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[QUOTE=Dasus;5089584]Any advice to avoid scams? I'm new to this and I'm not asking who why'all had but I would like to know just the basics of what the scams. Much appreciated and pm welcome as well.[/QUOTE]Don't over pay and never send money to a stranger online. Pretty universal rule as far as being financially sound in all walks of life.
[QUOTE=ZeppDawg33;5089321]Of course there are scammers on there but most of the ones I contact are legit. I have to end up picking and choosing which one I will meet and which ones won't.
Basically I have to turn down 10 to 15 pieces of pussy a month. And when I do meet. I fuck 90% of them. If I made more money I could easily fuck 20 different women every month. It's easy pickins.
.[/QUOTE]You could fuck 30 women a month regardless of money. All these bitches out here fucking you just got to play the numbers game.
[QUOTE=Dasus;5089584]Any advice to avoid scams? I'm new to this and I'm not asking who why'all had but I would like to know just the basics of what the scams. Much appreciated and pm welcome as well.[/QUOTE]Rule #1, NEVER give ANY money in advance. No deposits, no safety advances, no paying in advance when have already seen them a few times so you feel comfortable. Just don't do it.
Rule #2 , have a budget and stick to it. You are in control, they need your money and there are unlimited chicks out there.
Rule #3, be careful what personally identifying info you give out to any of them.
Also, try to always be clean and respectful, that goes a long ways.
Another scmmer.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/472834f5-f4c5-4c8a-bb9a-4ff7b5acbda0[/URL]
Not seeking arrangements but their sister site. Does this girl look familiar? Met up with her and she seems pretty put together and didn't suggest that she wanted a p4p arrangement until the second date was getting planned. Then I felt there was some expertise in her approach.
[URL]https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/lmz6PW1dL0k7VRD0qEbwMDy8[/URL]
I am not a member so the link didn't work for me.
[QUOTE=Member#2227;5091596]Not seeking arrangements but their sister site. Does this girl look familiar? Met up with her and she seems pretty put together and didn't suggest that she wanted a p4p arrangement until the second date was getting planned. Then I felt there was some expertise in her approach.
[URL]https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/lmz6PW1dL0k7VRD0qEbwMDy8[/URL][/QUOTE]
Hi,
I don't offer money or gifts, I just want someone to suck my cock.
[QUOTE=HollowGuy;5091280]Another scmmer.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/472834f5-f4c5-4c8a-bb9a-4ff7b5acbda0[/URL][/QUOTE]
Help me understand the economics of this.
$90/ month messaging access.
$200-$300 per visit donation.
$100 hotel room??
Is that the standard arrangement?
[QUOTE=HollowGuy;5091280]Another scmmer.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/472834f5-f4c5-4c8a-bb9a-4ff7b5acbda0[/URL][/QUOTE]Not necessarily a scam, there are plenty of chumps out there willing to spend hundreds just to have a pretty girl pay attention to him. That's practically Onlyfans whole business model.
[QUOTE=DocHolliday35;5092119]Help me understand the economics of this.
$90/ month messaging access.
$200-$300 per visit donation.
$100 hotel room??
Is that the standard arrangement?[/QUOTE]Messaging access is something I haven't heard in my 4 months of experience. If you are referring to membership fee yes it is 90 or 200-220 for 3 months. And the donation part it depends as some senior members say, it's a number game that you have to draw the right card and it differs but for most part 200-350 always works and the place of meet it entirely depends on location and rating.
[QUOTE=DocHolliday35;5092119]Help me understand the economics of this.
$90/ month messaging access.
$200-$300 per visit donation.
$100 hotel room??
Is that the standard arrangement?[/QUOTE]Unfortunately, that's largely true. You can on occasion get a discount on the SA fee, it was $67 over the weekend. There are lots of ladies who will do the low end of your scale and even a little lower depending on the circumstances. There are also some unicorns out there who can host. So it is possible to see someone closer to $200 total. Don't be surprised if you have to contact a lot of SBs to find that circumstance.
[QUOTE=Harley32;5092662]Unfortunately, that's largely true. You can on occasion get a discount on the SA fee, it was $67 over the weekend. There are lots of ladies who will do the low end of your scale and even a little lower depending on the circumstances. There are also some unicorns out there who can host. So it is possible to see someone closer to $200 total. Don't be surprised if you have to contact a lot of SBs to find that circumstance[/QUOTE]Is it typical to meet first then discuss the money? Had several suggest this.
