Relationships with Massage Providers

FWIW, I had a very good session with my AMP love interest tonight. More "post-coital" snuggling and wide-ranging conversation that felt more natural and normal. Still doesn't feel like she's ready to go out with me, but I definitely felt progress. It didn't hurt that I brought she and her "friends" (mama and another gal) some holiday treats. Chosuk today, you know (Korean Thanksgiving). Brownie points with the mama never hurts. A good, new friend advised me that instead of treating just the one, that it's good to treat all (less jealousy). Good time had by all.

[QUOTE=TwistedBrother]FWIW, I had a very good session with my AMP love interest tonight. More "post-coital" snuggling and wide-ranging conversation that felt more natural and normal. Still doesn't feel like she's ready to go out with me, but I definitely felt progress. It didn't hurt that I brought she and her "friends" (mama and another gal) some holiday treats. Chosuk today, you know (Korean Thanksgiving). Brownie points with the mama never hurts. A good, new friend advised me that instead of treating just the one, that it's good to treat all (less jealousy). Good time had by all.[/QUOTE]What was it PT Barnum said "there's a sucker born every minute"

Wonder if her was Korean?

Some of us "suckers" are having the time of our lives. In fact, I've been having the time of my life for three years. SUCKER!!!!

[QUOTE=Sarang Haeyo]Some of us "suckers" are having the time of our lives. In fact, I've been having the time of my life for three years. SUCKER!!!![/QUOTE]Your only getting what you pay for!

[QUOTE=Jack Meoff2]Your only getting what you pay for![/QUOTE]Damn.This again?I thought we settled this with the group hug and we became one big happy family.

Sarang,glad to see you have joined the controversy.

Just an idea.Why don't you and I hook up one of these weekends.Of course with your S.O. and mine as well.I have planned a trip for us.

We will start out here and take one of the $120.00 'Taxi Man' rides to that beautiful city in Queens.First stop is In Spa.They open at 6:00 A.M. so we will have to leave pretty early to make a day of it.I figure we will probably dump about $800.00 between the 4 of us.Maybe 3-4 hours of jacuzzis,saunas and awesome massages(Real massages).

After that we can hit any one of the smaller restaurants on Northern for a quick lunch.Maybe $50.00.

After lunch you know we will be on our own for 2-3 hours while the little ladies run off to get their nails and hair done.LOL.They will each spend around $200.00.

During this time I figured we could go to the K-bar on the corner of Union and 34th.While we are there we could drink a couple bottles of $8.00 Buds and maybe do a couple shots of the $20.00 bottles of Soju.Maybe even flirt with 1 or 2 of the girls.Probably not. I think you and I are a little too savvy for that game.

Once we get back together with the girls it's time for some of that incredible hand made 'pang' and Korean coffee on the corner of Union and Rossevelt.$30.00. Followed buy a few hours of shopping(them).We will just check out all the other hot K-girls and hope they don't notice.A little bit of a jealous streak in them.Yes?Hopefully we don't see any past (or present) AMP sweeties that we know.A bit awkward.

They will both spend approximately $400.00.Some of that will be spent on us even if we insist we don't want it.And I wouldn't be suprised if mine bought something for you and yours.You have to love the culture.

On to dinner.Sushimi.Corner of Northern and 47th.Just over $200.00

And of course we have to end the night in true Korean style.Karaoke at one of the many Karaoke bars scattered through out the city.Watching my girl sing in Hanguk to the latest K-popstars is awesome.Beautiful woman with an awesome voice.She and her friends love my 'Dead Or Alive' Bon Jovi rendition. Hysterical.Good clean fun.
Anyway after a couple of hours of drinking Soju and acting like highschool kids with 2 classy,intelligent and good looking women it will be time to call it a night.Karaoke maybe $250.00.

A call to the 'Taxi Man' and we are on our way home.$120.00.

I'm fairly confident that either your S.O. or mine would offer to pay the entire tab for our day out.Or at least go Dutch on it.Just an idea.

After all"We only get what we pay for".

And don't forget about waking up the next morning with an 'AMP' girl next to you.Something about her being naked and her leg draped over you as you listen to that gentle little snore.Of course she denies that she snores but you know better.

Peace.

Sounds like a plan. Dutch? WTF is Dutch? I don't pay for a fucking thing with this girl.

Okay, I threw her $2500 for her Immigration Attorney's fee so she could get her GC application going. Let's see: $2500 over the course of one year (that's the shortest time it will take to get the GC); at $160 per AMP visit; that's 15.625 visits; let's call it 1.302 visits per month. I "hook up" with my AMP wife at least 20 times per month; that works out to $10.4166666666 per "hook up".

I gotta say, sounds like a good deal to me. Especially when you consider she buys all the food, pays for our vacations, buys my clothing and gives me a kick-back when she wins $$ at the casino.

What do you think Jack Meoff2? Am I getting screwed here or am I getting laid and enjoying every minute of it? Do us a favor and change your name to Jack Gofuckyourself1.

HowRich, let's get together; but w/o the girls initially. If they know each other we're fucked!

BTW: cat's out of the bag. I was the one giving advice to Twisted Brother. Tried not to go public again but fuck it.

Haywoo my brother: I see you're having your posts deleted again.

Oops! Forgot to mention I pay her portion of our Verizon bill. $55 a month. You do the math.

