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[QUOTE=RonDodg;5723919]Came across a provider that wanted my dick pic for verification. WTF? I responded with how about live video verification (ie Facetime). She still wanted a dick pic. I responded that both of us on the video can get naked. It's better for both our safety. She refused. I came back with unless we're both willing to show the same then I can't agree to this. I don't understand the purpose of a dick pic?[/QUOTE]I did this once with a woman I met on SA and it worked out fine and she was cute and very nice (fucked her bareback and came in her pussy too), but I'd never send one again in hindsight. I got lucky. These days, they're either going to be gay dudes looking for spank bank material or even worse some scammer who will threaten to post it online unless you pay extortion.

[QUOTE=RonDodg;5723919]Came across a provider that wanted my dick pic for verification. WTF? I responded with how about live video verification (ie Facetime). She still wanted a dick pic. I responded that both of us on the video can get naked. It's better for both our safety. She refused. I came back with unless we're both willing to show the same then I can't agree to this. I don't understand the purpose of a dick pic?[/QUOTE]I had a rant about this during the summer. The girl who wanted a dick pick never mentioned it until I arrived at the hotel and then wouldn't give me the room number until I sent a dick pick. I told her she was wasting my time because she waited until I drove there. She is a legit provider and she claimed this proves I am not a cop. Another one of those "cops can't lie or cops can't send. " girls. These girls really believe that a cop couldn't get a dick pick (not his) and send it if really wanted to bust her. I didn't send one and she didn't provide room number. I ranted last summer that if no guy would send a dick pick these girls would have to change their policy but I guess enough of you out there are sending pics so they continue. Oh well, plenty of girls don't require this so I just move on.

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[QUOTE=Bkmsw;5725165]I had a rant about this during the summer. The girl who wanted a dick pick never mentioned it until I arrived at the hotel and then wouldn't give me the room number until I sent a dick pick. I told her she was wasting my time because she waited until I drove there. She is a legit provider and she claimed this proves I am not a cop. Another one of those "cops can't lie or cops can't send. " girls. These girls really believe that a cop couldn't get a dick pick (not his) and send it if really wanted to bust her. I didn't send one and she didn't provide room number. I ranted last summer that if no guy would send a dick pick these girls would have to change their policy but I guess enough of you out there are sending pics so they continue. Oh well, plenty of girls don't require this so I just move on..[/QUOTE]I had this same issue with Lotus by Midway. She waited until I was already driving to ask for a dick pic. I told her there is no way I'm pulling out my junk in the middle of a parking lot.

[QUOTE=RonDodg;5723919]Came across a provider that wanted my dick pic for verification. WTF? I responded with how about live video verification (ie Facetime). She still wanted a dick pic. I responded that both of us on the video can get naked. It's better for both our safety. She refused. I came back with unless we're both willing to show the same then I can't agree to this. I don't understand the purpose of a dick pic?[/QUOTE]But if you use a burner phone and it's just a picture of a dick then how can they possibly blackmail you as others are saying?

[QUOTE=Fdottt;5725267]But if you use a burner phone and it's just a picture of a dick then how can they possibly blackmail you as others are saying?[/QUOTE]I didn't clarify but I'm pretty sure she wanted my face in the dick pic. Else I could have googled Dirk Diggler's thing and sent that. She was actually open to showing her tits on video but demanded I show my dick. I said unless she shows the same I wasn't going to do it.

[QUOTE=Bkmsw;5725165]I had a rant about this during the summer. The girl who wanted a dick pick never mentioned it until I arrived at the hotel and then wouldn't give me the room number until I sent a dick pick. I told her she was wasting my time because she waited until I drove there. She is a legit provider and she claimed this proves I am not a cop. Another one of those "cops can't lie or cops can't send. " girls. These girls really believe that a cop couldn't get a dick pick (not his) and send it if really wanted to bust her. I didn't send one and she didn't provide room number. I ranted last summer that if no guy would send a dick pick these girls would have to change their policy but I guess enough of you out there are sending pics so they continue. Oh well, plenty of girls don't require this so I just move on..[/QUOTE]I had one do that to me several months ago but told her I couldn't do that since I was outside in public. Dropped the idea and went to her room. On the proverbial 1 to 10 scale I rated the experience a 4.

