"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[QUOTE=GoneForGood97;5077579]Like anything else, there's a right way and a wrong way to do it. The way I've seen it done right.

1) Only really works with a girl you've seen a few times and have some trust built up.

2) You tell her "well, I know a few guys who might help you out, met them online. I bet if you text them they'll be happy to hook you up. " If she's game, then you can ask the guy on the board for his burner info and pass it to her. She can text the guy and set things up from there.

At the end of the day, it's a judgement call on your part. If some guy with little to no post history is asking, ignore him. If it's Senior, maybe take a few seconds to review his posts, you can usually figure out pretty quickly if they are an asshole or not. Nothing is 100% guaranteed, but you can weed things out pretty easily.

It really just depends on how much you want to contribute to this board. You do it well, you'll get a rep for being a stand up guy, and next thing you know some other senior is trading UTRs with you. The only currency you have on this board is rep. The more you have, the better you can get. Just my 2 cents.[/QUOTE]Exactly. Once you've met and been with one of these women, you can figure out what they're in it for. If someone is looking to make some more money, I'll offer to pass on her number. It's totally her choice. I would never just give out someone's number. As well, you don't want to disclose that they're being reviewed on a site. The bad ones, fuck them. Those reviews go up right away.

[QUOTE=CagerCoach;5077725]My experience was just the opposite. She decides to make a grab and dash. Got $100 of my money and immediately blocked everything.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the info. I haven't seen her in a month. I won't try to see her again despite my prior good experiences. She went downhill fast, apparently.

If the girl has give permission to be contacted then there is no issue. What has been asked is to give out a girl's number without her knowledge. I don't think that's appropriate.

If girls agreed to be contacted by strangers, then members wouldn't be burned.

[QUOTE=GoneForGood97;5077579]Like anything else, there's a right way and a wrong way to do it. The way I've seen it done right.

1) Only really works with a girl you've seen a few times and have some trust built up.

2) You tell her "well, I know a few guys who might help you out, met them online. I bet if you text them they'll be happy to hook you up. " If she's game, then you can ask the guy on the board for his burner info and pass it to her. She can text the guy and set things up from there.

At the end of the day, it's a judgement call on your part. If some guy with little to no post history is asking, ignore him. If it's Senior, maybe take a few seconds to review his posts, you can usually figure out pretty quickly if they are an asshole or not. Nothing is 100% guaranteed, but you can weed things out pretty easily.

It really just depends on how much you want to contribute to this board. You do it well, you'll get a rep for being a stand up guy, and next thing you know some other senior is trading UTRs with you. The only currency you have on this board is rep. The more you have, the better you can get. Just my 2 cents.[/QUOTE]

Let's say you met a young girl on SA. You go out to dinner, etc. Nothing physical. It fizzles out.

Then, you meet her Mom on SA (confirmed via FB). Mom and daughter live in the same town, and you can tell the Mom will want to go out places, etc. Basically, there's a non-zero chance that you can meet the daughter while in an arrangement with the Mom (or Mom could show daughter your picture, since you know Mom and daughter are close).

Do you tell the Mom upfront that you went out with her daughter?

Asking for a friend. :)

The daughter is not going to say shit to her mom about seeing daddies.

[QUOTE=BrownSugaTwo;5079275]Let's say you met a young girl on SA. You go out to dinner, etc. Nothing physical. It fizzles out.

Then, you meet her Mom on SA (confirmed via FB). Mom and daughter live in the same town, and you can tell the Mom will want to go out places, etc. Basically, there's a non-zero chance that you can meet the daughter while in an arrangement with the Mom (or Mom could show daughter your picture, since you know Mom and daughter are close).

Do you tell the Mom upfront that you went out with her daughter?

Asking for a friend. :)[/QUOTE]

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d4716b9b-d6ee-4f3e-8fb4-1ad063efb2e5[/URL]

Pic seller and time waster.

[QUOTE=BrownSugaTwo;5079275]Let's say you met a young girl on SA. You go out to dinner, etc. Nothing physical. It fizzles out.

