General Reports

[QUOTE=PeterWanger69;5097291]OK, when you play with fire long enough you get burned eventually so it finally happened to me. Found a girl on CL and was texting with her back and forth. I accidentally sent her a message from my real number instead of my Google Voice. She must have tracked me somehow with my number and just sent me a message with my full name and is demanding I send her $ on cashapp by 5 pm today or she will contact my wife and work. She even dropped a line saying "nice LinkedIn" BTW. I know there's most likely nothing she can really do and if I do send her money then it's never going to put an end to it. But of course I'm freaking out now. What should I do? What's the worst that she can do to me?[/QUOTE]I agree with Chicago 41 but also tell her you're in an open marriage and she should knock herself out. Then if she contacts your wife, tell the wife it's not you. You were getting a bunch of spam about your password stolen and they were bribing you about recording you watching porn (I'm sure if you had an Adobe account at one point then you've received these insane emails). Tell your wife you told the spammer to fuck off, which somehow pissed them off and that this woman must be part of that ring of fools. If your wife is not a tech savvy person she might buy that. All of this is tied to your wife not catching you before so this would be the first time. And tell the woman, knock herself out but you'll also be reporting her to the police.

[QUOTE=PeterWanger69;5097291]OK, when you play with fire long enough you get burned eventually so it finally happened to me. Found a girl on CL and was texting with her back and forth. I accidentally sent her a message from my real number instead of my Google Voice. She must have tracked me somehow with my number and just sent me a message with my full name and is demanding I send her $ on cashapp by 5 pm today or she will contact my wife and work. She even dropped a line saying "nice LinkedIn" BTW. I know there's most likely nothing she can really do and if I do send her money then it's never going to put an end to it. But of course I'm freaking out now. What should I do? What's the worst that she can do to me?[/QUOTE]Block all social media or delete it ALL (will seem fishy to the wife).

Block her number you can pay your provider to actually Block it not just through your phone so she can't text you and have those texts a how up in a "deleted folder".

Do not try and dig up anything on her for leverage you have everything to lose she has nothing she has you by the balls remember that you can't do anything to her in reality that she will even care about her life already is a shit shoe. Also make your wife's social media private remember even doing this she can still send messages so if she hits yours up first Block it and eventually Block it on your wife's. Good luck. You need to think defence no offence here.

[QUOTE=PeterWanger69;5097291]OK, when you play with fire long enough you get burned eventually so it finally happened to me. Found a girl on CL and was texting with her back and forth. I accidentally sent her a message from my real number instead of my Google Voice. She must have tracked me somehow with my number and just sent me a message with my full name and is demanding I send her $ on cashapp by 5 pm today or she will contact my wife and work. She even dropped a line saying "nice LinkedIn" BTW. I know there's most likely nothing she can really do and if I do send her money then it's never going to put an end to it. But of course I'm freaking out now. What should I do? What's the worst that she can do to me?[/QUOTE]This has happened to me twice both times I ignored them.

They went away.

Did she give you her cashapp? If not ask for it. Then remind her blackmail is a crime and ignore. I use google voice on a second phone without a sim card to prevent this from happening. My excuse is using that phone for playing games.

That I saw many times try that with me once. She called my cell in the middle of the night leaving a long voice mail swearing tirade and threatening to tell my wife, etc etc.

Freaked me out for a moment but I blocked her on my cell and blocked her number on my house line. I don't do social media so that might have helped.

Never heard back.

[QUOTE=Trogon;5098215]This has happened to me twice both times I ignored them.

