The Sugar Thread: Intel / Reviews / Contacts

[QUOTE=JimShorts;3304228]Is telling at least one of the SA chicks that they are being discussed on her.

Nice going whichever dumbshyte it is out there that thinks this is helpful to them getting an inside track or whatever the hell they are trying to accomplish....[/QUOTE]It amazes me how some guys just can't seem to keep their mouths shut. It's like they think they'll get brownie points trying by humorously mentioning to the girls that they are "getting popular" or "becoming a star" and being discussed here. That shit doesn't mean anything to them. All it does is tell her that you are a easy mark for info. Dumbass.

[blue]No, you guys are the dumbasses. Who gives a fuck if the chicks know they are being discussed here? I don't know why so many SD's want to introduce everything that sucks about dating to hookers and make no mistake about it, SB's are hookers. They wouldn't be fucking you if you weren't paying money so they are hookers.

If they do something you don't like stop seeing them. The only shortage on SD sites are actual SD's that have the money to make the shit work. If you are one of them and the girl gives you a hard time about something tell her to shut the fuck up or she'll be replaced. If she doesn't then fucking call the next chick on the list.

Yes, don't talk about fight club is true, but its not the end of the world. She still needs the money worse than you need the pussy.

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[QUOTE=BiggDaddi;3308684]It amazes me how some guys just can't seem to keep their mouths shut. It's like they think they'll get brownie points trying by humorously mentioning to the girls that they are "getting popular" or "becoming a star" and being discussed here. That shit doesn't mean anything to them. All it does is tell her that you are a easy mark for info. Dumbass.

[blue]No, you guys are the dumbasses. Who gives a fuck if the chicks know they are being discussed here? I don't know why so many SD's want to introduce everything that sucks about dating to hookers and make no mistake about it, SB's are hookers. They wouldn't be fucking you if you weren't paying money so they are hookers.

If they do something you don't like stop seeing them. The only shortage on SD sites are actual SD's that have the money to make the shit work. If you are one of them and the girl gives you a hard time about something tell her to shut the fuck up or she'll be replaced. If she doesn't then fucking call the next chick on the list.

Yes, don't talk about fight club is true, but its not the end of the world. She still needs the money worse than you need the pussy.

A2[/blue][/QUOTE]Well, I for one give a fuck if I was the one doing the discussing-which is why I won't do it anymore in an open forum-lesson learned.

We can all agree that exchanging $ for getting laid is being a "hooker" at it's essence, but with the vast majority of the girls on SA, they definitely do not want to be viewed in that light and would never be on BP or "advertise" and do not at all like to see themselves as "providers". Accordingly, this is a game of finesse to play that game with them and try and work out agreements and get laid by typically younger hotties that have not slept with the world, and who aren't desperate or one step away from the streets- all while having them comfortable that they are a "Sugarbaby" and not a provider. GET IT??

Most of the chicks I'm interested in on SA I would definitely consider taking out for drinks or even dinner in public if I'm going to get laid- I'd NEVER do that with some Back Page chick- at least not 99% of them where I am. In fact I don't mess with BP at all anymore.

The SA game can be very time-consuming and I question myself if its "worth it"but the major points HERE (I think) are to exchange intel to primarily avoid unnecessarily wasting time and see what different people's approaches are to saving time and money (ex. Is it really necessary to have a meet and greet dinner? etc) and being successful. Like any website, there are scammers and game-players, and even some BP chicks to avoid.

So blathering to a chick that they are being discussed here (or in any public forum) is just pointless, potentially causes problems, and benefits nobody (except apparently for the dumbass doing the blathering who derives something from it). I get that you do not give a rip about what the chick thinks, but you are potentially screwing a brother who is trying to get her naked!!!

I'm with jimshorts. 1. Confiding in these girls that they are being discussed (or any research you've uncovered. Social media, previous relationships, etc.) in the belief this in some way is going to help you is misguided. More likely to freak the girl. Rare exception is the girl wanting public attention on SA. 2. It stops others from discussions which is the point of this board.

Unfortunate but if I was silly enough to post that I was in final negotiations with a specific hottie I have no doubt guys would be contacting her to up the bid and unravel my approach. One isn't going to stop this but they are certainly right to rant about how wrong it is.

I still believe there are some hot college age girls who are looking for just 1 or 2 men who they can see once a week or every other week and can discreetly earn some cash. They can be choosy, preferring men who are good looking and perhaps married. They might not fuck some old fat guy for any amount of money. This is what Sugar Baby sites were originally set up to be. Now the BP girls have moved into their sites and mongers are looking at these sites expecting the same deals they found on BP and for the same prices. It's like playing golf. On a public course you can wear cutoffs and a tee shirt, at a country club course you have a dress code. Same sport, but different rules and etiquette applies.

[QUOTE=JimShorts;3301522]I'm talking to her but something about her second pic looks familiar. Almost Back Pagish.

Anyone?

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e96adbb1-9cb0-4d4f-b033-3af2ddf6fda6[/URL][/QUOTE]I talked with her today. And exchanged numbers.

She's basically 300/ hr anything goes type thing. Supposedly loves to be dominated and loves to have the pipe down her throat.

I'm still haggling LOL.

[QUOTE=JimShorts;3309741]Well, I for one give a fuck if I was the one doing the discussing-which is why I won't do it anymore in an open forum-lesson learned.

We can all agree that exchanging $ for getting laid is being a "hooker" at it's essence, but with the vast majority of the girls on SA, they definitely do not want to be viewed in that light and would never be on BP or "advertise" and do not at all like to see themselves as "providers". Accordingly, this is a game of finesse to play that game with them and try and work out agreements and get laid by typically younger hotties that have not slept with the world, and who aren't desperate or one step away from the streets- all while having them comfortable that they are a "Sugarbaby" and not a provider. GET IT??

