Cumming to Detroit next week, staying in Greek town, anything close, better? The two clubs Downtown have never been good to me! Had a lot a good times in the" AA" club downtown, before it burned!! Like" club take out best" Thnks. DRK.
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Cumming to Detroit next week, staying in Greek town, anything close, better? The two clubs Downtown have never been good to me! Had a lot a good times in the" AA" club downtown, before it burned!! Like" club take out best" Thnks. DRK.
[QUOTE=Tractorman;2794153]What how could this be?
During yesterday's early afternoon to Bogarts (yes it was very very dead) a cute young lady informed me "private dance yes. Extras no" (no she was not the bar tender gal who sometimes, and was yesterday, dances).
I was stunned. I will not name her as I am sure her days at Bogarts will be limited.[/QUOTE]If that happens to me, I'll politely ask if she'll let me suck her tits and feel her up, and see her pussy. Regardless of her answer, I'd go up with her, and while she's not noticing, I'd pull my dick out and start jerking off. Ha ha, what's she going to do? If she walks out, then she doesn't get paid!
[QUOTE=Jooop;2800427]If its Nicky from Tycoons she is at Players.[/QUOTE]No, it's not Nikki from Tycoons. H8's is the only club that the Nikki I'm talking about ever worked at (that I know of).
[QUOTE=Incognito1234;2799823]Hey guys, I'm looking for an assist.
I used to see Nikki at H8's on a semi regular basis. Nikki is hispanic girl, big tits, heavier set, long dark hair, very pretty face. I know she got fired a while back but got the ok to go back and work there. Anyway, she's another girl that changed phone numbers frequently and the last one I have doesn't work for her, so I assume she's got another one again. I'd like to see her again, so if you have her current number or can contact her, I'd appreciate it. PM me privately.[/QUOTE]She was in there on Superbowl Sunday watching the game with some other girls. She was not dancing.
I would not have to negotiate a song limit with those eyes looking up at me. Glad I only visit occasionally or she might have my whole monger fund.
[QUOTE=Passenger;2799273]Ashley.
This is Ashley.[/QUOTE]
I haven't seen any nude dancers at the Flight Club the last few times I've been there. Anybody know if that's over or I am just not there at the right time?
Stop in Bogarts; almost all fatter chicks and not even cute.
Hop over to H8 N, an abundance of thin girls and decent looking. At least by H8 standards.
I will report back if there was anything worth pursuing.
[QUOTE=Passenger;2804597]Stop in Bogarts; almost all fatter chicks and not even cute.
Hop over to H8 N, an abundance of thin girls and decent looking. At least by H8 standards.
I will report back if there was anything worth pursuing.[/QUOTE]I was there yesterday evening as well. And you are right. Didn't see anyone I wanted to spend my money on. Stayed for an hour. An AA girl and a little older girl came to sit next to me. The older one kept flashing her nether lips and kept grabbing my crotch. When I got there one girl on the side stage kept drinking from the bottle throughout her routine. Thought about going to Henrys but I just wanted to go home. So I left and saveda few bucks.
[QUOTE=BigJimmy;2804563]I haven't seen any nude dancers at the Flight Club the last few times I've been there. Anybody know if that's over or I am just not there at the right time?[/QUOTE]One on day shift still does. Or, did within the past 2 weeks when I was there last on days. Don't recall her name but she's been there for awhile. Dark hair, thin with a great ass. I haven't seen anyone on night shift go nude in a long while.
Had never been to H8 and so took a trip that way to see what was up. Probably 10 dancers but only a couple that I'd consider a dance with. Sat at the bar, ordered a beer. A dancer calling herself Luna stepped on stage who was IMHO the best looking girl in the place by far. Tipped a few bucks during her dance and she asked if I wanted company later. Told her to stop and say hello when she finished dancing. She did, we chatted a bit and when the subject of VIP came up she offered only dances. Not was I was looking for so had to let her go. Not good with judging height but I'd say she was 5'7 ish but they all wear those 20 inch heels so could be off by a few. Long straight brunette hair, thin probably Bees on top. An 8 to 9 in the looks department. Little disappointed she wasn't offering more but what can you do. Fellow mongers, wondering if anyone knows if this Luna might be the one reported on a few times here as dancing at BTs? And if anyone knows if she's always a dance only in the VIP girl? Anyway, stayed around for a bit longer to finish my beer. Was approached by one other dancer who I thanked but no thanks didn't get her name. Left and went to the Criket.
