"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

Can meet almost right away. Messaging her she came off as very entitled at first. But once you establish who is in charge she calms down a lot. Don't let her walk all over you. Started out asking for a much higher number. Met up with her. Did the deed.

During the deed all of the sudden her limits were non existent. Initially she insisted on cover. Once the door closed it was like she suddenly forgot all of her limits. Not sure what happened with all those limits. She just wanted to be dominated every which way possible. She's pretty far for me. I just happen to have the time today. But I usually don't. So I'll cut her loose for someone a little closer.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ab1fd19d-592a-4ec7-8583-56698b816ddc[/URL]

Any intel on this one? She messaged me first asking if I liked what I saw. We haven't spoken much except for that. If I had to guess she's a pic seller or some other type of scammer. She's new of course.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/17370e14-527a-442d-abf2-c5206a442274[/URL]

Stay safe,

Bob.

Just saw this profile of a beautiful busty lady in the Jonesboro area. Unfortunately, she was very familar to me as Heather Monique from Instagram. [URL]https://www.instagram.com/heathermoni/[/URL].

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d698459b-c1fb-43db-b183-96d8216db5a3[/URL]

So I'll be reporting as a fake account.

[QUOTE=Harley32;5019134]Just saw this profile of a beautiful busty lady in the Jonesboro area. Unfortunately, she was very familar to me as Heather Monique from Instagram. [URL]https://www.instagram.com/heathermoni/[/URL].

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d698459b-c1fb-43db-b183-96d8216db5a3[/URL]

So I'll be reporting as a fake account.[/QUOTE]Reported here as a scammer. Hopefully her account will be deleted ASAP. These a-holes need to be reported by as many of us as can be. They're the scourge of seeking!

[QUOTE=SugarDaddio;5017331]Met with Sugarbaby1101XO early last week and had a decent time with her. She was nervous somewhat which meant to me she was not a pro but willing to have fun. She is curvy but not BBW. I was fine with her body. Kissed amazing. Orgasmic. Bare. No rush. Not sure about anal as I didn't explore that possibility. She tried to hold out for 250 but finally agreed to 200. I plan to repeat. All in all a good time if you are okay with curvy.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2ca84fc9-bbd0-4bf7-b4fe-57a7f0994d2a[/URL]

May the pussy be with you.

SD.[/QUOTE]Does she host?

No she can't host. I usually get rooms for work and invite friends over that way.

[QUOTE=TallGuy3000;5020567]Does she host?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Bobt45;5016566]How do you unblock someone? I thought that wasn't possible.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Jims2321;5016639]You can't, when you go to block a profile, a windows dialog box pops up stating, 'Are you sure you want to Block this member? Blocking a member cannot be reversed. Did you want to hide this member instead?' You can then choose to block or hide them. So hiding them it is possible to unhide them, blocking is permanent.

Stay Safe,

Jims2321.[/QUOTE]Dammit, they took that option away. At one time it was possible to unblock them, I had a whole list of blocked and could go in and manipulate it accordingly.

Any intel at all on this one? I know her photos are obviously filtered but she's very willing. Anyone seen her or talk to her?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/565756a6-35bf-41f5-8043-b8b6ac6f0256[/URL]

Please PM me if you have any intel, thanks.

Bob.

Yet another scammer. You MUST adhere to her rules and FaceTime her for 5 0 0 before she will meet LOL. It's to prove you're serious LOL. Please report her and get her dumb ass kicked off Seeking! Sorry for no link but I reported her prior to copying her link. She's in Atlanta and active.

She never responded to my initial message plus a follow up. I show on my profile that I am married. My guess that some will not reply for that reason, most probably don't reply because I'm just not what they are looking for.

May the pussy be with you.

SD.

[QUOTE=Bobt45;5021058]Any intel at all on this one? I know her photos are obviously filtered but she's very willing. Anyone seen her or talk to her?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/565756a6-35bf-41f5-8043-b8b6ac6f0256[/URL]

Please PM me if you have any intel, thanks.