Most of the chicks I'm interested in on SA I would definitely consider taking out for drinks or even dinner in public if I'm going to get laid- I'd NEVER do that with some Back Page chick- at least not 99% of them where I am. In fact I don't mess with BP at all anymore.

The SA game can be very time-consuming and I question myself if its "worth it"but the major points HERE (I think) are to exchange intel to primarily avoid unnecessarily wasting time and see what different people's approaches are to saving time and money (ex. Is it really necessary to have a meet and greet dinner? etc) and being successful. Like any website, there are scammers and game-players, and even some BP chicks to avoid.

So blathering to a chick that they are being discussed here (or in any public forum) is just pointless, potentially causes problems, and benefits nobody (except apparently for the dumbass doing the blathering who derives something from it). I get that you do not give a rip about what the chick thinks, but you are potentially screwing a brother who is trying to get her naked!!![/QUOTE]LMFAO. WTF takes them to dinner in order to get a BJ or laid? Some of you guys are silly. So what if I don't get the super hot one and you did because you did the wine & dine, I think there is a minimal amount of those girls out there. The ones I don't get, I wouldn't get regardless of anything.

I've gotten an ok amount of tail and all it took was AT MOST, a cup of coffee. And I don't do average looking chicks. Me thinks some folks are working too hard to get some.

And if you can't get in a girls pants because someone told her about this site, then you arent fuck worthy anyway.

No, I don't tell girls about this site, but I wouldn't hesitate to tell them if I thought I could gain favor with her and slide it up her butthole. Hell ya I'd sell out a brother in order to get me some and you would do the same and I'd expect you to do the same.

Hos before Bros.

[QUOTE=Sicilly;3311463]LMFAO. WTF takes them to dinner in order to get a BJ or laid? Some of you guys are silly. So what if I don't get the super hot one and you did because you did the wine & dine, I think there is a minimal amount of those girls out there. The ones I don't get, I wouldn't get regardless of anything.

I've gotten an ok amount of tail and all it took was AT MOST, a cup of coffee. And I don't do average looking chicks. Me thinks some folks are working too hard to get some.

And if you can't get in a girls pants because someone told her about this site, then you arent fuck worthy anyway.

No, I don't tell girls about this site, but I wouldn't hesitate to tell them if I thought I could gain favor with her and slide it up her butthole. Hell ya I'd sell out a brother in order to get me some and you would do the same and I'd expect you to do the same.

Hos before Bros.[/QUOTE]Its hard to explain the rationale to someone who doesn't see the stupidity of blathering about the site- and it won't increase your chances of playing with any butthole but your own.

[QUOTE=JimShorts;3312073]Its hard to explain the rationale to someone who doesn't see the stupidity of blathering about the site- and it won't increase your chances of playing with any butthole but your own.[/QUOTE]Ok, I'll test your theory tomorrow at noon. I'll tell her about this site and then get some sphincter action. And post a pic. Then I can say neener neener since you know, you can relate to that.

By the way, we reject the premise that there is any rationale to be explained, which is the reason why its so hard to do. Your words brah.

You're battling a war on all fronts and stinky pete on your flank isn't going to help you and neither is slimy Simon to the north. Everyone is out for themselves and your prognostications won't fly.

[QUOTE=Sicilly;3311463] Some of you guys are silly. So what if I don't get the super hot one and you did because you did the wine & dine, I think there is a minimal amount of those girls out there.
[/QUOTE]We all come from different places. I'm done with the average 150/200 girls; the site is crawling with them. You're right; minimal hotties but they're the ones getting my attention. If it reaches the wine & dine stage it's virtually a done deal.

Some back and forth texting with this one. All set to meet up and she hits me with a small m&g fee - $200! No way. Anyone else?

[QUOTE=Sicilly;3312447]Ok, I'll test your theory tomorrow at noon. I'll tell her about this site and then get some sphincter action. And post a pic. Then I can say neener neener since you know, you can relate to that.

By the way, we reject the premise that there is any rationale to be explained, which is the reason why its so hard to do. Your words brah.

You're battling a war on all fronts and stinky pete on your flank isn't going to help you and neither is slimy Simon to the north. Everyone is out for themselves and your prognostications won't fly.[/QUOTE]Whatever dude, you are officially both dumb and boring- congrats.

Looking to see her next week, any contact info would be appreciated.

So here's how it works with this one. She advertises that she's looking for discrete excitement but not interested in receiving an allowance (Red Flag #1).

She'll send some nice pics (clothed) and spend a lot of time back and forth.

Claims to be married to an older guy and to be working as a Nurse-just wants some excitement.

So as you finally approach the idea of meeting- and she's all excited about it, then, the last thing she drops before finalizing a meet up night is this:

"All I will need is some gas money and money for working a night shift ($200) - because my husband will think I'm at work".

I wasted a lot of time with this a'hole before getting to that.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/1d29aef0-19c8-44dd-a9c6-7f3f31798c76[/URL]

On the other hand-maybe she's worth the $200- but she's already revealed herself to being a scammer basically.

[QUOTE=MyDarkSide;3313500]Some back and forth texting with this one. All set to meet up and she hits me with a small m&g fee - $200! No way. Anyone else?[/QUOTE]She was reviewed awhile back and listed as a time waster and a princess.

[QUOTE=MyDarkSide;3312896]We all come from different places. I'm done with the average 150/200 girls; the site is crawling with them. You're right; minimal hotties but they're the ones getting my attention. If it reaches the wine & dine stage it's virtually a done deal.[/QUOTE]Not what I've heard from many. They laughed when I asked them if the guy got lucky after diner and they laughed and laughed and said NO WAY. Meanwhile, I buy them coffee and they end up licking my asshole. Go figure.