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Removal of Backpage was the gut punch that left the Charlotte hobby scene reeling.
Onlyfans was the rabbit punch that led to the hoeflation which was the KO.
Covid finished it off with a shotgun to face.
The fascist NC laws lit up the corpse.
Bidenflation pissed on the smoldering cinders.
I was still fairly young and new to the hobby when Backpage was shut down and I am still sick with longing for those times. I know it will NEVER be that good again.
[QUOTE=Steeler1980;7328211]It's a shame this even needed to be said but you're 100% on point my man. I had a provider tell me that she won't see Indian clients anymore because none of them wear deodorant and the room smells like BO when they leave. Now it's summer, imagine anyone not showing up fresh and expecting the provider to be a clean and smelling good after seeing these men. It's called a shower. Keep it fresh guys and don't ruin it for the rest of us.[/QUOTE]I had to sit next to one on a bus tour in NYC. Why can't these people smell themselves? His wife and kids didn't stink.
[QUOTE=Midnightpass;7367507]I had to sit next to one on a bus tour in NYC. Why can't these people smell themselves? His wife and kids didn't stink.[/QUOTE]Years ago, I flew on a PanAm from Munich to La Guardia that originated in New Delhi, and between the BO and whatever it was they were feeding us I thought I would puke.
[QUOTE=Gemini10;7366616]It doesn't feel worth it most of the time because after the deed and in the car the high wears off. Mongering is nothing but a drug habit the women are on drugs and they are our drugs. I don't think most of the guys who see them have to we do it because its easier and faster than courting women. All the hassel and waiting to hit and getting into relationships we don't really want just to get some Trim is wiped out with a few dollars. Starts out as something to do and it gets addictive. And just like the drugs they use which sometimes let them down we also get let down and regret spending the amount of money we spent. It can be 20 for a street chick for some sorry BJ or a few hundred in a hotel motel for a sorry encounter. Because of the addiction sometime we already know better because she doesn't look as good as we thought or saw bad reviews but she was hot and went anyway, bad attitudes and we still risk it all because of our addictions which can lead to regrets. I have been on a streak of bad dates before and still I pushed on to the next ads hoping this one will be a good hit, it was like getting bad dope or dummy bags I guess LOL. Junkies get ripped off with fake dummy bags and or bad dope but they don't give up hoping the next dealer has that good good LOL. Same way with us we hope the next dealer got some good Trim price is right she looks hot and we walk away smiling.[/QUOTE]This is an addictive drug for us mongers also, once I started this quite a few years ago it was exciting fucking some new trim since I am in a sexless marriage. This has been addictive and on this site daily seeing what is new and available. When I travel for work I hit up the site for reviews and local trim. Usually find a few good options in different cities. Have formed some good relationships with a few gals and keep in touch with them, I think they are friends but if I ever asked the fuck them for free I am sure they would say no. We all like the game of contacting new gals with possibility of fucking some new pussy. Was on vacation a few months back and having a fantastic time but was looking forward to getting back and on the site to seek out the next fuck bunny. Its a hard habit to break, any other mongers feel the same way. DM me or would love to hear other guys opinion on this. Maybe break our habit. LOL.
GPS pricing along with few options tends to break the habit.