Bob.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=SugarDaddio;5028131]She never responded to my initial message plus a follow up. I show on my profile that I am married. My guess that some will not reply for that reason, most probably don't reply because I'm just not what they are looking for.

May the pussy be with you.

SD.[/QUOTE]I think one of the reasons I have a lot of success is because I am single & can host. Hotels are great but meeting someone only at a hotel room puts a damper on a longer term relationship.

I have often wondered what I should put in my profile about being married or not. I have always included that. It probably makes it more work to get a reply from an initial message but the reality is I have always had good success on SA. This week alone I have met up four times in four nights while on business. One is a unicorn (I met two different nights) and the other two were new and are keepers I'm thinking. I may share with the group here one of the new ones I just want another meet or two with her is all. Bottom line SA has been very good for me, even with "married" in my profile.

As always may the pussy be with you.

SD.

[QUOTE=SeekingHead;5028161]I think one of the reasons I have a lot of success is because I am single & can host. Hotels are great but meeting someone only at a hotel room puts a damper on a longer term relationship.[/QUOTE]

This one's a piece of work. Said her previous arrangement started with $1500/ month and ended at $3000. For that she sent her prior sugar daddy pictures videos and gave him a true connection and commitment and had real conversations and gave him someone to confide in. Her exact words. OK. I'll play with you on this one.

I told her that was higher than my play budget for pics, videos and conversation. She said everything was up for discussion. So I Moved her to text (the first number she gave me was bad). That's when she tells me she won't be "back" in Atlanta til December. Butthinks we should "start" our arrangement so we can get to know each better. I told her I don't have a problem with learning more about each other, but if she's looking for an allowance during that time, I don't do online. She says, you mean you won't send me MY allowance til you see me? Not even with video chat? That's right. Smh.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/638d0422[/URL]

[QUOTE=SugarDaddio;5028209]I have often wondered what I should put in my profile about being married or not. I have always included that. It probably makes it more work to get a reply from an initial message but the reality is I have always had good success on SA. This week alone I have met up four times in four nights while on business. One is a unicorn (I met two different nights) and the other two were new and are keepers I'm thinking. I may share with the group here one of the new ones I just want another meet or two with her is all. Bottom line SA has been very good for me, even with "married" in my profile.

As always may the pussy be with you.

SD.[/QUOTE]I agree. I have that I'm married on my profile and it really never seems to matter to them. The ones that are bothered by it normally indicate they won't talk to married men right on their profile so I don't ever message them. My last local SB initially didn't want to see me because I was married but we talked and I explained to her why in some instances it's better for them to see someone that's married and she saw the logic. We had a great run, right up until she started dating a guy she worked with and ghosted me LOL. No loss there, the sex was ok but not great LOL. Stay safe,

Bob.

I am with SD here. I am married and in both cases, my unicorns are all girls that understand the situation and end up being amazing. Some enjoy the thrill, and others like the confidence and reliability (if they are in similar situation or open relationship). Regardless, I am made it a point to disclose that, if its not her things. Then that's fine, but no point hiding it.

[QUOTE=SugarDaddio;5028209]I have often wondered what I should put in my profile about being married or not. I have always included that. It probably makes it more work to get a reply from an initial message but the reality is I have always had good success on SA. This week alone I have met up four times in four nights while on business. One is a unicorn (I met two different nights) and the other two were new and are keepers I'm thinking. I may share with the group here one of the new ones I just want another meet or two with her is all. Bottom line SA has been very good for me, even with "married" in my profile.

As always may the pussy be with you.

SD.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=SeekingHead;5028161]I think one of the reasons I have a lot of success is because I am single & can host. Hotels are great but meeting someone only at a hotel room puts a damper on a longer term relationship.[/QUOTE]You are so right about the hosting. The hotel thing can work if you are meeting about once month with a girl. But the hotel thing just seems unnatural if your trying to do it with the same girl every week. The girls start feeling like hoes and the vibe just doesn't strengthen it seem.

I'm married so can't host at home, but I do have a private office space w / fold out Futon. Number of girls have really liked just coming there to smash rather than hotel.

Just so much more natural is she can host and things seem to escalate.

