Deposits and Rip-offs How to avoid them
Deposits and rip-offs seem to go hand in hand. This isn't directed to those that couldn't get a piece of ass if it was sent by FedEx. They will continue to pay deposits and spin the wheel. Determined to get fucked one way or another.
This is directed to those that make a misjudgment of character and trust those they shouldn't.
For a moment let's look at the reality of a deposit. It's a simple transaction brought on by a lack of trust or some other devious means. Who carries the bulk of risk? You do. The girl will have us believe it's due to others ripping her off. Backpedal to reality. In fact, it's the easiest way for her to rip you off with little to no contact. No shared risk at all. Is it believable to think she doesn't trust you to keep your end of the deal yet trusts you enough to let you slide your dick in her? Not knowing if you are a serial killer or carry some STD or have Covid. Think about that for a moment.
Here's another dose of reality. If indeed she does not trust you for whatever reason, why on earth should you trust her? Trust should be a mutual endeavor.
There is a way to avoid the rip-off. It's simple and carries no risk of financial loss. It's something we all have at our disposal. Something we all can do. It's reliable and effective. It's foolproof. It's a tool if used by all will reduce rip-offs dramatically. So what is this amazing tool?
Here's more Reality. JUST SAY NO! NO!! NO!!
Once the girls get it through their head you are not as dumb as they think you are the sooner it will slow down or at best come to an end.
Remember, it is you and only you that determines how or where your funds go. You can get what you pay for or give your money away. If you are giving it away send some to me. You can reach me right here every day. Hell, I will at least get you a cup of coffee out of the deal. Me, I'm just an 'OL Gator.
SB vs. UTR vs. SW vs. Free Women on the Side
[QUOTE=Gator1970;5856028]I'm surprised that this even has to be said. But I guess it probably does.[/QUOTE]For a SW my comment would indeed be obvious. I have never and would never let a SW use my hotel room after I left it. I made that mistake with a UTR I had been with a few times. I thought I knew her and could trust her, so I was a softie. My lesson learned was not to trust ANY woman you are sleeping with for cash. No matter how many times you have been with her, she can turn on you in an instant. Further to that, my bad experience with a horny housewife I was seeing for free teaches me that, no matter what, a woman scorned can be a big fat thorn in your side. If you are going to vacate any type of relationship with a woman, paid for or not, it is wise to do so nicely. A woman you thought was sweet and wonderful can turn into a crazy biatch in a heartbeat with very little provocation, so there is no upside to rudely dumping her ass and pissing her off. You might feel good for a few minutes but the ensuing possible nightmare is definitely not worth it.