[QUOTE=David3131;7368341]This is an addictive drug for us mongers also, once I started this quite a few years ago it was exciting fucking some new trim since I am in a sexless marriage. This has been addictive and on this site daily seeing what is new and available. When I travel for work I hit up the site for reviews and local trim. Usually find a few good options in different cities. Have formed some good relationships with a few gals and keep in touch with them, I think they are friends but if I ever asked the fuck them for free I am sure they would say no. We all like the game of contacting new gals with possibility of fucking some new pussy. Was on vacation a few months back and having a fantastic time but was looking forward to getting back and on the site to seek out the next fuck bunny. It’s a hard habit to break, any other mongers feel the same way. DM me or would love to hear other guys opinion on this. Maybe break our habit. LOL.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=David3131;7368341]This is an addictive drug for us mongers also, once I started this quite a few years ago it was exciting fucking some new trim since I am in a sexless marriage. This has been addictive and on this site daily seeing what is new and available. When I travel for work I hit up the site for reviews and local trim. Usually find a few good options in different cities. Have formed some good relationships with a few gals and keep in touch with them, I think they are friends but if I ever asked the fuck them for free I am sure they would say no. We all like the game of contacting new gals with possibility of fucking some new pussy. Was on vacation a few months back and having a fantastic time but was looking forward to getting back and on the site to seek out the next fuck bunny. Its a hard habit to break, any other mongers feel the same way. DM me or would love to hear other guys opinion on this. Maybe break our habit. LOL.[/QUOTE]LOL yep that's what I said it starts out as something to do but after seeing how easy it is to get trim with know strings attached it gets addictive. And what we thought was going to be short term turns into years and years. I think its over 8 almost 9 years for me. After my divorce I just wanted to see a few until I meet someone else while getting over the break up. Started in LA on Fig seeing street trim and onto BP which vanisned right before my eyes not long after I started using it. At that point I'm in Charlotte so I found where street chicks are then heard about Skip and later about Tryst and FB IG SNAPCHAT. The avenues to get trim just goes on and on. I even meeet some at stores that gave that pay for view feeling and got cheap trim. Started out someting to do and here we are years later and thousands of dollars spent and a body count out of this world LOL needing rehad to stop. I appluad those who walked away but I'm willing to bet that 95 percent of those who walked away came back and the other 5 percent ether got to old or just could know longer afford it, even the ones who got into serious relationships. I'm not a cheater my ex was. But I'm wondering now if I meet someone to settle down with will I drop the addiction. And I don't think I will because if you just drop it without interventtion of some type then its not a addiction. I hope I can stop before I meet someone. I meet nice women all the time but never follow through because I have Skip at my finger tips. Sad part is these women are not even safe to be with on any level I mean none what so ever it doesn't matter who they are how much they cost they are not safe to be seeing. There are so many negatives from STD to robberies until its unreal. And we still love seeing them. And just like drug addicts even after we get ripped off robbed had to run or whatever we go right back soon as possible hoping this time will be better. I will say that we do enjoy most dates but even though we enjoyed it it was a huge risk. When ever I see a new chick the first time I get nervous until she opens the door. I have gottten so nervous I left the parking lot and blocked their number. Next day or later that day I'm in another chicks room. Its one of the worst addiction there is because these are people who be with other people who have records and can be dangerous. Most of them do BBF even if they say they don't for the right price they will. The whole I don't do this or that thing is just to get more for it. But BBF means the STD factor is a lot higher. They mostly all are junkies which makes the robberie factor a lot higher. And even with the new law knwoing what it plainly says you going to prison for 4 months first offence put on sex offender list your job and family notified put on blast in the media and fined. We still knocking on doors and doing facetime verification. I did facetime not long ago and saw her finger go to top of screen twice which means she started screen recording and my dumb but still went. Well they can start it before hand if they want to whcih is what most do I imagine. But I will never do facetime with them again. But my point out of this rambling is know matter how many negatives we still finding ourselves sitting in the next parking lot of driveway going to knock on that door. Now that's a real addiction for the books.
[QUOTE=David3131;7368341]This is an addictive drug for us mongers also, once I started this quite a few years ago it was exciting fucking some new trim since I am in a sexless marriage. This has been addictive and on this site daily seeing what is new and available. When I travel for work I hit up the site for reviews and local trim. Usually find a few good options in different cities. Have formed some good relationships with a few gals and keep in touch with them, I think they are friends but if I ever asked the fuck them for free I am sure they would say no. We all like the game of contacting new gals with possibility of fucking some new pussy. Was on vacation a few months back and having a fantastic time but was looking forward to getting back and on the site to seek out the next fuck bunny. Its a hard habit to break, any other mongers feel the same way. DM me or would love to hear other guys opinion on this. Maybe break our habit. LOL.[/QUOTE]Interesting post since I also see myself in it. I can tell you from experience you cannot break the habit on your own, at least I couldn't as I've tried many times. Several years ago I joined a local group set up with the same principles as AA. These groups are all around the country and they also offer zoom sessions. I joined and stayed active for about a year and got bored and quit. It wasn't 4 or 5 months later I was back at the hobby. If I was younger I would likely have stayed with it but now I'm in my 70's and still enjoy a little strange romp or a nice massage so I've pretty much said to myself at this point in my life it is what it is.