[QUOTE=Harley32;5092662]Unfortunately, that's largely true. You can on occasion get a discount on the SA fee, it was $67 over the weekend. There are lots of ladies who will do the low end of your scale and even a little lower depending on the circumstances. There are also some unicorns out there who can host. So it is possible to see someone closer to $200 total. Don't be surprised if you have to contact a lot of SBs to find that circumstance[/QUOTE]I always wanted to see if SA was worth it. So I took on sale. And honestly in the first 12 hours I got multiple message from scammer, actually with varying price ranges but as someone the post says stick to your budget you be good. I've take to girls fro.
100 to 600 so there is something for wallet. But it does require work on our end to actively look into it a bit. I got to say a lot of them are smart and know what they want and upfront about it.
Does anyone know how to get senior status. Not sure where to put this question in the forum.
[QUOTE=DocHolliday35;5092709]Is it typical to meet first then discuss the money? Had several suggest this.[/QUOTE]I rarely discuss an allowance prior to meeting & if a girl does, to me it gives off a Pro-type vibe. My current girl is a 23 year old student, we meet weekly at my house for about 4 hours, it's usually a netflix type date with wine & a bit of 420. $200 & sex is bare with CIP or CIM.
[QUOTE=DocHolliday35;5092119]Help me understand the economics of this.
$90/ month messaging access.
$200-$300 per visit donation.
$100 hotel room??
Is that the standard arrangement?[/QUOTE]You don't necessarily need to keep renewing access to SA every month. The way it works for me is that I'll sign up for a month with one of those Vanilla Visa cards with a 100 on it and then make several contacts, moving them off to text, kik, email etc.
When the automatic renewal occurs, there'll be no money left on the debit card and they'll cancel access for you. Then, just enjoy all the contacts you made until it's time to refresh your catalogue.
But yeah, many can't host so if you're married, not many options for getting around the hotel expense.
[QUOTE=YeOldHornDawg;5093310]You don't necessarily need to keep renewing access to SA every month. The way it works for me is that I'll sign up for a month with one of those Vanilla Visa cards with a 100 on it and then make several contacts, moving them off to text, kik, email etc.
When the automatic renewal occurs, there'll be no money left on the debit card and they'll cancel access for you. Then, just enjoy all the contacts you made until it's time to refresh your catalogue.
But yeah, many can't host so if you're married, not many options for getting around the hotel expense[/QUOTE]Exactly right. Following this method and doing your homework worst case gives you prospects for months. And if you're lucky, you'll find that one mind blowing regular so you'll not have to re-up for awhile. You can also cancel auto renewal just prior to your subscription months end.
[QUOTE=SeekingHead;5093181]I rarely discuss an allowance prior to meeting & if a girl does, to me it gives off a Pro-type vibe. My current girl is a 23 year old student, we meet weekly at my house for about 4 hours, it's usually a netflix type date with wine & a bit of 420. $200 & sex is bare with CIP or CIM.[/QUOTE]I have had several arrangements similar to this except at the young woman's home or apartment. Some were 200 some were 300. Typically about three hours and the sex is great. Kissing, anal, cim, all bare. I never talk money on SA, usually waiting for the first meet at bar or coffee shop, occasionally thru texting. It takes work, but I get to nail women half my age and the ones who go for this sort of dating are usually very open in terms of sexual activities.
[QUOTE=YeOldHornDawg;5093310]You don't necessarily need to keep renewing access to SA every month. The way it works for me is that I'll sign up for a month with one of those Vanilla Visa cards with a 100 on it and then make several contacts, moving them off to text, kik, email etc.
When the automatic renewal occurs, there'll be no money left on the debit card and they'll cancel access for you. Then, just enjoy all the contacts you made until it's time to refresh your catalogue.
But yeah, many can't host so if you're married, not many options for getting around the hotel expense.[/QUOTE]I've found quite a few who are open to car dates as well. Depends on your style / goals.
I signed up for SA bc of this site a few months ago and within 2 hours of signing up, I was meeting someone for fun. Didn't expect it to go so smoothly. I get 30-50 messages a day, about 50% wanting to only sell pics or from out of the country.
I've been banned a few times tho 😂. I'm very direct with what I'm seeking. No need to waste time on BS.
