Long time since I flew solo
Hey, I know I'm a new face for you guys in NY. I'm coming for a visit with family for the first time in years. I was wondering if you guys can give me a hint at the local area I would appreciate it. I've messaged a few guys about Warm but have a 13 hour drive in a little hatch back. So want to find out if there is any place in Middletown, bloomingburg, Monticello area.
If you are flying solo, you need a map
I am not an expert that far into the woods, but the rub map web site should give you a listing of what's available in your area.
[QUOTE=BlueGills;6788325]Hey, I know I'm a new face for you guys in NY. I'm coming for a visit with family for the first time in years. I was wondering if you guys can give me a hint at the local area I would appreciate it. I've messaged a few guys about Warm but have a 13 hour drive in a little hatch back. So want to find out if there is any place in Middletown, bloomingburg, Monticello area.[/QUOTE]
The Quest of Sir Cheese Head
The spa offerings are lumpy, smart to do your research. 2 bills should do it if you find the right spa. Middletown maybe your best bet, hopefully others will chime in. But if you can stretch a trip to Newburgh, there is a new GFE spa, Bliss Rose Body Works (aka little britain), and there is a decent BBQ joint on the river, Billy Joe's Ribworks that is near by to make your trip truly a quest. And I have yet to make it to little britain myself, so caveat emptor.
[QUOTE=BlueGills;6789058]I did alittle digging and found a few likely places but not sure how warm or cosmo is. Price wise. Where I am in Wisconsin FS could be about $$ total.[/QUOTE]
Sir cheesehead, exile of the apple
[QUOTE=PlanetEarth;6789151]The spa offerings are lumpy, smart to do your research. 2 bills should do it if you find the right spa. Middletown maybe your best bet, hopefully others will chime in. But if you can stretch a trip to Newburgh, there is a new GFE spa, Bliss Rose Body Works (aka little britain), and there is a decent BBQ joint on the river, Billy Joe's Ribworks that is near by to make your trip truly a quest. And I have yet to make it to little britain myself, so caveat emptor.[/QUOTE]There is some ok places here but you have to go to Milwaukee or Chicago for the premium. But I have been to some FS, I know how to take the hint on an expensive or cheap date. So that's an interesting thought for the ribs. Might have to try them when I drive out because by the time I get there it will be around 8 at night so I might not make it to the spa.
Appreciate you TOFTT. Newburgh Bliss Rose Body Works aka Little Britain is SUSPECT
This was on my list to try, but not anymore.
[QUOTE=Ronscuv;6794892]Tried this place after seeing a few good reviews.
Overall horrible. Probably the worst FS spa experience I've ever had.
Went like this.
Text ahead and told available, asked to text when I arrive, and then invite me in. When I go in I'm surprised to be greeted by a man. The entry is into a make shift kitchen where he hangs out. This is a First for me. Proceed to the room and meet Nancy? She is tall, cute small top and extremely poor English, I'd say around 35. Ts was unenthusiastic but thorough, she used a wash cloth, again new to me. Back to room and get a 10 min massage, not bad. Flip and asks for $$ donation. I counter with $. 20 and agreed on $. 40. She quickly puts oil on and passes on bbq because of the oil. I ask her to clean it up and she does resulting in about 1 min BJ. She stops and HJ. I'm like what?? The cover goes on and we go mosh, she's squeezing thighs to only allow partial entry. Anyway I finished just to get it over. Still had 1/2 hour left and she's pointing to my clothes. Unbelievable!! Anyway I personally do not recommend!
Be safe all and good luck!
Pm with any q's.[/QUOTE]
Also curious about In Spa
[QUOTE=Navajo5;6798938]My symbol next to Healing Touch Spa and Tao Spa disappeared- they are HJ only. Why do you not recommend In Spa out of curiosity?[/QUOTE]In Spa has been my go to for quite some time and I always leave very happy. The girls are usually above average, fun, and receptive to whatever pleasures I am in the mood for that day.
Regarding Jefe1965's recent thoughts
Despite being on a mongering break until after tax season, I'll chime in.
Though he wasn't the first to say it, Charlie Sheen is the most known for having said something like this on a witness stand: "you don't pay a prostitute for sex, you pay them to leave. " Though such encounters are generally transactional, it doesn't mean they can't also include joy, euphoria, and even intimacy. Unfortunately, and regardless of your personal morality, etc, such encounters are nearly impossible to cultivate and evolve into a meaningful long-term "relationship" (though I've enjoyed many in my life that were close imitations). Nonetheless, and in the long run for some of us mongers, regular transactional relationships can satisfactorily fill personal internal voids including emotional (depending on one's personal needs, age, etc.). This is why I playfully refer to providers as "therapists. " They're certainly surrogates in numerous ways.
If you don't have a need for full-time companionship (especially not needing someone with whom to awaken in the morning), the monger lifestyle can easily be fulfilling, significantly less expensive, and result in more actual sex than a full-time live-in relationship.
