Sadomachism

[QUOTE=Niceguy3]By far, the best online resource for BDSM friends is fetlife dot com.

Enjoy, Nice[/QUOTE]Thanks for the info - I'm checking it out right now.

V

Just wanted to share this picture of my favorite pornstar who also does bondage shots. You can't miss her since she advertises her name on her chest. Sexy submissive slave.

Misfit

[QUOTE=Verotica]Misfit, there are probably hundreds if not thousands of sites that cater to all those interested in BDSM. A few that I, as a submissive female, tend to like are Alt.com, MyDungeonSpace.com and Colarme.com.

I like MDS a lot since it has a real "community" feel about it; plus, some of the photography is outstanding. I have a few blogs and photos on there myself (under Verotica). It's a great place for veterans and newbies alike.

Anyway, just some suggestions.

V[/QUOTE]There is another main site you missed: bondage.com. I have tried all of these sites and found them somewhat disappointing in that the chances of a female responding to a male inquiry are about 1 in 50 (maybe worse). So maybe there are many false postings or just postings of women who have absolutely no intention of corresponding and/or meeting, or even simply discussing the lifestyle. The other possibility is that the females are overwhelmed with inquiries and don't have the time/energy to reply to even a small portion of those who write.

A much better way of meeting and networking with people in the "lifestyle" is to join a local BDSM group (most are listed on line) that meets periodically in what they call a "munch" or "gathering." Such events are usually for discussion and sometimes demonstration and group play, and are a great way to get to know others of like BDSM temperament.

I have this duality thing going on.

Smiles.

I pretend to be vanilla in real life all the time.

Raquel Whips

When I saw your picture, that song by Aerosmith came to mind. What's it called? Ah yes, I believe it is "Dude looks like a lady".

Misfit

[QUOTE=Misfit]When I saw your picture, that song by Aerosmith came to mind. What's it called? Ah yes, I believe it is "Dude looks like a lady". Misfit[/QUOTE]

My guess is that may be what "she" was alluding to when "she" made the comment:

[QUOTE=Raquel Whips]I have this duality thing going on.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Raquel Whips]I have this duality thing going on.

Smiles.

I pretend to be vanilla in real life all the time.

Raquel Whips[/QUOTE]You're definitely a sadist.

That girdle is working way above and beyond the call of duty.

Yes, Collarme is a good one for playing.

[QUOTE=Verotica]Misfit, there are probably hundreds if not thousands of sites that cater to all those interested in BDSM. A few that I, as a submissive female, tend to like are Alt.com, MyDungeonSpace.com and Colarme.com.

I like MDS a lot since it has a real "community" feel about it; plus, some of the photography is outstanding. I have a few blogs and photos on there myself (under Verotica). It's a great place for veterans and newbies alike.

Anyway, just some suggestions.

V[/QUOTE]

I have a few of those waist/girdles...smiles.

Kind of makes my 36F look even bigger.

[QUOTE=Benchseats Rock]You're definitely a sadist. That girdle is working way above and beyond the call of duty.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Raquel Whips]I have this duality thing going on.

Smiles.

I pretend to be vanilla in real life all the time.

Raquel Whips[/QUOTE]I only wish I lived in your state.

I would submit to you anytime.

Hello, boys. It seems as though some of these boards are stagnating. I know business is down and a lot of you can't afford escorts these days, but I also know the economy hasn't made you all less horny!

So let's talk about sex. As in tie-me-up, smack-my-ass, pull-my-hair, clamp-my-nipples and call me Georgie. THAT kind of sex.

I am a submissive female. I LOVE it when a man takes control. It doesn't have to involve accoutrement like crops or ropes; it doesn't have to be degradating or mean; I just want a man who knows what he wants. From himself and from me. Confidence (not arrogance) is the single most sexy trait a man can have.

From that confidence can spring some incredibly erotic games (that DO require accoutrement) and a give-and-take that is currently labeled BDSM. There are layers and levels out there that "vanilla" just can't reach. I'm still exploring, learning and screaming in orgasmic abandon.