Hawkeye.
[QUOTE=Hawkeye49;7370363]Interesting post since I also see myself in it. I can tell you from experience you cannot break the habit on your own, at least I couldn't as I've tried many times. Several years ago I joined a local group set up with the same principles as AA. These groups are all around the country and they also offer zoom sessions. I joined and stayed active for about a year and got bored and quit. It wasn't 4 or 5 months later I was back at the hobby. If I was younger I would likely have stayed with it but now I'm in my 70's and still enjoy a little strange romp or a nice massage so I've pretty much said to myself at this point in my life it is what it is.
Hawkeye.[/QUOTE]Brother if you are still mongering in your 70's why stop!
Hello my name is Bouinage and I'm a monger! I definitely enjoy all aspects of the monger, the good the bad, the chase, the hunt, new ladies, regular ladies, reading and posting reviews. I would say I am just as addicted to it now as I was when I was younger but I have more self control now. When I was younger I would spend my whole paycheck and see 3-4 ladies a week, now I blend in regulars, dating, and cranking it more. The new law slowed me down, but really its the prices that have stopped me more than anything. I think the addiction is only an issue if it gets in the way of other aspects of your life. If your significant other catches you, you miss out on bills, your late for work. Other than that, what's the difference between guys who monger and guys who know the stats of every football player since the 60's?
[QUOTE=Bouinage;7370379]Brother if you are still mongering in your 70's why stop!
Hello my name is Bouinage and I'm a monger! I definitely enjoy all aspects of the monger, the good the bad, the chase, the hunt, new ladies, regular ladies, reading and posting reviews. I would say I am just as addicted to it now as I was when I was younger but I have more self control now. When I was younger I would spend my whole paycheck and see 3-4 ladies a week, now I blend in regulars, dating, and cranking it more. The new law slowed me down, but really its the prices that have stopped me more than anything. I think the addiction is only an issue if it gets in the way of other aspects of your life. If your significant other catches you, you miss out on bills, your late for work. Other than that, what's the difference between guys who monger and guys who know the stats of every football player since the 60's?[/QUOTE]You are quite correct here. In my 70's so why stop. I just have to be a little more careful since the family has me on my phone locator now. Damn this technology. LOL.
[QUOTE=Hawkeye49;7371373]You are quite correct here. In my 70's so why stop. I just have to be a little more careful since the family has me on my phone locator now. Damn this technology. LOL.[/QUOTE]Hahah that does indeed add a level of work to it!
[QUOTE=Hawkeye49;7371373]You are quite correct here. In my 70's so why stop. I just have to be a little more careful since the family has me on my phone locator now. Damn this technology. LOL.[/QUOTE]I'm sure there's a workaround, check youtube for tutorials.
Enjoy it while it lasts. IF there's nothing else that causes you so much pleasure, why stop. It'll stop one day one way or the other so make the best of it. It sounds exciting what you do. It's very exciting for me but luckily I have budget limitations that controls me. If it wasn't for that, I would be where you are. Good luck.
