Question for the eaters of providers
What's good fellas!? I have a question for those that like to DATY providers that don't offer BBBJ. I love eating pussy just not a working girl. Knowing that she might have a load in her make my stomach turn. Anyway, the question is this, if she will only do a CBJ, why would you lick her pussy? Do you guys use tongue condoms? To me it's a huge red flag for her to only want to do CBJ but thin let you stick your tongue in her. This is very selfish behavior. Serious question, I've always wanted to know.
Stay safe.
BLK.
Re: Question for the eaters of providers. One guy's experience with DATY
These are just my thoughts based on 40-plus years of fucking escorts. I don't know when I stumbled on this, but it works for me. CBJ or BBBJ makes no difference, my experience is that sticking my tongue inside the lady when eating her out isn't the key to providing her pleasure. And frankly I'm not always especially keen to do that. Most women love direct or indirect clitoral stimulation, and even when their goal is to get my money, spending as much time as possible with my tongue "grinding" on her clitoral area gets them to the point where they want more. Lot's more. And yeah, I've got my mouth down there but I'm not inside them. To them I'm just a pleasure toy.
When I primarily go side-to-side instead of up and down I nearly always get them to the point that they damn near demand that I stick my cock in them. I can't count the number of times I've been with girls that reportedly never go bare, and at some point they pull me up and try to put my bare cock in them. It's not to give me pleasure; it's because they're totally focused on their own sensual pleasure; they not only don't want it to stop, they use me to make it as overwhelming as possible. They use me for their pleasure.
The quote from Hermann Hesse' short novel "Siddhartha" pretty much explains it:
"So she thoroughly taught him that one cannot take pleasure without giving pleasure, and that every gesture, every caress, every touch, every glance, every last bit of the body has its secret, which brings happiness to the person who knows how to wake it. She taught him that after a celebration of love the lovers should not part without admiring each other, without being conquered or having conquered, so that neither is bleak or glutted or has the bad feeling of being used or misused. ".
Interesting. However not really the point
[QUOTE=Coxter8;7627068]These are just my thoughts based on 40-plus years of fucking escorts. I don't know when I stumbled on this, but it works for me. CBJ or BBBJ makes no difference, my experience is that sticking my tongue inside the lady when eating her out isn't the key to providing her pleasure. And frankly I'm not always especially keen to do that. Most women love direct or indirect clitoral stimulation, and even when their goal is to get my money, spending as much time as possible with my tongue "grinding" on her clitoral area gets them to the point where they want more. Lot's more. And yeah, I've got my mouth down there but I'm not inside them. To them I'm just a pleasure toy.
When I primarily go side-to-side instead of up and down I nearly always get them to the point that they damn near demand that I stick my cock in them. I can't count the number of times I've been with girls that reportedly never go bare, and at some point they pull me up and try to put my bare cock in them. It's not to give me pleasure; it's because they're totally focused on their own sensual pleasure; they not only don't want it to stop, they use me to make it as overwhelming as possible. They use me for their pleasure.
The quote from Hermann Hesse' short novel "Siddhartha" pretty much explains it:
"So she thoroughly taught him that one cannot take pleasure without giving pleasure, and that every gesture, every caress, every touch, every glance, every last bit of the body has its secret, which brings happiness to the person who knows how to wake it. She taught him that after a celebration of love the lovers should not part without admiring each other, without being conquered or having conquered, so that neither is bleak or glutted or has the bad feeling of being used or misused. ".[/QUOTE]What's good my man!? I totally get your point. Just a couple things however. You're basically talking technique. I know that I said performing DATY is a no because I'm not sure if she has a load inside of her. I get your point of licking the outside. I would say that seepage happens so my point actually stands. However, my question is more to the fact that she will not perform a BBBJ but will allow uncovered DATY. I understand that they may be concerned with catching something bumpy but you can get that from doing DATY. Same risk. That's why I find that combination a little selfish.
Stay safe.
BLK.
