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[QUOTE=RocketDork;2635033]She called me for a car date. Then does not answer me email for 7 hours! LOL! Now Stacey wants me to come over on Friday. I bet it is not going to happen. I will report back tomorrow. Rocket Dork.[/QUOTE]I'll bet it won't happen.
I texted her to set up a meeting. No answer. A day or two later she texts me and says why I don't follow through with her when she texts me. Huh? I reply, when I'm ready to see you I get no answer from you. I saw my backup gal instead.
For what it's worth, I think the house is a really dangerous place to go. Neighbors, husband, etc. It is conceivable that she wants her husband to find out. There are plenty hotels that are pleasant enough and "notel". Cash only. Since you are not "paying her" I assume, take her to someplace nicer like Sybaris. Ron M, may have other suggestions, as do I. But also take her the lunch or something interesting.
I also juggle. I have two Chinese girlfriends, along with another dozen or so friends I see from time to time. Plus I am married. While the sex is great fun, they are really looking for a friend. Someone who talks to them. I do not pay them for sex because it would alter the relationship. But I do buy things and take them places, and talk (in my limited Chinese). Teaching them English. I've given driving lessons to other Chinese friends I've had in the past. (I'm quite the thrill seeker.) I use WeChat with them and chat every night. My biggest fear is these two women both live in Chinatown, a couple blocks from each other. I am afraid to go anyplace in Chinatown with either woman, lest I get seen by the other one. I try to keep track of where each one is every day.
So, aside from trying to make sure the relationships don't get too deep, I guess I would say stay really, really, really well organized. Try to compartmentalize. Don't talk too much. Never lend your phone. Always delete call logs, etc. Bob.
[QUOTE=JoeD999;2634534]I replied to an ad a few weeks ago. Lots of back and forth emails. We met in a public place the first time, just some kissing. The second time she wanted me at her house. She is married. She told me it is ok that her husband never comes home early. I went there and everything was fine. We did not fuck but it is coming soon. I really like this woman. She is looking for a friend and lover. I am good with that.
What do you guys think? Have you ever gone to a married woman's house before? I usually look for a hotel but she likes to be at her place.
Also, how do you guys juggle two women? I have another one who is a squirter and I can't wait to see her again. She likes hotels though! This one really soaks the place too. I have never experienced anything like it.
I am no RocketDork but I feel the key to CL women or any woman is to win her over with words first. Both of these women wanted me before we even met. Neither one wanted dick pics or sex talk in the opening emails. A lot of these women want someone they like, not just a hard penis. Just my two cents.
I just need to figure out how to deal with two of them now. Help![/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Bob521;2635181]For what it's worth, I think the house is a really dangerous place to go. Neighbors, husband, etc. It is conceivable that she wants her husband to find out. There are plenty hotels that are pleasant enough and "notel". Cash only. Since you are not "paying her" I assume, take her to someplace nicer like Sybaris. Ron M, may have other suggestions, as do I. But also take her the lunch or something interesting.
I also juggle. I have two Chinese girlfriends, along with another dozen or so friends I see from time to time. Plus I am married. While the sex is great fun, they are really looking for a friend. Someone who talks to them. I do not pay them for sex because it would alter the relationship. But I do buy things and take them places, and talk (in my limited Chinese). Teaching them English. I've given driving lessons to other Chinese friends I've had in the past. (I'm quite the thrill seeker.) I use WeChat with them and chat every night. My biggest fear is these two women both live in Chinatown, a couple blocks from each other. I am afraid to go anyplace in Chinatown with either woman, lest I get seen by the other one. I try to keep track of where each one is every day.
So, aside from trying to make sure the relationships don't get too deep, I guess I would say stay really, really, really well organized. Try to compartmentalize. Don't talk too much. Never lend your phone. Always delete call logs, etc. Bob.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the advice Bob. I am worried about fallng for the first one. She is that nice of a person. We probably will do some hotels and lunch / dinner dates in the future. I can turn this into a long term relationship which is what I want I think.
[QUOTE=JesusLovesMe;2632950]Are you talking about Sunny, the really hot white 20 something from a few years ago who went to California and disappeared?[/QUOTE]No, the Sunny from Oak Lawn.
[QUOTE=RocketDork;2635033]She called me for a car date. Then does not answer me email for 7 hours! LOL! Now Stacey wants me to come over on Friday. I bet it is not going to happen. I will report back tomorrow. Rocket Dork.[/QUOTE]Stacey didnot reply to my numerous texts or calls. What a surprise! It is what it is. Rocket Dork.
[QUOTE=RocketDork;2635620]Stacey didnot reply to my numerous texts or calls. What a surprise! It is what it is. Rocket Dork.[/QUOTE]Oh well. I told you so.
