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How things go when the appointment is being made and again when we are on our way to meet the girl tells us how the appointment will go.

The girl is entitled to some leeway when we first contact her to schedule. She has her own life, she has more of us to keep track of than we do of her, but once a date, time and place have been agreed upon, and the day comes and we are on our way, we have become someone she is "expecting," we're no longer some guy in the middle of the pack, time is close for her to be ready and we should have her attention. That contact needs to go without a hitch. If she doesn't appear to have it together it is time to say,"I'm sorry, I've changed my mind."

All I can say here is that I must have gotten lucky and caught her on a good morning. My experience with her was nothing like what others have reported here and elsewhere.

I had been thinking of seeing her again but with this new report I think I will pass.

I'd have to go back through the posts but I don't remember anyone kissing her ass. (Although someone did tell her she was being discussed.) Seems it was more of a spirited debate about her quality of service and other aspects about her.

[QUOTE=Grmojo;1099539]I tried to warn everyone, but then guys started kissing her undeserving ass, just because she got upset about what I said about her. I still stand by my experience when I met her at a hobby party. I'd sooner go celibate than to see her. The only way that she'd still meet the description in her ads is if she sometimes has a rumored younger sister fill in for her. And yes, I checked to make sure that the phone numbers matched from her posts on another board.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Johny Mac; 1099704]IME, the rate is a good one if she gives the service with some enthusiasm. 100 is lower than many.

As for using a shower at her place or anyone's place, keep in mind that the lady cleans up. While you take the shower, she can do nothing but wait. I find it reasonable as a client to give something for the service of using a shower. [/QUOTE]I agree with you that, her rate is a good one, if she gives the service with enthusiasm, because of one hundred per hour is lower then many.

But could you break it down by what you mean by IME or does anyone else no what IME means?

Thanks

[QUOTE=Jum Hall; 1100123]I agree with you that, her rate is a good one, if she gives the service with enthusiasm, because of one hundred per hour is lower then many.

But could you break it down by what you mean by IME or does anyone else no what IME means?

Thanks[/QUOTE]He probably means "in my experience".

In the previous debate on this board concerning Jenna I made some comments that I thought were simply that: comments not intended to be positive or negative about Jenna or any poster. If I remember correctly (and I always try to do this) I never made any personal comments about anyone. However, in Jenna's response it seemed she felt I was attacking her, which I would not do, and especially since I have never seen her. She did make a comment about most girls in this business would not "touch" any monger with a ten foot pole unless money were involved. I replied that I thought that was the type of comment that would be much more likely to drive business away instead of help her case.

She did respond with an apology to that comment, and also mentioned that she had a cheaper rate (80 I think at the time) for massage because of "the monger's plight" in this economy. So it seems she realizes times are tight and mongers (especially on this board) are trying to see that there money is well spent. But then the type of behavior described in these last few posts would seem to say otherwise.

All I can conclude about this is that Jenna, while probably not a bad person otherwise, is not cut out for this business. It is, for the provider, very customer-service intensive, probably more so than any other service. Not all girls are cut out for that, especially due to the type of service provided. And to that point, the comment she made several months ago here (the ten-foot pole comment) , while she probably regrets saying it in that way, make be an accurate reflection of her attitude.

The most successful providers (like Suzie that Sparty commented on several posts back) know how to make a monger feel appreciated. Not "I appreciate that you are spending money on me", but more like "I am flattered and appreciative that you chose me from among the many choices you could have made, and I am going to do everything in my power to entice you to come back".

Jenna may be the type of girl that only appreciates getting paid, but she would do better if she understood that Suzie's way of doing business is MUCH more profitable. In fact, if the pics are correct, Jenna may be the more attractive of the two. But looks never make up for feeling humiliated, which is what happens when a monger has an experience like Johnny Mac's or Zoso's.

By the way, you will NEVER find another guy or "bf" or "friend" at Suzie's apartment (or any other provider worth the name). She also makes sure there is enough time between appointments so that there is no chance of an incoming client bumping into the outgoing client, which is a touch I always appreciate.

[QUOTE=Jum Hall; 1100123]I agree with you that, her rate is a good one, if she gives the service with enthusiasm, because of one hundred per hour is lower then many.