Got to the Criket, paid the 10 $ cover and sat at a table near the stage. It was getting near midnight and the place was fairly busy when I got there. About 10 dancers there as well and a little better looking group in total than at H8. I've been to the Criket a few times before and have usually been approached within a short time but not this night. Placed a few dollars in the G-string on a girl almost a carbon copy of Luna only a bit shorter hoping she'd stop and say hello but she went off to hang with others after. Didn't get her name but she was smoking hot. Going to have to find her another day and see what might be possible. Got up and went to the smokers prison room then stood near the VIP entrance for a bit thinking I was going to leave when I was approached by a rail thin blonde who called herself anessa. Found her attractive and she quoted a benjamin for a no rush bbj. 20 more than I was hoping for but didn't feel like negotiating. She seemed sweet enough so I said, well, if it's not rushed and you promise slow and sensual I'm game. She said it will be the best you ever had. I told her I appreciated her confidence and then asked, what if it isn't? Well, she didn't offer a money back guarantee but off we went anyway. Well, her confidence was justified. Nice warm up dance and excellent not rushed BBBJ, very enjoyable even in those pathetically small closets they call VIP. Then came the bummer, she gives me a little hug and and a kiss and says that will be 2. I'm like, what happened to the 1. 0? And she said it was 4 songs as well. I said that wasn't my understanding of our agreement all I had was the 1. 0. I knew right then I had made a mistake. I know we were talking a flat rate and she knew we were talking a flat rate out in the club but it was never specifically stated that there would be no song fees included. Ended up agreeing to 1. 2 to avoid any hassle but I'll never forget to dot that I again. I would have been happy with donating the 1. 0 as her performance was great but hard to appreciate the up charge.
[QUOTE=BigJimmy;2804563]I haven't seen any nude dancers at the Flight Club the last few times I've been there. Anybody know if that's over or I am just not there at the right time?[/QUOTE]Thursday night shift had one named Kelly working last night, 5'8 about 115 , brown eyes and hair.
[QUOTE=Perusing;2806003]Then came the bummer, she gives me a little hug and and a kiss and says that will be 2... Ended up agreeing to 1. 2 to avoid any hassle...[/QUOTE]We can't let these thieving bitches get away with crap like this. I would have laughed, handed her the hundred, and said "and to think I was going to give your a tip". What's she going to do? You could say "that's all I have". The bouncer isn't going to give you a hard time. If she causes too much drama, she'll get canned. It's not hard standing up to these crack head cunts. We need to start doing that!
You really can't miss Luna from BTs. She is white, pretty, plenty of tats, very tall (5'9" I'd say), rail thin (A's only), and very goth. Wears nice outfits (never a gstring and bra), lots of makeup. She does or did suicide girl type modeling on the side and looks the part. Its been a couple years since I've seen her. Back to when BTs was decent. But she never hesitated to do FS in the VIP. 120-150 range IIRC. I assume you were at H8 north?
[QUOTE=Perusing;2806003]Had never been to H8 and so took a trip that way to see what was up. Probably 10 dancers but only a couple that I'd consider a dance with. Sat at the bar, ordered a beer. A dancer calling herself Luna stepped on stage who was IMHO the best looking girl in the place by far. Tipped a few bucks during her dance and she asked if I wanted company later. Told her to stop and say hello when she finished dancing. She did, we chatted a bit and when the subject of VIP came up she offered only dances. Not was I was looking for so had to let her go. Not good with judging height but I'd say she was 5'7 ish but they all wear those 20 inch heels so could be off by a few. Long straight brunette hair, thin probably Bees on top. An 8 to 9 in the looks department. Little disappointed she wasn't offering more but what can you do. Fellow mongers, wondering if anyone knows if this Luna might be the one reported on a few times here as dancing at BTs? And if anyone knows if she's always a dance only in the VIP girl? Anyway, stayed around for a bit longer to finish my beer. Was approached by one other dancer who I thanked but no thanks didn't get her name. Left and went to the Criket...[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Pussylicker2;2806448]We can't let these thieving bitches get away with crap like this. I would have laughed, handed her the hundred, and said "and to think I was going to give your a tip". What's she going to do? You could say "that's all I have". The bouncer isn't going to give you a hard time. If she causes too much drama, she'll get canned. It's not hard standing up to these crack head cunts. We need to start doing that![/QUOTE]I'll admit she caught me off guard. Didn't expect it as I was confident we had the correct understanding. I'll make sure it's stated specifically from here on forward. I'm a little pissed at myself now thinking back but I was feeling pretty mellow and didn't want to risk a hassle. Guess I assume the bounces will take the dancers side 9 out of 10 times and I kind of like the place. 20 bucks for a lesson learned, what can I say.