Then, you meet her Mom on SA (confirmed via FB). Mom and daughter live in the same town, and you can tell the Mom will want to go out places, etc. Basically, there's a non-zero chance that you can meet the daughter while in an arrangement with the Mom (or Mom could show daughter your picture, since you know Mom and daughter are close).

Do you tell the Mom upfront that you went out with her daughter?

Asking for a friend. :)[/QUOTE]Just roll the dice and see what happens. In the unlikely event the daughter makes some kind of connection, she'll more than likely keep it to herself.

Bottom line, you have a greater chance of fucking it up by coming clean than you do keeping your mouth shut.

But man, what if you had gone all the way with the daughter? You're entering some Dear Penthouse territory.

Whatever you do, don't accidentally say daughter's name when in an intimate moment with mom.

[QUOTE=YeOldHornDawg;5079669]Just roll the dice and see what happens. In the unlikely event the daughter makes some kind of connection, she'll more than likely keep it to herself.

Bottom line, you have a greater chance of fucking it up by coming clean than you do keeping your mouth shut.

But man, what if you had gone all the way with the daughter? You're entering some Dear Penthouse territory.

Whatever you do, don't accidentally say daughter's name when in an intimate moment with mom.[/QUOTE]And if opportunity knocks for mom / daughter threesome, well its was fated to be!

[QUOTE=BoJackSugarman;5079021]If the girl has give permission to be contacted then there is no issue. What has been asked is to give out a girl's number without her knowledge. I don't think that's appropriate.

If girls agreed to be contacted by strangers, then members wouldn't be burned.[/QUOTE]For what its worth. If the lady is open to seeing other members I am sure she will let you know.

The situation with SouthernHockeyGirl got out of hand because of the member in question was basically an asshole, insulting and being a general creep. I have spend several hours talking with her about this. She is aware of this website and for what its worth is chalks it up to bunch of horny men trading stories. She is still on SA, and still engaging in sugaring. But this episode has made her a lot more discerning who she will meet with. So unless the lady in question is completely conformable with direct contact by a board member and the member is okay with the repercussions of another member possibly fucking it up, then by all means feel free to share info. I for one after this last about am not will to risk it.

Stay safe,

JimS2321.

[QUOTE=BrownSugaTwo;5079275]Let's say you met a young girl on SA. You go out to dinner, etc. Nothing physical. It fizzles out.

Then, you meet her Mom on SA (confirmed via FB). Mom and daughter live in the same town, and you can tell the Mom will want to go out places, etc. Basically, there's a non-zero chance that you can meet the daughter while in an arrangement with the Mom (or Mom could show daughter your picture, since you know Mom and daughter are close).

Do you tell the Mom upfront that you went out with her daughter?

Asking for a friend. :)[/QUOTE]I'd say its one of two scenarios.

One, I highly doubt that they are both on SA, and don't know about each other being on there. If they are close, its not a coincidence. If that's the case, they arent going to care that you have been out with the daughter. And two, if they don't know each other is on the site, they daughter isn't going to out herself in front of mom if she sees the two of you together. In fact, if they don't know that you know they are related, just play dumb, like how would you know anyways? Either way, just go see if they will do a threesome with you. LMAO.

When someone on this board that ripped off one of my friends writes about getting ripped off themselves. Karma's a *****, huh dude?

[QUOTE=BoJackSugarman;5079021]If the girl has give permission to be contacted then there is no issue. What has been asked is to give out a girl's number without her knowledge. I don't think that's appropriate.

If girls agreed to be contacted by strangers, then members wouldn't be burned.[/QUOTE]Sorry I should've been more clear. If someone asks me for a girls number, and I were feeling inclined, I would text the girl, work up a bit of conversation, then ask. If she says no, I reply back on the board "Sorry, she doesn't want to share her number. " If she says yes, then I'll respond to them with the info, or send the mongers info to her.

My main point is that if someone asks, I don't automatically say no.

[QUOTE=Jims2321;5079703]For what its worth. If the lady is open to seeing other members I am sure she will let you know.