[QUOTE=RonDodg;5725297]I didn't clarify but I'm pretty sure she wanted my face in the dick pic. Else I could have googled Dirk Diggler's thing and sent that. She was actually open to showing her tits on video but demanded I show my dick. I said unless she shows the same I wasn't going to do it.[/QUOTE]Would you then run or stay?

[QUOTE=RonDodg;5723919]Came across a provider that wanted my dick pic for verification. WTF? I responded with how about live video verification (ie Facetime). She still wanted a dick pic. I responded that both of us on the video can get naked. It's better for both our safety. She refused. I came back with unless we're both willing to show the same then I can't agree to this. I don't understand the purpose of a dick pic?[/QUOTE]Some girls (and mongers too) believe these crazy internet legends that 1) a cop has to tell you he's a cop if you ask 2) if the ad says 200 roses instead of $$ then it's not prostitution 3) a cop will never touch a escort or John (LEO check) 4) sting ads don't show faces or nudity 5) a cop would never send a picture of his dick because that would be illegal. List goes on.

[QUOTE=Bkmsw;5725165]I had a rant about this during the summer. The girl who wanted a dick pick never mentioned it until I arrived at the hotel and then wouldn't give me the room number until I sent a dick pick. I told her she was wasting my time because she waited until I drove there. She is a legit provider and she claimed this proves I am not a cop. Another one of those "cops can't lie or cops can't send. " girls. These girls really believe that a cop couldn't get a dick pick (not his) and send it if really wanted to bust her. I didn't send one and she didn't provide room number. I ranted last summer that if no guy would send a dick pick these girls would have to change their policy but I guess enough of you out there are sending pics so they continue. Oh well, plenty of girls don't require this so I just move on.

B.[/QUOTE]Got to feeling you were in Elk Grove. Next time check the parking lot for cars backed into spots with dark or tinted windows and a clear view of the hotel windows (usually back row to get a view of the full building). A handler is usually there and probably the one demanding the pic. When you get in the room and hand the money you'll see some of the providers do a quick flash of the money out the window behind he curtain. That should freak you out that it's either time for a robbery or the cops to come in if the car was undercover, but so far, no rip off that I can tell up there. Tell him to fuck off / I'm leaving enough times and they first escalate the rhetoric, and then de-escalate to a different pic demand. They just want the money. I haven't yet, but am always tempted to walk up to the car after sending the pic. I know that's just asking for serious trouble but it's pretty tempting. I just pretend I don't see them.

[QUOTE=IndigoWalk;5725872]Got to feeling you were in Elk Grove. Next time check the parking lot for cars backed into spots with dark or tinted windows and a clear view of the hotel windows (usually back row to get a view of the full building). A handler is usually there and probably the one demanding the pic. When you get in the room and hand the money you'll see some of the providers do a quick flash of the money out the window behind he curtain. That should freak you out that it's either time for a robbery or the cops to come in if the car was undercover, but so far, no rip off that I can tell up there. Tell him to fuck off / I'm leaving enough times and they first escalate the rhetoric, and then de-escalate to a different pic demand. They just want the money. I haven't yet, but am always tempted to walk up to the car after sending the pic. I know that's just asking for serious trouble but it's pretty tempting. I just pretend I don't see them.[/QUOTE]No, it was the Lombard Downers Grove area. A red head by the name of Jessica, I think. From some of the reviews I read on here it wasn't her in the pictures but very similiar. Some say she looked better in person than the pics. I had a craving for a red head and I was close (not that close but close enough) so I sought her out. What really irked me was she waited until I was in the parking lot to disclose that I was requried to send a dick pick. If she would have stated that from first contact I would have moved on. She probably thought that since I was so close I would go ahead and send one. A monger can lose some rational thinking when the prize is right there within reach. I didn't send one and because she wasted my time with the drive I didn't have any more time to set something else up. I went on to my next client in my real job. I just looked for her ad so I could provide a link but couldn't find any. Just to warn you guys not to waste time contacting her.