Lastly, I, too, have successfully mongered overseas and agree extraordinary experiences with extraordinary women aren't difficult to find. As for domestic mongering in retirement, top-quality lower (ish) -cost AMPs such as Moon Blue and SDS can serve well as the necessary maintenance dose for the natural male need for novelty, the hunt, and conquest. If only AMPs would offer "to-go" rates because those damned massage tables get old after a while as I prefer the additional comfort and play options inherent in a king-sized bed.
I admire Jefe1965 for having awakened to the obsolescence of long-term legally-binding American relationships. As for overseas mongering, and though I have yet to visit Thailand or the Philippines, I recommend Medellin, Colombia and Rio in Brazil. And for those of you curious about doing so, be sure to inspect this excellent website's sister site: [URL]http://internationalsexguide.nl/[/URL].
Safe hunting, everyone.
[QUOTE=Jefe1965;6804685]I went to MB two days ago and it was pretty great. Nothing too different than what you've read here previously. That's not the purpose of this post.
I had a medical incident two weeks back and it caused me to do more reflection than normal. If you think I'm going to say that I got religion and regret my mongering ways, you would be wrong. In fact it's just the opposite. I'm an atheist and nothing will change that. I think you should live life to the fullest, while you have it. I am. This incident just underscored that belief.
I went to Thailand this past December, and banged a lot of chicks. Some were hot, some not so much. Turns out they filter their pix quite a bit once they get past the age of 30. Doesn't matter. I thoroughly enjoyed myself with whatever chick I was with. Even "old" chicks with the right attitude can be great. And younger chicks with the wrong attitude can be seriously annoying and not worth the time or money. I had one of those LT, and by the end of the night I just wanted her to leave my hotel room. Wouldn't do the basics, pretended to have a sore throat, then played Candy Crush all fucking night.
I also hooked up with a 43 year-old freelancer who was cute as hell, with a fantastic attitude. In different circumstances, I could see spending a lot of time with her. I also chatted with another freelancer who I didn't hook up with, and am still chatting with today. I'm not interested in hooking up with her on my next trip there. She's a nice person. She's 46, and looks good in clothing, but naked she has the body of a 60 to 70 year old. She's not stupid, but she only has a 2nd grade education. Both facts limit her money-making potential (freelancing or not) and she struggles to make enough money to get through the end of the month. I send her a little money at times. I'm not nave, nor do I think I can save her. She's not trying to scam me. She actually has never asked for money. I get as much out of it as she does. It amazes me that there are no social safety nets there, but that's the way it is. Who am I to judge.
I happen to be in a pretty good situation currently. I'm 58 and separated from my wife, and that makes me really happy, euphoric at times. Unfortunately we still live in the same house. Which may seem a bit unorthodox, but I have 3 1/2 years left until retirement. The house is paid off, and my bills are minimal. This means that I'm putting a lot of money away for my eventual retirement, and nothing is going to get in the way of that.
The point is that I'm grateful for the opportunity that living in this country has given me. It didn't come without hard work and sacrifices though. I'm also grateful that I found this forum when I did. You can't believe the amount of time and money I pissed away trying to get laid. There are a lot of members (on this thread and others) who freely give out guidance and info that they've learned through trial and error, or just TOFTT. Thanks for that. I'll try to add to the collective knowledge when I can.
Let me know your thoughts.
Be cool and be safe. Jefe.[/QUOTE]
Bliss Rose, Little Britain
Had to find out for myself after reading good reviews and one bad one. Someone wrote about the rooms with swinging doors with windows, the windows have covering so privacy not an issue. Green flag 1. Was lead to a room and greeted by a young cute little smiling spinner. Paid hf of. 6 and tip up front which made her happy. Green flag 2. Off to the shower, typical and thorough, very soft hands. Green flag 3. In the room I opted for no massage and no FS (I hate condoms). She was cool with that. Green flag 4. The rest was lips and tongues everywhere by both of us admiring our actions in the mirror until I eventually exploded. Green flag 5 Bottle of water and out the door. I will be back.
Bliss Rose / Little Britain. Bit more please
Positive review is good! Did you see a lineup? What was tip? Why do you like tipping up front? Since up front, any discussion of expectations?
[QUOTE=Jaboni;6807751]Had to find out for myself after reading good reviews and one bad one. Someone wrote about the rooms with swinging doors with windows, the windows have covering so privacy not an issue. Green flag 1. Was lead to a room and greeted by a young cute little smiling spinner. Paid hf of. 6 and tip up front which made her happy. Green flag 2. Off to the shower, typical and thorough, very soft hands. Green flag 3. In the room I opted for no massage and no FS (I hate condoms). She was cool with that. Green flag 4. The rest was lips and tongues everywhere by both of us admiring our actions in the mirror until I eventually exploded. Green flag 5 Bottle of water and out the door. I will be back.[/QUOTE]
Bliss Rose, Little Britain
[QUOTE=PlanetEarth;6808625]Positive review is good! Did you see a lineup? What was tip? Why do you like tipping up front? Since up front, any discussion of expectations?[/QUOTE]Monday the lineup was Amy, Anna and Grace. Grace indicated she would be there for a month. I've never been there so I rolled the dice and got Grace. Fwiw, communication was good in initial text with lineup and a pic of door 101. As for tipping, I give enough up front to suggest that I'm there for a good time. In this case 1. 6. I probably could have waited til after the shower to kick tires, but why?
