Seeking Arrangements

[QUOTE=Fuhgetaboudit;3552438]UPops, want to help out CM, on where you find kitty kits for STDs? I think his inquiry was directed toward your post.[/QUOTE]If you google Self-testing kit or home STD test kit, you will find a lot. All google ad (with the ad sign on the top of first search results page) are legit.

Normally, there are two types, one requires you mail back your "collections" with the girl to the lab and check the results later online (cheaper); another one, you can do it at home with the girl and get results in 20 minutes (more expensive). If you need more info, please PM me. I don't want to offend others.

[QUOTE=SCX13;3552189]Ok, thanks. That's helpful. I'm a relative newbie in the SA arena. I do need to keep somewhat anonymous so I'll have to find a picture that none of my acquaintances have seen before.

Thanks again for sharing your knowledge.[/QUOTE]Looking for good messages to send as a first message to a SB. Thanks CM.

Anyone use this for payment to S A? I cannot use my c / c Thanks CM.

Any tips for good places to go in the Boston area for first meeting with a SB before going to a hotel?

With a College student??

With an older woman??

Thankd CM.

SB want to use Paypal or cash app. You send money and what if she is a no show??

Does not sound too smart on a sugar Daddys end.

Any thoughts??

[QUOTE=CandyMan555;3553091]Anyone use this for payment to S A? I cannot use my c / c Thanks CM.[/QUOTE]Yeah, I have and it works pretty well. Here is a good article that outlines some basic safety concerns:

[URL]http://www.itstactical.com/digicom/privacy/how-to-use-prepaid-debit-cards-for-anonymous-cash-like-digital-transactions/[/URL]

Hope this helps.

-Aim.

[QUOTE=CandyMan555;3553181]SB want to use Paypal or cash app. You send money and what if she is a no show??

Does not sound too smart on a sugar Daddys end.

Any thoughts??[/QUOTE]It could be a dude who request Paypal transfer before the meeting LOL.

[QUOTE=UnlimitedPops;3554296]It could be a dude who request Paypal transfer before the meeting LOL.[/QUOTE]If you pay with paypal what does it say on your paypal statement??

These S A people are DANGEROUS I told them not to but they put SEEKINGARR on my credit card statement.

Thanks CM.

Pre-paid CC / Debit card (from CVS, Walmart, Target, Tedeschis'.) and use a fake address to verify. If you are not using a vpn, there is software out there to mask your IP and your MAC address if necessary.

I've never had an issue with SA or any other vendor with me making anonymous payments.

-Aim.



[QUOTE=CandyMan555;3554494]If you pay with paypal what does it say on your paypal statement??

These S A people are DANGEROUS I told them not to but they put SEEKINGARR on my credit card statement.

Thanks CM.[/QUOTE]

Any pros or cons about putting married or not on your SA profile.

There are some good posts on the Richmond S A Posts, check it out.

Thanks CM.

I'm a convert. I joined SA this morning in a fit of horniness. By this evening I had an attractive UTR lady in my bed squirting like there's no tomorrow. This was perfect. Just have to do a bit of laundry. 🙃 Take that CLCE.

[QUOTE=Banjomania;3571592]I'm a convert. I joined SA this morning in a fit of horniness. By this evening I had an attractive UTR lady in my bed squirting like there's no tomorrow. This was perfect. Just have to do a bit of laundry. 🙃 Take that CLCE.[/QUOTE]Great to know. I am not sure why I am not success after its being 3 weeks. Is Asian Ethnicity matters or its allowance. Any info is appreciated.

[QUOTE=Banjomania;3571592]I'm a convert. I joined SA this morning in a fit of horniness. By this evening I had an attractive UTR lady in my bed squirting like there's no tomorrow. This was perfect. Just have to do a bit of laundry. 🙃 Take that CLCE.[/QUOTE]Care to share the lady's name and details etc? Thanks in advance as I just joined as well.