I know that I could address my questions and comments to more. Appropriate sites. But I wonder if the every-day hobbyist thinks about power exchange when searching for a provider. Do you seek submissive little lambs? Or are you searching for a woman strong enough to make you whimper?

Let me clarify one thing before I sign off. When I speak of little lambs, be assured that true professionals still harbor the wolf beneath. When I engage in submissive play I am still the one in control at all times. The tricky part is keeping the "sheep's clothing" in place long enough to bring the fantasy to a satisfying conclusion.

V

[QUOTE=Verotica]Hello, boys. It seems as though some of these boards are stagnating. I know business is down and a lot of you can't afford escorts these days, but I also know the economy hasn't made you all less horny!

So let's talk about sex. As in tie-me-up, smack-my-ass, pull-my-hair, clamp-my-nipples and call me Georgie. THAT kind of sex.

I am a submissive female. I LOVE it when a man takes control. It doesn't have to involve accoutrement like crops or ropes; it doesn't have to be degradating or mean; I just want a man who knows what he wants. From himself and from me. Confidence (not arrogance) is the single most sexy trait a man can have.

From that confidence can spring some incredibly erotic games (that DO require accoutrement) and a give-and-take that is currently labeled BDSM. There are layers and levels out there that "vanilla" just can't reach. I'm still exploring, learning and screaming in orgasmic abandon.

I know that I could address my questions and comments to more. Appropriate sites. But I wonder if the every-day hobbyist thinks about power exchange when searching for a provider. Do you seek submissive little lambs? Or are you searching for a woman strong enough to make you whimper?

Let me clarify one thing before I sign off. When I speak of little lambs, be assured that true professionals still harbor the wolf beneath. When I engage in submissive play I am still the one in control at all times. The tricky part is keeping the "sheep's clothing" in place long enough to bring the fantasy to a satisfying conclusion.

V[/QUOTE]Wow, you get me horny just thinking about what you said, I too share your submissiveness, and I like to be the dominant one as well. I have never experienced BDSM with a pro, although I would like to someday, but I have tried it several times with my SO. I have been both the bottom and top at various times.

When I am the top I like the power of dominance over her and to force, albeit within established guidelines, my will on her and she complies. When I am the bottom, I am at ease knowing that I do not have to worry about how to please her, becuase she is the one that is deciding how to please herself by punishing me and forcing me to do things to her. The end result is pleasure for both of us.

I like this sex talk stuff.

This section has potential.

I do not see much posted on specific BDSM clubs for interested mongers to explore the fetish side. In Chicago, there is an open group Sinscenter. Com, went there once, minimal cost. Great as a voyeur. Good way to decide if this lifestyle is for you. Just be open, not judgmental, and to each his own. Any other BDSM groups worth trying in the Midwest?

CTm

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If you are near SW Ohio I have a very good friend who recommends her. She has an in Depth knowledge of this interest and an extremely well. Equipped dungeon. He tells me that she is strict without being nasty to her subbies. Very knowledgeable and skilled with electric. Stim.

According to him, this is an amazing new area which he is only now exploring.

He adds that she has a body that is astounding as well as perfect feet. Your H-E is DIY, yet somehow he did not mind, she is that special. Rates start at $.5 / hr and up with options, I. E. She can vary time and experience's

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Hey its silk and I'm a provider on the cin board I have been looking into bondage and it has grasp my interest. I'm completely new to this but would love to try it out as I'm sure it will be a crowd pleaser. Need someone experienced and will be easy teaching me nt too rough but enough to get my attention. Please feel free to pm me.

Hugs and kisses silk

Any info on Anna or Aurora posting in Louisville BP under Fetish section? Feel free to PM me with info.

All:

I thought I'the share one of the wildest experiences I have had in a long time. I was in San Francisco on business last week and went out 2 days early. By sheer coincidence, I happened upon the ultimate kink event called Dark Odyssey ([url]www.darkodyssey.com[/url]). There were over 700 'kinksters' in attendance. On Friday, Saturday and Sunday, there were over 50 classes during the day ranging from cock sucking to prostate massage to bondage training, but the evenings were wild.