[QUOTE=Savvy123;2806561]You really can't miss Luna from BTs. She is white, pretty, plenty of tats, very tall (5'9" I'd say), rail thin (A's only), and very goth. Wears nice outfits (never a gstring and bra), lots of makeup. She does or did suicide girl type modeling on the side and looks the part. Its been a couple years since I've seen her. Back to when BTs was decent. But she never hesitated to do FS in the VIP. 120-150 range IIRC. I assume you were at H8 north?[/QUOTE]Thanks for the reply. Sounds like her. Maybe I'm not her FS type. Did see her go to the back with another guy a while after we talked. Got the impression they knew each other a little. Didn't see her for a half hour at least after they went back. Damn, I'm going to have to figure a way to up my game.
[QUOTE=Perusing;2806681]...I was confident we had the correct understanding...[/QUOTE]You had the correct understanding. She just ran a little scam on you. I never mention to the girl that this is the total price, no other charges for dances. No need to, if she says ok to a hummer for a benji, then that's what it is. I like to get my money all in one pocket, with an extra 10 for the wrist band guy. Then I can claim its all the money I have (the rest of my money is in my other pocket). These girls will back down in a second. The bouncers know the girls run scams. I'm not trying to be hard on you, I just want to give you my take. Anyway, good useful report.
[QUOTE=Incognito1234;2799646]By the way, although I didn't post the full review, I did go see Ashley last week. She said she was clean and I believe her, based on how she looks, acts and she told me exactly how many days she had been clean at that point (one hundred and twenty something), so jail and rehab must have worked for her. The weight gain is probably a big indicator that she's off of the drugs too.
Anyway, Ashley summary: Always the same great service. Nothing has changed there. BBBJ, CG, RCG and K9 finish.[/QUOTE]All these amazing reviews, but I counldnt figure out where she works.
[QUOTE=HighFlier1222;2806950]All these amazing reviews, but I counldnt figure out where she works.[/QUOTE]Henry's North on Middlebelt.
[QUOTE=Pussylicker2;2806844]You had the correct understanding. She just ran a little scam on you. I never mention to the girl that this is the total price, no other charges for dances. No need to, if she says ok to a hummer for a benji, then that's what it is. I like to get my money all in one pocket, with an extra 10 for the wrist band guy. Then I can claim its all the money I have (the rest of my money is in my other pocket). These girls will back down in a second. The bouncers know the girls run scams. I'm not trying to be hard on you, I just want to give you my take. Anyway, good useful report.[/QUOTE]We need to have a separate topic on the board started for known upsell / ripoff strippers. The one that's already up seems more directed toward BP and escorts.
Got out of work early Saturday afternoon (we have had to work on Saturdays too for the past few weeks due to the approaching deadline) and decided to drop in at Landing Strip. It was kinda slow. Not too many dancers. I was approached by Mandy and an AA girl whose name I forget. But neither one of them were my type. Lacy caught my attention so I tipped her on stage. She came to me after a while. She appeared to be a little too tame for my liking going by my conversation with her so I declined her offer for a dance (she didn't offer anything else and I never bring it up unless they talk about it first.) After a little over an hour and two redbulls, I made my exit and headed to Inkster. Stopped at H89. Didn't like what I saw. I saw Pixie with other customers but I didn't want to go to the back with her this time. So I left with a pass for Bogarts. Eye candy was a wee bit better than H8 N. Didn't see anyone I liked in particular but tipped a girl who was a bit of a tease on stage. Forgot her name, but it started with be. Caucasian, 5'5" about 150 lbs. After chatting with her a while, I decided to try her out. I wasn't looking for anything much by that time, so I settled with her for 0. 8 and got an average time with her. She did allow FIV and DATY. We had not talked about song counts but she stayed for 5 songs. They called her to stage at the end of the fourth but she wanted to stay for one more song and she did. Certainly not my ATF material but I was glad she was not rushing it.