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I'd prefer to send a dickpick over any other form of verification because any other form of verification can be used to blackmail you.

If things go south. All they have to do is look you up on Facebook or something and start blasting the recording they made of you FaceTime verifying your "massage" in a shady motel. Kinda hard to refute that.

What are they going to do with a dickpick? Not much.

Some of you need to take time to pause and think this shit through.

If they ever ask for your name, where you're from, what you do for work (even if it sounds like they're just being friendly), lie.

It's a lot harder to fuck you over if you give them nothing but BS from a burner phone, but if they're able to say "No this is you. It's not taken out of context. Do you not work at XXXX and live in YYYY? You're already toast.

[QUOTE=Bkmsw;5726843]No, it was the Lombard Downers Grove area. A red head by the name of Jessica, I think. From some of the reviews I read on here it wasn't her in the pictures but very similiar. Some say she looked better in person than the pics. I had a craving for a red head and I was close (not that close but close enough) so I sought her out. What really irked me was she waited until I was in the parking lot to disclose that I was requried to send a dick pick. If she would have stated that from first contact I would have moved on. She probably thought that since I was so close I would go ahead and send one. A monger can lose some rational thinking when the prize is right there within reach. I didn't send one and because she wasted my time with the drive I didn't have any more time to set something else up. I went on to my next client in my real job. I just looked for her ad so I could provide a link but couldn't find any. Just to warn you guys not to waste time contacting her.

B.[/QUOTE]Have seen her many times. She required me to send the same thing when we first met. She told me it was to make sure I wasn't a cop. That her way of screening. She's good to go. Looks 10 times better in person.

[URL]https://escortbabylon.net/posts_view/73498967/8724002696[/URL]

[QUOTE=GeorgeBoyd;5730280]I'd prefer to send a dickpick over any other form of verification because any other form of verification can be used to blackmail you.

If things go south. All they have to do is look you up on Facebook or something and start blasting the recording they made of you FaceTime verifying your "massage" in a shady motel. Kinda hard to refute that.

What are they going to do with a dickpick? Not much.

Some of you need to take time to pause and think this shit through.

If they ever ask for your name, where you're from, what you do for work (even if it sounds like they're just being friendly), lie.

It's a lot harder to fuck you over if you give them nothing but BS from a burner phone, but if they're able to say "No this is you. It's not taken out of context. Do you not work at XXXX and live in YYYY? You're already toast.[/QUOTE]But such info is prerequisite for most high end escorts.

Don't know why I never thought of this one before, but I wonder if the biggest reason that efforts at decrimiliazaton haven't really bore fruit is because of the intense stigma. I don't feel it's just but so much of this society treats sex workers as livestock at best, vermin at worst.

[QUOTE=GeorgeBoyd;5730280]I'd prefer to send a dickpick over any other form of verification because any other form of verification can be used to blackmail you.

If things go south. All they have to do is look you up on Facebook or something and start blasting the recording they made of you FaceTime verifying your "massage" in a shady motel. Kinda hard to refute that.

What are they going to do with a dickpick? Not much.

Some of you need to take time to pause and think this shit through.

If they ever ask for your name, where you're from, what you do for work (even if it sounds like they're just being friendly), lie.

It's a lot harder to fuck you over if you give them nothing but BS from a burner phone, but if they're able to say "No this is you. It's not taken out of context. Do you not work at XXXX and live in YYYY? You're already toast.[/QUOTE]You can be blackmailed by sending a Dick Pic under a law that states that you are sending explicit pictures to a Minor. It's easy to prove and take you to court since you literally sent a picture of your junk and it can be verified later in court. I agree that avoiding this kind of drama is best. Even if you send a fake one, you are still sending explicit pictures to a minor (Potentially) It sounds like a scam / entrapment all the way around.

