K Avenue on a Thursday night
When it's sunny, hot and humid, you have to be more careful, basic hygiene is at a premium as it is but when it gets like this, some girls can become downright rancid.
I prefer the girls in dresses, allows for more roaming while she is doing her job. So tonight, I tried something completely new. I pull over on a side street, wait for them to approach the car and roll down my window to talk to them. Usually, I just unlock the door and allow them to hop in but I wasn't taking any chances.
I had to turn two of them away. What looked good from 30 feet looked altogether unacceptable with a closeup view. Matted hair, facial blemishes, I didn't need to see more, I needed to get away.
Had to revert to some standby phone numbers for service.
So, in it goes. How far nobody knows
[QUOTE=Strange;4406385]Next time you really want it to happen and she wants a bit up front to get well, make her leave her purse / all her shit. She still might not come back but at least then you might have a chance. If they don't come back drive far away then leave their shit on the curb. The girls usually have their works in the purse and don't want to give that up. Or some times they don't give a shit about any of it. Not a sure thing but a better shot for sure. Also never give it all up front, no more than a Hamilton.[/QUOTE]As for having a girl leave her bag to go grab, think about this. Most of them pick up their bag from someones trash. They may have a couple dollar store items and some dirty clothes sticking out to make it look functional. So when she bounces the trusting guy is litterally left holding the bag.
It never ceases to amaze me at how many people simply don't learn from the mistakes of others. Time and time again we read the reports of this guy or that guy thinks he is so special and they have such a wonderful relationship going with a girl that she won't burn him. Are these guys for real? When a guy thinks these outlandish thoughts that's called manipulation. That's right she's manipulating you right where she wants you. Get it right. You are a nobody trick to her. You aren't her "regular", her "friend", her "savior", her confidant. You are nothing. The sooner you understand that the less cash you will lose to her.
As Lewdsun so aptly put it to me in a private message, you are nothing more to her than another blue bag. The value of a blue bag, in case you don't know, is $5. 00. So understanding that your value to her begins at $5. 00. Anything more is gravy. So from the moment she gets into your ride, she starts sticking it in to see how much she can get you for. Anyone that doesn't know that does not belong in this arena. Seems simple. Yet there are those that continually screw themselves by giving them upfront cash. She didn't run off with your money. You gave it to her. DUHHHHH!
So that makes these guys guilty of keeping this going on and on. My take is this. If she ran off with your money you got exactly what you deserved. Know why? Because you was so pussy drunk you let her shove it so far up your ass thinking you are that special one she wouldn't dick. Guess what? You was wrong, wrong, wrong. How many reports do you need to read before you figure it out? So this guy gives her twenty bucks. What did he think she would be right back? Why? Cause he's such a wonderful guy? Get fucking real. She had what she wanted.
Until every guy on this board refuses to give upfront cash this problem will continue. It really rakes me over the coals to think the members of this site can't stick together on this issue if they was all dipped in crazy glue.
This may come as a shock to some of you. Every girl on the strip wants as much as they can get from us for doing as little as possible. I'm glad some of you aren't my financial advisor handling my money. Me, I'm just an 'OL Gator.
Nothing to apologize for, Strange
[QUOTE=Strange;4406864]Maybe it's because I fish in a smaller pond ie, wilmington, but what I mentioned usually works for me. I've been ripped off once and had it work out many many times. I forgot to mention I only let them do that if I'm planning on taking them to a motel but never a quicky car date. For the motel dates they usually come back for the Grant on top of the Hamilton.
Sorry didn't meant to ruffle your feathers on this. I really respect you and what you bring to this forum. I've learned a lot from things you have said and I guess this is a lesson on philly learned. Didn't mean to advocate making it easier for the girls to rip guys off just thought I was giving some helpful advice.[/QUOTE]We each do what works for us and at least I appreciated your the feedback. Apparently some on the Philly board think they presumably speak for all of us and have a tendency to get on a high horse. Kind of strange (no pun intended) for anyone to judge anyone else on a monger board. I generally just ignore it unless it's purposefully directed at me personally as it was in this case. Then I say my piece and move on. I've ventured down to Wilmington here and there and depend on the advise and intel from regulars on that board like yourself that was very helpful.
Happy Hunting,
AC.
Agreed, no illusions here.
[QUOTE=JTown74;4408682]Every now and again I've found a friend that I trust to behave rationally in terms of long term perspective, but, invariably, they will eventually make me regret it. It doesn't even have to be malicious, or theft; these women are addicts. They might pass out and simply forget, or get distracted. They also often know that long term planning is unrealistic when it's so hard to hang onto the same phone.
Bottom line. If you trust out here, you will loose at times.[/QUOTE]Yes, you ride it out and have the fun while it's there, then when they cross that line you move on. And we share what we know on here when they are in the upswing as well as the down so others are informed. Should be just that simple.
Happy Huntin,
AC.