[QUOTE=Dasus;5092980]Does anyone know how to get senior status. Not sure where to put this question in the forum.[/QUOTE]I believe it's 25 posts plus 6 months active account.
[QUOTE=GoneForGood97;5093433]I believe it's 25 posts plus 6 months active account.[/QUOTE]I guess I would have to post under one forum 25 posts? That ain't to hard meeting 4 this week and next. 2 Asian and 2 white so should be fun.
New to the sugar world but thanks to all the senior members who posted tips about finding one and SeekingHead thanks for PM tips that really worked. Be respectful and stick to what we want to offer if it goes well, will have fun.
MichelleBady.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/5eb2d60e-1fb2-4eff-a46f-66c96524434e[/URL]
Started at 350 -450 and settled for 300, not my type and it is possible to get fun after first date but did not feel like meeting again. Meetup fee is 200 YMMV.
Sarah1250.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/fa9f8308-7b11-42b8-90e0-ebddb9ca8363[/URL]
Pic Seller and Onlyfans page. Said will be interested to meet but will have to buy access to her onlyfans page.
IlovePlants240.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f57325a9-40cd-4b4a-b25b-7d14eb7e8242[/URL]
Looking for long term cannot host but wants 300-400 ppm and pics look good and consistent.
LillyPadd07.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7d8806fb-a834-4cf8-b1c1-2c6f4cd3dd7a[/URL]
Wants 1000 for every two weeks and does not do PPM, YMMV.
IcyTing.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/79bff1c8-ff8e-47ed-a357-e6f58888e1c2[/URL]
This girl seems to be so real and after started talking she changed her interests to platonic and wants do stay that way for.
At least 3-4 dates. After that she is not sure.
Pia122198.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/41768518-835a-4217-93e2-dfbb2e86dbb2[/URL]
Very bad in communication takes days to reply back. Finally settled to 250.
KimberliK.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/367d7bad-5ec6-41b4-95f5-9ca81447eeb1[/URL]
Wants 600 per meet decided to try but within two weeks the profile got changed by different pictures.
Sophia.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3b0a70fd-9fca-4fd9-b739-9c61fcb3a9d7[/URL]
Moved to text and wants to begin online first and then may be. Not falling for this.
Pinky?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f5d6c5d9-994f-46a0-9c87-6d9e8f1e8182[/URL]
Blocked me I guess but the last one does only online pics.
If any one have a different experience or reason to persist any one in the list post thread or PM is welcome.
Sometimes it feels to go with RR girls instead of spending lot of time, but few experiences make it monger in sugar world. Stay safe.
I just paid for another membership and replied to these chic's that messaged me. First one below. She wanted $200 ppm. I told her this weekend, but she said she wouldn't be around on the weekend. Right! She wanted me to come to her right away. She then said I could come for 30 minutes $100. She gave me her address to some apartments on the Southwest side of Atlanta. Never went though as she wouldn't tell me what we were going to do. 1st 2 pics.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2d8cc1b3-daf6-4927-bc82-c56381c687a7[/URL]
This one below told me to get a hotel room and she'll cum through. Hmm. I never trust chic's that mention hotel rooms. Anyways, she said $200/ hr, $300/2 hrs, etc. Pics 3 and 4.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ee4ad904-a5a5-4d60-9ae0-56baaa1c6f57[/URL]
This one below host in Buckhead and wants $575 every 2 weeks. Eer. Not so sure. I hate messing around with anything in Buckhead. Last 2 pics.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d4f4a21e-ebb0-4a35-8940-698bb980951f[/URL]
[QUOTE=DocHolliday35;5092709]Is it typical to meet first then discuss the money? Had several suggest this.[/QUOTE]I don't. I don't live in Atlanta so I discuss EVERYTHING upfront. I have no problem doing a meet and greet but I say that I'd like to discuss details subject to a meet and greet going well. That way I don't waste either of our's time if expectations aren't matching up. I'm a bit of a value shopper so this is necessary for me.
I took advantage of the Thanksgiving sale and I haven't gotten much done today as a result. LOL.
It seems like you are putting in your due diligence. Keep it up. Like any natural cycle there will be ups and downs. I have gone 2 or 3 weeks with little or no success on SA to weeks the pussy is just flowing in and I can't see them all. I'm embarrassed to say have spent way to much money on pussy until a friend on this forum taught me better. He will know who he is as soon as he reads this. Meet and greets should be for the meal and or drinks only. If you want to throw $25 or so for a baby sitter it makes sense but not much more. You should be able to find all the pussy, and I'm talking good pussy you want for 200 to 300 per meet for 2 or more hours. My problem early on is I had no patience and agreed to higher prices early in the game. Play it cool and with time the pussy will come around. It has happened many times for me and I know that now because my sensei has made me wise.