But could you break it down by what you mean by IME or does anyone else no what IME means?

Thanks[/QUOTE]IME- In MY Experience

In My Experience.

[QUOTE=Jum Hall; 1100123]I agree with you that, her rate is a good one, if she gives the service with enthusiasm, because of one hundred per hour is lower then many.

But could you break it down by what you mean by IME or does anyone else no what IME means?

Thanks[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Pete3854;1100276]IME- In MY Experience[/QUOTE][QUOTE=Sparty0320;1100292]In My Experience.[/QUOTE][QUOTE=Loner 59; 1100268]He probably means "in my experience".

But looks never make up for feeling humiliated, which is what happens when a monger has an experience like Johnny Mac's or Zoso's.

By the way, you will NEVER find another guy or "bf" or "friend" at Suzie's apartment (or any other provider worth the name). She also makes sure there is enough time between appointments so that there is no chance of an incoming client bumping into the outgoing client, which is a touch I always appreciate. [/QUOTE]Correct. IME is In My Experience.

And Loner, I agree. The depression that one feels after building up the excitement of anticipation is such a letdown that it colors any future meeting with that person.

As for looks and enthusiasm, looks can be diminished by personality and looks can be enhanced by personality. Suzy looks good but maybe not great. However, her personality and enthusiasm create such an aura around her that every moment with her is very special. As has been noted. And was my experience, one feels as if they are the only client that has meant so much to Suzie.

Aslilian, Sandy, or Jenna. Depending on the names she uses. Has the looks. I met her in person. But from my experience, I don't see that she has the concern, compassion or enthusiasm for meetings with clients.

Looking at the replies and statements about her weight, I'm REALLY starting to think there may be something to the rumors about at least two girls posing as each other. On another board, I received info indicating that the woman who introduced herself as Ashlillian may be substituting her sister from time to time. That kind of thing would complicate complaints against her.

Maybe sisters or maybe cousins or maybe unrelated. Could be true. I have read the good and bad reviews on the other sites about supposedly the same person. The two sides are so different that one might think they describe two different people. Whatever the case, I won't be seeing her / them again.

[QUOTE=Grmojo;1100543]Looking at the replies and statements about her weight, I'm REALLY starting to think there may be something to the rumors about at least two girls posing as each other. On another board, I received info indicating that the woman who introduced herself as Ashlillian may be substituting her sister from time to time. That kind of thing would complicate complaints against her.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Sparty0320;1100602]Maybe sisters or maybe cousins or maybe unrelated. Could be true. I have read the good and bad reviews on the other sites about supposedly the same person. The two sides are so different that one might think they describe two different people. Whatever the case, I won't be seeing her / them again.[/QUOTE]Ashlillian has a twin sister. Not sure if her sister escorts or not, but I DO believe that she uses her sister pics as she is quite a bit heaver than her pics show.

Has anyone heard from Natalie the Great? I haven't seen any of her posts on Backpage in a while.

[QUOTE=Jeff Mcthrustr;1100858]Has anyone heard from Natalie the Great? I haven't seen any of her posts on Backpage in a while.[/QUOTE]I see a Natalie on a fairly regular basis. Used to post on BP. Now, she posts on other boards, because her reviews bring in some business.

Do you have a old BP ad of her's? Then I could tell you if it's the same one.

[QUOTE=Grmojo; 1101067]I see a Natalie on a fairly regular basis. Used to post on BP. Now, she posts on other boards, because her reviews bring in some business.

Do you have a old BP ad of her's? Then I could tell you if it's the same one. [/QUOTE]I can't find any of her old posts anymore but she's a young white girl with what appears to be shoulder length dark hair and her BP pic was of her in a black tank top, panties and thigh highs limbering up like a ballerina.

[QUOTE=Jeff Mcthrustr;1104144]I can't find any of her old posts anymore but she's a young white girl with what appears to be shoulder length dark hair and her BP pic was of her in a black tank top, panties and thigh highs limbering up like a ballerina.[/QUOTE]You have a PM. I think I have the photo in question, but I think she stopped posting on BP for a reason, so I'm not going to post it on the open board.

