[QUOTE=Chicago41;4197954]I think that's true. Some of them probably use it to screen out some of us, and others probably just put it up as a menu option, meaning they're up for that type of thing. There ARE some guys out there (mostly really old guys or awkward lonely virgin type guys), who just want some hot young girl to hang out with them in public.
As for the meet and greets, I stopped bothering with girls who want those and only went with the ones who were DTF right out of the gate. The last girl who wanted a public M&G. I suggested a nice coffee place and she PMed me back all pissy and sarcastic. It turned out she wanted me to take her out on a real date to an expensive restaurant. Fuck that! Who wants to sit at dinner with a 19 year old and try to think of shit to talk about? I about reach my limit for small talk with someone like that after 15 minutes, which is all the time we need between us fucking the hell out of each other.[/QUOTE]I understand this. I've done both. But I've pretty much stopped seeing girls that want to meet without a first date. Six of my top ten lays of all time are from this site and not one of them would go home with me after our first date, much less without a first date. It's more time and it's more money. But the best girls are in it for something besides just the money. It's a lot more fun if a girl is excited to see you because you had a good time on your first date. A girl who's willing to meet at a hotel is only excited about money. It can still be fun. But it just doesn't work for me if the girl would rather not be there or doesn't care who's there when the door opens. And, again, the hottest, horniest, coolest, girls-gone-wildy girls on SA aren't even sure that they want to be on there. You're unlikely to meet them if you only look for near-pros or semi-pros.