I frequent clubs when I get time and try to stay myself with dances only and maybe light touching of tats only. I sometimes get so attracted to for some sexy dancers that I'm worried that I may give into their requests for any extras and worried I may catch some infections or something from them.
Are there any clubs and dancers who will not hint or discuss extras and will not offer these extras during lap dances?
Any advice from seniors here on how to identify girls of these types since I done want to say 'ok' during my weak moments.
Ask her if she does extras when you start talking if she says no then say great because you only want dances and not to be pressured into extras. All the clubs have dancers who don't do extras. Good luck and have fun.
[QUOTE=RaviFrequent;2808143]I frequent clubs when I get time and try to stay myself with dances only and maybe light touching of tats only. I sometimes get so attracted to for some sexy dancers that I'm worried that I may give into their requests for any extras and worried I may catch some infections or something from them.
Are there any clubs and dancers who will not hint or discuss extras and will not offer these extras during lap dances?
Any advice from seniors here on how to identify girls of these types since I done want to say 'ok' during my weak moments.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=RaviFrequent;2808143]I frequent clubs when I get time and try to stay myself with dances only and maybe light touching of tats only. I sometimes get so attracted to for some sexy dancers that I'm worried that I may give into their requests for any extras and worried I may catch some infections or something from them.
Are there any clubs and dancers who will not hint or discuss extras and will not offer these extras during lap dances?
Any advice from seniors here on how to identify girls of these types since I done want to say 'ok' during my weak moments.[/QUOTE]I wouldn't know of any way to actually identify the girls that you're looking for. I mean, every club in the metro area is basically a brothel and I've never been to any of them where extras aren't available with pretty much every girl there. I do know there are girls who do "regular" dances for guys, apparently like the type you want, for whatever reasons. Whether it's fear of disease or maybe the guys feel like they're being unfaithful to their wives or girlfriends if they do anything more.
Anyway, since you're paying the per dance fee or whatever you negotiate, I can't imagine the girls would have any problem at all with just doing regular dances with light touching. Why is it an issue to tell them before you go back that you just want regular dances and not to mention or offer extras? That seems to be a very simple solution to you problem.
So, tonight (Monday) I went and saw Ashley at Henry's North. She was very much sober and said that had only one drink and was still clean from the drugs. Apparently, after her ex died, it jolted her enough to get herself clean and in a better place. Honestly, I believe that it has and that she's very serious and committed to the life change.
Anyway, we talked for a bit and she was telling me about her boyfriend. They've been dating about a month but he's VERY jealous. He obviously knows that she's a dancer and she tells him that she just does regular dances. I guess she told him that she did differently in the past but that she doesn't anymore. After a bit more conversation, we went to the VIP.
Just as we got back there, the phone rang. She said "shhhhh" and started talking to him while we're in the room. They start arguing and she's telling him that she's just with a regular and doing regular dances and that she wouldn't lie to him. He was telling her that he was going to come up there and so on and so on. I seriously considered leaving the VIP, because I figured it would be my luck that I'd be pumping away and the curtain would open and her boyfriend would start attacking me, all while I was half dressed. When I pointed that out to her, she said "He ain't coming up here, I'm sure". Well, we did our normal deed (BBBJ, CG, RCG and K9) but I chose to be faster than usual, because of the scenario I just mentioned.
Anyway, while we were getting our clothes back together, she was telling me about him. She kept saying that he's Mexican and crazy, that he's young and carries a gun and had spent some time in prison. He's extremely jealous (obviously) and I get the impression that he's mean to her. When I asked her why she was be with someone like that, she said "I like the bad boys, I like the ones that tell me to shut the fuck up and that I'm being a *****". She said I don't know why I like bad boys but I do. Truthfully, I'm amazed. Oh yeah, despite his extreme jealousy and constant tracking her, apparently, he's a loser. She told me that he has no job and that it's not like he's bringing any money in.
Even though he may not be visually able to verify that she's still doing the same as she always has, I can't imagine that he's that much of a fool, regardless of what she's telling him. I don't know what to say about all of this. Maybe watch your back? From the sounds of it, it sounds like he may be the type to just kind of hide in the club to spy on her and then follow someone out to harass them after they've been in the back with her.
Quite honestly, this makes me think twice about going in the back with her again, while she's still with this guy. Crazy boyfriends carrying guns are wild cards and you never know what they're capable of.