You guys are so funny and get so defensive over your make believe Korean AMP girlfriends.

To the guy who paid for the girls immigration paper fee's, how much does/did she make SELLING her services?

And to the the guy implying i cant get an AMP girl. SURE I CAN!

Even YOUR AMP girl, for the house fee plus tip.

I think i am indeed fighting a loosing argument. Its why there are so few who chime in on this thread.

Stupid is as stupid does-Forrest Gump

Happy Hunting

Jack

Then she leaves your place and goes to work, during the course of the day i pay her visit. Great HJ happy ending. I recommend her to all my buddies.

After a HARD day she cant wait to see you, she runs through the door and caresses your face and gives you a big kiss.


[QUOTE=HowRich]And don't forget about waking up the next morning with an 'AMP' girl next to you.

Peace.[/QUOTE]Nasty!

And I don't hug men!

Happy Hunting

or

Antibacterial soap and mouthwash

Jack

[QUOTE=Jack Meoff2]You guys are so funny and get so defensive over your make believe Korean AMP girlfriends.

To the guy who paid for the girls immigration paper fee's, how much does/did she make SELLING her services?

And to the the guy implying i cant get an AMP girl. SURE I CAN!

Even YOUR AMP girl, for the house fee plus tip.

I think i am indeed fighting a loosing argument. Its why there are so few who chime in on this thread.

Stupid is as stupid does-Forrest Gump

Happy Hunting

Jack[/QUOTE] Arguing with a guy who quotes Forrest Gump? I knew I was wasting my time.

Sarang, if you go and have Jjajangmyun with HowRich without me, then damn! I'm going to have to lay a smackdown on somebody! Some Kyo Chon Chicken doesn't sound too bad either.

I guess I'll 'chime in on this thread' since it seems to be getting interesting.

Jack, if two people get together and they are happy, then who are you to judge them? No matter what the situation may be, this country was built on 'the pursuit of happiness' so let people be. You are making overgeneralizations and just assuming things are a certain way. Of course you'll have some girls that just try and use guys to get what they need, but on the other hand, you'll have some girls that genuine and are with someone because they want to be.

Too much cynicism man. I see the glass as half full, not half empty. Think about that.

It's a lovely sentiment you're espousing but as the title of my last post suggests: we're dealing with an in-bred, backwoods, 19th century hillbilly here.

Speaking of JJG, had a delicious bowl last week in Flushing with the missus and dozens of her countrymen/women. As per usual, I was the only Caucasian in the place. Unless of course you count the busboys.

We'll have to all get together some time. That is if we can pull HJ from his new position.

[QUOTE=Sarang Haeyo]It's a lovely sentiment you're espousing but as the title of my last post suggests: we're dealing with an in-bred, backwoods, 19th century hillbilly here.

Speaking of JJG, had a delicious bowl last week in Flushing with the missus and dozens of her countrymen/women. As per usual, I was the only Caucasian in the place. Unless of course you count the busboys.

We'll have to all get together some time. That is if we can pull HJ from his new position.[/QUOTE]

Thanks Sarang, but you're still not off the hook for getting JJM without me. I'll be really pissed if you went to Sam Won Gahk to have it.

Anyway, I think this is like the third time that I've seen this topic discussed in these forums. It annoys me to no end when people just overgeneralize and make these girls out to be these money hungry bitches that will ruin your life if you get involved with them. They are people too and deserve some respect. I guess I just feel the need to defend some of my sisters or something. Too much damn negativity.

To HowRich, you really seem to know your way around Flushing. Impressive. I think In Spa sucks though. King Spa is a lot better in my opinion, but definitely less convenient since it's in Jersey.

Yup, I got my usual "favorite customer" discount from my favorite waitress who looks a lot like Sandy from Nirvana and Avalon in CT, minus the fake boobs of course.

Sorry bro', can't have you mingling with my wife. You know the situation.

You and me and the other guys though anytime.

Original thread starter back here ... Goodness, you guys are getting feisty without me!

Well, if I'm going to be honest, I'm going to have to say mixed results lately.

First, want to thank Sarang and others who've been helpful. I've also gotten some help from a few guys in Mich. who know the particular girl I was most interested in. They weren't completely discouraging, but realistic, too. And, at least with this particular girl, hasn't quite worked out as I'd hoped. There's been a point where I've had to look at the $ I was spending and the progress I was making (not enough) and had to back off a bit. But who knows what will happen from here. My penchant for variety kicked in the other week, and after a 2-3 week break from the hobby, I went to another place and got a girl who had been mediocre when I saw her 3-4 months ago. She remembered me this time and was much better ... but not necessarily LT material or anything.

Anyway, despite my relative lack of success, I remain a glass half-full person. That's who I am and that ain't changin. Personally, I'm also someone who has wavered between hobbying and trying more conventional ways of having female companionship and relationships and right now, I have at least one possibility with someone I work with. So putting more energy into that right now.

But again, I thank all who have responded, especially positively, and, for now, continue to stay at least partly in the game.

That's how much I paid in house fees and tips before I started getting it for free outside the AMP. Mine won't let me visit her at work any more and hasn't for a long time.

Three years later and I must say my initial investment; plus consequent deposits ( ie. attorney fee); has paid ENORMOUS dividends.

Much less expensive than my first wife.