[QUOTE=IndyHobby;5053161]I hate profiles without face pics!
And this one doesn't even let you see how her figure is.
How is she in person? 1-10.[/QUOTE]Saw her pics. I'm not into short hair ladies.
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[QUOTE=IndyHobby;5053161]I hate profiles without face pics!
And this one doesn't even let you see how her figure is.
How is she in person? 1-10.[/QUOTE]Saw her pics. I'm not into short hair ladies.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/a7e6fca7-c7ed-42b5-8e50-5f6970b7d3b8[/URL] Talked with this one off site. Wanted $250 via venmo. Seemed like a good deal until she demanded it upfront before meeting. Told her that we had to meet in person for anything like that and she stopped talking after that. Apparently I was the one scamming her.
[QUOTE=SpinAndWin85;5053154]I've been chatting with this lady for a few weeks. Finally got together for a meet and greet only. Very attractive and classy. Wants $$$ ppm and cannot host, so I'd also have to spring for a room. We're supposed to meet again this Thursday, but that kind of allowance for a 47 year old? I may have to pony up once to see what I've found, but wondering if any of you have had contact / experience with her? Haven't seen anything on her in the forum. Thanks in advance.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/db42230a-a708-4db3-a7af-4c820cab1920[/URL][/QUOTE]No hate on you personally just in general... just an observation. But I have to chuckle at the guys who love " older" girls cause young ones are " so much drama" and GPS>>>>then they run into same thing From 35-45 yr olds. Guys if you avoid younger girls to get away from Drama you are fooling yourself. Drama is about their personality and 9 out of 10 don't change in 80 or so years they are here. Bottom line if hey had golden pussy at 18 they'll still have it at 35. BET.
I'm no freud but I've been around the block a few times and AGE has ZERO to do with drama or maturity in men or women. You can be 60 and act like a dam kid. Drama runs rampant in all age groups. Reason I don't post more is drama, men are just as bad.
[QUOTE=WreckItRight;5055575]No hate on you personally just in general... just an observation. But I have to chuckle at the guys who love " older" girls cause young ones are " so much drama" and GPS>>>>then they run into same thing From 35-45 yr olds. Guys if you avoid younger girls to get away from Drama you are fooling yourself. Drama is about their personality and 9 out of 10 don't change in 80 or so years they are here. Bottom line if hey had golden pussy at 18 they'll still have it at 35. BET.
I'm no freud but I've been around the block a few times and AGE has ZERO to do with drama or maturity in men or women. You can be 60 and act like a dam kid. Drama runs rampant in all age groups. Reason I don't post more is drama, men are just as bad.[/QUOTE]I am on SA for the sole purpose of sleeping with the same tight hard bodies I was with 35-40 years ago. PERIOD.
I have zero attraction to women my age. And if I were attracted to them I would simply pick them up just like back in the day.
The entire concept of a sd-sb relationship exists so guys like me, (60) can f& at k girls 18-25. Aside from one girl I started hooking up with when she was 19 and is now 26, I rarely break older than 22-23. As low as 18.
Zero drama, always between $0. 00, (got to know how to talk) - 300. Very rarely 350+. I'd say $0 more often than 300+.
Not a chance in hell I would pay more than a few drinks for a girl over 30. If I were going to do that I'd go to a bar.
Cheers!
[QUOTE=Charming1;5055617]I am on SA for the sole purpose of sleeping with the same tight hard bodies I was with 35-40 years ago. PERIOD.
I have zero attraction to women my age. And if I were attracted to them I would simply pick them up just like back in the day.
The entire concept of a sd-sb relationship exists so guys like me, (60) can f& at k girls 18-25. Aside from one girl I started hooking up with when she was 19 and is now 26, I rarely break older than 22-23. As low as 18.
Zero drama, always between $0. 00, (got to know how to talk) - 300. Very rarely 350+. I'd say $0 more often than 300+.