The situation with SouthernHockeyGirl got out of hand because of the member in question was basically an asshole, insulting and being a general creep. I have spend several hours talking with her about this. She is aware of this website and for what its worth is chalks it up to bunch of horny men trading stories. She is still on SA, and still engaging in sugaring. But this episode has made her a lot more discerning who she will meet with. So unless the lady in question is completely conformable with direct contact by a board member and the member is okay with the repercussions of another member possibly fucking it up, then by all means feel free to share info. I for one after this last about am not will to risk it.

Stay safe,

JimS2321.[/QUOTE]Yeah. Hockey asked me about this as well. And from what she said there was a guy that send her pics of her family and some really creepster shit. Scared the girl quite a bit. And it's not that she's opposed to sharing her info or meeting new dudes, however this dude went too far when she said no. Really pissed me off too as Hockey is a great time. Clean fun giving and smart not to mention that mouth. Though maybe a bit too trusting / naive to how some dudes can be. IMHO. However still one of the best I've met on SA. Hope this doesn't scare her off.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e876e8c2-2e89-42ba-9b3d-aad374f3852d[/URL]

Starts at $750/ meet. Trying to get some details but too much for me.

[QUOTE=Jims2321;5079703]For what its worth. If the lady is open to seeing other members I am sure she will let you know.

The situation with SouthernHockeyGirl got out of hand because of the member in question was basically an asshole, insulting and being a general creep. I have spend several hours talking with her about this. She is aware of this website and for what its worth is chalks it up to bunch of horny men trading stories. She is still on SA, and still engaging in sugaring. But this episode has made her a lot more discerning who she will meet with. So unless the lady in question is completely conformable with direct contact by a board member and the member is okay with the repercussions of another member possibly fucking it up, then by all means feel free to share info. I for one after this last about am not will to risk it.

Stay safe,

JimS2321.[/QUOTE]This is terrible, I wish there was a way to out this creep.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/5bbb8055-2134-41fe-b2c1-fcc26b3a440f[/URL]

Time waster and GPS.

We spent a week texting before meeting up for drinks. We agreed to 300 (she can't host) and planned to meet up the following weekend. A couple days later, she texts asking if we can discuss the allowance; she asks for 600 and I'm WTF. I had previously asked her first what she wanted for an allowance but she made me go first which I did which she was ok with. Not sure if that was calculated or not, but man what a waste of time and effort.

[QUOTE=DArrow404;5084513][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/5bbb8055-2134-41fe-b2c1-fcc26b3a440f[/URL]

Time waster and GPS.

We spent a week texting before meeting up for drinks. We agreed to 300 (she can't host) and planned to meet up the following weekend. A couple days later, she texts asking if we can discuss the allowance; she asks for 600 and I'm WTF. I had previously asked her first what she wanted for an allowance but she made me go first which I did which she was ok with. Not sure if that was calculated or not, but man what a waste of time and effort.[/QUOTE]I've had that happen a couple of times. Agree to an allowance then the girl plays dumb about the amount when it's date time. Just move on not much else you can do or any of us.

[QUOTE=DArrow404;5084513][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/5bbb8055-2134-41fe-b2c1-fcc26b3a440f[/URL]

Time waster and GPS.

We spent a week texting before meeting up for drinks. We agreed to 300 (she can't host) and planned to meet up the following weekend. A couple days later, she texts asking if we can discuss the allowance; she asks for 600 and I'm WTF. I had previously asked her first what she wanted for an allowance but she made me go first which I did which she was ok with. Not sure if that was calculated or not, but man what a waste of time and effort.[/QUOTE]Had the same thing happen to me last week with a sweet 19 year old. The only difference was I got to cross the finish line. Met face to face and offered 300 per meet. She was down with it and offered no rebuttal. We hangout and The next morning when we wake up she asks if I can add an extra 100. I didn't gift the additional request. Someone in this forum once said most women are terrible negotiators face to face and are extremely good at giving you a rack rate via text message. The game. Ripper.

I think sometimes it gets to be a bidding war. You agreed to 300 but the other guy went 450 now she wants 600? Maybe several guys bidding? Bottom line, a deal is a deal. Break a deal, spin the wheel. Next.

[QUOTE=DArrow404;5084513][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/5bbb8055-2134-41fe-b2c1-fcc26b3a440f[/URL]

Time waster and GPS.

