Bad things happen to good people.
[QUOTE=Harley89;1598557]Just bc someone's been to jail doesn't mean. They are not a good person a lot of people go to jail and some (very few) don't even deserve to be there. It actually saved my life and changed me completely. I'm a lot better person now bc I went though everything I did and went to jail. I wish it never would have happened but I'm glad my eyes are finally open also. And for me you can't appreciate the good without knowing the bad. So don't judge a book by its cover and not see someone just bc they've been to jail that experience shouldn't determine who they are or who they could be. But at the same time be safe and always watch out for urself. Proceed these girls with caution. Sweet dreaming everyone![/QUOTE]Keep your chin up and be safe.
Jail is a bad place that has a lot of good people in it. There are those that did not do what they are accused of. There are also those that did what they had to do which happened to also be against the law. There are also those that break laws that should have never been on the books in the first place. There are those that are also in jail that would be much better served by some kind of medical attention. The truth of the matter is jail is ill suited to provide many of the services expected from it by the general public.
Never read a most I agree with more. BUT
[QUOTE=Out Of Towner2; 1599107]Keep your chin up and be safe.
Jail is a bad place that has a lot of good people in it. There are those that did not do what they are accused of. There are also those that did what they had to do which happened to also be against the law. There are also those that break laws that should have never been on the books in the first place. There are those that are also in jail that would be much better served by some kind of medical attention. The truth of the matter is jail is ill suited to provide many of the services expected from it by the general public.[/QUOTE]Not criticizing what you said. I very very much agree. But.
Ya left off one catagory. There are those who more than deservedly should be in there and ones in there that deserve worse. Those that aren't "good people" at all. Where is that "goodness" line. I'm clueless. How do you judge "goodness". Again don't ask me. I wouldn't know where to start.
Since I work in the medical field I have an affinity for your statement on those that deserve some kind of medical attention. Unfortunately, society chose to toss many out of institutions. Who knows why. Thinking jail was cheape? , misguided idealism (not really harmful if they take their meds so its mean institutionalizing them. But they don't take their meds or given a way to get them?)? Again, you are so right a medical problem was made a criminal one.
Not just lack of medical attention for some. Medicine / science just doesn't have the answer (e. G. Druggies). So as you say jail is an extremely poor substitute.
I'm afraid the general public does know however. Just chooses to look the other way. We (including me) have a habit of trying to not address hard problems with difficult solutions (especially of they hit our wallets).
A thinking thoughtful post by you!
Now lets get back to gratuitous sex stuff.
Would never disqualify anybody because they ended up in prison
[QUOTE=Harley89;1602679]I will baby doll and thank you for breaking that down hopefully there are more people who feel the same way as us.[/QUOTE]Speaking for my self I wouldn't automatically rule out wanting to meet anybody just because they ended up in prison. I would have to look at other factors as well in determining if I felt safe / comfortable enough to meet them. With out naming any names at least 2 well known ladies that advertise on BP I refuse to ever want to see them because they are dangerous in that they robbed clients and nothing to do with the fact they ended up in jail.
In other words I would never throw everybody in the same group and make broad sweeping generalizations that every one that ended up in prison is dangerous and I have to avoid. As I said it would for me be based on that person as an individual and what other factors come into play.
Stay Safe and hope you have good Thanksgiving weekend