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[QUOTE=MrPopular;5046145]So let's look at the sources here. We have 3 reports on Hazeleyes25. Charming1, "she's hot and pics are real! Justaplaya "expensive!" and Itsbigiknow "Look at that face! A 10!" Combined, they have more exclamation points than posts. Then there's IndyHobby chiming in with ""WOW!
I don't need a laptop at a repair shop to see this looks like a pump.[/QUOTE]I have seen her Mr. P and you know me! :
[QUOTE=JohnBuddy;5047314]I have seen her Mr. P and you know me! :[/QUOTE]Care to share details?
Any intel?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3271ab8d-4c97-48d2-90be-103b58a66f5f[/URL]
I'll be starting a PPM with a petite little thing I met on Ashley Madison. Probably only meeting every few weeks so she won't be getting rich off me but she will be my first SB. Any advice from experienced SD's on here? How much is standard per meet, aside from dinner? That's my main question but any other tips / tricks are appreciated.
[QUOTE=IndyHobby;5049819]Any intel?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3271ab8d-4c97-48d2-90be-103b58a66f5f[/URL][/QUOTE]Wants money upfront.
[QUOTE=EasyDuzit2020;5049968]I'll be starting a PPM with a petite little thing I met on Ashley Madison. Probably only meeting every few weeks so she won't be getting rich off me but she will be my first SB. Any advice from experienced SD's on here? How much is standard per meet, aside from dinner? That's my main question but any other tips / tricks are appreciated.[/QUOTE]
First, I assume you've determined that she's not a scammer? Exchanged verification pics, done your research?
Every SB is different. Some want $ just to meet (hard pass). Some are happy with whatever you give them, within reason (rare). Some prefer gifts, like gift cards for spas or nail salons. Some like you to buy them lingerie on-line. And some prefer a combination of all these. Other factors to consider? Can she host? If so, that saves you the expense of a hotel room. More funds available for her. Age is also a BIG factor. The young ones usually have delusions of exotic trips and lavish shopping sprees. The older ones typically seek companionship and great sex (they've realized at some point that they still love to fuck, so they might as well get something for it).
Bottom line: These are things you need to casually discuss over dinner and drinks (which you'll be buying). If she's an experienced SB, she'll definitely have ideas. She'll typically play the "well I've always gotten this" card. You've just got to think with your big head and stick to your guns. Stay within your means. For me, between $$ and $$$ per meet, plus dinner and drinks occasionally, is my allowance limit. Unless I have to pay for a room, in which case it falls at the low end of that range.
This is one SD's opinion. I'm sure others on here have their own ideas. In any case, good luck!
[QUOTE=IndyHobby;5049819]Any intel?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3271ab8d-4c97-48d2-90be-103b58a66f5f[/URL][/QUOTE]But when they only list luxury lifestyle, mentorship, etc and no NSA or FWB, you know what you're getting yourself into.
[QUOTE=SEIndyGuy;5051136]But when they only list luxury lifestyle, mentorship, etc and no NSA or FWB, you know what you're getting yourself into.[/QUOTE]Right, correct. Translation: looking for an idiot to bail me out of my poor financial decisions ie student loan debt.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/24965a13-0eff-43ff-b1f3-d012a87fa0be[/URL]
I've been chatting with this lady for a few weeks. Finally got together for a meet and greet only. Very attractive and classy. Wants $$$ ppm and cannot host, so I'd also have to spring for a room. We're supposed to meet again this Thursday, but that kind of allowance for a 47 year old? I may have to pony up once to see what I've found, but wondering if any of you have had contact / experience with her? Haven't seen anything on her in the forum. Thanks in advance.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/db42230a-a708-4db3-a7af-4c820cab1920[/URL]
[QUOTE=SpinAndWin85;5053154]I've been chatting with this lady for a few weeks. Finally got together for a meet and greet only. Very attractive and classy. Wants $$$ ppm and cannot host, so I'd also have to spring for a room. We're supposed to meet again this Thursday, but that kind of allowance for a 47 year old? I may have to pony up once to see what I've found, but wondering if any of you have had contact / experience with her? Haven't seen anything on her in the forum. Thanks in advance.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/db42230a-a708-4db3-a7af-4c820cab1920[/URL][/QUOTE]I hate profiles without face pics!
And this one doesn't even let you see how her figure is.
How is she in person? 1-10.
Finally realised why most college sb's have premium accounts. It's a perk for them from SA and they get it through using their college emails. I've had little success with college girls though have had a few successes and they have been good. I'm probably too old for many but the SA perk hasn't helped. A lot of girls see that, look at their student loans, figure it's an easy buck, and then offer pics, online, chat and even scam thinking us older gents will be overwhelmed by their youth, teeny bodies etc. ,etc. Just be aware. I can't count how many times I've been ghosted by them waiting for a meet.
A good sb friend gave me some insight on being a DI provider the other day. DI takes 50 (now probably more) for every meet. They try and load you with as many guys as they can so that it can easily be a situation of ongoing consecutive meets meaning guys you're in and out, somebody before you and somebody right after. The escorts don't do the screening and therefore can't control who they see. They are put in a position of just providing sex with little chance of talking or making a connection. They are just getting you off LOL. For many that's fine and I'm not judging here. I also might be being a little too critical as my friendly sb might be a bit prejudiced against so your experience maybe quite different but it's worth mentioning.