[url]http://grandrapids.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/two-girl-holiday-specials-availabe-today-only-hot-colleg[/url]

I reviewed her a month or so back. It was a horrible waste of time and $$. Now the dumb cow texts me once a week "hey, my girlfriends here, come on over". Thank god the texts have only come when I was able to hide them from my wife or I'd be living that Twix commercial. Each time I text back "leave me alone, remove my number from your contacts" but obviously she's not learning in college how to work her phone. I just wanted to warn the rest of the team, and blow off some steam.

[QUOTE=John Wise; 1106270]Two quick things,

1st you have the wrong link, if you want to warn us please post the right link.

2nd get a hobby phone, there like ten bucks (prepaid phone) and as low as ten cents per minute.

You gave a fat girl $$, she is going to be calling you for sometime.

Good luck friend. [/QUOTE]Make it clear that you'll spread the word online, about her lack of discretion, if she calls again.

Not only should you have a hobby phone, but it should be stored in a storage locker or safe deposit box that you pay cash for. Have a car charger for it. That phone should never see the inside of your house. What if you forgot to shut it off? It does happen and divorces have occurred over less than that.

Keep a shave kit, with deodorant soap and lube in the locker. Condoms should be in it, but make sure they're not Trojans. That smell has to wear off and can be a telltale sign of hanky panky. Always wash up, thoroughly, afterward and avoid girls who use body glitter or heavy perfume. That stuff is also hard to remove. If you need a credit card to get a room, make sure that it's a prepaid card, and not something that will result in a monthly statement being delivered to your house.

[QUOTE=Dpr45; 1106157][url]http://grandrapids.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/two-girl-holiday-specials-availabe-today-only-hot-colleg[/url]

I reviewed her a month or so back. It was a horrible waste of time and $$. Now the dumb cow texts me once a week "hey, my girlfriends here, come on over". Thank god the texts have only come when I was able to hide them from my wife or I'd be living that Twix commercial. Each time I text back "leave me alone, remove my number from your contacts" but obviously she's not learning in college how to work her phone. I just wanted to warn the rest of the team, and blow off some steam. [/QUOTE]First of all, I have to thank you dpr45 for taking one for the team and you having the courage to post it here and maybe some other places too I believe, because this complain looks kind of familiar on the other board too, but I might be wrong and I don't expect dpr45 to post any other more, unless he feels compel to do that and however safe, discreet, private and whatever else for him.

I checked through your profile / post dpr45 and I saw the lady that you saw then, her number and the first link, you left for her that month ago is still good.

Am glad some members have given you and others too, some good advise in the open here and hopefully in private too, that way you, me and whoever, would not forget to protect our privacy, since some of this girls, have contacted me too months later on, so I feel your[dpr45]and maybe some other's' too pain.

[QUOTE=John Wise; 1106270]Two quick things,

1st you have the wrong link, if you want to warn us please post the right link.

2nd get a hobby phone, there like ten bucks (prepaid phone) and as low as ten cents per minute.

You gave a fat girl $$, she is going to be calling you for sometime.

Good luck friend. [/QUOTE]I'm so very sorry for my ineptitude. I had the right link, but apparently it didn't cut / paste the way I thought it would. Sorry to have you waste your time.

I had a hobby phone once, I'm well aware of the benefits of having one, but it got lost while I was traveling a year or so ago and I didn't replace it. The reason why.

I normally spend my time getting numbers / information from another "source" here in michigan, and the ladies there are well reviewed and operate their businesses the way they should be run. Everyone I've met there understands what "discretion" means. I feel (perhaps naively) safe there. My limited experience with Backpage girls is different; the only time in my hobbying where I've had bait and switch, or upselling, or "sorry I don't do that" when their ad implies that they do. Which is my reason for posting here on USA. It is the only place where information on BP girls can be found. I'm just trying to help others from duplicating my mistakes.

I will continue to post here. Thank you to all of you for your good advice.

And yes, I did give a fat chick $$. My guess is most people posting here have done the same thing at least once (thinking with the little head) , and if you haven't, congratulations, you are the perfect hobbiest!

