Behelit from Secret Benefits.
On the site, she lists her location as New Baltimore but she actually lives in an apartment in Algonac. When I asked her what amount she'd want to meet, she said we could just go with the flow, and before my arrival she actually said I could stay the night if I wanted. Earlier, she had divulged some of her sexual interests (she told me she liked to be "filled up" which I assume meant having a guy cum inside her, she also told me that she liked receiving anal sex and liked licking a guy's ass, and she also asked me if I was ok with getting my ass fingered, which I am personally not comfortable with but I didn't divulge that, only said I'd never experienced it). We had talked on the phone off and on for a while, and she was very quiet and wasn't much on initiating conversation, which wasn't a bad thing, just a very emotionally neutral observation. I actually disappeared for a while when we'd planned on meeting last month, primarily because she'd told me her place had needed to be fumigated for what she thought were bedbugs. The prospect of bringing bedbugs home was enough to deter and delay me at the time, but I reached out again and we talked. She told me she hadn't had a date in over a month owing to anxiety and depression. I always like to slowly and gently probe when girls tell me this, and upon arrival at her apartment (which was very nice, very clean, more spacious than I anticipated), and devoid of bugs apart from some mosquitoes owing in part I assume to her proximity to Lake St. Clair. Upon arrival it took her a few minutes to open the door, but that was fine. Physical description: she looks just like her pictures, has a beautiful face if you like short, doe eyed brunettes, she had a completely clear complexion and didn't appear to be wearing much makeup if any, and she didn't appear to need any. She was dressed modestly but her shirt was showing off enough of her boobs to reveal that they looked pretty large and very nice. Her hair was a little lighter than the photos on secret benefits, and I asked her if she'd had it lightened and she said she had. She was a little bigger than you can tell from the photos, but I would call it just curvy. She was extremely cute. She sat on a couch a ways away from me. I try to give girls as much space and time as possible, so we just talked. She really likes anime, and was watching a live stream of an urban area in Japan on her large tv. She was vaping, which has become entirely common with almost everyone I've seen. Oh, as far as hygiene, she had just showered, so I would have to say it was stellar. I did most of the initiating of the conversation. She did occasionally throw in a subtle joke. Very calm, languid demeanor. She told me she was on ssd for social anxiety. Anyways, I could tell she wasn't comfortable with me, which I hoped would change. However, I go into dates anticipating disappointment, so nothing was really bothering me. She doesn't have a car, and seemed very lonely. I didn't pry much into her life. She asked me if I could go to a gas station that was open to buy her some Twisted Tea, so I did. I am accustomed to girls in this pursuit making that request, and I had no problem doing it. Before I left to get the twisted tea, I gave her 400 and asked her if she was ok with that. She seemed fine with it, but in her dry, subtle humorous way joked that she wanted 10,000. I got the twisted tea and returned. We talked more. I sensed no improvement in her comfort level, and at one point she told me that her vape had broken so to try to be accommodating I asked her if she wanted me to get her a new one. She didn't want me to feel used, but I told her it was no problem since things weren't going so well anyways (we got along, but there was no noticeable improvement in her comfort level), so I volunteered to get one. Oh, as for the conversation, I made the mistake of complimenting her appearance in a rather nonchalant but direct way, and she retorted in a way which was cynical in that I think it bothered her that human males were primarily interested in looks. I can't stress enough that she was pretty taciturn, so initiating conversations was primarily my doing. However, she also said it annoyed her when people talked over her when she was talking. Keep in mind, all her replies were very calm, and minimally adversarial, if at all. I think I just couldn't make her comfortable. I have minimal game, as well, and suck at initiating escalation, primarily because I never want to make a girl feel uncomfortable. Anyways, I went to the gas station, and they didn't sell vapes, and the guy at the gas station told me that the only place which might be open which sold them was a place in Marine Ciy, so I relayed that to her, sort of apologized, and decided to call it a night. I just took the loss and started to drive home. I think that for the right guy who knows how to escalate, she might be extremely fun. Also, the other thing I forgot to mention was that she'd told me in our initial messages that she loved both giving oral and receiving it. So, I think the failure may have been entirely my fault, and my lack of competence at escalation. She asked where I'd gone, I apologetically told her I decided to go home. That actually may have been my downfall as well, since when I left to get the new vape, she'd only had one twisted tea, but that fact sort of unintentionally divulged what she thought of me as well. She told me before I'd left that she would have already gone through three (I bought her four), but she was only working on her first. I took that as a sign that something told her to keep her guard up with me, and that she likely didn't want to escalate or do anything. She probably wasn't attracted to me at all in person. Anyways, the next day I messaged her and she told me she didn't see things going anywhere. I legitimately have nothing bad to say about her. I don't think she was trying to con me at all, and she didn't ask for the money. I volunteered it, primarily as a good faith gesture, so she at least would know she wasn't going to get screwed over. She was really sweet, cute, did these little charming shoulder shrugs when she'd say something. I think if I'd gone back her comfort level might have improved. Some girls take a long time to get comfortable. Some girls don't like the sense that they're going to be left. It seemed through our conversation that she was hoping to make friends with benefits this way (or at least people who would see her on a regular basis). She did divulge upon my light probing that she'd had a male visitor within the last month, but all she said about the encounter was that she "wouldn't call it a date. " I suspect it was probably a more sexually assertive male who got his needs met by her in a way with wimpy pushover Spitzer couldn't. Anyways, I suspect that for a more attractive, assertive guy, she could be a lot of fun. If you like Japanese anime and comic books and stuff, you might be a good fit for her. Also, she never asked for an amount. I just gave her that, so in that sense, I think she's likely open to quite a range, and probably likes when people actually show up. I sensed no subterfuge with her. I consider the fault to have been my own. If you're a guy into really cute, curvy brunettes with big, brown eyes, it might be worth taking a shot.