I have chatted with "IlovePlants240" and had an arrangement set up after she agreed to my price but she never showed. So personally I wouldn't pursue her again.
Pia122198 looks good to me. Did you meet her for 250. If so how was it?
Again thanks for your report out.
May the pussy be with you!
SD.
[QUOTE=SandyGeet;5093700]New to the sugar world but thanks to all the senior members who posted tips about finding one and SeekingHead thanks for PM tips that really worked. Be respectful and stick to what we want to offer if it goes well, will have fun.
MichelleBady.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/5eb2d60e-1fb2-4eff-a46f-66c96524434e[/URL]
Started at 350 -450 and settled for 300, not my type and it is possible to get fun after first date but did not feel like meeting again. Meetup fee is 200 YMMV.
Sarah1250.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/fa9f8308-7b11-42b8-90e0-ebddb9ca8363[/URL]
Pic Seller and Onlyfans page. Said will be interested to meet but will have to buy access to her onlyfans page.
IlovePlants240.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f57325a9-40cd-4b4a-b25b-7d14eb7e8242[/URL]
Looking for long term cannot host but wants 300-400 ppm and pics look good and consistent.
LillyPadd07.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7d8806fb-a834-4cf8-b1c1-2c6f4cd3dd7a[/URL]
Wants 1000 for every two weeks and does not do PPM, YMMV.
IcyTing.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/79bff1c8-ff8e-47ed-a357-e6f58888e1c2[/URL]
This girl seems to be so real and after started talking she changed her interests to platonic and wants do stay that way for.
At least 3-4 dates. After that she is not sure.
Pia122198.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/41768518-835a-4217-93e2-dfbb2e86dbb2[/URL]
Very bad in communication takes days to reply back. Finally settled to 250.
KimberliK.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/367d7bad-5ec6-41b4-95f5-9ca81447eeb1[/URL]
Wants 600 per meet decided to try but within two weeks the profile got changed by different pictures.
Sophia.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3b0a70fd-9fca-4fd9-b739-9c61fcb3a9d7[/URL]
Moved to text and wants to begin online first and then may be. Not falling for this.
Pinky?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f5d6c5d9-994f-46a0-9c87-6d9e8f1e8182[/URL]
Blocked me I guess but the last one does only online pics.
If any one have a different experience or reason to persist any one in the list post thread or PM is welcome.
Sometimes it feels to go with RR girls instead of spending lot of time, but few experiences make it monger in sugar world. Stay safe.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Dasus;5093535]I guess I would have to post under one forum 25 posts? That ain't to hard meeting 4 this week and next. 2 Asian and 2 white so should be fun.[/QUOTE]I don't think it matters if you post 25 under one forum or post in 25 different places. When your account becomes 6 months old I assume the admin reviews it. Now, I don't know if the post quality matters at all. Like if you have 25 posts, but only 2 reviews, and the rest are asking for info, maybe you don't make senior. Again, I don't know how strict or deep the review process is when you get to your 6 months.
Couple of people reported on Pia. 250 is fine especially if you're getting a room. She's kinda meh though. Check my post history.
[QUOTE=SugarDaddio;5094040]It seems like you are putting in your due diligence. Keep it up. Like any natural cycle there will be ups and downs. I have gone 2 or 3 weeks with little or no success on SA to weeks the pussy is just flowing in and I can't see them all. I'm embarrassed to say have spent way to much money on pussy until a friend on this forum taught me better. He will know who he is as soon as he reads this. Meet and greets should be for the meal and or drinks only. If you want to throw $25 or so for a baby sitter it makes sense but not much more. You should be able to find all the pussy, and I'm talking good pussy you want for 200 to 300 per meet for 2 or more hours. My problem early on is I had no patience and agreed to higher prices early in the game. Play it cool and with time the pussy will come around. It has happened many times for me and I know that now because my sensei has made me wise.
I have chatted with "IlovePlants240" and had an arrangement set up after she agreed to my price but she never showed. So personally I wouldn't pursue her again.
Pia122198 looks good to me. Did you meet her for 250. If so how was it?