Additionally, I've been told that Tia has a "habit" and I was very surprised to hear that. She just didn't strike me as the type but I wouldn't know unless it was painfully obvious. When I mentioned that my last trip to the back with Tia included upselling, I was told that she's been known to do that.
[QUOTE=Shelby65;2808272]Ask her if she does extras when you start talking if she says no then say great because you only want dances and not to be pressured into extras. All the clubs have dancers who don't do extras. Good luck and have fun.[/QUOTE]Try TOYCHEST in Dearborn. No curtains, extras are very rare.
[QUOTE=RaviFrequent;2808143]I frequent clubs when I get time and try to stay myself with dances only and maybe light TOUCHING OF TATS (emphasis added) only. I sometimes get so attracted to for some sexy dancers that I'm worried that I may give into their requests for any extras and worried I may catch some infections or something from them.
Are there any clubs and dancers who will not hint or discuss extras and will not offer these extras during lap dances?
Any advice from seniors here on how to identify girls of these types since I done want to say 'ok' during my weak moments.[/QUOTE]You enjoy touching tattoos? I guess if that works for you, good on yuh!
Anyway, you just need to tell the chick what you want and what your limits are. I do that before the session begins, and ask her what she's comfortable with and her limits. After that, it seems, I never have any issues with upsell bullshit. Give that a try anywhere you like. It has worked well for me at BT's in Dearborn. Happy hunting.
This ashley you are all talking about, would she happen to be of mixed ethniticity with apot leaf tattoo on her back?
I see a lot of you go to bogarts or H8, these clubs seems popular on this thread. I have never been to any of these. My personal favorites are coli, PH, players. Obviously because of the dancer quality. How do these clubs compare to my favorites? Dancer quality and club environment. Also suggest any other clubs with similar quality to my favorites.
[QUOTE=RaviFrequent;2808143]I frequent clubs when I get time and try to stay myself with dances only and maybe light touching of tats only. I sometimes get so attracted to for some sexy dancers that I'm worried that I may give into their requests for any extras and worried I may catch some infections or something from them.
Are there any clubs and dancers who will not hint or discuss extras and will not offer these extras during lap dances?
Any advice from seniors here on how to identify girls of these types since I done want to say 'ok' during my weak moments.[/QUOTE]I almost think you're mocking us, and I should call "Poe's Law". But, I know I go back and get worked up and ask about BBFS, and some of the girls do it. So I know what you mean about being weak. Regardless of what you discuss before you get in the back room, once you're in the back room, you could always say "will you suck my dick for an extra $50 (or $100 or whatever), and most girls will smile and start sucking. I have several ideas for you.
1) Are you worried about getting a hand job from a girl? Hand jobs can be great, and they're more economical. The girls like them too.
2) How about you touch her tats while you chock your own chicken (I. E. , jack off)? Tell her before you go back that you want to do that and get a fixed price.
3) If you don't like the above 2 suggestions, I'd suggest you go to clubs that don't have curtains. Then you can't get extras even if you want.
The main thing is to tell the girl what you want to do, and ask her for a price. Even if you're at a club with no curtains, if you're chatting it up with a girl, tell her how it turns you on to touch a girls tats, and look for her reaction. Since your requirements are so much easier to fulfill than those of most perverts who frequent the club (and talk about it on forums like this), I think she'll be happy to be a good performer for you.
Even though the girls "only" make $20 / song, they don't have to gargle or douche after, so they like clean dances too.
Tell us how it works our for you!
[QUOTE=RaviFrequent;2808143]I frequent clubs when I get time and try to stay myself with dances only and maybe light touching of tats only. I sometimes get so attracted to for some sexy dancers that I'm worried that I may give into their requests for any extras and worried I may catch some infections or something from them.
Are there any clubs and dancers who will not hint or discuss extras and will not offer these extras during lap dances?
Any advice from seniors here on how to identify girls of these types since I done want to say 'ok' during my weak moments.[/QUOTE]Toychest was mentioned earlier, I think another Detroit club that has no extras would be Bouzoukis. Open VIP room and no extras but a lot of grindage. Kind of a throwback to the pre 2000 days.
Bouzoukis is in Downtown Detroit next to the Greektown Casino.
Also, there is a run down little hole in the wall in Mt. Clemens called the Traffic Light. No VIP room, Lap Dances are $15 and are out in the open in the booths along the wall of the club.