[QUOTE=OldManDupage;5730609]Have seen her many times. She required me to send the same thing when we first met. She told me it was to make sure I wasn't a cop. That her way of screening. She's good to go. Looks 10 times better in person.

[URL]https://escortbabylon.net/posts_view/73498967/8724002696[/URL][/QUOTE]Any actual reviews of her?

[QUOTE=OldManDupage;5730609]Have seen her many times. She required me to send the same thing when we first met. She told me it was to make sure I wasn't a cop. That her way of screening. She's good to go. Looks 10 times better in person.

[URL]https://escortbabylon.net/posts_view/73498967/8724002696[/URL][/QUOTE]Yep, that is the one I was talking about in an earlier post. I guess she changed her name from Jessica to Jessie. Or my memory is failing. LOL Never got to see her because of the dick pic she insists on but I have read multiple reviews she is not the girl in the picture but similar and she looks better than the girl in the pic but I have no way of knowing since I didn't see her.

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"When you get in the room and hand the money you'll see some of the providers do a quick flash of the money out the window behind he curtain. That should freak you out ".

I have noticed that a lot of girls take the money and then head over to the window. I never thought much of it, I always just assumed they were paranoid and constantly looked out the window, or were just storing the cash there. I've seen this behavior a lot, but I've never had any trouble with the girls who did it. All these girls claim to be "independent" but God knows what's really going on.

[QUOTE=BigWaffle;5740574]"When you get in the room and hand the money you'll see some of the providers do a quick flash of the money out the window behind he curtain. That should freak you out ".

I have noticed that a lot of girls take the money and then head over to the window. I never thought much of it, I always just assumed they were paranoid and constantly looked out the window, or were just storing the cash there. I've seen this behavior a lot, but I've never had any trouble with the girls who did it. All these girls claim to be "independent" but God knows what's really going on.[/QUOTE]Might I ask who plays these kinds of games and where so that I may avoid?

[QUOTE=Degen123;5739183]Any actual reviews of her?[/QUOTE]The 18 reviews in the ad isn't enough?

[QUOTE=Fdottt;5741534]The 18 reviews in the ad isn't enough?[/QUOTE]I don't trust those comments. I wouldn't even call them reviews.

[QUOTE=Degen123;5741783]I don't trust those comments. I wouldn't even call them reviews.[/QUOTE]There's comments and there's reviews. You have to leave a review though on a woman before you're allowed to read the reviews of any girl. She has 18 reviews outside the comments.

I reached out to a provider. And it turns out, she lives in the same apartment building as me. Not sure if I should see her.

Has this ever happened to you guys?

[QUOTE=CanadianGuy;5749815]I reached out to a provider. And it turns out, she lives in the same apartment building as me. Not sure if I should see her.

Has this ever happened to you guys?[/QUOTE]No, had one who was a couple of blocks over (in a very residential neighborhood) but your situation could be a total plus. I would certainly pursue it, unless of course theres another lady in your life. Then its a hard No!

[QUOTE=CanadianGuy;5749815]I reached out to a provider. And it turns out, she lives in the same apartment building as me. Not sure if I should see her.

Has this ever happened to you guys?[/QUOTE]I dated this looking hottie who lived with her mom. Never met her mom till one day I picked up this beautiful porker at a restaurant. We went back to her place and I could swear I've been there before (it had been a couple years). She was a moaner and a screamer. My ears were ringing till her daughter barged in wondering if her mother's ok. She grabbed the bedsheets leaving me completely nude with cum drizzling out of my dick. She turned on the lights and screamed," Joey, is that you"! I denied but, she said," I know that dick. Its hard to forget it"! Mom said," You know this guy"? She said, " Yes mom. He's the first guy to give me an orgasm". I wound up moving in the building and it was a turn style of sex for the next year!

