What in the fuck are you talking about?

[QUOTE=MachoManny;5266136]Funder, no need to defend me from the people in here who bring very little value. I have over 150+ posts and I don't think one of them is actually asking information. Sorry that I think the selection is horrible right now and I give my honest opinion which doesn't sit well with some people. Every post I make gives some sort of information whether it is negative or positive just trying to pass along whatever I can. Getting threatening pms from some members in here will never change the way I post. I actually find them funny.[/QUOTE]Except for the two that I have constantly raved about and Ginger, the selection in Charlotte has been horrible. I've never seen Ginger but I've never seen a bad post about her.

Scenario.

Its late evening, a provider is running late to your date (which you paid a security deposit), You hunt her down because she has not called you all day. She gives you excuse to why she is running late. You are OK for now, however while you waiting for her to come into town. She asks you to get her Seafood dinner and Wine. You tried to help but she gives you no specifics on the seafood she wants to eat. You finally find a seafood place that is open late. She stills does not give you specifics, you finally give up, because the waiter asking questions you cannot answer, frustrated you told tell her you don't do it then she gets upset with you. Patronizes you for not figuring it out.

Question: Do you still keep going forward this date?

Gents what's you opinion?

[QUOTE=HotPole;5266146]Molemanny and I are meeting up at Starbucks on 51 near Carolina place if anyone else want to join us? Holden are you game? I think Ticklicka has confirmed too. Now manny, don't call for back up, just friendly meetup.[/QUOTE]You need to look at the reasons why the guys in Washington got busted. (Hint, meeting at Denny's to discuss their conquests is what did it).

If you give up the anonymity we worked so hard to give you on this forum you have nobody but yourself to blame when that choice fucks you.

A2.

[QUOTE=AKAloki;5266657]Scenario.

Its late evening, a provider is running late to your date (which you paid a security deposit), You hunt her down because she has not called you all day. She gives you excuse to why she is running late. You are OK for now, however while you waiting for her to come into town. She asks you to get her Seafood dinner and Wine. You tried to help but she gives you no specifics on the seafood she wants to eat. You finally find a seafood place that is open late. She stills does not give you specifics, you finally give up, because the waiter asking questions you cannot answer, frustrated you told tell her you don't do it then she gets upset with you. Patronizes you for not figuring it out.

Question: Do you still keep going forward this date?

Gents what's you opinion?[/QUOTE]You should never make a deposit (I've learned).

[QUOTE=AKAloki;5266657]Scenario.

Its late evening, a provider is running late to your date (which you paid a security deposit), [/QUOTE]You fucked up already, the rest was just a painful way of letting you know.

[QUOTE=AKAloki;5266657]Scenario.

Its late evening, a provider is running late to your date (which you paid a security deposit), You hunt her down because she has not called you all day. She gives you excuse to why she is running late. You are OK for now, however while you waiting for her to come into town. She asks you to get her Seafood dinner and Wine. You tried to help but she gives you no specifics on the seafood she wants to eat. You finally find a seafood place that is open late. She stills does not give you specifics, you finally give up, because the waiter asking questions you cannot answer, frustrated you told tell her you don't do it then she gets upset with you. Patronizes you for not figuring it out.

Question: Do you still keep going forward this date?

Gents what's you opinion?[/QUOTE]This isn't a date, it's you getting ripped off and learning a lesson.

[QUOTE=Admin2;5266842]You need to look at the reasons why the guys in Washington got busted. (Hint, meeting at Denny's to discuss their conquests is what did it).

If you give up the anonymity we worked so hard to give you on this forum you have nobody but yourself to blame when that choice fucks you.

A2.[/QUOTE]A2 is absolutely correct. WTF do you want to meet other mongers in real life?! Anonymity is so crucial to successful mongering.

[QUOTE=AKAloki;5266657]Scenario.

Its late evening, a provider is running late to your date (which you paid a security deposit), You hunt her down because she has not called you all day. She gives you excuse to why she is running late. You are OK for now, however while you waiting for her to come into town. She asks you to get her Seafood dinner and Wine. You tried to help but she gives you no specifics on the seafood she wants to eat. You finally find a seafood place that is open late. She stills does not give you specifics, you finally give up, because the waiter asking questions you cannot answer, frustrated you told tell her you don't do it then she gets upset with you. Patronizes you for not figuring it out.

Question: Do you still keep going forward this date?

Gents what's you opinion?[/QUOTE]Your first mistake was giving a deposit. Second, I'm not an errand boy. I'm not running around trying to find you something to eat. Anytime a provider asks me to stop and get something other than swimwear, it's a deal breaker.

Lastly, she sounds like a PIA. You should've went to McDonalds and got her ass a Filet O Fish. I really dislike ungrateful people.

