Almost nabbed one in the wild
I'm getting off work the other day and as the elevator opens to the parking garage I'm greeted to the sight of a dime piece latina in a black fishnet set with black bikini under and 6 inch heels taking selfies with a tripod next to her car just two car spaces down from my car in a near empty garage lot, probably for her OF. She was a bit hesitant at first until she noticed I was just walking to my car. As I got closer she mentioned that she started to take some pics in front of my car since it was nice and didn't have plates in the front and I responded I definitely would not have minded. But just shortly after I hear someone else walking through who likely works in my same office and I definitely don't want to "play" anywhere near my job so I just left it at that. But as I left it took every ounce of strength to not go back and ask for her IG or snap.
Seeking Arrangemen / secret benefit
This thread could be a little more proactive. How's everyone's experience with seeking and secret benefits? I know seeking is filled with bots and scams rn, but for anyone who's willing to filter through all the bullshit, I'm still finding hot chicks that for decent prices. No pimps, no seedy motels. Just takes a little more patience. Will say though, the Inland Empire still feels untapped for that stuff. Jurupa Valley and San Jacinto seem to be the best cities where I'm finding hot chicks who couldn't manage a dollar to save their life LOL I saw on another post that the best time to set up a meet would be around the 25th-26th of the month, rent is coming up for most people and girls start to get desperate. I've set up a 2.5 hr meet before from the site where the girl wanted 400 but her car payment was due the next day so she basically talked herself down to 200. Three nuts for 200 bucks and just picked her up from her dad's house in Jurupa valley. But like I said, a lot of patience and a lot of other text convos with other girls that went nowhere. Feel free to reply with any more tricks of the trade or recommendations. Good luck out there fellas.
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Jurupa Valley sugarbabies
[QUOTE=JohnDoe1989;7066664]This thread could be a little more proactive.[/QUOTE]I only created this thread in January because some new member who did not have such privileges yet asked me because he wanted to "contribute". After I created this IE SD-SB sub-forum, never heard from him again. A thread is like a big-ass piano. It ain't going to move itself, and you can't just expect one dude to do all the heavy lifting. It takes many guys to move that piano from Point A to Point B.
[QUOTE=JohnDoe1989;7066664]How's everyone's experience with seeking and secret benefits? I know seeking is filled with bots and scams rn. Feel free to reply with any more tricks of the trade or recommendations. Good luck out there fellas.[/QUOTE]Everything I needed to learn or know or add to my knowledge base when I first started sugaring many years ago, I learned from reading the ENTIRE Richmond sugar thread and forum. It is a gold mine of info. All the stuff posted there is applicable to sugaring anywhere in this country, including CA.
[QUOTE=JohnDoe1989;7066664] Will say though, the Inland Empire still feels untapped for that stuff. Jurupa Valley and San Jacinto seem to be the best cities where I'm finding hot chicks who couldn't manage a dollar to save their life LOL I saw on another post that the best time to set up a meet would be around the 25th-26th of the month, rent is coming up for most people and girls start to get desperate. I've set up a 2.5 hr meet before from the site where the girl wanted 400 but her car payment was due the next day so she basically talked herself down to 200. Three nuts for 200 bucks and just picked her up from her dad's house in Jurupa valley. [/QUOTE]Ha ha hopefully we are not sugaring the same girl from Jurupa Valley OMG what a coincidence. She is a smoking hot 20 yo Cuban girl, almost skin and bones, but has amazing perky tits and cute little bubble butt. Same dates here, I pick her up at her parent's home in JV, take her to my FC, and she lets me do anything I want except anal. No condoms ever and she knows I am neutered so CIP finish. One more thing about using SM. She lost her phone and I could not contact her. So I tried messaging thru her SM account and she was so glad I did and we reconnected. Screenshot of our convo. But do not discuss graphic stuff on the app. Just establish comms, exchange digits, then take the convo off site. These sites have hall monitors and that's the fastest way for your account to get banned or restricted.