[QUOTE=BbChowda;3546073]Hi all! Long time lurker but had to chime in on this. I have been on SA for a few months now. I would say majority would be a wine and dine. The young college ones isn't too much into the expensive places. Some have gone direct and willing to negotiate. There are a few that think they are platinum pussy but I generally do not consider them as they have way too many rules and getting a pro is well worth the value at that point. So far I have had probably about 25-30 girls that I have met and enjoyed. 30% covered the rest BBFS. Some for the overnights and some for a few hours. Can't review them all because this guy is old and can't remember much! LMAO but hopefully this sheds some light on the membership investment. OH. Be wary of scammers as usual. I have been had a couple of times and I have had to tell the girls of my expectations and keep to what I set to ensure no one loses. Enjoy![/QUOTE]Hi BbChowda, reading your story is very encouraging. Would you mind sharing what is the the allowance range in Boston area. Looks like I have hard luck. It's been a month and zero success.

Hey folks,

Joined SA this morning. Have had some good conversation through the site, but quotes seem to be in the 4 $+ range, per visit. I'm not into an arrangement for that much, maybe I'll just stick to BP.

I will let you know if it hit any luck for my target (around 2 $).

[QUOTE=Goose7334;3587496]Hey folks,

Joined SA this morning. Have had some good conversation through the site, but quotes seem to be in the 4 $+ range, per visit. I'm not into an arrangement for that much, maybe I'll just stick to BP.

I will let you know if it hit any luck for my target (around 2 $).[/QUOTE]Hi- can you please pm me few ids who are inter for 400. I have no luck yet.

Hi, can someone please suggest if you are offering meet and greet allowance in Boston area. Every girl is asking for M&G allowance.

I've had girls ask for 200 to meet, I laugh. I've met about 20 girls the most I've spent is 50 on drinks for them. Of those I've slept with 12 of them sometimes on multiple occasions. 6 I wasn't interested in, 2 weren't interested in me. The most I've paid is 300 for 3 hours, with many girls willing to take 150-250. I'm very specific with what I'm looking for sexually, and that I'm willing to get to know them by taking them out but allowance starts with intimacy. One girl I gave 40.00 to after the meet and greet because she drove to dedham from providence and I was interested in her. She asked if i would help out with her gas as she wasn't working. It is alot more work then escorts but it can be rewarding. Right now I have a nanny that lives 5 miles from me and wants to spend all her free time with me because she hates the family that she is staying with. My cost per nut is under 100.00.

[QUOTE=RobHere;3589211]Hi, can someone please suggest if you are offering meet and greet allowance in Boston area. Every girl is asking for M&G allowance.[/QUOTE]Like Rome stated, no way have I ever dropped money to meet a girl. If they press just move on, tons of girls are down to meet you in the hotel parking lot and head in.

I been trying to message few girl today, no luck.

Was wondering what's the best line to text the girl!

Just sign up this morning.

I feel Robhere's pain.

LOL.

[QUOTE=RobHere;3589207]Hi- can you please pm me few ids who are inter for 400. I have no luck yet.[/QUOTE]

This is how I work it. Everyone has a type. I put my type into a saved search. When someone new comes on I message them a one liner. This is work. But it can be very rewarding. There are some girls that come on that have that look of hooker, and you can definitely meet up with them same day.

Here's one not my type but if I wanted quick pussy I would hit up.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/7e54d5fe-91f3-4851-967b-eb7ae61e865e[/URL]

I have not had much luck with asians, even the plainest ones have golden pussy syndrome. Others have asked me for between 500-700 per meeting.

Here's one I wouldn't waste my time with. She's probably never going to meet anyone.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/7988c6ac-81be-40bd-bee8-5c4645e9df7f[/URL]

18-21 year old girls may be broke but when it comes time to actualy meeting, many of them won't want to go through with it. Remember 90 pct of these girls aren't your typical prostitute.

I try to gather as many numbers as I can in my 30 days. My current membership expired 9-30 but I still have girls numbers that I have not had time to call. Also if you get a number and it goes dead, sometimes the girl will text you 3 months later as she's broke her current sd fell thru.