Not a chance in hell I would pay more than a few drinks for a girl over 30. If I were going to do that I'd go to a bar.
Cheers![/QUOTE]This is a walk off homer bottom of the 9th 3 on, 2 outs 2 strikes. To win the game.
[QUOTE=PrinceNumenor;5053601]Finally realised why most college sb's have premium accounts. It's a perk for them from SA and they get it through using their college emails. I've had little success with college girls though have had a few successes and they have been good. I'm probably too old for many but the SA perk hasn't helped. A lot of girls see that, look at their student loans, figure it's an easy buck, and then offer pics, online, chat and even scam thinking us older gents will be overwhelmed by their youth, teeny bodies etc. ,etc. Just be aware. I can't count how many times I've been ghosted by them waiting for a meet.
A good sb friend gave me some insight on being a DI provider the other day. DI takes 50 (now probably more) for every meet. They try and load you with as many guys as they can so that it can easily be a situation of ongoing consecutive meets meaning guys you're in and out, somebody before you and somebody right after. The escorts don't do the screening and therefore can't control who they see. They are put in a position of just providing sex with little chance of talking or making a connection. They are just getting you off LOL. For many that's fine and I'm not judging here. I also might be being a little too critical as my friendly sb might be a bit prejudiced against so your experience maybe quite different but it's worth mentioning.
Back to seeking. Yes it's work and you have to be very careful. I suggest not using even your first name in any first contacts as you can be identified by it (I have been). Your messages can be screenshot as can your profile page and then if she's identified you she can and will threaten to send these to your wife, daughter, family, work whatever. It's happened to me and it's ugly. Saying that if you are careful and go to another platform to message such as kik, snapchat, etc. It works. I'd stay off text messaging until more trust is developed or use a burner. With a sb you can develop a connection. You can get to talk. It's up to both of you if this is what you both want. Sex then becomes better for both of you. Often sb's enjoy sex as much as you and feel much better in a daddy / baby situation then as a provider on an escort page. All these comments come from my own experiences. Yours maybe completely different. To each their own. Good luck!![/QUOTE]Not to mention the girls on Discrete are a 5-7 and the girls on SA (that I would make an effort to meet and groom as a SB are IMHO a 7-10) with a few exceptions as always. 90% of the Sb's I hook up with need to be picked up, don't drive, come back to my place, might spend the night, hit the drive thru or dominoes, hang out and watch tv, let you play w them more than once, drink, go riding around etc etc. I'm betting discrete info girls don't do that. The other 10% are escorts on SA, and they have their place too, sometimes I'm glad they leave right after. LOL there is still LOTs of girls on SA that are fun to hang with why? Because they are down to party as well as make a $.
[QUOTE=Charming1;5055617]I am on SA for the sole purpose of sleeping with the same tight hard bodies I was with 35-40 years ago. PERIOD.
I have zero attraction to women my age. And if I were attracted to them I would simply pick them up just like back in the day.
The entire concept of a sd-sb relationship exists so guys like me, (60) can f& at k girls 18-25. Aside from one girl I started hooking up with when she was 19 and is now 26, I rarely break older than 22-23. As low as 18.
Zero drama, always between $0. 00, (got to know how to talk) - 300. Very rarely 350+. I'd say $0 more often than 300+.
Not a chance in hell I would pay more than a few drinks for a girl over 30. If I were going to do that I'd go to a bar.
Cheers![/QUOTE]I understand that alot of guys are on here for the young ones. I do. For me personally, I'm seeking ladies with whom I can develop a connection. That makes the sex that much hotter. I just haven't consistently found that in the younger ones. At the end of the day, we're all trying to get laid, one way or another! Be safe!
I've been active in escort and AMP scene for a number of years. I'm kinda tired of the druggie girls smokey hotel rooms and unfulfilling and mechanical nature of the sex. Thinking maybe more of a regular that I can have a connection with would make the sex better. I'm divorced and my gf is out of state. I have my house to myself when kids are at their moms. Not sure about having a girl at my house is a good idea or not.