[QUOTE=John Wise;1107391]Sorry if I came off like a dick, I was just trying to put in my two cents.[/QUOTE]John,

I think I was still blowing off steam because you were right on both of your points. I do appreciate your well intentioned advice.

And the more I think about your line "You gave a fat chick $$.", the funnier it gets. It seems like, in one way or another, I've been doing that since college. Beer goggles anyone?

Happy Holidays to all of you who share your experiences here to keep us all safely hobbying.

A few days ago I visited jenna in GR. She advertises in BP and a number of other places. Massage for 75 and 85. Photos old. Very old. Now about 45 pounds heavier. Birthday suit both of us. But do not touch her. Her rules. Total let down on every count. Her ad is absolutely false. Her meds make her skin sinsitive, to quote. She does off FS for 150. No, I did not take her up on that. Frankly I could not keep member at attention, as she talked continuously about herself, friends, problems. Her oral exhortation was unimpressive. Steer clear.

A visit like this enforces my belief that maybe these things should be taxed and controlled. Not really, thought, as I hate big government.

I am sorry that you met her without looking at past posts here. She has been discussed at length. She goes by the names Jenna, Lilian, Ashlilian, and Sandra. Those pictures are older ones. As for her performance, some have better luck than others.

Personally, my only experience was when an appointment with her was canceled by her after I made it to her place.

If she is 45# heavier, then she has put on weight since I saw her over a year ago. I thought her one redeeming point was her looks at the time. I think she had just lost some weight.

A link for those who wonder who she is.

[url]http://michigan.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/85-special-best-massage-in-town-23/5257985[/url]

[QUOTE=Gutenberg469; 1108482]A few days ago I visited jenna in GR. She advertises in BP and a number of other places. Massage for 75 and 85. Photos old. Very old. Now about 45 pounds heavier. Birthday suit both of us. But do not touch her. Her rules. Total let down on every count. Her ad is absolutely false. Her meds make her skin sinsitive, to quote. She does off FS for 150. No, I did not take her up on that. Frankly I could not keep member at attention, as she talked continuously about herself, friends, problems. Her oral exhortation was unimpressive. Steer clear.

A visit like this enforces my belief that maybe these things should be taxed and controlled. Not really, thought, as I hate big government. [/QUOTE]

Does anyone have a review on Heather? I've tried reading all the posts on all the fora for GR, but there are only a couple of mentions. Nothing with any details.

[url]http://grandrapids.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/dont-be-a-grinch-give-and-you-shall-receive-treat-yourself-with-me-20/5282366[/url]

She seems to be a prolific poster, so I cannot imagine that some of you have not met with her? I've corresponded with her a bit on email, and am ready to TOFTT if no one has done it already. But if there are reports on her, I'd love to hear about them.

I suspect I'll need to be prepared for upselling, but I'm also prepared to walk away.

Let me know what to expect, and I'll repay the favor with a report!

Thanks, fellas!

I have not seen her, but read this post on BP. She is listed near the bottom. If I were you, then I would see her, but if she upsells, then be prepared to leave. This person could be wrong, but it seems legit.

[url]http://grandrapids.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/dont-be-a-grinch-give-and-you-shall-receive-treat-yourself-with-me-20/5282366[/url]

[QUOTE=Gern; 1111053]Does anyone have a review on Heather? I've tried reading all the posts on all the fora for GR, but there are only a couple of mentions. Nothing with any details.

[url]http://grandrapids.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/dont-be-a-grinch-give-and-you-shall-receive-treat-yourself-with-me-20/5282366[/url]

She seems to be a prolific poster, so I cannot imagine that some of you have not met with her? I've corresponded with her a bit on email, and am ready to TOFTT if no one has done it already. But if there are reports on her, I'd love to hear about them.

I suspect I'll need to be prepared for upselling, but I'm also prepared to walk away.

Let me know what to expect, and I'll repay the favor with a report!

Thanks, fellas! [/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Gern; 1111053]Does anyone have a review on Heather? I've tried reading all the posts on all the fora for GR, but there are only a couple of mentions. Nothing with any details.