Back to seeking. Yes it's work and you have to be very careful. I suggest not using even your first name in any first contacts as you can be identified by it (I have been). Your messages can be screenshot as can your profile page and then if she's identified you she can and will threaten to send these to your wife, daughter, family, work whatever. It's happened to me and it's ugly. Saying that if you are careful and go to another platform to message such as kik, snapchat, etc. It works. I'd stay off text messaging until more trust is developed or use a burner. With a sb you can develop a connection. You can get to talk. It's up to both of you if this is what you both want. Sex then becomes better for both of you. Often sb's enjoy sex as much as you and feel much better in a daddy / baby situation then as a provider on an escort page. All these comments come from my own experiences. Yours maybe completely different. To each their own. Good luck!!
[QUOTE=SpinAndWin85;5053154]I've been chatting with this lady for a few weeks. Finally got together for a meet and greet only. Very attractive and classy. Wants $$$ ppm and cannot host, so I'd also have to spring for a room. We're supposed to meet again this Thursday, but that kind of allowance for a 47 year old? I may have to pony up once to see what I've found, but wondering if any of you have had contact / experience with her? Haven't seen anything on her in the forum. Thanks in advance.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/db42230a-a708-4db3-a7af-4c820cab1920[/URL][/QUOTE]I never got anywhere with this one. But I've paid similar (I know, I know) for the same age MILF who was was hotter IMO and I don't regret it. She's still hotter than 2/3 of girls half her age plus there's some peace of mind knowing a woman is infertile LOL. But she hosted too so it made more sense.
So many women are out of control on price, especially given the current economic lockdown, and I just don't the energy or stamina to waste my breath on them. It's especially stupid when they just want one SD. They essentially want a guy to pay to be in a relationship with them lmao unreal.
[QUOTE=PrinceNumenor;5053601]Finally realised why most college sb's have premium accounts. It's a perk for them from SA and they get it through using their college emails. I've had little success with college girls though have had a few successes and they have been good. I'm probably too old for many but the SA perk hasn't helped. A lot of girls see that, look at their student loans, figure it's an easy buck, and then offer pics, online, chat and even scam thinking us older gents will be overwhelmed by their youth, teeny bodies etc. ,etc. Just be aware. I can't count how many times I've been ghosted by them waiting for a meet.
A good sb friend gave me some insight on being a DI provider the other day. DI takes 50 (now probably more) for every meet. They try and load you with as many guys as they can so that it can easily be a situation of ongoing consecutive meets meaning guys you're in and out, somebody before you and somebody right after. The escorts don't do the screening and therefore can't control who they see. They are put in a position of just providing sex with little chance of talking or making a connection. They are just getting you off LOL. For many that's fine and I'm not judging here. I also might be being a little too critical as my friendly sb might be a bit prejudiced against so your experience maybe quite different but it's worth mentioning.
Back to seeking. Yes it's work and you have to be very careful. I suggest not using even your first name in any first contacts as you can be identified by it (I have been). Your messages can be screenshot as can your profile page and then if she's identified you she can and will threaten to send these to your wife, daughter, family, work whatever. It's happened to me and it's ugly. Saying that if you are careful and go to another platform to message such as kik, snapchat, etc. It works. I'd stay off text messaging until more trust is developed or use a burner. With a sb you can develop a connection. You can get to talk. It's up to both of you if this is what you both want. Sex then becomes better for both of you. Often sb's enjoy sex as much as you and feel much better in a daddy / baby situation then as a provider on an escort page. All these comments come from my own experiences. Yours maybe completely different. To each their own. Good luck!![/QUOTE]Let me just say that, I've had weekends where I had a sex date lined up Fri, Sat, and Sun with different girls. And I was sexually drained by Sunday night. I mean feeling run-down and out of gas, out of testosterone. I totally get how these girls get burned out bc I've experienced it too. The girls seems to be really hot too the first time around. Then the more I see them the more interest I lose in seeing them again.
I just saw an independent provider for the second time after seeing her back in like June. I thought she was super hot and I was gaga over her LOL. Went back last week for the second visit and I was shocked at how bad she looked. I couldn't even finish. LOL what was I thinking?? Imagine how bad the feelings would've been if I hadn't gone on and seen multiple women in between seeing her another time.
[QUOTE=SpinAndWin85;5053154]I've been chatting with this lady for a few weeks. Finally got together for a meet and greet only. Very attractive and classy. Wants $$$ ppm and cannot host, so I'd also have to spring for a room. We're supposed to meet again this Thursday, but that kind of allowance for a 47 year old? I may have to pony up once to see what I've found, but wondering if any of you have had contact / experience with her? Haven't seen anything on her in the forum. Thanks in advance.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/db42230a-a708-4db3-a7af-4c820cab1920[/URL][/QUOTE]A 47 year old should be free or at most two drinks. They don't get a lot of traffic so it's basic supply and demand. Too many middle aged crazy Karen's out there that are low on their depression medication to offer a lot of money.