I made an account on SA and have got a few messages. The girls seem really hot. I'm sure the model types are likely scams or no sex. Just not sure it's the life for me. It seems like a lot of work and money for maybe no payoff. I mean why not save the monthly subscription and use that for a DI girl?
Can anyone talk me in or out of it?
When I get messages from chicas that aren't that attractive. I just want to reply, hello! I can get better looking women than you without paying!
[QUOTE=PrinceNumenor;5053601]Finally realised why most college sb's have premium accounts. It's a perk for them from SA and they get it through using their college emails. I've had little success with college girls though have had a few successes and they have been good. I'm probably too old for many but the SA perk hasn't helped. A lot of girls see that, look at their student loans, figure it's an easy buck, and then offer pics, online, chat and even scam thinking us older gents will be overwhelmed by their youth, teeny bodies etc. ,etc. Just be aware. I can't count how many times I've been ghosted by them waiting for a meet.
A good sb friend gave me some insight on being a DI provider the other day. DI takes 50 (now probably more) for every meet. They try and load you with as many guys as they can so that it can easily be a situation of ongoing consecutive meets meaning guys you're in and out, somebody before you and somebody right after. The escorts don't do the screening and therefore can't control who they see. They are put in a position of just providing sex with little chance of talking or making a connection. They are just getting you off LOL. For many that's fine and I'm not judging here. I also might be being a little too critical as my friendly sb might be a bit prejudiced against so your experience maybe quite different but it's worth mentioning.
Back to seeking. Yes it's work and you have to be very careful. I suggest not using even your first name in any first contacts as you can be identified by it (I have been). Your messages can be screenshot as can your profile page and then if she's identified you she can and will threaten to send these to your wife, daughter, family, work whatever. It's happened to me and it's ugly. Saying that if you are careful and go to another platform to message such as kik, snapchat, etc. It works. I'd stay off text messaging until more trust is developed or use a burner. With a sb you can develop a connection. You can get to talk. It's up to both of you if this is what you both want. Sex then becomes better for both of you. Often sb's enjoy sex as much as you and feel much better in a daddy / baby situation then as a provider on an escort page. All these comments come from my own experiences. Yours maybe completely different. To each their own. Good luck!![/QUOTE]Not had any good luck on the SB / SD sites. If the site isn't scamming you to buy more credits, the girls are ghosting you or scamming you themselves. I had a ransom threat like you talked about just this morning on a very well known SB site. Its truly a waste of time. I'll stick with something else. Be careful out there guys and stick with what you know is consistent.
I dabble in the SD / SB pool from time to time. Unlike some of the more determined members of this site, I am less interested in sifting through a whole lot of B S. To find a couple of legit SB candidates who meet my specific requirements. Yet, I have enjoyed just enough success that have not totally abandoned this method of finding women. And, the SD / SB sites often provides some perhaps unintended humorous experiences and moments.
For example, on one site I paid to join, you can tell when a woman has viewed your profile. I will in turn look at theirs. Sometimes a decent prospect, who I somehow have missed in my searches, will show up on my radar this way. This happened a few days ago when I noticed someone outside of my preferred geographic area had checked me out, and she was really my type from the photos posted. I was attracted enough from the photos to start thinking about how I could pull off hooking up with her given the distance.
The more I perv on her photos, I then see a red flag. In a couple of pics I can plainly see a rather chunky looking ankle bracelet. Fellas, I am not talking sexy little anklet that shows off her calves. This was obviously government issued jewelry. She either is clueless about the bad impression this might create, or does not care, but no matter the explanation, I was turned off. Turned off because this tells me she cannot travel to meet up (distance already being an issue). Turned off because the legal complications that put the bracelet on her could well be an indication of drama / turmoil that I cannot afford to risk being associated with in my situation. I suspect she's simply a rookie to the SD / SB game and quickly posted her photos without much thought; the sooner she creates the profile, the sooner she can get some help.