Again thanks for your report out.
May the pussy be with you!
SD.[/QUOTE]
Has anyone sen this girl looking for information on her is real or a scammer?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/33c53f60-6bf8-4bdb-bc09-2f66fb8e3838[/URL]
[QUOTE=HollowGuy;5094827]Has anyone sen this girl looking for information on her is real or a scammer?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/33c53f60-6bf8-4bdb-bc09-2f66fb8e3838[/URL][/QUOTE]I doubt she is real due to several red flags in her profile.
1.) Model.
2.) Her bio.
I'm a full time model studying psychology and pursuing sales or my doctorate in the fall.
- There are hardly any full time models on seeking & while she has a great body, her face is not model material.
- Pursuing sales? Or a doctorate degree?
Looking for a submissive that can get involved in my kinks.
- This is a huge red flag to me.
[QUOTE=HollowGuy;5094827]Has anyone sen this girl looking for information on her is real or a scammer?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/33c53f60-6bf8-4bdb-bc09-2f66fb8e3838[/URL][/QUOTE]She is looking for a live in slave. I asked if I could eat the a $$ to see her response and she said only her boyfriend can do that while I watch. Waste of time.
[QUOTE=SeekingHead;5094936]I doubt she is real due to several red flags in her profile.
1.) Model.
2.) Her bio.
I'm a full time model studying psychology and pursuing sales or my doctorate in the fall.
- There are hardly any full time models on seeking & while she has a great body, her face is not model material.
- Pursuing sales? Or a doctorate degree?
Looking for a submissive that can get involved in my kinks.
- This is a huge red flag to me.[/QUOTE]There's a ton of red flags in that profile to be too. The biggest being pursuing sales or a doctorate? That's a big WTF LOL. I guarantee you if she does answer you she's going to ask for money up front either "for her safety" or for pics. Please let us know if she answers your messages and what she says??
Bob.
[QUOTE=JohnnyMapalo;5093875]I just paid for another membership and replied to these chic's that messaged me. First one below. She wanted $200 ppm. I told her this weekend, but she said she wouldn't be around on the weekend. Right! She wanted me to come to her right away. She then said I could come for 30 minutes $100. She gave me her address to some apartments on the Southwest side of Atlanta. Never went though as she wouldn't tell me what we were going to do. 1st 2 pics.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2d8cc1b3-daf6-4927-bc82-c56381c687a7[/URL]
This one below told me to get a hotel room and she'll cum through. Hmm. I never trust chic's that mention hotel rooms. Anyways, she said $200/ hr, $300/2 hrs, etc. Pics 3 and 4.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ee4ad904-a5a5-4d60-9ae0-56baaa1c6f57[/URL]
This one below host in Buckhead and wants $575 every 2 weeks. Eer. Not so sure. I hate messing around with anything in Buckhead. Last 2 pics.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d4f4a21e-ebb0-4a35-8940-698bb980951f[/URL][/QUOTE]I have met Iloveplants. Sweet girl and down to earth. Wanted 350 plus a room and I didn't think it would be worth it. Cool gal though.
Anyone have any scoop on loloplays?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/adba820e-4c33-43fc-9e42-9333beb8d48a[/URL].
[QUOTE=BearsBuddy;5095028]She is looking for a live in slave. I asked if I could eat the a $$ to see her response and she said only her boyfriend can do that while I watch. Waste of time.[/QUOTE]Same reaction here. After reading your review, I asked her about "pussy and ass worship", and she rudely said no chance. She wants someone to pay her to watch her screw her boyfriend and to kick you in the balls.
Needs gas money first so she can get to me. NOPE.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/a804c22d-1d95-4945-90d0-02af402677d2[/URL]
Pic seller. NOPE.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3d36de6b-c897-4c81-835b-f00c08e0c4d4[/URL]
Meganlovessugar proposed selling me nudes or to meet up if I give her gas money up front. Nope. Next.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/05295616-0ad6-4ea2-9491-9fb0e9c3b21e[/URL]
Yet another that wants money to talk and never meet. Reported to SA. I implore everyone to report these pic sellers and online only girls. They're what's ruining SA. [URL]https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/66ffe078-9cb7-4c30-b882-61b94bccf773[/URL].
And another pic seller that will not meet. I reported her to SA. Please report her and get her kicked off the [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2bbd47aa-79c3-4685-9331-b390229b6292[/URL].