They all come at me at once
Is it mating season or what? All of a sudden I'm getting half a dozen young 20 something hotties interested in hooking up. Some I messaged a year or 2 ago. Just weird. Then yesterday while having coffee with a cute Asian hottie, I get a text from this other one and I kinda chuckled and showed it to her and she FREAKED and said she knows this girl, , holy shit, blah blah blah. I aksed her if she was surprised she is on the site and she says "HELL YEA" then I asked if that chick would be surprised if you were on it and she nodded. Another one, a body builder it looks like, she was all too quick to get down. I stay away from those types. Have 2 that want me to buttfuck them because they like it. But I can only muster up enough babybatter and greenbacks only so often.
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Was out at the bars this past weekend with my SB and was shocked as hell when I turned around and this one and her BF were standing right behind us in line. Listened to them talk back and forth. She's smart and well spoken except she's got a heavy NYC accent. Body was just OK which is why she only shows her face in her SA pics. They live at the beaches and she mentioned she's a dependant. I didn't get the impression that her BF was active duty though with the earring and all.
She certainly isn't worth the $1000 she quoted me. At best I'd pay $200 for a roll in the hay with her. It really is a small world afterall, LOL. Glad I passed.
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They are a couple of thick 18 year olds who want $100 each to meet, but then won't accept any future payments because they are not prostitutes. Huh? .
My policy on meeting fees
All -- I finally got back onto the SA site (I wrote them and swore I would not violate their TOS, and they let me back in). It really is the best SD site.
I have had half a dozen SB's over the past 5 years or so, and have remained friends with all of them (although my most recent one, who just moved out of my home, is trying my patience). In any event, I normally take a $50 gift card with me to our first introductory dinner as a measure of good will. There has been only one SB that I did not give the $50 to (because she was in a bitchy mood). I do NOT meet SB's who demand a fee up front.
Most of the SB's that I have given the card to have been appreciative, have seen it as showing that I am a serious SD candidate -- and have shown their appreciation to me at our second meeting. .
With my last SB moving out, I am now like a kid in a candy store again. Happy Hunting to you all -- and I'll keep you updated.
My policy on meeting fees.
[QUOTE=KDoogie;3496189]All -- I finally got back onto the SA site (I wrote them and swore I would not violate their TOS, and they let me back in). It really is the best SD site.
I have had half a dozen SB's over the past 5 years or so, and have remained friends with all of them (although my most recent one, who just moved out of my home, is trying my patience). In any event, I normally take a $50 gift card with me to our first introductory dinner as a measure of good will. There has been only one SB that I did not give the $50 to (because she was in a bitchy mood). I do NOT meet SB's who demand a fee up front.
Most of the SB's that I have given the card to have been appreciative, have seen it as showing that I am a serious SD candidate -- and have shown their appreciation to me at our second meeting. .
With my last SB moving out, I am now like a kid in a candy store again. Happy Hunting to you all -- and I'll keep you updated.[/QUOTE]I'll buy coffee or on rare occasions buy lunch or dinner at a relatively inexpensive place, Crackerbarrel or La Nopalera if it's around mealtime and I'm hungry and it works out but my M&G is always just to determine chemistry and it's with the understanding that we'll progress forward if we like each other. I'll never pay money to a girl just for showing up. These girls who want a fee up front aren't serious and are trying to turn it around on us, that they're "screening out timewasters". There are a helluva lot more of them than us so I'll tell them thanks but no thanks and move on.