They went away.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=ElGoloso;5095449]So during the time I was doing Uber I would be in and out of kik a lot. I joined these p4 p groups in the Chicago area. I really didn't take these group serious until a one responded back to me. She was a 18 Latina, just had a kid. She lived with her baby daddy in the Augusta and Pulaski area in the basement of a building. It was the best lay and easiest set up. She told me a Jackson and I'm like cool see you shortly. I parked a block away cause this was TGTBT let her know I'm there in front of the building and waited. 5 minutes later comes out this beautiful Latin. I'm still in disbelief and entered cautiously. I followed and ready in case I get jumped or something and she even said to calm down and look around to get comfortable. Which I did. She undressed and I kissed all over her body and picked her up just to lay her down. I'm going down on her and enjoying the view at the same time. She totally got into it. We then later switched positions and was going to town. I'm like ok let's get the rubber on before I bust. But instead began to make out with me as she climbed on top of me. She was practically riding me bare. Then I slipped in and she continued to ride me. We didn't stop and tried different positions. I finally busted in her and we made out for a while as I'm still in her. Getting ready for round 2. She didn't stop me or even bothered negotiating the rate. We just did it. I came in her twice. I then cleaned up, kissed her good bye and walked off. I contacted her 2 days later to meet with her again but had me freaked out. She's like how you going to bust in me and I reminded her that I'm fixed and not to worry. That ended the convo and haven't heard from her in 2 years now. I would really like to see her again. I mean I know where she lives but how can I even do that. Maybe someone on here knows her. She said she's met guys in a park down the street before and have taken them home for dates. If anyone knows of her let me know. Her screen name on kik was Reyna.[/QUOTE]She tried to take you for a ride and your going to try again? SMDH!

[QUOTE=PeterWanger69;5097291]OK, when you play with fire long enough you get burned eventually so it finally happened to me. Found a girl on CL and was texting with her back and forth. I accidentally sent her a message from my real number instead of my Google Voice. She must have tracked me somehow with my number and just sent me a message with my full name and is demanding I send her $ on cashapp by 5 pm today or she will contact my wife and work. She even dropped a line saying "nice LinkedIn" BTW. I know there's most likely nothing she can really do and if I do send her money then it's never going to put an end to it. But of course I'm freaking out now. What should I do? What's the worst that she can do to me?[/QUOTE]Tell her you'll donate to her in person then bang the sh*t out of her!

Don't feed a troll. Ignore her.

She doesn't really want to contact anyone, she doesn't care about an open marriage. She wants your money, that's it. When you ignore her she'll realize she isn't getting your money and she'll go away. If you reply like this you'll potentially create a pissing contest that nobody ultimately will win.

Block and ignore. Make your all your social media private. Wait. She'll disappear.

[QUOTE=DWaits;5098126]I agree with Chicago 41 but also tell her you're in an open marriage and she should knock herself out. Then if she contacts your wife, tell the wife it's not you. You were getting a bunch of spam about your password stolen and they were bribing you about recording you watching porn (I'm sure if you had an Adobe account at one point then you've received these insane emails). Tell your wife you told the spammer to fuck off, which somehow pissed them off and that this woman must be part of that ring of fools. If your wife is not a tech savvy person she might buy that. All of this is tied to your wife not catching you before so this would be the first time. And tell the woman, knock herself out but you'll also be reporting her to the police.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=PauFord;5098687]Don't feed a troll. Ignore her.

She doesn't really want to contact anyone, she doesn't care about an open marriage. She wants your money, that's it. When you ignore her she'll realize she isn't getting your money and she'll go away. If you reply like this you'll potentially create a pissing contest that nobody ultimately will win.

Block and ignore. Make your all your social media private. Wait. She'll disappear.[/QUOTE]I was watching a documentary about scammers in Jamaica who scam people in the USA and it is a numbers game. The scammers make 250 - 300 phone calls a day for 1 - 2 people to bite. Probably that broad is trying to scam a bunch of people knowing only a few will roll or she is a junkie who in a desperate need of her fix and is trying desperate things. Sit tight and wait but think of a believable lie should your wife asks you something just in case but don't come forward cause wives can smell bs.