[url]http://grandrapids.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/dont-be-a-grinch-give-and-you-shall-receive-treat-yourself-with-me-20/5282366[/url]

She seems to be a prolific poster, so I cannot imagine that some of you have not met with her? I've corresponded with her a bit on email, and am ready to TOFTT if no one has done it already. But if there are reports on her, I'd love to hear about them.

I suspect I'll need to be prepared for upselling, but I'm also prepared to walk away.

Let me know what to expect, and I'll repay the favor with a report!

Thanks, fellas! [/QUOTE]I cannot be certain because of the age, but there was a Heather that got some bad reviews from the Craigslist days. Again, with no pictures posted on those threads, I cannot be certain if it was her, but that is what TOFTT consists of. Hope you have a great experience if you decide to try.

Gordo is correct that there was at least one unfavorable review of this one. I have no time today but will try to search out tomorrow.

From my memory I don't recall upselling but more like not offering the services one might expect for the amount of dead presidents being requested. I seem to recall that this one would be more accurate, if she were to post in the massage or rub down section instead of the escort section. I've purposely stayed away from this one but if you go for it, good luck.

[QUOTE=Gordo68;1111380]I cannot be certain because of the age, but there was a Heather that got some bad reviews from the Craigslist days. Again, with no pictures posted on those threads, I cannot be certain if it was her, but that is what TOFTT consists of. Hope you have a great experience if you decide to try.[/QUOTE]I tried this one in kazoo, I will not see her again nor will I recomend her to anyone else. She implied GFE, what I got was a topless handjob, limited touching, no kissing. I was really pissed when I left.

[QUOTE=Spongebob357;1111629]I tried this one in kazoo, I will not see her again nor will I recomend her to anyone else. She implied GFE, what I got was a topless handjob, limited touching, no kissing. I was really pissed when I left.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the info, fellas. This pretty much seals the deal. I don't think I'll TOFTT with these types of reviews.

My earlier post gave the wrong link. Sorry about that. In this post, someone says.

" (616) 929-3331- Super nice girl but upsells after telling me one price."

[url]http://grandrapids.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/grand-rapids-guys-beware-of-girls_-53/4685892[/url]

[QUOTE=Johny Mac; 1111281]I have not seen her, but read this post on BP. She is listed near the bottom. If I were you, then I would see her, but if she upsells, then be prepared to leave. This person could be wrong, but it seems legit.

[url]http://grandrapids.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/dont-be-a-grinch-give-and-you-shall-receive-treat-yourself-with-me-20/5282366[/url]

[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Gern; 1111053]Does anyone have a review on Heather? I've tried reading all the posts on all the fora for GR, but there are only a couple of mentions. Nothing with any details.

[url]http://grandrapids.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/dont-be-a-grinch-give-and-you-shall-receive-treat-yourself-with-me-20/5282366[/url]

She seems to be a prolific poster, so I cannot imagine that some of you have not met with her? I've corresponded with her a bit on email, and am ready to TOFTT if no one has done it already. But if there are reports on her, I'd love to hear about them.

I suspect I'll need to be prepared for upselling, but I'm also prepared to walk away.

Let me know what to expect, and I'll repay the favor with a report!

Thanks, fellas! [/QUOTE]This girl is a no touch kinda girl someone posted this a little while back. Beware.

Just wondering if anyone has dated this girl? I swear I know who she is and I wanted a price / review so that I could set-up something with her. If she is who I think she is then maybe we can relive some old times. She is definitely NOT 27 if she is the person I am thinking of though, LOL. This is her on BP- [url]http://grandrapids.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/5-2-hazel-eyes-small-figure-27/5305818[/url]

[QUOTE=Johny Mac; 1111832]My earlier post gave the wrong link. Sorry about that. In this post, someone says.

" (616) 929-3331- Super nice girl but upsells after telling me one price."

[url]http://grandrapids.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/grand-rapids-guys-beware-of-girls_-53/4685892[/url]

[/QUOTE]Of course, it goes without saying that the same girl can give many different types of experiences. But if the Heather from your link here is the Heather everyone is talking about, well, my experience with her was anything but bad. Don't know if everyone is discussing the same girl or not, though, because Gern's link is a totally different girl.