[QUOTE=CanadianGuy;5749815]I reached out to a provider. And it turns out, she lives in the same apartment building as me. Not sure if I should see her.

Has this ever happened to you guys?[/QUOTE]In my hobby life the closest I ever came to it was a provider that lived maybe a block away, when she gave me her address I said no thanks. You may be thinking she's about to be the best provider ever and I'm going to be able to bang as regularly as you feel maybe get a volume discount, what you're not thinking about is what happens when you stop seeing her or if the 1st time is a one and done because it wasn't a great experience. Now you have to see her in the lobby, in the neighborhood grocery store, gas station. Elevator. What do you do when she knocks on your door when she needs a quick few hundred?

I was at Orange Park Dog Track near Jacksonville in 90's. Met a lady and after some small talk at the beer bar she that said she stripper from right up street and lost most of her money (I tend to play numbers so long shots and me were hitting good that evening). I asked if she did "private shows. " Cost me $100 and we went to her apartment up street. Got very nice two hour FBM and L1. She was very thankful. Less then four days later, with Family at Shoney's Buffet on Sunday. As I am grabbing my bacon someone snatches the two I have in my "grabbers" from me. I look up and it's her! She is in next booth from us, and of course facing me the whole time. We kept giving each other the "smirk-face. " Her and her man left before us and she gave me a nice wink / smile as she passed. Never saw her again and the place she worked was too close to home and my vehicle was very unusual so I didn't want to ever be seen there as it was too close to work / home.

[QUOTE=Jayp80;5750375]In my hobby life the closest I ever came to it was a provider that lived maybe a block away, when she gave me her address I said no thanks. You may be thinking she's about to be the best provider ever and I'm going to be able to bang as regularly as you feel maybe get a volume discount, what you're not thinking about is what happens when you stop seeing her or if the 1st time is a one and done because it wasn't a great experience. Now you have to see her in the lobby, in the neighborhood grocery store, gas station. Elevator. What do you do when she knocks on your door when she needs a quick few hundred?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=CanadianGuy;5749815]I reached out to a provider. And it turns out, she lives in the same apartment building as me. Not sure if I should see her.

Has this ever happened to you guys?[/QUOTE]I lived in a three flat and a new tenant moved in on the ground floor--lo and behold I recognized her from her ads online, she was an escort. I had never seen her and she wasn't completely my type--which is probably good as it would have been stupid as hell to see someone in the same building IMO.

[QUOTE=CanadianGuy;5749815]I reached out to a provider. And it turns out, she lives in the same apartment building as me. Not sure if I should see her.

Has this ever happened to you guys?[/QUOTE]I wouldn't recommend it, if times get tough they will be able to come to you more easily and try to beg for things or blackmail you.

[QUOTE=EyeEatAss;5750120]I dated this looking hottie who lived with her mom. Never met her mom till one day I picked up this beautiful porker at a restaurant. We went back to her place and I could swear I've been there before (it had been a couple years). She was a moaner and a screamer. My ears were ringing till her daughter barged in wondering if her mother's ok. She grabbed the bedsheets leaving me completely nude with cum drizzling out of my dick. She turned on the lights and screamed," Joey, is that you"! I denied but, she said," I know that dick. Its hard to forget it"! Mom said," You know this guy"? She said, " Yes mom. He's the first guy to give me an orgasm". I wound up moving in the building and it was a turn style of sex for the next year![/QUOTE]He is full of shit, just ignore.

[QUOTE=Jayp80;5750375]In my hobby life the closest I ever came to it was a provider that lived maybe a block away, when she gave me her address I said no thanks. You may be thinking she's about to be the best provider ever and I'm going to be able to bang as regularly as you feel maybe get a volume discount, what you're not thinking about is what happens when you stop seeing her or if the 1st time is a one and done because it wasn't a great experience. Now you have to see her in the lobby, in the neighborhood grocery store, gas station. Elevator. What do you do when she knocks on your door when she needs a quick few hundred?[/QUOTE]I know, that's what I was thinking. On one hand, it's super convenient. I don't even have to leave my place. On the other, I could run into her in the building (I did see her in the gym the other day).