[QUOTE=PeterWanger69;5097291]OK, when you play with fire long enough you get burned eventually so it finally happened to me. Found a girl on CL and was texting with her back and forth. I accidentally sent her a message from my real number instead of my Google Voice. She must have tracked me somehow with my number and just sent me a message with my full name and is demanding I send her $ on cashapp by 5 pm today or she will contact my wife and work. She even dropped a line saying "nice LinkedIn" BTW. I know there's most likely nothing she can really do and if I do send her money then it's never going to put an end to it. But of course I'm freaking out now. What should I do? What's the worst that she can do to me?[/QUOTE]If you are dealing with a stupid junkie who doesn't think before she acts, what can you do except ignore her. But if she has two working braincells, she'll know what she's doing is called blackmail, and will end up with jail, a judge, a trial and prison.

[QUOTE=PauFord;5098687]Don't feed a troll. Ignore her.

She doesn't really want to contact anyone, she doesn't care about an open marriage. She wants your money, that's it. When you ignore her she'll realize she isn't getting your money and she'll go away. If you reply like this you'll potentially create a pissing contest that nobody ultimately will win.

Block and ignore. Make your all your social media private. Wait. She'll disappear.[/QUOTE]With everything posted about his situation with emphasis on ignore her completely. Respond to nothing. She is starting to stalk you and the one thing LEO will tell you in regards to stalkers is do not respond in any way, shape or form to their reach outs. They feed on that, plain and simple. Bottom line imo these types are lazy by nature and once realized that she's not going to get you to respond with cash she will go away. My experience with that "cray cray" pro I knew as a supposed "friend" had a temper that would not quit. Actually scared the s**t out of me and eventually that is why I stopped being her sounding board (which BTW could last for hours on several phone calls per day). Imo this woman will try to tell the world what you are to her and that you pretty much can't do anything about. I know for sure about this one as my experience was that the websites where I was trashed could care less either way. As far as the wife goes I would just say it's some nut scamming you and leave it at that. Do what you can to block without your wife becoming suspicious or just let this woman rip saying to anyone that asks questions you know what is happening and it's an overseas scammer trying to get money. Imo she will go away and concentrate on the next mark. As far as using google voice as your burner, like mentioned, there will be limitations. I personally have an unlocked phone with two sims. One for my business that is known and out there and another that leads to nowhere where I set it up with a fill card using cash and only entered limited details when setting up the account. I have no one to hide from being single and without a gf (by choice incidentally). I still do not participate in social media whatsoever unless it's someone I am interested in and will look online using bogus accounts. I know you guys with wives have problems with this hobby because if you try to be too secretive the wife will ask why. Good luck and again some solid advice from the group so far. Stosh be and stay safe all. Out!

[QUOTE=PeterWanger69;5097291]OK, when you play with fire long enough you get burned eventually so it finally happened to me. Found a girl on CL and was texting with her back and forth. I accidentally sent her a message from my real number instead of my Google Voice. She must have tracked me somehow with my number and just sent me a message with my full name and is demanding I send her $ on cashapp by 5 pm today or she will contact my wife and work. She even dropped a line saying "nice LinkedIn" BTW. I know there's most likely nothing she can really do and if I do send her money then it's never going to put an end to it. But of course I'm freaking out now. What should I do? What's the worst that she can do to me?[/QUOTE]I had a similar experience with one of those adult dating websites. Even though I never even visited their website, they got my email address. They would sent me emails demanding me to pay a ransom in bit coins or they were going to tell me friends and family. I told people what happened and if they heard something to let me know. Nothing even happened and I just ignored the emails, it all went away.

Where are the EEC girls typically located?

Lately I've been getting "502 Gateway Error" when signing in to this page, I hit refresh and it goes away.

Anyone know why I get this and what it is?

[QUOTE=Moejoo;5099154]Where are the EEC girls typically located?[/QUOTE]Downtown hotels, they switch between 2 or 3.

[QUOTE=FirstTimer7;5098288]Did she give you her cashapp? If not ask for it. Then remind her blackmail is a crime and ignore. I use google voice on a second phone without a sim card to prevent this from happening. My excuse is using that phone for playing games.[/QUOTE]Hey,

So some providers ask you for your non google voice phone numbers. There are free websites online that can tell you the carrier type of a specific phone number, so I guess that's how they know whether a provided phone number is carrier based or google voice based. So is there some other burner phone number service that you use?