I have to apologize to start because I know I'm beating a dead horse her. I'm pretty sure this has been discussed before. I know some forum members her have some luck like RD. Can someone explain to me why the personals on Craig's even exist. I don't get the point of all these fictitious dead end adds. Is there some secret I don't know about. It's ridiculous who posts these adds. Nothing better to do. I. Would appreciate it if someone could give me some insight into it. I understand that Stacy and Wendy were Craig's advertisers. How the hell did you find them. I have there contact info which was given to me by other forum members. Thanks for taking the time to respond if you can.
[QUOTE=JesusLovesMe;2632950]Are you talking about Sunny, the really hot white 20 something from a few years ago who went to California and disappeared?[/QUOTE]I see that this has been answered in the negative by Digieonormous, as I figured, but I do greatly miss that fine young piece of ass that JesusLovesMe is referring to. I bet she's married out there now, she was a catch.
[QUOTE=CruisingY;2635770]I have to apologize to start because I know I'm beating a dead horse her. I'm pretty sure this has been discussed before. I know some forum members her have some luck like RD. Can someone explain to me why the personals on Craig's even exist. I don't get the point of all these fictitious dead end adds. Is there some secret I don't know about. It's ridiculous who posts these adds. Nothing better to do. I. Would appreciate it if someone could give me some insight into it. I understand that Stacy and Wendy were Craig's advertisers. How the hell did you find them. I have there contact info which was given to me by other forum members. Thanks for taking the time to respond if you can.[/QUOTE]The BS ads are trying to get your email address I think. There are also some game players with nothing better to do. There are crazy people also.
I have found real ones in the CE section but it is hard. You are better off posting an ad in the men seeking women section or the platonic section. Heck post in the CE section too. Say you are looking for a friend not just a fuck buddy. Read some of the guys ads in there. I bet you will see some creative writing (probably a member from here LOL). I tried dick pics but the ads I did with normal pictures got the most replies. Experiment see what works. Like others have said, CL is not easy. I have tried and given up several times. I got really lucky on my last friend. A keeper for sure.
A black bbw answered one of my ads and we agreed to meet. Nothing special, she just sorta layed there. 1st time using CL, yea right. Knew it was not going well when she checked her phone as I was going down on her. Just emailed me, she really enjoyed herself. LOL! Needs rent money and wants to see me again. Not going to see someone who checks her cellphone. Other and better fish in the sea. Rocket Dork.
[QUOTE=RocketDork;2637789]A black bbw answered one of my ads and we agreed to meet. Nothing special, she just sorta layed there. 1st time using CL, yea right. Knew it was not going well when she checked her phone as I was going down on her. Just emailed me, she really enjoyed herself. LOL! Needs rent money and wants to see me again. Not going to see someone who checks her cellphone. Other and better fish in the sea. Rocket Dork.[/QUOTE]Reminds me of the enthusiasm that Heather in wilmington displays at times. On to more fish! For you guys who are into Heather, she is also looking to cover her rent this week. Says she has a room tonight FYI.
G2.
Well I met a few BP girls and would like something on a regular basis like every week. So I'm thinking CL and see in ce section women are leaving their numbers to call. Personally I would prefer car date top only nothing crazy and no FS.
Are these ads with numbers bogus or are they dudes giving the its just a mouth pitch and also are their rates typically less than BP?
Can any of you share experience with CL ads you called.
Chiz.
[QUOTE=RocketDork;2637789]A black bbw answered one of my ads and we agreed to meet. Nothing special, she just sorta layed there. 1st time using CL, yea right. Knew it was not going well when she checked her phone as I was going down on her. Just emailed me, she really enjoyed herself. LOL! Needs rent money and wants to see me again. Not going to see someone who checks her cellphone. Other and better fish in the sea. Rocket Dork.[/QUOTE]I use the same yardstick when going to FS clubs like Arnies. If the chicks are on their cell phones I pass them by and gravitate to the one (s) looking for customers.
Gordon.
[QUOTE=LotsOLead;2634493]G2, can you please send me some info on Alyssa? Would love to meet up with her.[/QUOTE]Any update on Alyssa?
[QUOTE=RocketDork;2637789]A black bbw answered one of my ads and we agreed to meet. Nothing special, she just sorta layed there. 1st time using CL, yea right. Knew it was not going well when she checked her phone as I was going down on her. Just emailed me, she really enjoyed herself. LOL! Needs rent money and wants to see me again. Not going to see someone who checks her cellphone. Other and better fish in the sea. Rocket Dork.[/QUOTE]Met with one of my regulars. She didn't check her phone! We had a great time as usual. Rocket Dork.