On the Saturday night, I saw things that I had never imagined:

• Needle play where this woman (who was tied to a cross) must have had 100 needles threaded through her skin along both arms and both legs; thin thread was then used to connect each pair of needles in her arm and leg. When they were done, she looked like a human harp. Unbelievable.

• Tons of doms beating their subs with whips.

• Women wrapped in the heavy plastic used to wrap pallets with just a small hole to breathe.

• People suspended in mid-air by fishing hooks through their skin.

• Orgies galore.

It was the ultimate in kink and well worth the $145.

Here is a great place to meet girls.

G-rated parties where you can get numbers and arrange for private sessions later.

[url]http://www.footnight.com/[/url]

[QUOTE=ShavedCock;1600816]All:

I thought I'the share one of the wildest experiences I have had in a long time. I was in San Francisco on business last week and went out 2 days early. By sheer coincidence, I happened upon the ultimate kink event called Dark Odyssey ([url]www.darkodyssey.com[/url]). There were over 700 'kinksters' in attendance. On Friday, Saturday and Sunday, there were over 50 classes during the day ranging from cock sucking to prostate massage to bondage training, but the evenings were wild.

On the Saturday night, I saw things that I had never imagined:

• Needle play where this woman (who was tied to a cross) must have had 100 needles threaded through her skin along both arms and both legs; thin thread was then used to connect each pair of needles in her arm and leg. When they were done, she looked like a human harp. Unbelievable.

• Tons of doms beating their subs with whips.

• Women wrapped in the heavy plastic used to wrap pallets with just a small hole to breathe.

• People suspended in mid-air by fishing hooks through their skin.

• Orgies galore.

It was the ultimate in kink and well worth the $145.[/QUOTE]I've heard that it's pretty intense and great fun to watch. It's on my bucket list.

[QUOTE=DockMan;1937530]I've heard that it's pretty intense and great fun to watch. It's on my bucket list.[/QUOTE]But did not partake didn't like the price. Perhaps I should have.

[QUOTE=Toshi69;1994560]But did not partake didn't like the price. Perhaps I should have.[/QUOTE]I've played with a pro domme and it's a lot of fun. I'd never believed that it would be enjoyable, but I had a blast. She knew how much I could take and I was very satisfied at the end of the session.

Agree with what is said. First time. CBT by several petite asian dominants. I think I would have lost my head with one had I even hinted yes with my eyes.

I (male) have am in a codependent relationship with a submissive female that I seem to be addicted to how I've been taking her sexually the last year or so. She is paranoid that I'm going to leave her and will stop at nothing to keep me from breaking up with her, Yet this hasn't stopped her from being very argumentative with me. I don't know if this qualifies as a BDSM type relationship but she's always in pain when I have anal sex with her, she hates it and finds it horrible and used to always complain about it and tell me to slow down use more lube., stop taking it out "once its in leave it in" stuff, and used to make me stop. After a real bad argument one time I pretty much gave her an ultimatum. I told her I was going to do her anal and that if she didn't let me finish I was going to leave her, I was so furious at her. She reluctantly agreed and opened Pandora's box that night.

I was really angry and wanted her to feel some pain and discomfort to punish her. I didn't think she could handle it and that I'the be out the door eitherway, and this was the case at first as she would get angry and yelled at me to stop. I began gathering my clothes and things as I was really ready to leave the relationship. She starts mocking me but eventually realizes I'm serious as I start ignoring her. She starts trying to negotiate with me as I'm packing up silently ignoring her. As I'm walking out the door she starts to panic and starts crying. She wraps her self around me blocking me from leaving. Pretty much pleading to know what she can do for us to work it out. Angrily I tell her to let me finish. She disagrees I advance towards the door, she eventually agrees after a few attempts to negotiate and me rejecting them by moving to the door.

