Seeking Arrangements

[QUOTE=Qwerty2;7233437]Fairly new to the SD / SB scene and want advice from those more experienced.

Messaged this girl on SA for about a week and she initiated moving to text. Her profile says she wants to get to know online before meeting.

Convo was going okay until I asked for a verification photo and she flipped out.[/QUOTE]You're fine. The only thing I would caution you against is "getting to know online before meeting". This typically means that they have no intention of meeting and will try to get you to "send $20 to help with gas" or something.

There will be times when girls you have or want to dream with do very unlogical things. Do not drive yourself crazy trying to figure out why. Be polite, explain what you're looking for ie in-person arrangements, and that you'd like to meet in public somewhere for a drink (coffee or alcohol are good choices). If they agree to that, then typically you have someone who's more legit. If they argue, try to sell "content", or just make it inconvenient for you then most likely they're trying to sucker you. Note: a lot of these girls do not know the difference between SB / Princess Treatment / Findom and other niche things. Basically, they see trends on tiktok where they think there is an army of older gentlemen giving away money for nothing and that receiving said money makes them a SB.

[QUOTE=BamaTrip;7233462]You're fine. The only thing I would caution you against is "getting to know online before meeting". This typically means that they have no intention of meeting and will try to get you to "send $20 to help with gas" or something.

There will be times when girls you have or want to dream with do very unlogical things. Do not drive yourself crazy trying to figure out why. Be polite, explain what you're looking for ie in-person arrangements, and that you'd like to meet in public somewhere for a drink (coffee or alcohol are good choices). If they agree to that, then typically you have someone who's more legit. If they argue, try to sell "content", or just make it inconvenient for you then most likely they're trying to sucker you. Note: a lot of these girls do not know the difference between SB / Princess Treatment / Findom and other niche things. Basically, they see trends on tiktok where they think there is an army of older gentlemen giving away money for nothing and that receiving said money makes them a SB.[/QUOTE]Appreciate the advice. Thanks!

[QUOTE=Qwerty2;7233437]Fairly new to the SD / SB scene and want advice from those more experienced.

Messaged this girl on SA for about a week and she initiated moving to text. Her profile says she wants to get to know online before meeting.

Convo was going okay until I asked for a verification photo and she flipped out.[/QUOTE]Another thing is half of them who are real, are nuts. And the other half are worse. Most suffer from some terrible GPS. The hard part is finding the actual good ones from the crazies. I have lucked out with a few and that's like the unlucky fisherman and was after throwing out a thousand casts. They are there, but rare. Good hunting. That's half the fun of it. And find ya a buddy or two on here to help compare notes and share with.

Yes, she's a waste of time. "Online first or only. " "Platonic. " Asking for help within the first few messages. Leave those alone unless that's what you're looking for. I found that most older are willing to do a M&G upfront than someone in their early 20's. Like the other person said, many are crazy and she's probably one. Most younger women will have kids and some dude they're supporting, which is fine with me, but not when they are not serious about meeting.

Just be honest and straightforward when asked what you're looking for.

[QUOTE=Qwerty2;7233437]Fairly new to the SD / SB scene and want advice from those more experienced.

Messaged this girl on SA for about a week and she initiated moving to text. Her profile says she wants to get to know online before meeting.

Convo was going okay until I asked for a verification photo and she flipped out.[/QUOTE]

Always! That verification video will tell you everything! LOL.

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[QUOTE=CraigStone2025;7232547]I imagine everyone here would notice the verification video displays how they look without the filters but I thought I would post an example anyways. [URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/4305a32696c7f419[/URL].[/QUOTE]Tried to follow up with you on the last convo. Your mail box is stuffed. LOL.

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I don't know one way or another and could be wrong. But be careful with this one. She reaches out to me. Messaged very quickly. Was very ready for anything as she claimed she loved to make extra money. Then I asked if she was really 21 like she claimed as I didn't want anything to do with someone under 20 and had absolutely no interest in anyone under age. What so ever! Crickets. Not another word from her after about 15 messages. Just throwing it out there. Be careful.

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Has anyone seen this young lady? I am conversation with her and looking for any opinions if anyone has. Thanks.

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Has anyone seen this young lady? I am conversation with her and looking for any opinions if anyone has. Thanks.[/QUOTE]She's messaged me but I have yet to open it.

Anyone been with or know of this one? Seems eager.

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This one messaged me so I responded. She wants a bunch of online carts paid for before meeting. Wow. Don't waste you time on it. [URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/7df8d99cfc57af2f[/URL].

[QUOTE=CraigStone2025;7238957]This one messaged me so I responded. She wants a bunch of online carts paid for before meeting. Wow. Don't waste you time on it. [URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/7df8d99cfc57af2f[/URL].[/QUOTE]She has changed what she asks for I see. Was exchanging messages with her about 2 months ago. She wanted $ 800. Told her she was nuts and moved on. You are right. She's a waste of time. X.

I've seen her out in the clubs downtown. She's cute, but idk if I'd call her. Seems like she only may want handouts.

[QUOTE=GunPilot;7238535]Anyone been with or know of this one? Seems eager.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a64eb087-e757-4ef2-a3df-3e9d8a5de244[/URL][/QUOTE]

She only wants to sell pics / vids.

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Has anyone seen this young lady? I am conversation with her and looking for any opinions if anyone has. Thanks.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Gjt34;7239099]She only wants to sell pics / vids.[/QUOTE]That seems more common than not unfortunately.