SD / SB, SA, or WYP

I rarely go on Craigslist. But, I did earlier this week. Happened on a post wanting a SD. It was removed shortly after. I was able to email the lady before the post was flagged for removal. 23 years old, can't host. Attractive but, little large for my taste. Wanted 3 Benjamin's per visit. Seemed a little excessive since I would have to supply the meeting place. Came down to $250 but, still too much for me.

My question is, am I too cheap? Doesn't seem like a good deal to me. Feel free to PM me if you want. Thanks in advance.

[QUOTE=MtnMan11;3377961]I rarely go on Craigslist. But, I did earlier this week. Happened on a post wanting a SD. It was removed shortly after. I was able to email the lady before the post was flagged for removal. 23 years old, can't host. Attractive but, little large for my taste. Wanted 3 Benjamin's per visit. Seemed a little excessive since I would have to supply the meeting place. Came down to $250 but, still too much for me.

My question is, am I too cheap? Doesn't seem like a good deal to me. Feel free to PM me if you want. Thanks in advance.[/QUOTE]I guess that depends on what you get with your visit. If she's open to multiple hour sessions with no real restrictions, then sounds like a good deal to me. If she's more the "one and done and GTFO" kind of lady, then that's a hard pass.

[QUOTE=PianoManEvan;3378076]I guess that depends on what you get with your visit. If she's open to multiple hour sessions with no real restrictions, then sounds like a good deal to me. If she's more the "one and done and GTFO" kind of lady, then that's a hard pass.[/QUOTE]Asking 250 is premium level pricing, especially for Asheville. Speaking only for myself but I'd pass unless there was something extra being offered. Most likely a case of GPS and not taking the time on her part to evaluate the market here.

[QUOTE=MtnMan11;3377961]I rarely go on Craigslist. But, I did earlier this week. Happened on a post wanting a SD. It was removed shortly after. I was able to email the lady before the post was flagged for removal. 23 years old, can't host. Attractive but, little large for my taste. Wanted 3 Benjamin's per visit. Seemed a little excessive since I would have to supply the meeting place. Came down to $250 but, still too much for me.

My question is, am I too cheap? Doesn't seem like a good deal to me. Feel free to PM me if you want. Thanks in advance.[/QUOTE]Depending on your definition of SB. Anything you find on CL is going to be pro or UTR. If that's what your looking for then no problem. The $250 is about normal and if its a no clock watching multi hour its what your looking for. As far as the room goes that's part of it. If you stick with her then down the road you will get invited to her place. If its a one or two timer usually count on getting a room. Most normal girls don't invite strangers back to their place without some good history first. Pros and UTR usually have a room or place.

Great insight. I think I am going to pass. The more I think about it, the more that GPS is what is going on here. Honestly, if she was advertising on BP, about 1. 5 to 2 per hour would be fair.

I'm a member on S. A. But not a paying member. My question is it worth it? What can I expect out of my membership? Thanks.

[QUOTE=Mike9306;3383376]I'm a member on S. A. But not a paying member. My question is it worth it? What can I expect out of my membership? Thanks.[/QUOTE]I had a paid membership to both SA and WYP. Here's what you can expect:

You will spend A LOT of time running down potential leads to determine if they are for real or not. I would say that about 1 out of every 10 messages you send will turn into something real. And even that might be an expensive or undesirable lead. I just remember wasting lots of time and money with no guarantee of success. These SB sites are just another way to do the same thing we've been doing for years: chasing pu*sy while they try to extract as much $$ from you as possible.

GB40.

[QUOTE=Mike9306;3383376]I'm a member on S. A. But not a paying member. My question is it worth it? What can I expect out of my membership? Thanks.[/QUOTE]In Charlotte and Wilmington I have found SA to be a literal goldmine! I differ from GB40 in that I think its worth the time / effort. The quality is MUCH better and the pricing is not very different, especially when you layer in the quality of the women. I've especially found the college age to about 32 age to be the easiest to negotiate with and the ones most willing to bend to a reasonable pricing model. The 40+ are truly looking for a SD to sweep them off their feet. The younger are looking for financial gain from something they are already doing and enjoying. It's win-win! And, I have been a paying member 2 times, each for only 1 month, and I develop 15-20 numbers that I then text with. I turn 10-12 of those into "friends". Easy pickings. YMMV but I prefer SA over any other option.