[QUOTE=SugarDaddio;5028209]I have often wondered what I should put in my profile about being married or not. I have always included that. It probably makes it more work to get a reply from an initial message but the reality is I have always had good success on SA. This week alone I have met up four times in four nights while on business. One is a unicorn (I met two different nights) and the other two were new and are keepers I'm thinking. I may share with the group here one of the new ones I just want another meet or two with her is all. Bottom line SA has been very good for me, even with "married" in my profile.

As always may the pussy be with you.

SD.[/QUOTE]I'm married, but I list as "open Relationship" . Kind of true, at least open on my end LOL. I use my own pictures and sometimes keep then public for a bit. Just doesn't seem smart to list as married and be open to blackmail / whatever.

I do usually break the news to them in either chat before meet or when we meet f2 f. Married did hurt me a couple times maybe. Hard to say where it has helped, but I'm sure it does in some cases. Most SA girls are cool with it.

I'm really surprised by the number of single guys on SA.

[QUOTE=Leep12;5029564]You are so right about the hosting. The hotel thing can work if you are meeting about once month with a girl. But the hotel thing just seems unnatural if your trying to do it with the same girl every week. The girls start feeling like hoes and the vibe just doesn't strengthen it seem.

I'm married so can't host at home, but I do have a private office space w / fold out Futon. Number of girls have really liked just coming there to smash rather than hotel.

Just so much more natural is she can host and things seem to escalate.[/QUOTE]Agreed. Airbnb's (search with "Entire Place" option) instead of hotels helps with this, especially for the overnights.

[QUOTE=Leep12;5029564]You are so right about the hosting. The hotel thing can work if you are meeting about once month with a girl. But the hotel thing just seems unnatural if your trying to do it with the same girl every week. The girls start feeling like hoes and the vibe just doesn't strengthen it seem.

I'm married so can't host at home, but I do have a private office space w / fold out Futon. Number of girls have really liked just coming there to smash rather than hotel.

Just so much more natural is she can host and things seem to escalate.[/QUOTE]I agree about the hosting, in my experience that is more of a deal breaker than being married. In my case I've thought about using open relationship rather than married since in my case the wife had an affair 12 years ago but I stayed for the kids but it's been separate bedrooms since then with more of a don't ask, don't tell situation when it comes to meeting intimacy needs. I'm not concerned with her finding out for obvious reasons, more just a drama reduction device. I have considered just getting a nearby apartment to kill two birds with one stone, solve any hosting issues and with the kids at 16/17 divorce without child support is on the horizon anyway. I guess that raises the possibility of just listing separated as a status too.

[QUOTE=GABob706;5029746]Agreed. Airbnb's (search with "Entire Place" option) instead of hotels helps with this, especially for the overnights.[/QUOTE]How do you add that filter to the search? I don't see a place on result set page to add it.

[QUOTE=Jims2321;5029962]How do you add that filter to the search? I don't see a place on result set page to add it.[/QUOTE]It is listed under "Type of Place" not under "Other Filters" where you might expect.

[QUOTE=ByzantineLoop;5030219]It is listed under "Type of Place" not under "Other Filters" where you might expect.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the direction on the filter.

[QUOTE=ByzantineLoop;5029960]I agree about the hosting, in my experience that is more of a deal breaker than being married. In my case I've thought about using open relationship rather than married since in my case the wife had an affair 12 years ago but I stayed for the kids but it's been separate bedrooms since then with more of a don't ask, don't tell situation when it comes to meeting intimacy needs. I'm not concerned with her finding out for obvious reasons, more just a drama reduction device. I have considered just getting a nearby apartment to kill two birds with one stone, solve any hosting issues and with the kids at 16/17 divorce without child support is on the horizon anyway. I guess that raises the possibility of just listing separated as a status too.[/QUOTE]I got luck and paying about 330 mo for a shared office suite. Other company is never there after 5;00 or weekends.

But obviously new get an apartment for any of these girls. I was smashing a girl who's other SD was leasing the apt I found out later. He suspected something and installed a camera LOL.