Seriously, there needs to be a class providers can go to to learn the art of an HJ. You just don't grab hold for dear life and jerk it. There is a simple art to it.

[QUOTE=ChgoGuySouth;5109191]Seriously, there needs to be a class providers can go to to learn the art of an HJ. You just don't grab hold for dear life and jerk it. There is a simple art to it.[/QUOTE]Easy solution: Just show her how! One provider said," F*ck it" and f*cked me for the donation of an h / j!!

Has anyone stayed downtown recently? Rates still seem reasonable for one night. But are they more strict about who comes up to the room? Trying for an outcall.

[QUOTE=Casper27;5109324]Has anyone stayed downtown recently? Rates still seem reasonable for one night. But are they more strict about who comes up to the room? Trying for an outcall.[/QUOTE]Most of the hotels downtown are fine. One hotel to avoid is the Hyatt on Wacker. They have a security desk at the front door and the person will need to give your name and room number for access.

I prefer your boutique hotels like The Godfrey or Hotel Felix. No problems entering or exiting at all. If you go with the Godfrey, know that you will need a hotel key to use the elevator. Other than that, you should be fine.

Also, I use an app called Hotel Tonight. It usually gets you a very good rate and is especially good for day / night of bookings.

[QUOTE=Abyolo;5100311]Hey,

So some providers ask you for your non google voice phone numbers. There are free websites online that can tell you the carrier type of a specific phone number, so I guess that's how they know whether a provided phone number is carrier based or google voice based. So is there some other burner phone number service that you use?[/QUOTE]In my book, if they ask to give them another number, the answer is, no way. Absolutely forget about the real personal numbers. With so many options out there, I would just move on to the next provide, or better yet, I would rather jerk off on porn and be just fine, until that stubborn itch comes again, then, I would still likely gor to one of my regulars. I know that in order to gain new knowledge, one must try new things, but also calculate the inherent risks and one own limits. Giving another phone number to a brand new provider, is one of my hard limits in this hobby. At this point in experience in this hobby, no girl / provider is so amazingly irresistible that I would bend to that extent. If you require a girl, the possibilities are literally almost limitless. Again, that's just me. One to their own experience. Stay safe my friends.

[QUOTE=Abyolo;5100311]Hey,

So some providers ask you for your non google voice phone numbers. There are free websites online that can tell you the carrier type of a specific phone number, so I guess that's how they know whether a provided phone number is carrier based or google voice based. So is there some other burner phone number service that you use?[/QUOTE]If they don't accept it then I'll move on. I've used it with my previous providers that they will be able to verify my number.

Coming up on the end the year. Any nominees for best.

Escort.

Massage. With he, FS or legit.

Best Asian.

Best Euro.

Best Latina.

Best AA.

Best non pro.

Best Spa.

Best. Your suggested category.

[QUOTE=Abyolo;5100311]Hey,

So some providers ask you for your non google voice phone numbers. There are free websites online that can tell you the carrier type of a specific phone number, so I guess that's how they know whether a provided phone number is carrier based or google voice based. So is there some other burner phone number service that you use?[/QUOTE]I have used Tracfone for years. Use a fake name and profile to set it up. I always give the girl my number while in the room and have her call it to verify it's me and my number.

PP.

Do you guys know a website where I can pay for one time report for a reverse phone look up. I searched a few sites and they don't work and I had even tried my number or Spokeo wants to hook you in monthly payment. I'm texting with a girl who seems DTF and eager to meet but something is bothering me about her and want to check her before setting up a meet.

[QUOTE=PauFord;5098687]Don't feed a troll. Ignore her.

She doesn't really want to contact anyone, she doesn't care about an open marriage. She wants your money, that's it. When you ignore her she'll realize she isn't getting your money and she'll go away. If you reply like this you'll potentially create a pissing contest that nobody ultimately will win.