[QUOTE=CanadianGuy;5751408]I know, that's what I was thinking. On one hand, it's super convenient. I don't even have to leave my place. On the other, I could run into her in the building (I did see her in the gym the other day).[/QUOTE]Who cares? Just give her a nod.

[QUOTE=Walker333;5751304]He is full of shit, just ignore.[/QUOTE]And please don't quote him, it just keeps it going. Just report it as HangingBalls and he'll get banned again.

[QUOTE=DynoJr;5751435]Who cares? Just give her a nod.[/QUOTE]It all depends on you, her, and the situation at hand.

About 10 or 12 years ago a gal I knew through mutual friends answered a CL had I'd placed looking for nude models. We were surprised to see each other but it was all good. I didn't realize til after that she did some escorting but it didn't bother me. I saw her out and about a couple times and we'd say hi but never mentioned our business. We did it again a while later and she offered me an HJ that I gladly accepted when the pics were done. We got together a couple more times after that and it was always a good time.

Fast forward a couple years I moved into a new building and who lived kitty corner from me? Yep. It was her. She texted me a bit later saying hey neighbor and we chatted for a bit. We occasionally hung out just casually like regular neighbors would. I never tried to work my way into her pants for free but I did go over to see her "on business" a couple times. If she'd gotten all dressed up for a client that didn't show she'd sometimes text and ask if I wanted to see her and give me a cheap rate. It was easy and safe and convenient and tbh I was kind of disappointed when she moved out.

[QUOTE=CanadianGuy;5749815]I reached out to a provider. And it turns out, she lives in the same apartment building as me. Not sure if I should see her.

Has this ever happened to you guys?[/QUOTE]10 percent change it works out great, 90 percent chance you end up wishing you never saw her.

[QUOTE=RichL1234;5749966]No, had one who was a couple of blocks over (in a very residential neighborhood) but your situation could be a total plus. I would certainly pursue it, unless of course theres another lady in your life. Then its a hard No![/QUOTE]I had a girl who use to stop by my ex's place when I moved in temporarily. She would come by very frequently. This woman was so fine I use to stare at her walking down the street even risking my girl noticing me stare. But this lady was so pretty it was worth it. One day in my newb stage of mongering I notice an ad on CL and I responded. Girl was literally around the corner so I went and by my luck it was her. She was also seeing someone and living with him so she needed to be discrete as well. We continued seeing each other for the next few years. She would even drive to my job and would give me car dates for the low like 30-40 sometimes even if she just needed some gas money. Some great times with her. Best part was never was required to use protection. I was living out my fantasy on the regular with her. She hinted about wanting a relationship but by that time I wasn't interested in her that way. But I liked what we had and she took the hint she the good times kept coming.

[QUOTE=Walker333;5751304]He is full of shit, just ignore.[/QUOTE]Just enjoy!

[QUOTE=Wenger;5751849]And please don't quote him, it just keeps it going. Just report it as HangingBalls and he'll get banned again.[/QUOTE]He invaded the Milwaukee massage parlor forum.

Admin told the Milwaukee massage forum to put him on ignore. He's not going to go away.

Still on the hunt for girls who are OPEN TO (notice I didn't say forcing anybody) hard gagging blowjobs, slapping, puke, degrading talk.

Or ones who will be on the receiving end of golden showers.

Anybody know some freaks who are down for this?

Let's say you're getting a massage when one gets busted. How much trouble can you actually get in?. Can LEO really go after you unless they catch you in the act?. How will they know you're not there for just a massage?. In part, I ask because my first L1 experience was at a massage parlor where I was even expecting it. Nor did I ask for it. It just happened. Can you really get in trouble for that?.