Don't mean to insult some of you. BUT.
What the hell is with us mongers these days. I've complained before, but a small sample of men has changed the game. Was just before covid and QV rates are old HH rates, HH min rates now what an hour used to be with some, and 200-250 HR for some of these horrible providers is now the norm. Pandemic and all these women are taking rates up. You have to wait for a woman to have a bad day on business for her rates to be back to normal. We are letting women demand pictures of us (WHICH I don't KNOW WHY SOMEONE WOULD SEND A PHOTO OF THEMSELVES knowing that they have record of you if they get busted by police ever or lose their phone. Buddy got contacted by police this way once). Also, what is with the deposits now. If she is that broke or ghetto to not be able to afford a risk of driving 10-15 min, then she isn't a good provider anyway. And why would anyone send a deposit to someone they don't know, not even knowing if you will hear from her again. I did this stupid thing two as a rookie years ago, and will never again. Luckily for me it wasnt too much of a loss.
Now you read all these ads, and all you hear about is EVERYTHING SHE won't DO! Never seen anything like it. Some are charging 200 and don't even do BJS anymore. Some of us are paying money and she gives you one position and won't let you touch boobs, or suck on them, daty if your into that, etc. Everything is an upsell on top of overpriced women. Then we get on and complain about how bad the service is, yet guys still go out to see these women. Take advice from guys that say a provider is bad, and skip on them. They don't change cause men keep going out to see them thinking she will like them more than the other guy and have a different service. We have to get this shit together so we can get back in control. I see guy after guy pay $$ for these bad providers.
Been hearing the same thing for years on end
[QUOTE=JohnJjjj8888;5269004]It's not about having or not having the money. It's about what we are setting the bar at what a BJ should be worth. I do have a right to pay or not pay whatever amount they post. It's not about that. It's about what we are doing to make it the norm. Shittier service from providerss and they are all charging more. Same girls charging high rates, needing you to pay for an uber for outcalls on top of your donation. Listing more things about what they won't do on their ads so men pretty much are overpaying just to ram a dick for a few pumps. Been in the hobby for about 14 years now. We used to pay for the fantasy of the women as well, now it's just come do what I tell you "trick" and get to stepping.[/QUOTE]Been in the hobby now also about 20 plus years and I was hearing the same exact thing when I started. "Prices are going up, don't over pay, the chicks used to be way better and do better yada yada yada".
You do have a right to pay what you see fit to pay and the provider has the right to seek out a rate that matches her expectation. I have been traveling the world and in every country I have been and it is always the same story. Kind of like in Endless Summer when they tour Australia and the locals tell them "you should of been here yesterday the waves were epic".
Truth is in every situation YMMV. It will always depend on you and the woman, and how you two interact and what you each feel is the right thing to do.
Young, tiny, petite is very rare in Arizona
I have just about given up since I moved to Arizona. Finding girls my style is too much effort to find. Anyone have some good tips?
[QUOTE=Geo101;5257606]I just spent 3 weeks there and I can tell you that there isn't much to find. There are tons of ads but most of them are worthless trash trying to scam in one way or another. Most of them are so damn fugly I wouldn't think twice about it. There are a few older providers that are much more attractive and have the experience to handle your needs. Of course they usually charge a little more but in my opinion it's really the only avenue. Good luck.[/QUOTE]