As I write this, it occurs to me that this woman probably did me a favor by revealing that she is "attached" in a sense. I could well have wasted far too much time discussing possibilities with her only to find out that an hour drive to her place is a requirement just to confirm that she looks like her pics.
The take away? Study those pics carefully. Sometimes all you need to know is right there in front of you.
[QUOTE=LittleRobTony;5059212]I dabble in the SD / SB pool from time to time. Unlike some of the more determined members of this site, I am less interested in sifting through a whole lot of B S. To find a couple of legit SB candidates who meet my specific requirements. Yet, I have enjoyed just enough success that have not totally abandoned this method of finding women. And, the SD / SB sites often provides some perhaps unintended humorous experiences and moments.
For example, on one site I paid to join, you can tell when a woman has viewed your profile. I will in turn look at theirs. Sometimes a decent prospect, who I somehow have missed in my searches, will show up on my radar this way. This happened a few days ago when I noticed someone outside of my preferred geographic area had checked me out, and she was really my type from the photos posted. I was attracted enough from the photos to start thinking about how I could pull off hooking up with her given the distance.
The more I perv on her photos, I then see a red flag. In a couple of pics I can plainly see a rather chunky looking ankle bracelet. Fellas, I am not talking sexy little anklet that shows off her calves. This was obviously government issued jewelry. She either is clueless about the bad impression this might create, or does not care, but no matter the explanation, I was turned off. Turned off because this tells me she cannot travel to meet up (distance already being an issue). Turned off because the legal complications that put the bracelet on her could well be an indication of drama / turmoil that I cannot afford to risk being associated with in my situation. I suspect she's simply a rookie to the SD / SB game and quickly posted her photos without much thought; the sooner she creates the profile, the sooner she can get some help.
As I write this, it occurs to me that this woman probably did me a favor by revealing that she is "attached" in a sense. I could well have wasted far too much time discussing possibilities with her only to find out that an hour drive to her place is a requirement just to confirm that she looks like her pics.
The take away? Study those pics carefully. Sometimes all you need to know is right there in front of you[/QUOTE]But my report would have read. "Saw attractive lady in photo; ankle bracelet, however. Moved on.
I have gotten a lot more responses then usual and now I am trying to sort through everything.
Does anyone know about these ones:
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/c859fbca-0094-48de-8903-76fc1d6a3877[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/6a6db384-984e-6b70-b16d-a79b4b78801a[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/5ceeadbe-eb68-434a-9984-da36b4dd29ca[/URL]
Have something set up for this weekend, will see how that pans out.
[QUOTE=Wolves432;5059683]I have gotten a lot more responses then usual and now I am trying to sort through everything.
Does anyone know about these ones:
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/c859fbca-0094-48de-8903-76fc1d6a3877[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/6a6db384-984e-6b70-b16d-a79b4b78801a[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/5ceeadbe-eb68-434a-9984-da36b4dd29ca[/URL]
Have something set up for this weekend, will see how that pans out.[/QUOTE]But definitely interested to hear how any of these turn out.
[QUOTE=Wolves432;5059683]I have gotten a lot more responses then usual and now I am trying to sort through everything.
Does anyone know about these ones:
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/c859fbca-0094-48de-8903-76fc1d6a3877[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/6a6db384-984e-6b70-b16d-a79b4b78801a[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/5ceeadbe-eb68-434a-9984-da36b4dd29ca[/URL]
Have something set up for this weekend, will see how that pans out.[/QUOTE]First one wants 3 + will only meet in hotel for first encounter. I prefer my place and never pulled the trigger. She seems very unlike the girls that do this so I was really interested but found better before I hooked up. Plus she said no anal. And as easy as she closed to hotel she is a pro in the making.
Second one looks familiar but if I saw or talked with her it's been a long time.
Third one. Keeps texting me wanting to meet. She is definitely a pro. 2 will close the deal.