 to 10).

Communitation 3/10 (ended up ghosting).

Attitude 5/10.

Appointment 0/10.

Comments: this one set up an appointment, responded to confirm, then 2 minutes before I arrived texted a two word cancellation. She had already texted me 10 minutes prior saying she was at the location, ready and waiting, then blew off the appointment just before I arrived. Had seen this one before, so it wasn't first visit jitters, she just stood me up. This is the kind of bs we don't need. I have reason to believe she made appointments for two people at the same time and just blew off the one that didn't get there first. Thanks for nothing, Victoria!![/QUOTE]Same here. Avoid.