I don't feel comfortable sharing numbers as these girls aren't hardcore providers. It is VERY EASY to get a number, just ask. Make sure you have piictures available even if they are private. I have heard that if you can make your picture public you will get even better response. I don't mind comparing notes on girls though in private.

Any ideas. I cannot use my credit card my wife sees the statements.

Any ideas?? Thanks CM.

[QUOTE=CandyMan555;3591874]Any ideas. I cannot use my credit card my wife sees the statements.

Any ideas?? Thanks CM.[/QUOTE]Motel 6 accepts cash. They will photocopy your license.

[QUOTE=CandyMan555;3591874]Any ideas. I cannot use my credit card my wife sees the statements.

Any ideas?? Thanks CM.[/QUOTE]You can always buy a prepaid visa / mastercard, just hide it so your wife doesn't find it.

[QUOTE=BaldOldGuy;3592054]You can always buy a prepaid visa / mastercard, just hide it so your wife doesn't find it.[/QUOTE]Hotels won't take prepaid cards, they want to charge you use services and if you go over the room price.

Air b and b looks like a good option they will take paypal but no prepaid c / c.

[QUOTE=Banjomania;3571592]I'm a convert. I joined SA this morning in a fit of horniness. By this evening I had an attractive UTR lady in my bed squirting like there's no tomorrow. This was perfect. Just have to do a bit of laundry. 🙃 Take that CLCE.[/QUOTE]Great success, are you a premium member.

Or standard and are the girls mostly.

From standard also?

Any tips would be helpful.

[QUOTE=DeepThroat69;3592024]Motel 6 accepts cash. They will photocopy your license.[/QUOTE]I use CVS gift cards,. You see the balance on your monger email.

[QUOTE=PaulSweeter;3592766]I use CVS gift cards,. You see the balance on your monger email.[/QUOTE]Will a hotel take as a form of payment?? Thanks CM.

[QUOTE=PaulSweeter;3592760]Great success, are you a premium member.

Or standard and are the girls mostly.

From standard also?

Any tips would be helpful.[/QUOTE]In a nut shell, the girls can send and receive messages without paying for VIP, The guys cannot send nor READ (you can receive but how frustrating if you can't read) messages unless they pay. I posted this a while back and it is just as accurate today:

[QUOTE=Jack617;3468680]So, I have dabbled in the arena that is SA for about 3 years. Without getting in to too much details here are a few tidbits.

1.) If you are not willing to eventually pay for at least 1 month of VIP on the site DO NOT BOTHER. I can't stress this enough, you simply cannot score girls off the site without the messaging system and you need to pay for VIP to send and read messages.

2.) Your ease at scoring girls increases dramatically if you can host as the vast majority cannot / will not.

3.) I have scored some great girls in the $200-350 range. If they want more just move on as plenty are reasonable.

4.) If you can't host you need a room so add at least $150 to the above numbers.

5. Re-read tip #1.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=PaulSweeter;3592760]Great success, are you a premium member.

Or standard and are the girls mostly.

From standard also?

Any tips would be helpful.[/QUOTE]I think you need to be a premium member to get any attention. I am having difficulty juggling all of my options (not kidding) on SA. Some ladies flake, but most are UTR gems. Most of the good ones are not premium themselves.

End of story. If you can't afford the 80 for a month you can't play in the sugar bowl. Stop emailing me asking for numbers. A blind man could get 20 in a week. This is not mongering. Some are down and dirty hoes, but the best ones are the young ones that think you are going to blow 4 k a month on them. You must use your jedi powers to give them that illusion whle fucking them for a worthwhile amount to you.

You guys are all consistent and I am sure that you are correct.

It seems that the one month fee.

Or the 3 months fee, if you can afford it. Amortizes to a.

Better quality lady than BP. I think that some of them want a FWB relationship along with.

Benefits financially that might work for me. I agree 3 to 5 k per month is too much but some.

A few hundred here and there and it might work just fine. I'll report back later.

The BP area for an older guy like me has become poor quality. I don't like under 33 and the younger.