Block and ignore. Make your all your social media private. Wait. She'll disappear.[/QUOTE]Years ago while using BP I texted a girl from my real number and asked if bare was available. She got upset and and found out my real name and found me on Facebook. She said she was sending my girl friend a screen shot of the conversation and threatened to tell my job. I don't have my job on my FB, never did but with her finding my name I wasn't sure how far it would go. I don't think my job would've done anything. May have not even informed me. I quit just last year so it had no effect. And I'm not sure how she figured out my girlfriend on Facebook since my page does never says I'm in a relationship. Nor did me and my girl have a lot of pics together. I would've been more hurt if she went thru my friends list and sent the conversation to random friends of family of mine. What's crazy tho is that there are multiple people on FB with my name.

I didn't hear from anyone about this until several months after me and my girl broke up, she let me know some girl sent her a message with a screenshot. Since they had no mutual friends and never contacted each other, the message didn't go into her inbox but instead a different message category that most people either don't check it don't realize exists. Ever since I started using google voice. It's super rare a girl makes an issue of me using google voice and when they do I move on. Unless she's free or super attractive and has low rates I wouldn't bother if she cared.

If she's using a burner / google voice / text app type thing you won't be able to trace the number.

The only way you could possibly get any info is if she's using her real phone # through a carrier like AT&T, VZW, etc. I use an app called HiYa which is an anti phone spam app and it does also have reverse phone # look ups. It's an app on your phone, think it's a couple bucks a month. There are other similar options like it as well.

Like I said. It won't work on any burner / text app numbers and only works on a real phone # and even then it's not a sure thing, sometimes it comes back to a wrong / old name. But I do get some hits now and then which have led me to finding their social media, etc.

You may want to invest the couple bucks a month to have access to an app like this. If you are playing in this SA hobby you need all the tools you can get! Haha.

[QUOTE=StanKost;5111309]Do you guys know a website where I can pay for one time report for a reverse phone look up. I searched a few sites and they don't work and I had even tried my number or Spokeo wants to hook you in monthly payment. I'm texting with a girl who seems DTF and eager to meet but something is bothering me about her and want to check her before setting up a meet.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=StanKost;5111309]Do you guys know a website where I can pay for one time report for a reverse phone look up. I searched a few sites and they don't work and I had even tried my number or Spokeo wants to hook you in monthly payment. I'm texting with a girl who seems DTF and eager to meet but something is bothering me about her and want to check her before setting up a meet.[/QUOTE]Intelius is usually the best for that, but even they're no longer foolproof. Something changed a couple years ago making these reverse checks a lot harder.

[QUOTE=StanKost;5111309]Do you guys know a website where I can pay for one time report for a reverse phone look up. I searched a few sites and they don't work and I had even tried my number or Spokeo wants to hook you in monthly payment. I'm texting with a girl who seems DTF and eager to meet but something is bothering me about her and want to check her before setting up a meet.[/QUOTE]What if she's using a burner?

[QUOTE=Cmbrbg135;5109857]In my book, if they ask to give them another number, the answer is, no way. Absolutely forget about the real personal numbers. With so many options out there, I would just move on to the next provide, or better yet, I would rather jerk off on porn and be just fine, until that stubborn itch comes again, then, I would still likely gor to one of my regulars. I know that in order to gain new knowledge, one must try new things, but also calculate the inherent risks and one own limits. Giving another phone number to a brand new provider, is one of my hard limits in this hobby. At this point in experience in this hobby, no girl / provider is so amazingly irresistible that I would bend to that extent. If you require a girl, the possibilities are literally almost limitless. Again, that's just me. One to their own experience. Stay safe my friends.[/QUOTE]Exactly. Dudes got to stop giving in to these hoes demands and being so thirsty for pussy. Wanting your work number and photo of you next to todays paper and things like that.