Its pretty much a dive with a gravel parking lot, but they are known for having great burgers during lunch- if you're out in Macomb County this one would probably be a winner.
Good Luck and hope you find what you want, I think most of the discussion here is going to be the clubs where guys are looking for the extras.
[QUOTE=Pussylicker2;2809079]
Even though the girls "only" make $20 / song, they don't have to gargle or douche after, so they like clean dances too.
[/QUOTE]LOL! Just in case you're ever wondering why there's a rush on mouthwash at the 7-11's, near the clubs.
[QUOTE=Incognito1234;2808354]I wouldn't know of any way to actually identify the girls that you're looking for. I mean, every club in the metro area is basically a brothel and I've never been to any of them where extras aren't available with pretty much every girl there. I do know there are girls who do "regular" dances for guys, apparently like the type you want, for whatever reasons. Whether it's fear of disease or maybe the guys feel like they're being unfaithful to their wives or girlfriends if they do anything more.
Anyway, since you're paying the per dance fee or whatever you negotiate, I can't imagine the girls would have any problem at all with just doing regular dances with light touching. Why is it an issue to tell them before you go back that you just want regular dances and not to mention or offer extras? That seems to be a very simple solution to you problem.[/QUOTE]I agree with your comment that I can talk upfront with the girl about my requirements.
If girl is capable of doing extras I don't want to end up in a situation that she agrees for bareback stuffs.
Even though we agreed for dance only.
I want to make sure that even during my weakest moments during dances, the girl will not / never provide extra's and this way, even.
If I want to have some extra fun with girl and if it crosses my mind, this will never happen since the girl will never provide to me.
This way. I don't want to end up in a BareBack / FS situations which exposes body fluids during extras.
[QUOTE=Pussylicker2;2809079]I almost think you're mocking us, and I should call "Poe's Law". But, I know I go back and get worked up and ask about BBFS, and some of the girls do it. So I know what you mean about being weak. Regardless of what you discuss before you get in the back room, once you're in the back room, you could always say "will you suck my dick for an extra $50 (or $100 or whatever), and most girls will smile and start sucking. I have several ideas for you.
1) Are you worried about getting a hand job from a girl? Hand jobs can be great, and they're more economical. The girls like them too.
2) How about you touch her tats while you chock your own chicken (I. E. , jack off)? Tell her before you go back that you want to do that and get a fixed price.
3) If you don't like the above 2 suggestions, I'd suggest you go to clubs that don't have curtains. Then you can't get extras even if you want.
The main thing is to tell the girl what you want to do, and ask her for a price. Even if you're at a club with no curtains, if you're chatting it up with a girl, tell her how it turns you on to touch a girls tats, and look for her reaction. Since your requirements are so much easier to fulfill than those of most perverts who frequent the club (and talk about it on forums like this), I think she'll be happy to be a good performer for you.
Even though the girls "only" make $20 / song, they don't have to gargle or douche after, so they like clean dances too.
Tell us how it works our for you![/QUOTE]I'm worried about point 1 since during HJ request, there is a possibility of girl spitting on my chicken to loosen it up. Haha. BTW I don't.
Think this will be even necessary for me, since I take dances, only when I'm wet and lubricated enough along with condoms on to avoid any.
Spill off on my inner garments. This is to primarily avoid any body fluids exchange ie. , vaginal and saliva. Should I be worried about.
Sweat exchange from dancers during my lap dances??
Since normally they sometimes dance back-to-back and are most of times sweating. I know I'm kinda sounding weird about sweat.
But hey, I don't want to repent later for some temporary fun which I have during lap dance moments. I suppose you understand what.
I mean.
I'm kinda eager to try point 2, let me try and report back.
On point 3, I want to have some privacy during dances and have been going to clubs with curtains. Maybe I have to try without.
Curtains, and this may be a new experience for me. I will have this only list.
BTW, is it ok to discuss with girl about my "fantasies" since I've been under the impression that it may sound rude and don't want to.
Offend girls by discussing them.
[QUOTE=Tom70;2808618]You enjoy touching tattoos? I guess if that works for you, good on yuh!
Anyway, you just need to tell the chick what you want and what your limits are. I do that before the session begins,
and ask her what she's comfortable with and her limits. After that, it seems, I never have any issues with upsell bullshit.
