OC Vietnamese coffee shops

[QUOTE=WaffleEater;6695131]I have read up a bit from this side of hobbying but couldn't find any concrete way to go about soliciting sit down time or any mileage that could be had with the waitresses. How would one go about soliciting a show or flash from them without being rude about it?

TIA and happy holidays.[/QUOTE]To stand out:

Tip 5+ during rounds.

Give them a thoughtful gift.

Treat them respectfully, asking to touch gets you so far.

Tip them 5+ as they sit down to talk to you so they stay.

Compliment them not creepily and buy a dance.

Bring alcohol.

I miss Em. Does anybody know if she went anywhere else? I like the location and the girls here I think are some of the hottest ones around. Just wish they had more than 2 servers in the evening and wish they had better smoke ventilation. Even if just in for 5 minutes you come out smelling like an ash tray.

[QUOTE=CJamesTX85;6695695]I miss Em. Does anybody know if she went anywhere else? I like the location and the girls here I think are some of the hottest ones around. Just wish they had more than 2 servers in the evening and wish they had better smoke ventilation. Even if just in for 5 minutes you come out smelling like an ash tray.[/QUOTE]By them do you mean Emilia, I heard from one of the girls that she's now retired. As for the girls in the evening it's usually less busy at night so they don't want to have to many girls. Maybe if it starts to get busier at night they might have more girls.

[QUOTE=IAmIronman;6695783]By them do you mean Emilia, I heard from one of the girls that she's now retired. As for the girls in the evening it's usually less busy at night so they don't want to have to many girls. Maybe if it starts to get busier at night they might have more girls.[/QUOTE]I think last I heard from her more than a month ago she mentioned something about possibly leaving the scene soon. She was super nice.

Wish me luck. Going to try to study for finals with some nice distractions to keep me from sobbing uncontrollably as I wade my way through organic chemistry.

[QUOTE=Throwawayhok89;6693263]What's the address and any specials? I cant seem to find much info online besides the instagram. I haven't ventured to any of these cafe, but seems fun if they are having promos.[/QUOTE]They just opened December 1 did anyone make it to the grand opening? I'll try to swing by today. Their Instagram grand opening announcement was in Spanish so I'm curious what the vibe or clientele is like. Maybe this is not a Vietnamese Cafe, all Latinas? I guess we'll all find out soon. The address is in their IG.

[QUOTE=WaffleEater;6697930]Wish me luck. Going to try to study for finals with some nice distractions to keep me from sobbing uncontrollably as I wade my way through organic chemistry.[/QUOTE]Chemistry sucks. Organic chem sucks like a black hole. Best of luck on the exams and here's to a noble (and delectable) distraction for you at the cafe'. We're rooting for ya.

[QUOTE=CJamesTX85;6695695]I miss Em. Does anybody know if she went anywhere else? I like the location and the girls here I think are some of the hottest ones around. Just wish they had more than 2 servers in the evening and wish they had better smoke ventilation. Even if just in for 5 minutes you come out smelling like an ash tray.[/QUOTE]I think she retired. On the bright side I saw that Maddy came back from retirement even though she's only working Tuesdays. I guess Dang is more of a morning / afternoon place as it always seems to be dead in the evening. Last time I came late it was pretty empty so I didn't stay long and walked over to Keg Sluggers for a couple of beers.

[QUOTE=Krayanne;6689428]Seems a new cafe is opening Ms Tts cafe in Dec. Enjoy folks.

[URL]https://www.instagram.com/msttscafe/[/URL][/QUOTE]Judging by their page and business hours I'm guessing this place is going to be similar to Cats or that other new place Cosmo. More strip club that Viet coffee shop.

[QUOTE=TSing013;6700840]Judging by their page and business hours I'm guessing this place is going to be similar to Cats or that other new place Cosmo. More strip club that Viet coffee shop.[/QUOTE]Why do all their Instagram photos look like they were taken from strip clubs. Funny I recognize most of those backgrounds from Spearmint Rhino and Satin LOLOL.

[QUOTE=WaffleEater;6697930]Wish me luck. Going to try to study for finals with some nice distractions to keep me from sobbing uncontrollably as I wade my way through organic chemistry.[/QUOTE]I would just focus on studying in a quiet place. There will always be 18 year olds and bikini bars. Good luck on your finals.

Does anyone have any good recommendations for who to get dances from at 369. I've tried 4 of them and 3 of them didn't tell me till the start of the dance that they didn't allow you to suck on their books. Inly one I've gotten who has let me was Cici (I think that's how she spells her name). Anyone have anyone they gotten that they recommended?

San Diego native here. Was passing through OC on a drive from LA to SD, and decided to check out three of the coffee shops, since these things don't exist in San Diego. I was mostly curious and compelled by the novelty of the idea. One of the things I was wondering was whether the girls just stay in their bikinis / lingerie, get topless only, or actually get nude. The fantasy of girls just walking around and serving drinks with no bottoms on was very appealing to me, and I was very pleased that this ended up being the case. Visited them between roughly 4-6 pm and spent about 30-45 minutes at each place.

Starz. The first one that I visited, and ultimately my favorite of the three. Had a variety of girls, including white, black, and latina. The only shop of the three to have any black girls. Don't actually remember if there were asian girls. Multiple girls made full nude rounds and I loved it. A black girl gave me a nude dance just out in the open. A latina girl who called herself "Santana" sat down next to me and flirted with me in a way that was playful, silly, and sexually suggestive. If I were still in my 20's, it would have driven me crazy. Since I'm still only in my 30's, I thought it was a little silly, but I was still into it. She worked harder, was more interesting, and made more of an effort than any other girl that night between all three of the shops that I visited. Ended up buying a private dance from her, but we had to wait because apparently there was only one "booth," and it was in use at the time. When that "booth," was finally free, I found out that it was actually just a chair at the end of a hallway, with a curtain for privacy. Got a nude lap dance from her, which I appreciate, because nude lap dances are actually pretty rare in San Diego (literally never got one at multiple strip clubs). More of that playful, sexually suggestive flirting, and lots of simulating fucking / dry humping. Spent a little more than I wanted considering no extras, but I still enjoyed it. Absolutely would have fucked her if circumstances actually allowed it.

168 - My least favorite of the three. A white girl who I found extremely physically attractive sat down next to me immediately after I sat down, and then proceeded to not talk. I had to work a bit just to get some conversation going. Eventually, I told her I had to go to that bathroom, just because I actually really had to go, and she never came back for the rest of the time that I was there. Only two or three girls made nude rounds while I was there. In general, the shop seemed less lively than the others. Most of the girls seemed to be sitting with men who I assumed were regulars. Two other girls sat down next to me, but only very briefly, like literally 3 minutes. Was never offered a dance, never heard any mention of dances being available, and didn't see anyone else receiving a dance.

DD. This one felt most like a strip club because of the decor, those red chairs basically. Enjoyed the nude rounds that the girls made. Two girls sat down next to me and chatted with me briefly. Friendly, but not really flirty. One of them mentioned that dances are available, but didn't actually make an offer. I didn't get one.

DD feeling most like a strip club ultimately made me realize that these basically are strip clubs, but with a couple differences. No real stage shows, and girls seem to give less attention on average, in part because sometimes they actually get busy with waitressing duties. Luckily, I found the girls attractive at all three shops, though some more than others, of course. A fun enough night, but I'm not sure if I will be visiting again now that the novelty is gone.

Anyone know where Jade from DD landed?

[QUOTE=Chhnk;6710371]Anyone know where Jade from DD landed?[/QUOTE]Jade is at Starz now. Saw her there yesterday.