She presents her self doggy with her ass up high and her head way down on the bed. She also makes the mistake of taunting me. I forget exactly what she says but I want to remember it was some what insulting along the lines that "Your not a man". She bolts forward when I roughly thrust my penis forcefully inside of her to which I snap at her that "I'm not messing around either your going to do this or I'm out." She says nothing. She repositions and faces away from me with that face of disgust I've learned to love punishing over and over these days. Not nearly as aggressive as my first thrust I reinsert my cock in to her and start pumping. Still feeling annoyed I thrust more quickly enjoying the firm pinch of her sphincter but more so now that my speed and pressure are no longer regulated by her demands or grunts of agony. All the way in and all the way out, I can feel my cock expanding a little bit more with each thrust, and I'm guessing so does she. Her head turns around from time to time to glare at me all angry like she thinks it will intimidate me, but this just makes me more callus and I thrust harshly and till she breaks eye contact. I take little breaks now and then and pull all the way out for a while to let her close up and then start up again. It must have been working cause I see her face tense up and wince. I pull out when I see she's loosing to let her close up then repeat the penetration. Her back and body is wet from a cold sweat. Her buttocks feel cool against my hips as they slap into them. She's trying to be strong but she's starting to cry into the pillow.

Do the sounds of your woman crying during anal sex also send a chill down your spin and out your penis like a bolt? To me its almost like the sensation of biting into a lemon. Does it feel primal and natural taking her this way? Are you addicted to the sounds of her agony and desperation? I know I'm addicted but much like other addictions fail to satisfy as time goes on. I keep finding my self pushing and pushing her to the edge but stopping just before she starts screaming. One time she panicked and froze up on me and went into a fetal crouch. She wasn't even crying she just up stopped. I don't push her that hard anymore.

The strange thing is the moment I come I feel disturbed by all this I put her through and feel really bad for her. I start to cuddle and she's of course greatly relieved its all over. The holding and carerssing must be why she goes through with it. I don't know she brings the monster out of me. Its like I feel disturbed but that feeling wears off after an hour or so and its back to normal. We pretty much have anal sex exclusively and she hates it always but she knows it's a huge part of our relationship and knows her place in bed so se performs it faithfully.

I know this story may sound to fantastic to be true but Its true, and I also know I'm not alone. But I'm wondering how your relationships are? How far has your relationship gone with your submissive woman?

How far are most people willing to go when someone asks for something that's more than a little bit out there? I've drawn the line with a chick at the point of autoerotic asphyxiation to the point of her passing out (a little tightness on the neck is fine, but this chick wants too much from me).

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I've only read this one page, but Sascout, I know where you come from. I have those same demons, wanting to draw pain, but always relent after only a bit of anal torment to my wife; she abhors it (and me) when pushed into position / performed, despite her protests. I'd love to continue but guilt quickly creeps in and that's the end for me.

Incidentally, reading your post stirred my loins. Maybe later this week I'll again tackle the brown spot (we've got company preventing it until Wed.).

[QUOTE=Joesouncool;2185581]How far are most people willing to go when someone asks for something that's more than a little bit out there? I've drawn the line with a chick at the point of autoerotic asphyxiation to the point of her passing out (a little tightness on the neck is fine, but this chick wants too much from me).[/QUOTE]

I've done the choke out before. At least I think its a full choke out. She'll just collapse and I'll let go right at that point. Its funny cause it doesn't seem like she's losing consciousness because it only lasts like maby 1 second but she's always like "What happened" and she won't even remember we were having sex.

[QUOTE=Wiregrass;2240030]I've only read this one page, but Sascout, I know where you come from. I have those same demons, wanting to draw pain, but always relent after only a bit of anal torment to my wife; she abhors it (and me) when pushed into position / performed, despite her protests. I'd love to continue but guilt quickly creeps in and that's the end for me.