Give that a try anywhere you like. It has worked well for me at BT's in Dearborn. Happy hunting.[/QUOTE]Yes, I will ask girl about her limits and what she is comfy with. I'm used to asking if I can touch tats only during dances.
Some say 'yes' some say 'no'.
I will try Dearborn soon, its little drive from my place, but I'm eager to try this place.
[QUOTE=RaviFrequent;2809458]I'm kinda eager to try point 2, let me try and report back.[/QUOTE]Be sure to take a handful of napkins with you.
[QUOTE=RaviFrequent;2809458]... Maybe I have to try without curtains, and this may be a new experience for me.[/QUOTE]I liked the clubs that just had one big room that everyone would share.
[QUOTE=RaviFrequent;2809458] I'm used to asking if I can touch tats only during dances. Some say 'yes' some say 'no'.[/QUOTE]This is why most experienced mongers always negotiate with the girl EVERYTHING you want to do in the back BEFORE you go back. I can't imagine a girl saying no to that request if you ask her at your table before you go back. In the back your request might catch them off guard. When you're at the table talking, you could say something like "tattoos on girls really turn me on. I get excited by them, and I love to touch them. If we go to the VIP, would you mind if I touched your tattoos while I jack off?
[QUOTE=RaviFrequent;2809458]
... BTW, is it ok to discuss with girl about my "fantasies" since I've been under the impression that it may sound rude and don't want to offend girls by discussing them.[/QUOTE]That depends on what your fantasies are. If you fantasize about sex with animals, keeping a woman in a cage, or you day dream about hurting people, that would be considered creepy. But if you have pretty tame fantasies, that would be all right. If you're not sure if it's too creepy or not, you could ask the forum.
I am not sure if it is appropriate to post this here since it is not a report or Detroit related. If it is not appropriate, admin please remove it.
So I was browsing YouTube this morning and came upon a video dated yesterday (Feb 23,2016) titled "First Strip Club Experience.
STORYTIME" by a girl named Ashley ortega. So she is talking about her first ever visit to a strip club on her 19th birthday. And in this video blog of hers, she kept referring to male strip club patrons as 'creepy men'. She said that so many times.
Are we mongers really so creepy?
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BTW, is it ok to discuss with girl about my "fantasies" since I've been under the impression that it may sound rude and don't want to.
Offend girls by discussing them.[/QUOTE]When a girl asks me "want to go for a dance" I always respond with a confident "Well, what I really like to do is. " and you can fill in the blanks from there. It's a good icebreaker and will relax most girls knowing you're not LEO because you're being specific about what you want. Be confident about it, tell her what you want. If she isn't down with it, she'll move on and you'll find one willing to help you out.
From the sounds of your other concerns you really need to have a set of clothes that you only wear to clubs. Keep them in a duffel or backpack and if you have a significant other find a place to easily hide it. Or buy a shirt / pants on the way and toss them out afterwards.
I know this is SC101 but we've all had to go through it. Hope this helps.
[QUOTE=Everest;2809900]I am not sure if it is appropriate to post this here since it is not a report or Detroit related. If it is not appropriate, admin please remove it.
So I was browsing YouTube this morning and came upon a video dated yesterday (Feb 23,2016) titled "First Strip Club Experience.
STORYTIME" by a girl named Ashley ortega. So she is talking about her first ever visit to a strip club on her 19th birthday. And in this video blog of hers, she kept referring to male strip club patrons as 'creepy men'. She said that so many times.
Are we mongers really so creepy?[/QUOTE]LOL I'd like to think we're not but I'm sure a 19 yo seeing a SC for the first time seeing older guys with girls half their age would probably look creepy to her.
That said, it never fails there's always that one guy standing in the back staring at the girls on stage, drooling into his drink. Or the worst one for me is the cheapo manhandler guy who grabs or slaps every girl's tits or ass that walks by but never tips or does a dance.
[QUOTE=Nccb69;2810213]LOL I'd like to think we're not... [/QUOTE]I'm sure some of the girls I do have grandfathers younger than me. I like to think I'm a nice guy. I've tipped my waitress $50 for letting me feel her tits and butt. But sure, we're creeps. The girls at the clubs are used to us, so they have a high tolerance for creepiness. I tell them I want to do BBBJ CIM and FUTB. I get turned down a lot, but they've all heard it before. The girls I do regularly seem to like me.