[QUOTE=ByzantineLoop;5030219]It is listed under "Type of Place" not under "Other Filters" where you might expect.[/QUOTE]Airing been here, thanks.

Considering lunch with this one. Anyone met her recently? I want to make sure its on the up and up. She seems nice.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/91eb1...b-25ec667d6690[/URL]

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e7a44349-5f2a-4d7e-bc94-65344fb8c539[/URL]

Asked for 1 k ppm, then discuss an allowance when we are more comfortable with each other. Politely told her, that I was not the right guy for her. 1 k. Bahahaha, WTF.

Ran across this one today. Immediately wanted to go to text, first red flag. Sent eight self pics without me asking, second red flag. Says she wants her bank account and her pussy filled. Not really what I've had a lady say in the past, but ok. Seems like a scam and I swear I've seen her pic in the past. Any intel would be appreciated.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/a5d06ea7-772b-4988-b91c-a5848283d425[/URL]

[QUOTE=Bobt45;5033398]Ran across this one today. Immediately wanted to go to text, first red flag. Sent eight self pics without me asking, second red flag. Says she wants her bank account and her pussy filled. Not really what I've had a lady say in the past, but ok. Seems like a scam and I swear I've seen her pic in the past. Any intel would be appreciated.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/a5d06ea7-772b-4988-b91c-a5848283d425[/URL][/QUOTE]You linked to your messages instead of her profile page.

[QUOTE=CuriousInquir;5033407]You linked to your messages instead of her profile page.[/QUOTE]Yep I sure did and I've already blocked her. Sorry. You can still search her by name though. Scarlettonthebeach Is her nickname

[QUOTE=Bobt45;5033569]Yep I sure did and I've already blocked her. Sorry. You can still search her by name though. Scarlettonthebeach Is her nickname[/QUOTE]I don't have any feedback on her, but here's a link to her profile for others to comment: [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/9c8cba11-cc73-4ed6-bee6-35d85dff93c6[/URL].

[QUOTE=CuriousInquir;5033635]I don't have any feedback on her, but here's a link to her profile for others to comment: [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/9c8cba11-cc73-4ed6-bee6-35d85dff93c6[/URL].[/QUOTE]She seems kinda insane tbh. Almost stalker levels of insane. I'm staying clear!

[QUOTE=Bobt45;5033398]Ran across this one today. Immediately wanted to go to text, first red flag. Sent eight self pics without me asking, second red flag. Says she wants her bank account and her pussy filled. Not really what I've had a lady say in the past, but ok. Seems like a scam and I swear I've seen her pic in the past. Any intel would be appreciated.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/a5d06ea7-772b-4988-b91c-a5848283d425[/URL][/QUOTE]Do most of you not head to text before discussing amounts? I agree straight away is odd but I always end up there after 6-7 exchanges so that the discussions can be had in private.

When I first started in the bowl, my thought on this was hell naw. Seemed dangerous and too expensive.
Then I had a SB who needed to attend a friends wedding on St Simmons last June. She was doing the hair and makeup for Wedding party.
I had some customers in Charleston I needed to see anyway. Stayed a couple days there and then worked down to the coast stayed a few nights at Airbnb.
Worked out great. I gave her one allowance and paid for the lodging / food and we had great sex 4 of 5 nights. Win-win.


Last October another hot spinner I've know for 1. 5 years is turning 21 and wants to go on a cruise for her birthday. I think about it a day or so and price it out.
My bank is flush and figure what the heck. I hadn't been on a vacation in awhile and I'll spend about the same amount of money if I was to go with my wife,
only now I'm going to be sharing the room 21 yo smoke show and having great sex.
I think about all the other idiots spending the same money on the cruise having no sex with their old overweight wives, and figure no=brainer.
She had her bratty moments, but overall great time and great sex every night. I'm with the finest chick on the cruise met some fun people and jaws dropping when she
jumped in the bikini.

I would repeat again for sure, obviously you need to have some experience with the girl and know that you can get along and trust her.
Best if the trip is her idea or she is 100% excited wanting to go. I would never go if I had to sell the idea.