Incidentally, reading your post stirred my loins. Maybe later this week I'll again tackle the brown spot (we've got company preventing it until Wed.).[/QUOTE]

Well then becareful if you are ever angry at her. Cause those guilty feelings just vaporize, and it becomes an addictive method of punishment. Sometimes I'm just ready to start a fight so I can punish her.

[QUOTE=Sascout;2277359]I've done the choke out before. At least I think its a full choke out. She'll just collapse and I'll let go right at that point. Its funny cause it doesn't seem like she's losing consciousness because it only lasts like maby 1 second but she's always like "What happened" and she won't even remember we were having sex.[/QUOTE]


Oh I forgot to mention. Its not asphyxiation (Oxygen deprevasion) its just pinching off her blood supply. She should still be breathing when she goes lights out.

Evolutionary theory predicts that males would be apt to seek more mating partners than females because they obtain higher reproductive benefits from such a strategy. Accordingly, males developed many behavior strategies that allowthem to acquire more reproductively capable sexual partners. Therefore, in order to monopolize periods of more than one female's reproductive life span without being considered polygamous and thus breaking social norms of a monogamous society, males try to remarry women younger than themselves. A study done in 1994 found a significant difference between ages of remarried men and women because the men have a longer reproductive window.

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[QUOTE=Ampboner;2078528]Agree with what is said. First time. CBT by several petite asian dominants. I think I would have lost my head with one had I even hinted yes with my eyes.[/QUOTE]As a follow up. CBT with two young Vietnamese in LA. Not real experienced. Really just escorts. One almost bit the head of my cock off. Pain for real. Also a trip to the ER and to a urologist to.

To repair it further with two operations. I still am intact. A little deformed. Could have really lost it. I say to all be very careful and only play with the pro's who know when fantasy is exceeded.

All I have is this picture and the information she is currently in Detroit, Michigan. She claims she posed for Vogue and Diva.

Hi,

I am new here and have reviewed the topics, checked the lingo page, and searched my area threads for bdsm topics and providers with no luck. I used to use backpage and look on eros and craigslist but am unfamiliar with other resources. Is there a thread here on good resources? The familiar backpage women don't post in the "women seeking men" thread as much as they did special interests so I have to assume they're somewhere. I am on fetlife and collarspace but everything else I've searched for seems shady. Any help would be great.

Thanks.

[QUOTE=LoganSon;3378189]Hi,

I am new here and have reviewed the topics, checked the lingo page, and searched my area threads for bdsm topics and providers with no luck. I used to use backpage and look on eros and craigslist but am unfamiliar with other resources. Is there a thread here on good resources? The familiar backpage women don't post in the "women seeking men" thread as much as they did special interests so I have to assume they're somewhere. I am on fetlife and collarspace but everything else I've searched for seems shady. Any help would be great.

Thanks.[/QUOTE]Are you looking for a pro-Domme or a pro-sub?

I'd suggest putting an personal ad on Fetlife stating what your looking for and whether you're looking for a professional or a non pro to satisfy you. That's how I found my domme.

[QUOTE=LoganSon;3378189]Hi,

I am new here and have reviewed the topics, checked the lingo page, and searched my area threads for bdsm topics and providers with no luck. I used to use backpage and look on eros and craigslist but am unfamiliar with other resources. Is there a thread here on good resources? The familiar backpage women don't post in the "women seeking men" thread as much as they did special interests so I have to assume they're somewhere. I am on fetlife and collarspace but everything else I've searched for seems shady. Any help would be great.

Thanks.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Sascout;2084398]I (male) have am in a codependent relationship with a submissive female that I seem to be addicted to how I've been taking her sexually the last year or so. She is paranoid that I'm going to leave her and will stop at nothing to keep me from breaking up with her, Yet this hasn't stopped her from being very argumentative with me. I don't know if this qualifies as a BDSM type relationship but she's always in pain when I have anal sex with her, she hates it and finds it horrible and used to always complain about it and tell me to slow down use more lube., stop taking it out "once its in leave it in" stuff, and used to make me stop. After a real bad argument one time I pretty much gave her an ultimatum. I told her I was going to do her anal and that if she didn't let me finish I was going to leave her, I was so furious at her. She reluctantly agreed and opened Pandora's box that night.