Some suggestions for sugaring, using SEEKING or Secret Benefits
I checked out a thread that another user recommended that was loaded with stuff, some things I was already practicing and some that I was still on the fence about. Regardless, they can be applied in any city or state. So for the IE dudes looking to get some broke sugar babies, here's a few things to keep in mind, whether you're new or an experienced dude. In no order of importance:
1. Don't use your real phone number. Download google voice, free and seems to work better than most texting apps. A quick google search of your real phone number can pull up your real name, address and sometimes social medial. Try to give as little real info about yourself as possible when setting up arrangements.
2. Don't ever ever send pre-send money electronically. "I need gas", "I need money for a sitter", "I have to pay my cell phone bill or else we can't meet". Fuck all that, obvious red flag of a scammer. Using the websites seeking arrangement or secret benefits, you're bound to get a lot of bullshit scammers. When you encounter one, just bail immediately. There will never be a shortage of 20 something year old girls that can't manage their money. Just move along to the next one.
3. Take the convo off the sites immediately. Some sites will flag and suspend your account for discussing P p m. Direct contact is always better.
4. Try get xxx pics / vids. I tend to use it as a test to see which girls are really serious about meeting and fucking. Tik tok influencers have brainwashed these girls into thinking dudes are just going to shower them with money without ever expecting anything in return. Even after you take the conversation off the sites, they might still expect a platonic money filled arrangement LOL fuck all that. The real ones should have no problem letting you see the goods before meeting. Also, try to avoid catfishing by getting the most recent full body nudes.
5. First meet and greet, maybe lunch or drinks with a gift. But don't be too inve$ted in the m&g if you're not fucking. Be clear with them about your expectations and what their expectations are. If you do it right, you can find a consistent SB in the area at a decent price. Avoid high P pm, avoid 2 k monthly allowance and depending on your level of patience, avoid any girl with a drug addiction. Yes, they are desperate but they're also a headache to manage. Girls like that aren't chasing the money, they're chasing the high. They're bound to steal from you or get you wrapped into some bullshit. Again, just depends on you. I personally stay away from those but I have an older friend (50 +) that likes those because they're cheap asf. His risk tolerance is much higher than mine and so is his level of patience. Just a personal preference I guess.
6. They need you more than you need them. Fuck what they say about all the "I usually get 500 to meet, and only fuck once" lmao. Remember, you have disposable income. They, usually have POS baby daddies, DUIs, in between jobs, couch surfing at friends house, living the party lifestyle (lots of ravers in the IE), getting their cars repo-ed or all of the above. Know your caps and be firm with them. If your cap is 1 k for a meet, good for you bro. But if your cap is $300 for a meet, I'd recommend starting at 200 and seeing what the girl says. She might say some bullshit like "I usually never go that low, but I'm going through some shit rn, when can you meet?" They're going to try to get the most they can from you but don't fall for that shit. Let them know they'll get their funds at the end of the full meet, none of this "oh I got a headache, I got to go" . Or "oh I just remembered, my sister said she's coming by, I got to go home". Keep your guard up at all times. Be cool, be friendly, don't fully treat them like prostitutes, but at the same time, be FIRM about the actual details of the transaction.
7. Maintain several conversations at a time. Some girls will deny for your initial proposal, but time and circumstances change all things. Most of these girls will not figure themselves out of their shitty situation and suddenly, your "low" p pm will seem a lot more enticing. Just check in on those conversations every now and then, doesn't cost you anything once you already got their phone number.
8. Not for you? Just keep browsing. Some girls are actually down to meet and fuck for a few hours but got all types of rules, sometimes only sex no head, Only on their timeline, available at weird times of the day. If it seems like too much work for a particular girl, just keep browsing through the site. There's no shortage, believe me.
9. Last but not least, just have some patience. Maybe 10 texting convos will result in one actual meeting, but maybe it's 15 sometimes. Idk, just depends on a few different variables. I'm pretty sure if you're willing to spend more $$, you'll be getting more meetings. Or maybe the new batch of girls on the sites are expecting online platonic arrangements and then you get no meetings. I really don't have a clear explanation of how it all works. But a few things are certain in my experience: I've never had to pick up / meet a girl from the sugaring websites on a track, a seedy motel, never had to deal with a pimp, never got nervous about possible law enforcement. Sure, I've been flaked on plenty of times but some people just aren't going go through with it. Fuck it, move on to the next one.