The Heather from Johnny Mac's link here went out of town several months back, and I have not seen an ad for her since, so I only got to visit her once. But she was easy to get in touch with, prompt with call backs, a little more expensive than I like to pay but not unreasonable. Some had said (as this ad did) that she did not look like pics, that she was much bigger. Well, the time I saw her (which was only days before this ad came out. I remember it because I responded to it on BP) she was EXACTLY like the pics. I know the pics are a little blurry, but she was hot, and the body was exactly the same.

She was very pleasant, let me take a shower beforehand and the clock did not start until after the shower, which is certainly generous. We had some good laughs, and a very nice conversation while we were "getting ready". Very nice BBBJ (she is so hot even a lousy BJ would have been great) , followed by doggy. Only drawback I can think of is that another monger reported that she only ever did doggy.

One other thing I can think of: a couple times she seemed distracted by the television, and even though she used some sexy talk during FS, it seemed a little bit like something she thought a guy would like to hear rather than something she really was feeling.

I am an average-looking guy, so it's not like we hit it off because I was so attractive. However, I am always nice, polite, and respectful, and I think that sets the tone a lot of times. Being too "business up front" with the girl never works well for me.

[QUOTE=Gordo68; 1113490]Just wondering if anyone has dated this girl? I swear I know who she is and I wanted a price / review so that I could set-up something with her. If she is who I think she is then maybe we can relive some old times. She is definitely NOT 27 if she is the person I am thinking of though, LOL. This is her on BP-

[url]http://grandrapids.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/5-2-hazel-eyes-small-figure-27/5305818[/url]

[/QUOTE]OMG. What a hot, hot girl. 27 or not, if she looks like the pics then I wouldn't care if she were 80. Can't help you though. I have never seen her ad before. She has a definite eastern European look, that I always find so sexy.

Let us know if you go for it. The only thing that makes me hesitate is her use of the word "quick". Hate the girls who tell you they have a 50 special, then find out that's for 15 minutes.

Loner, I only quoted the "ad" because it mentioned the phone number. I don't know how reliable the info is, but I would certainly take it seriously because so many different girls are listed with different opinions.

[QUOTE=Gordo68; 1113490]Just wondering if anyone has dated this girl? I swear I know who she is and I wanted a price / review so that I could set-up something with her. If she is who I think she is then maybe we can relive some old times. She is definitely NOT 27 if she is the person I am thinking of though, LOL. This is her on BP-

[url]http://grandrapids.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/5-2-hazel-eyes-small-figure-27/5305818[/url]

[/QUOTE]I saw her about two weeks ago at her mobile home in comstock park. She didn't have any condoms so I just settled for a BBBJ.

[QUOTE=Pete3854;1115234]I saw her about two weeks ago at her mobile home in comstock park. She didn't have any condoms so I just settled for a BBBJ.[/QUOTE]Yeah, she was famous for getting the guy to "blow and go". I used to see her way back when, like 5 years back, and she was besties with this superhot, fake-titty girl that she idolized because she could "get guys to spend hundreds on her without even doing anything for them." Her bestie moved to Miami to try her stuff out over there, but the lessons were learned.

Anyone seen Jessica? Looks pretty hot from her pictures. Wonder if anyone has any info about her.

[url]http://grandrapids.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/satisfy-yourself-_-_-25/5359669[/url]

Thanks

[QUOTE=RunningGuy; 1115531]Anyone seen Jessica? Looks pretty hot from her pictures. Wonder if anyone has any info about her.

[url]http://grandrapids.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/satisfy-yourself-_-_-25/5359669[/url]

Thanks[/QUOTE]I've seen her a few times. She aims to please, and will work with you a little on price. She's in a "nicer" hotel. The one thing you should know is she's a druggy. It doesn't bother me much, as I'm safe. But she is skinnier than her pics.

[QUOTE=RunningGuy; 1115531]Anyone seen Jessica? Looks pretty hot from her pictures. Wonder if anyone has any info about her.

[url]http://grandrapids.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/satisfy-yourself-_-_-25/5359669[/url]

Thanks[/QUOTE]Did you google the phone number? That will be enlightening.