Ones are hit and run.

Thanks again,. Paul Sweeter.

[QUOTE=Jack617;3468680]So, I have dabbled in the arena that is SA for about 3 years. Without getting in to too much details here are a few tidbits.

1.) If you are not willing to eventually pay for at least 1 month of VIP on the site DO NOT BOTHER. I can't stress this enough, you simply cannot score girls off the site without the messaging system and you need to pay for VIP to send and read messages.

2.) Your ease at scoring girls increases dramatically if you can host as the vast majority cannot / will not.

3.) I have scored some great girls in the $200-350 range. If they want more just move on as plenty are reasonable.

4.) If you can't host you need a room so add at least $150 to the above numbers.

5. Re-read tip #1.[/QUOTE]

As a standard, the femaies know that you are out there. I have had some good "favorited" by them.

Also, I requested the private photos and got some of them.

What I'd like to know. Sometimes they let you send a message. I used "code" like use my gee.

Male at blah blah.

Do standard members messages go through? I think the answer is NO. But I'm still waiting for an email from a few of them. Any help is great but yes, Premium is the way to go.

So I'm almost certain they get through. I've messaged a few times with Standard Acct. And you get replys but itll state Upgrade to Read. Eventually I got enough messages I deemed it necessary to upgrade. Curiosity and all. After I could view the messages I sent it did appear that the SB was responding directly to my messages. So yes I do belive they will see them, however I don't know how much response you'll get with an email address. I'm sure most girls will wonder why you won't upgrade to premium if you are a SD who is willing to spoil them with a decent amount of $. But if you're fishing for bites that way, I'd suggest leaving a cell #. 99.9% of SB I've come across request switching to texting at some point anyhow as many prefer details being more private. So that may be a better bait to land some decent hits with a Standard Acct. But as most will say, a Premium acct is worth it in my opinion. Hope this helps. GL!

[QUOTE=PaulSweeter;3594178]As a standard, the femaies know that you are out there. I have had some good "favorited" by them.

Also, I requested the private photos and got some of them.

What I'd like to know. Sometimes they let you send a message. I used "code" like use my gee.

Male at blah blah.

Do standard members messages go through? I think the answer is NO. But I'm still waiting for an email from a few of them. Any help is great but yes, Premium is the way to go.[/QUOTE]

I think SA work best if you have time to take them out on date and pay for the dates too. A lot of girl don't want to be friend with benefit with an allowance. I am very straight forward and tell them I really just wanted to fuck.

Not working too good so far, a lot of the girl agree then back out.

But really. Why would girls in their early 20's want to be dating guys in there 30's or 40's in public.

Found a nice MILF, BBBJCIM cfs daty fiv no drama $$ incalll apartment.

PM for details and Send me some good contacts Thanks CM.

[QUOTE=JohnyAng888;3596924]I think SA work best if you have time to take them out on date and pay for the dates too. A lot of girl don't want to be friend with benefit with an allowance. I am very straight forward and tell them I really just wanted to fuck.

Not working too good so far, a lot of the girl agree then back out.

But really. Why would girls in their early 20's want to be dating guys in there 30's or 40's in public.[/QUOTE]There are girls who have a daddy thing where a 20 yesr age difference is no problem. They get the attraction to older guys while mutually benefiting from it. I'm completely opposite in thinking in why guys in 30's or 40's who talk about having game pay for it when there is plenty of free pussy to be had.

Hi! I had M&G with Nic09 Boston and agreed to below 3. But I changed my mind. She tried to blackmail me saying I have taken pics of M&G and put in all social sites asked for $$. I know she didn't have anything. Be careful and she was interested for FC. You may take her to FC and keep some leverage.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/messages/d707f766-a510-427d-bc6e-4c9848923d90[/URL]

Of the 3 women I have had sex with from SA in the past few weeks, all were bare back because they were UTR and not experienced. I have met a few others I opted not engage with. Two of the three, I ended up banging in the back seat of my car. All freebies, except for the price of tea, coffee and drinks. Note to self. Stock car with condoms!