I was really angry and wanted her to feel some pain and discomfort to punish her. I didn't think she could handle it and that I'the be out the door eitherway, and this was the case at first as she would get angry and yelled at me to stop. I began gathering my clothes and things as I was really ready to leave the relationship. She starts mocking me but eventually realizes I'm serious as I start ignoring her. She starts trying to negotiate with me as I'm packing up silently ignoring her. As I'm walking out the door she starts to panic and starts crying. She wraps her self around me blocking me from leaving. Pretty much pleading to know what she can do for us to work it out. Angrily I tell her to let me finish. She disagrees I advance towards the door, she eventually agrees after a few attempts to negotiate and me rejecting them by moving to the door.

She presents her self doggy with her ass up high and her head way down on the bed. She also makes the mistake of taunting me. I forget exactly what she says but I want to remember it was some what insulting along the lines that "Your not a man". She bolts forward when I roughly thrust my penis forcefully inside of her to which I snap at her that "I'm not messing around either your going to do this or I'm out." She says nothing. She repositions and faces away from me with that face of disgust I've learned to love punishing over and over these days. Not nearly as aggressive as my first thrust I reinsert my cock in to her and start pumping. Still feeling annoyed I thrust more quickly enjoying the firm pinch of her sphincter but more so now that my speed and pressure are no longer regulated by her demands or grunts of agony. All the way in and all the way out, I can feel my cock expanding a little bit more with each thrust, and I'm guessing so does she. Her head turns around from time to time to glare at me all angry like she thinks it will intimidate me, but this just makes me more callus and I thrust harshly and till she breaks eye contact. I take little breaks now and then and pull all the way out for a while to let her close up and then start up again. It must have been working cause I see her face tense up and wince. I pull out when I see she's loosing to let her close up then repeat the penetration. Her back and body is wet from a cold sweat. Her buttocks feel cool against my hips as they slap into them. She's trying to be strong but she's starting to cry into the pillow.

Do the sounds of your woman crying during anal sex also send a chill down your spin and out your penis like a bolt? To me its almost like the sensation of biting into a lemon. Does it feel primal and natural taking her this way? Are you addicted to the sounds of her agony and desperation? I know I'm addicted but much like other addictions fail to satisfy as time goes on. I keep finding my self pushing and pushing her to the edge but stopping just before she starts screaming. One time she panicked and froze up on me and went into a fetal crouch. She wasn't even crying she just up stopped. I don't push her that hard anymore.

The strange thing is the moment I come I feel disturbed by all this I put her through and feel really bad for her. I start to cuddle and she's of course greatly relieved its all over. The holding and carerssing must be why she goes through with it. I don't know she brings the monster out of me. Its like I feel disturbed but that feeling wears off after an hour or so and its back to normal. We pretty much have anal sex exclusively and she hates it always but she knows it's a huge part of our relationship and knows her place in bed so se performs it faithfully.

I know this story may sound to fantastic to be true but Its true, and I also know I'm not alone. But I'm wondering how your relationships are? How far has your relationship gone with your submissive woman?[/QUOTE]It really just sounds like you are sexually abusing a mentally ill woman with Borderline Personality Disorder. Probably not okay and you could likely face criminal charges if she wanted, and since Borderlines don't love anyone, she actually hates you, but she's horribly afraid of losing you due to her severe abandonment issues, she will have the last laugh as she destroys you. Be careful, you are walking on dangerous ground.

I was just wondering what you guys think the prices for pro dommes be and should I pay them more then hookers? I'm looking to explore my submissive side but don't want to be taken advantage finances wise. I have a humiliation fetish, foot fetish, and overall just want to be dominated. What are some of your experiences with Pro domme?

I don't want a professional. I am looking more for someone with like a secret kinky side. Lady in the streets, freak in the sheets type of thing.