You can't escape the flake factor, you can only try to minimize its effect
[QUOTE=HighTemp;3926647]Based on this report, [URL]http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?9224-BackPage-Advertiser-Reviews&p=3821182&viewfull=1[/URL]#post3821182, I set up an appointment with Sweet Lexxi, and she flaked.
I am just writing here to warn fellow mongers, this is her: [URL]https://switter.at/@Sweetlexxi[/URL].
So I txted her the day before appointment and she was pretty responsive, the 2nd day morning she txted her extend stay address and confirmed mid-day appointment. 1 hour before hand, she txted me again tell me to txt her when I got to hotel. I told her np. Everything seems pretty smooth. I got to her hotel and txted her exactly 10 min before and telling her I am there and can let me know the address whenever she is ready. She replied just a sec. So never a single txt afterwards. I repeatedly txted her and finally called her to all no avail. Eventually 15 min after supposed, I just got up and left.
I am a pretty self critical person and one time I was wondering if anything wrong with my cell phone etc, but I was able to send / receive 10 min before and I got a txt from other person during.
Sigh, I am done with the independent provider scene. Even with prior good review, until the door open, you will never know what you get. Probably should have stick with the agencies. Even for agencies, you need to be cautious: Jennifers Models is especially bad. They will do bait and switch tactics. I made an appointment with a provider has good review, and when I get there, Jen will say she is sick, do you want to try someone else. I should have bailed, but I am on the verge of release something at that moment and so I agreed and then I got a Latina who is like housekeeper or even worse.[/QUOTE]Yeah, it sucks that a pretty, young, blonde chick acted like pretty, young, blonde chicks often do. But, as you noted, agencies can also be flaky and you'll be sorely disappointed if you look to M. P. s for solace. Flakiness is endemic to the hobby as there are no professional standards other than the ones providers impose on themselves. Some do a better job than others but even the better ones can have their flaky moments. And there's no consequence to flaky behavior other than the loss of business. But, for the pretty young flakes, some fool will be calling them just as soon as you walk away.
Since you can't escape it, the best you can do is minimize it. Posting Intel reports like yours is a good start. It also helps to always have a Plan B (and maybe C or D) in case your primary leaves you hanging. And after a while you'll start to develop a 6th sense that'll help you steer clear of flakes in the first place.
So don't despair, we've all been there. Just chalk it up to experience and move on. And also be thankful that the only thing you lost was some of your time while your hard-earned cash remained in your wallet.
To cope with provider flakiness
[QUOTE=JmSuttr;3927067]You can't escape the flake factor, you can only try to minimize its effect[/QUOTE]What make me especially mad is seems she is intentionally manipulating you or playing you for her own pleasure. May be she already formed plan the day before. I don't know what ticked her off. Is that I asked for half hour instead of full hour and she is thinking you are a cheapskate? Is it a racial thing? I give out my real name in txt, and it's not a John or Jim those common names. I got used to all the agency screening where you have to give out real name and even show DL.
Also, because of the previous good review on this board, I had my hope up. I even had heart rate raising, dry mouth, swallowing spit all those in finding a dimond in a rough kind of expectation. I guess the best defense is set realistic expectation and never get your hope up and then you will never get disappointed.
Review site to put flaky provide out of business
[QUOTE=JoseCuervo;3927520](...)I think the way to counter the endemic flakiness in our hobby is review sites. (...)[/QUOTE]Yeah, review site is the way to go. That's why I posted it here to warn fellow mongers the first thing after I came back. I thought about txt her and telling her I am going to leave bad review for her on all the review site I can find, but gave up the idea feeling it's not worthy if get any retaliation back from her.
Gone are the great TER days. Now we are flying blind. I don't know how many times I have been cursing the big brother or the stupid politicians. Like you said, TNA may be good but not as near as TER coverage-wise. I am trying to learn more switter and see if I can leave some sort of comment on Sweet Lexxi's post. Seems even switter is twitter like, but you can't reply or comment like real twitter does.
Not much there, unfortunately
[QUOTE=ShadowRock;3928813]You can access TER using the TOR browser. FYI.[/QUOTE]You can access using any VPN that routes through a non-US server, not just TOR. But all the reviews of providers based in the US have been taken down and you can't search for any US location. Some providers contacted the site admin and asked to have their home city moved to Canada or Europe so their reviews can still be viewed. But, in order to find those reviews you have to know the name or profile number of the provider, or the name of the city she's using. And the site is actively looking for and removing reviews for providers who are actually working in the US while saying they're not.
Some of the boards are still active but the level of useful info is pretty low and there's a lot of complaining about the demise of the site. All in all, it's a shadow of its former self and pretty worthless, IMHO.
Josephine (aka Daina) at asiangem
Don't know if there are a lot of k-girl fans on this board, but with TER dead, it is hard to get good intel these days. I heard that a new asian agency opened in nova, so I decided to TOFTT and met with josephine. To my pleasant surprise I realized that we had met before when she was visiting as daina. The photos on the site aren't her, but trust me you won't be disappointed. She is drop dead gorgeous with big eyes, an athletic, toned body, and a round ass that most k-girls don't have. She was amazing as I remember, and if you are a fan of k-girls I highly recommend that you run to see her while you still can. She had a bunch of excellent reviews on TER, and she has some up on them, under the name diana in LA and boston, you can see her actual photos there. Why she isn't using them now, I have no idea. Needless to say, it is awesome that she is visiting, and I plan to repeat many times!