Just Some Thoughts. Follow-up
Hey John Cleland, thanks for the reply and the additional mongering locations. I see that you PM'd me a while back. Sorry, I'm not logged on to this site very often. I do check it from my phone, but you don't get the PM's that way. I'll do a serious look at Medellin for one of my next trips. However, I'm currently doing research on the German FKK clubs. I may take a short trip there this summer. Over Christmas, I may go back to back to Thailand. I haven't yet satisfied my appetite for those ladies. The Philippines is also on my wish list.
A couple of other items I noticed while reading through the various threads on this site:
- Escort Service. I actually was looking into going to an escort in my area. The "escort" wanted me to buy a $200 Ebay gift card. Total scam. I read one of the threads, and was shocked by the protocol these guys have to go through when they meet an escort anywhere. They can't enter the room if the bathroom door is closed, check under the bed, check the closet, etc. Why would anyone go through with that, when there are MPs with almost guaranteed FS.
- Strip Joints. I gave up going to these places a long time ago. There aren't any decent places around anymore, and it's just a big waste of money. Guys go in there thinking there is a possibility of getting laid, and they just walk out of the place with a stiffy they have to take care of themselves. And they've probably spent more money in the long run, than if they'd gone to an MP.
- Sugar Baby sites. I tried the one with the initials "SB". It was also a scam. None of the girls I sent money to ever contacted me. And the one I had a short text convo with was just a BS sex bot. I complained to the site managers, changed all of my blurbs to "This site is a scam", and changed my picture to Mickey Mouse. Eventually they sent me my money back.
- Dating Sites. I'm on one site now. I'm a decent looking guy, financial secure, keep myself in good shape, but going a bit bald. Some of the women I see on this site don't fit that same criteria, except maybe the going-bald part. And so far I have had very little response. My pictures are of me, and I don't BS. These ladies are looking for Unicorns. I'm sure when they finally meet up with the guy, he's 50 pounds heavier and 6 inches shorter. And still living in his mom's basement.
Here's the deal, gents (for me anyway). I'm going to keep doing the mongering thing for the near future. Would I like to have a GF, now that my marriage is over? Yes, but it's going to be on my terms. I'm not kissing anyone's ass (I will literally, but not figuratively) to get laid. Like I said in my previous post, I'm in a good spot right now, but there's always room for improvement.
Finally I'll say this, a guy doesn't have to be a Brad Pitt to have value. If you're physically and financially fit, maintain a clean and neat appearance, are respectful and easy-going, etc. , YOU'RE the prize that most women in the world are looking for. We're the ones with the options. There aren't too many women who can say that.
Hope this wasn't too much of a deviation from the usual posts, I just wanted to get more of my thoughts out there.
Let me know your thoughts. Keep posting. It's all good stuff.
Jefe.
LOL, it appears Sir Cheesehead has found the holly grail
Glad you made it and found a friend. Robbed Blind? Ehhhh. I think 2 bills should be adequate. So the extra. 6 is because you smelled of cheese.
[QUOTE=BlueGills;6814164]I took the ride out to try it. I was 15 hours total on the road and wanted to have a break after everything.
Did the table shower and we do not have anything like that in WI. God, I mean that was way different. As soon as I flipped and she saw I was half up she went right for it.
Think her name was MiMi, she kept calling me Jason which was fine.
Probably in her 40's, pretty cute, slim, b cup breasts, cute little ass. And well that's all I have about her looks.
As for service, she was fucking on point. From the massage, to the flip. To negotiating. She fucking robbed me blind because I wanted it that bad that I dropped 2. 6 all in. She was worth it though. Everything was just amazing and if we had talent like that in WI that place would be closed sooo fucking hard the ground would shake.[/QUOTE]
Glad you had a great time.
[QUOTE=BlueGills;6814164]I took the ride out to try it. I was 15 hours total on the road and wanted to have a break after everything.
Did the table shower and we do not have anything like that in WI. God, I mean that was way different. As soon as I flipped and she saw I was half up she went right for it.
Think her name was MiMi, she kept calling me Jason which was fine.
Probably in her 40's, pretty cute, slim, b cup breasts, cute little ass. And well that's all I have about her looks.
As for service, she was fucking on point. From the massage, to the flip. To negotiating. She fucking robbed me blind because I wanted it that bad that I dropped 2. 6 all in. She was worth it though. Everything was just amazing and if we had talent like that in WI that place would be closed sooo fucking hard the ground would shake.[/QUOTE]Most places on both sides of the river have TS. Usually some girls like to play & tease during this time. As far as overall price goes, 2 should suffice, I had one lady who was very playful in TS so I ended up shelling out 2. 2 but you said the magic words "she was worth it". I think we all do that, when we leave an AMP or escort, we tell ourselves if it was worth it of maybe not this one again. LOL. Just be aware that if you drop 2. 6 all the time, doesn't guarantee that it will be worth it but at the end of the day, it's your money, you're choice. Glad this one worked out for you.