We spent a week texting before meeting up for drinks. We agreed to 300 (she can't host) and planned to meet up the following weekend. A couple days later, she texts asking if we can discuss the allowance; she asks for 600 and I'm WTF. I had previously asked her first what she wanted for an allowance but she made me go first which I did which she was ok with. Not sure if that was calculated or not, but man what a waste of time and effort.[/QUOTE]

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/77c517b9-7524-4565-a4c2-85b73ac3bb80[/URL]

Anyone seen this one? Any info on this one would be appreciated.

Anyone have any luck with this one? She's been on there a while but seems like she doesn't use it.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/6c46d210-1dd3-8c81-2fdb-f517dcbf2768[/URL]

[QUOTE=Hal1957;5085009]I think sometimes it gets to be a bidding war. You agreed to 300 but the other guy went 450 now she wants 600? Maybe several guys bidding? Bottom line, a deal is a deal. Break a deal, spin the wheel. Next.[/QUOTE]In her 30's, can't host, wants 600? Good F#king luck with that one babe!

[QUOTE=Gca393;5085040][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/77c517b9-7524-4565-a4c2-85b73ac3bb80[/URL]

Anyone seen this one? Any info on this one would be appreciated.[/QUOTE]


[QUOTE=TheParce;5085672]Anyone have any luck with this one? She's been on there a while but seems like she doesn't use it.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/6c46d210-1dd3-8c81-2fdb-f517dcbf2768[/URL][/QUOTE]Last log is Oct. 9 and Nov 14. Just add her to your fav list and hit her up when you see them come online.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/31fa3158-cbb7-465c-954c-34ee6d16f347[/URL]

She may be the worst person I have messaged LOL. So hot so it's a shame but just warning the rest of you. Luckily, I figured it out by just messaging her and not wasting more than a few minutes.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2b52ab62-449d-4f60-bf06-c9362550ff7f[/URL]

This one had a good con. She wants 200 to meet up (ridiculous I know) but she is clear she doesn't want it until you meet in person I. E. No advance. I knew it was bs but I was bored so kept it going. Pics are hot then asked her about allowance and she said she "doesn't discuss numbers here". I said you had no problem discussing your meet up fee LOL. Busted her cold, no response hahaha. Avoid.

My guess is she does actually meet up and collects the 200 for a dinner date and bounces to the next. If someone has had a dofi experience w her, I would love to hear it.

Says new profile but she looks super familiar. Posted private picture below. IIRC she's a semi pro. Anyone remember more?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/eb831f7b-e9bc-467f-896f-6d05f1162429[/URL]

I have just been messaging with her. We moved to text but things stalled some with her. Keep me informed if you find out more and I will do the same for the group as well. May the pussy be with you.

SD.

[QUOTE=Machintosh;5086676]Says new profile but she looks super familiar. Posted private picture below. IIRC she's a semi pro. Anyone remember more?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/eb831f7b-e9bc-467f-896f-6d05f1162429[/URL][/QUOTE]

Seeking is having a 33% off on Premium. I don't have a premium membership currently and got a promotional mail. So, check your non-upgraded accounts.

I won't be using it myself, but wanted to let others know.

Scrolling through, and this picture catches my eye. Turns out it's the tennis partner of a close friend. If anyone has info, or is willing to do some digging, let me know with a pm or in the forum. Completely off limits for me, but highly interested.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/dfd4c116-c42e-4649-9c46-c15688fd2701[/URL]

[QUOTE=Allen981;5087627]Scrolling through, and this picture catches my eye. Turns out it's the tennis partner of a close friend. If anyone has info, or is willing to do some digging, let me know with a pm or in the forum. Completely off limits for me, but highly interested.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/dfd4c116-c42e-4649-9c46-c15688fd2701[/URL][/QUOTE]I don't have an SA account but happy to reach out and TOFTT if you want to pm contact info.

[QUOTE=Allen981;5087627]Scrolling through, and this picture catches my eye. Turns out it's the tennis partner of a close friend. If anyone has info, or is willing to do some digging, let me know with a pm or in the forum. Completely off limits for me, but highly interested.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/dfd4c116-c42e-4649-9c46-c15688fd2701[/URL][/QUOTE]I'm not sure I understand your angle here. Are you trying to hook up with her, or just wanting to live vicariously through the experience of someone else?