I would think LEO would need more evidence to bust someone that some bravado some guys said on a forum or in a Denny's? I do agree it isn't very smart to make a public announcement of a place and time you are meeting. If you want to meet some of your fellow mongers do it via backchannel. Not on a public forum where anybody can read and show up. In all the years of this, I have only met one hobbyist face to face. Announcing where and when a bunch of guys are going to show up can announce to the world who to keep an eye on and gather evidence against you.

[QUOTE=Admin2;5266842]You need to look at the reasons why the guys in Washington got busted. (Hint, meeting at Denny's to discuss their conquests is what did it).

If you give up the anonymity we worked so hard to give you on this forum you have nobody but yourself to blame when that choice fucks you.

A2.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=NCTransplant;5267348]I would think LEO would need more evidence to bust someone that some bravado some guys said on a forum or in a Denny's? I do agree it isn't very smart to make a public announcement of a place and time you are meeting. If you want to meet some of your fellow mongers do it via backchannel. Not on a public forum where anybody can read and show up. In all the years of this, I have only met one hobbyist face to face. Announcing where and when a bunch of guys are going to show up can announce to the world who to keep an eye on and gather evidence against you.[/QUOTE]I've been at this game for a good 15 years (less than many here, I'm sure). Mostly my experience has been with AAMPs. There was once a woman who owned an spa, who also gave massages. Long story short, I saw her weekly and we always had a great GFE session -- often times she would not even charge me! I nearly fell in love with her, risking my 'real life' relationship. Over time, I found that she had a previous relationship with another monger. That monger and I connected via text (both of us using burner phones) and he repeatedly asked to meet with me for a beer. I always declined. I told him I thought it would be weird to meet another monger who "loved" the same girl as me (he felt just as strongly about her but eventually moved on). He would always be pushing his request to meet up like old buddies. I would decline each and every time. He saw it as non-threatening and meeting up like old buddies. I saw it as crossing the line to an area I felt should always be out-of-bounds. It is very much a YMMV kind of thing but for me, it is never a good idea to meet with people you think you "know", whether it be in a public forum or a common girl you both bang at a spa.

[QUOTE=NCTransplant;5267348]I would think LEO would need more evidence to bust someone that some bravado some guys said on a forum or in a Denny's? I do agree it isn't very smart to make a public announcement of a place and time you are meeting. If you want to meet some of your fellow mongers do it via backchannel. Not on a public forum where anybody can read and show up. In all the years of this, I have only met one hobbyist face to face. Announcing where and when a bunch of guys are going to show up can announce to the world who to keep an eye on and gather evidence against you.[/QUOTE]You and a2 are right but I think they are just joking.

[QUOTE=NCTransplant;5267348]I would think LEO would need more evidence to bust someone that some bravado some guys said on a forum or in a Denny's? I do agree it isn't very smart to make a public announcement of a place and time you are meeting. If you want to meet some of your fellow mongers do it via backchannel. Not on a public forum where anybody can read and show up. In all the years of this, I have only met one hobbyist face to face. Announcing where and when a bunch of guys are going to show up can announce to the world who to keep an eye on and gather evidence against you.[/QUOTE]Dude, you musta been in debate club in school. This post is like, "you wrong, but here is why everything you said is true. ".

Edit- to be clear, not shitting on ya, it just made me laugh.

Self review?

[QUOTE=BigDong101;5272849]Love coming to cool cave spa have seen a few of the girls there. Have variety of women to chose from. Very sexy.

My favorite to see is Dahlia very sweet.[/QUOTE].

[QUOTE=BigDong101;5272849]Love coming to cool cave spa have seen a few of the girls there. Have variety of women to chose from. Very sexy.

My favorite to see is Dahlia very sweet.[/QUOTE]Oh let's see, a brand new user posts a positive review of a place that has gotten almost unanimous negative reviews, is very generic and offers no details or encounter stories. That's not suspicious at all.

[QUOTE=CuriousGeor;5273421]Oh let's see, a brand new user posts a positive review of a place that has gotten almost unanimous negative reviews, is very generic and offers no details or encounter stories. That's not suspicious at all.[/QUOTE]Definitely suspicious. I would agree this is a self-review. This might sound odd, but I actually do enjoy going there. I go maybe once a year. I'm not a regular hobbyist by any means. I am too scared to actually be in this hobby. Cool Cave is definitely over priced for what you get, but I feel mostly safe there and like that it is off the road so no one sees you. I have had a lot better time at Nice when I have gone there, only twice, but the parking lot is intimidating.

I'm itching for a visit somewhere and considering Cool Cave again. That's just me being a major rookie at this.