Was listening to weekend bond court today and there was a prostitution bust. The odd thing is they used listcrawler to go after the provider. Don't see the purpose in something like that unless they are trying to flip girls. Arrest at Elk Grove Holiday Inn, didn't catch her name.

Cops were advertising on CL in beauty services. Were texting me way too many questions on what I would like. I would just say massage but they kept getting upset with my simple answers. They were setting up at an apt by Milwaukee and Devon. An area filled with cops. Ad is down and sent a test text today. Of course, no reply.

[QUOTE=ChgoGuySouth;5113178]Cops were advertising on CL in beauty services. Were texting me way too many questions on what I would like. I would just say massage but they kept getting upset with my simple answers. They were setting up at an apt by Milwaukee and Devon. An area filled with cops. Ad is down and sent a test text today. Of course, no reply.[/QUOTE]So you don't actually know if it was a cop and what is a reverse sting anyway?

Howdy. I've seen this chick's ad all year on rubratings and I finally realized the pics are of pornstar Sarah Vandella. I texted her and she gave me a Chicago address to a million dollar home. Has anyone seen her? She asked for eBay card which is red flag but she said she wouldn't ask me for the code which I have experienced before. I like to think it's really Vandella just doing some light escorting during COVID. Her ad:

[URL]https://chicago.rubratings.com/206157[/URL]

[QUOTE=LukeSolo;5121071]Howdy. I've seen this chick's ad all year on rubratings and I finally realized the pics are of pornstar Sarah Vandella. I texted her and she gave me a Chicago address to a million dollar home. Has anyone seen her? She asked for eBay card which is red flag but she said she wouldn't ask me for the code which I have experienced before. I like to think it's really Vandella just doing some light escorting during COVID. Her ad:

[URL]https://chicago.rubratings.com/206157[/URL][/QUOTE]And for SUCH reasonable rates, too! LOL. I've met Sarah Vandella at several conventions, and she's definitely one of my faves. That woman is so bipolar and unpredictable, you never knew if she's going to greet you warmly or try to murder you. But damn, that's kinda what makes me love her and find her so special.

It's been awhile since I've been in the game, so I'm a little rusty. Back in the day, when a girl asked for a deposit via gift card, the rule was tell them to get lost. We've all been burned at least once that way. Does this ancient rule still apply? I have had two providers ask and I passed on both. Is there a new policy now?

[QUOTE=LordCommander;5122663]It's been awhile since I've been in the game, so I'm a little rusty. Back in the day, when a girl asked for a deposit via gift card, the rule was tell them to get lost. We've all been burned at least once that way. Does this ancient rule still apply? I have had two providers ask and I passed on both. Is there a new policy now?[/QUOTE]Never give a deposit. The Cashapp deposit is the new scam.

Anyone know if she is still around? She was always on my bucket list but I never got around to seeing her.

[QUOTE=MoneyT;5123174]Never give a deposit. The Cashapp deposit is the new scam.[/QUOTE]Agreed! Totally the new scam. Unless you like throwing your money away and never seeing the girl, NEVER give any cash up front for a deposit.

[QUOTE=HottieHunter42;5123650]Agreed! Totally the new scam. Unless you like throwing your money away and never seeing the girl, NEVER give any cash up front for a deposit.[/QUOTE]Never EVER! This ancient rule will always be true. Even if it was a trend trying to take hold it's of no benefit to you at all.

Of all the stories, examples and situations. There's only one I know where a girl came after a deposit was sent. Monger sent a girl deposit and she didn't come. He posted a bad review on TER and he said that she was claiming she had to get gas and there other normal bs.

A couple days later he left a new review saying that the girl finally showed up the next day because of some understanding and she felt bad. She also left a comment too. But basically if he didn't leave the review he probably wouldn't have seen her.

I would say that's about a one in ten million chance.

It's bad enough prices are going up, stop giving in to these dirty girls. There's plenty that don't ask for pictures of you, your I'd, or mail or deposits. These things become trends and they make it harder for everyone else down the line.