[QUOTE=JoyDrop;5088030]I'm not sure I understand your angle here. Are you trying to hook up with her, or just wanting to live vicariously through the experience of someone else?[/QUOTE]She's a family friend, too close to ever play with. Very upscale. Just curious and surprised.

[QUOTE=Allen981;5088076]She's a family friend, too close to ever play with. Very upscale. Just curious and surprised.[/QUOTE]I've found women on SA who use it to find wealthy men they want to date. I dated one women for 9 months I met off the site, she told me it was much better than tinder, [URL]match.com[/URL], & POF for finding men who had their shit together. The $90 per month fee cuts down quite a bit on pretenders who go to the Maserati dealership & snap a couple of photos in a $150 k car, & take pictures in a million dollar house at a realtor open house. If I wasn't a single dad I would literally have my pick of the 35 to 50 year cougars who want to travel & live a upscale lifestyle.

Probably what she is looking for is a guy with a net wealth over $1 million to date.

[QUOTE=RndmDud;5087499]Seeking is having a 33% off on Premium. I don't have a premium membership currently and got a promotional mail. So, check your non-upgraded accounts.

I won't be using it myself, but wanted to let others know.[/QUOTE]I'm interested but don't want to waste money if all I get is scams. I keep hearing from you guys there are just scams but there are some gems there. Anyone with a membership tell me if it is worthwhile to get the membership.

[QUOTE=Allen981;5088076]She's a family friend, too close to ever play with. Very upscale. Just curious and surprised.[/QUOTE]I've checked her out before but was under the impression, which you may have now validated, that she was going to be outside my sugar budget. Clicking on this link though, she might be wondering why I keep viewing her profile, LOL.

In any case, she states she's in an open relationship so presumably, she's ok with the idea of non-monogamous marriages. If you see her regularly, you could hint at it obliquely and just see if she's responds favorably while maintaining a plausible deniability.

Of course there are scammers on there but most of the ones I contact are legit. I have to end up picking and choosing which one I will meet and which ones won't.

Basically I have to turn down 10 to 15 pieces of pussy a month. And when I do meet. I fuck 90% of them. If I made more money I could easily fuck 20 different women every month. It's easy pickins.

[QUOTE=Dasus;5088983]I'm interested but don't want to waste money if all I get is scams. I keep hearing from you guys there are just scams but there are some gems there. Anyone with a membership tell me if it is worthwhile to get the membership.[/QUOTE].

[QUOTE=YeOldHornDawg;5089059]I've checked her out before but was under the impression, which you may have now validated, that she was going to be outside my sugar budget. Clicking on this link though, she might be wondering why I keep viewing her profile, LOL.

In any case, she states she's in an open relationship so presumably, she's ok with the idea of non-monogamous marriages. If you see her regularly, you could hint at it obliquely and just see if she's responds favorably while maintaining a plausible deniability.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the update, and appreciate the info.

I have seen Paige a couple of times. She is good and fun. I had a good time the first time but second time felt like a rush. She will do for 200 . I will definitely give her a try once. Nice body though

[QUOTE=Focker2;5085885]Last log is Oct. 9 and Nov 14. Just add her to your fav list and hit her up when you see them come online.[/QUOTE].

Been in the Sugar bowl for about 2 years. Great investment from my experience. You need to be understand the numbers game and it takes work. But I have had unicorns that are simply incredible.

The scams are there, you just need to filter it much like any other site.

[QUOTE=Dasus;5088983]I'm interested but don't want to waste money if all I get is scams. I keep hearing from you guys there are just scams but there are some gems there. Anyone with a membership tell me if it is worthwhile to get the membership.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Shizzy6969;5089504]Been in the Sugar bowl for about 2 years. Great investment from my experience. You need to be understand the numbers game and it takes work. But I have had unicorns that are simply incredible.

The scams are there, you just need to filter it much like any other site.[/QUOTE]Any advice to avoid scams? I'm new to this and I'm not asking who why'all had but I would like to know just the basics of what the scams. Much appreciated and pm welcome as well.