[QUOTE=Gemini10;7370219]LOL yep that's what I said it starts out as something to do but after seeing how easy it is to get trim with know strings attached it gets addictive. And what we thought was going to be short term turns into years and years. I think its over 8 almost 9 years for me. After my divorce I just wanted to see a few until I meet someone else while getting over the break up. Started in LA on Fig seeing street trim and onto BP which vanisned right before my eyes not long after I started using it. At that point I'm in Charlotte so I found where street chicks are then heard about Skip and later about Tryst and FB IG SNAPCHAT. The avenues to get trim just goes on and on. I even meeet some at stores that gave that pay for view feeling and got cheap trim. Started out someting to do and here we are years later and thousands of dollars spent and a body count out of this world LOL needing rehad to stop. I appluad those who walked away but I'm willing to bet that 95 percent of those who walked away came back and the other 5 percent ether got to old or just could know longer afford it, even the ones who got into serious relationships. I'm not a cheater my ex was. But I'm wondering now if I meet someone to settle down with will I drop the addiction. And I don't think I will because if you just drop it without interventtion of some type then its not a addiction. I hope I can stop before I meet someone. I meet nice women all the time but never follow through because I have Skip at my finger tips. Sad part is these women are not even safe to be with on any level I mean none what so ever it doesn't matter who they are how much they cost they are not safe to be seeing. There are so many negatives from STD to robberies until its unreal. And we still love seeing them. And just like drug addicts even after we get ripped off robbed had to run or whatever we go right back soon as possible hoping this time will be better. I will say that we do enjoy most dates but even though we enjoyed it it was a huge risk. When ever I see a new chick the first time I get nervous until she opens the door. I have gottten so nervous I left the parking lot and blocked their number. Next day or later that day I'm in another chicks room. Its one of the worst addiction there is because these are people who be with other people who have records and can be dangerous. Most of them do BBF even if they say they don't for the right price they will. The whole I don't do this or that thing is just to get more for it. But BBF means the STD factor is a lot higher. They mostly all are junkies which makes the robberie factor a lot higher. And even with the new law knwoing what it plainly says you going to prison for 4 months first offence put on sex offender list your job and family notified put on blast in the media and fined. We still knocking on doors and doing facetime verification. I did facetime not long ago and saw her finger go to top of screen twice which means she started screen recording and my dumb but still went. Well they can start it before hand if they want to whcih is what most do I imagine. But I will never do facetime with them again. But my point out of this rambling is know matter how many negatives we still finding ourselves sitting in the next parking lot of driveway going to knock on that door. Now that's a real addiction for the books.[/QUOTE]
Why break this habit? If it helps us do our life more bearable why stop?. It's so much fun.
[QUOTE=David3131;7368341]This is an addictive drug for us mongers also, once I started this quite a few years ago it was exciting fucking some new trim since I am in a sexless marriage. This has been addictive and on this site daily seeing what is new and available. When I travel for work I hit up the site for reviews and local trim. Usually find a few good options in different cities. Have formed some good relationships with a few gals and keep in touch with them, I think they are friends but if I ever asked the fuck them for free I am sure they would say no. We all like the game of contacting new gals with possibility of fucking some new pussy. Was on vacation a few months back and having a fantastic time but was looking forward to getting back and on the site to seek out the next fuck bunny. Its a hard habit to break, any other mongers feel the same way. DM me or would love to hear other guys opinion on this. Maybe break our habit. LOL.[/QUOTE]
I would just add that mongers paying deposits, and paying for content, contributed to the demise.
[QUOTE=Toguro;7367368]Removal of Backpage was the gut punch that left the Charlotte hobby scene reeling.
Onlyfans was the rabbit punch that led to the hoeflation which was the KO.
Covid finished it off with a shotgun to face.
The fascist NC laws lit up the corpse.
Bidenflation pissed on the smoldering cinders.
I was still fairly young and new to the hobby when Backpage was shut down and I am still sick with longing for those times. I know it will NEVER be that good again.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=BillyThornton;7371468]Why break this habit? If it helps us do our life more bearable why stop?. It's so much fun.[/QUOTE]Admitting that one is addicted is a first sign of sanity. Mongering is not different from any addiction. The ladies are addicted to drugs and we are addicted to them. All addictions are a mask in my opinion to mask or cover something inside us. It might be some sadness or grief lying subconsciously deep inside. The excitement and rush helps us mask the pain inside. We are always in the run for collecting more experiences like a kid collects sea shells on the shore. Try living in the moment and practice mindful living. We are all craving for happiness. Eckhart Tolle's power of now book helped me a lot in my inner journey.