[QUOTE=Mike9306;3383376]I'm a member on S. A. But not a paying member. My question is it worth it? What can I expect out of my membership? Thanks.[/QUOTE]It depends on what your looking for. Sa has everything from the pro to the everyday girl. If looking for a true sb you will need to spend time finding one. If your looking for the pro or utr then its still pretty fast moving to meet. Now since everyone has a different definition oc sb some consider the pros and utr girls one since they have a profile on sa. With the term sb girls usually expect more $$ Throw aside the known working girls you definitely have a better quality girl. If you have personally and game you can find a girl next door type. If not you can still bring the $$$ and do fine.

You have to have some game. If you are (or were) that guy who could get a date with the good looking girl in the office or at the grocery store or at a friend's social event. If you're ugly, awkward, or painfully shy, then it's not worth it.

I've done all three. The straight up dating scene, the SA scene, and the pro scene. The first option has too much baggage. I'm don't want love, I don't want to meet her family, I don't want her stuff in my house. The pros are ok if you go high class from Eros or P411. So for me, the SA women are a good compromise.

Yes, it takes time. But in the last 3 years, I've met several women that were truly great at sex. I enjoy a submissive woman. Spanking, hard face-fucking / deepthroating, anal, calling me "sir" and taking direction. Of the three avenues to pursue, the SA scene has been far more successful with finding those women. I do think that my having developed some skill in this area over forty years of mongering has helped. My best advice. Stick to women between 30 and 45 - they've already done the love and marriage bullshit and are over that urge, but they still have a good body and want some baggage free sex. There were a few in the upstate SC area that I've shared on the forum, and a few I've kept to myself. The three women I've kept to myself (one now gone) are just that good. Pretty, good body, into everything, and I do mean everything!

[QUOTE]=John HandCock;3418551]It depends on what your looking for. Sa has everything from the pro to the everyday girl. If looking for a true sb you will need to spend time finding one. If your looking for the pro or utr then its still pretty fast moving to meet. Now since everyone has a different definition oc sb some consider the pros and utr girls one since they have a profile on sa. With the term sb girls usually expect more $$ Throw aside the known working girls you definitely have a better quality girl. If you have personally and game you can find a girl next door type. If not you can still bring the $$$ and do fine.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=JustMikey;3419348]You have to have some game. If you are (or were) that guy who could get a date with the good looking girl in the office or at the grocery store or at a friend's social event. If you're ugly, awkward, or painfully shy, then it's not worth it.

I've done all three. The straight up dating scene, the SA scene, and the pro scene. The first option has too much baggage. I'm don't want love, I don't want to meet her family, I don't want her stuff in my house. The pros are ok if you go high class from Eros or P411. So for me, the SA women are a good compromise.

Yes, it takes time. But in the last 3 years, I've met several women that were truly great at sex. I enjoy a submissive woman. Spanking, hard face-fucking / deepthroating, anal, calling me "sir" and taking direction. Of the three avenues to pursue, the SA scene has been far more successful with finding those women. I do think that my having developed some skill in this area over forty years of mongering has helped. My best advice. Stick to women between 30 and 45 - they've already done the love and marriage bullshit and are over that urge, but they still have a good body and want some baggage free sex. There were a few in the upstate SC area that I've shared on the forum, and a few I've kept to myself. The three women I've kept to myself (one now gone) are just that good. Pretty, good body, into everything, and I do mean everything![/QUOTE]Sa is definitely quicker for the older monger to meet like minded younger women. The everyday girl is going to take personality and game while the girls who do this for a living its still about the $$ If your shy, ugly, awkward with no personality then that's what your still ending up with, cross overs from BP and CL.

Anyone visited with Jessica?

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/69ccfc73-ede9-4d1d-a129-425c8c0f22eb[/URL]

I know SA but what is SD SB And WYP?

[QUOTE=BCollins;3508339]I know SA but what is SD SB And WYP?[/QUOTE]Don't waste your cash. Have never met anyone off that site.

SA about 30 different women in 6 months. Like fishing in a stocked pond.

[QUOTE=Skboy;3510922]Don't waste your cash. Have never met anyone off that site.

SA about 30 different women in 6 months. Like fishing in a stocked pond.[/QUOTE]Its easy and the quality is leagues better than BP, and many less demons. Usually just college aged or mid-20's girls looking for a little extra cash.