Any of you all have SB trip / vacation experiences?

[QUOTE=ByzantineLoop;5033987]Do most of you not head to text before discussing amounts? I agree straight away is odd but I always end up there after 6-7 exchanges so that the discussions can be had in private.[/QUOTE]Exactly the same as me, after a few messages I advice them we need move to text as SA can read our messages & we have no privacy. 90% of the girls on the site know something about privacy & understand, the 10% who don't you just cut loose.

[QUOTE=Leep12;5034298]

Any of you all have SB trip / vacation experiences?[/QUOTE]I did it once (trip to Bali), which was enough. Got it out of my system.

She was 19 or 20 (I was about double that), yes, super hot in (and out of) a bikini, and a great (top 5) fuck, but once my dick was tucked back into my pants, well? Not exactly a scintillating conversationalist.

Understand that *my* idea of a good time is reading books, attending the symphony or opera. I don't drink or use drugs, ever. I wake up early to work out. I attend lectures at Emory for fun. Things I hate include "clubbing", bars, and shopping. You can see where that would lead to.

So whereas I wanted to take a morning woodcarving class in Ubud, she wanted to go to Club Whatever's Hot Right Now and sleep late.

If it works, great. If you go to resort-type places you always see older guys with much younger mistresses, and generally they seem to be having a good time.

O.

[QUOTE=Leep12;5034298]When I first started in the bowl, my thought on this was hell naw. Seemed dangerous and too expensive.
Then I had a SB who needed to attend a friends wedding on St Simmons last June. She was doing the hair and makeup for Wedding party.
I had some customers in Charleston I needed to see anyway. Stayed a couple days there and then worked down to the coast stayed a few nights at Airbnb.
Worked out great. I gave her one allowance and paid for the lodging / food and we had great sex 4 of 5 nights. Win-win.

Last October another hot spinner I've know for 1. 5 years is turning 21 and wants to go on a cruise for her birthday. I think about it a day or so and price it out.
My bank is flush and figure what the heck. I hadn't been on a vacation in awhile and I'll spend about the same amount of money if I was to go with my wife,
only now I'm going to be sharing the room 21 yo smoke show and having great sex.
I think about all the other idiots spending the same money on the cruise having no sex with their old overweight wives, and figure no=brainer.
She had her bratty moments, but overall great time and great sex every night. I'm with the finest chick on the cruise met some fun people and jaws dropping when she
jumped in the bikini.

I would repeat again for sure, obviously you need to have some experience with the girl and know that you can get along and trust her.
Best if the trip is her idea or she is 100% excited wanting to go. I would never go if I had to sell the idea.

Any of you all have SB trip / vacation experiences?[/QUOTE]I travel periodically for work to the "Left" coast. So back in 2018, I am onboard for a project in Santa Clara for a large corporation. Wife is buried with project deadlines so she can't make it (which sucks, because we always have great adventures). So ask one of my SB's if they are up for a trip to California. Since my company is paying for all of the expenses, she jumps at the opportunity. We get there, and I hand her a prepaid debit card with a few hundred on it. Since I am busy from 8 to 5, she can spend her time shopping / sightseeing. The evenings were occasional dinners with the client (I introduced her as my daughter who was looking at different colleges to attend). Then back to the room and lots of sex. Overall it was okay. I think if it had been only a week instead of two weeks, it would of been a lot better.

Stay Safe,

JimS2321.

[QUOTE=Ozymandias;5034661]Not exactly a scintillating conversationalist.[/QUOTE]This is the important point for sure since you're going to be with them for days not hours. I have always kept two types of SB at a time, the young fuck toy (21-27) and the more experienced, has lived on their own, maybe a child and held a job (28-39) one. My reasoning is similar to what Ozy mentions, I'm in my mid 40's, like to read to relax, enjoy small venue live music, museums and quiet drinks. I don't do music festivals, clubs, parasailing and other things that cater to adrenaline junkies or recreational pharma space cadets. I travel to Amsterdam on business frequently and made the mistake of telling one of the fuck toys that and never heard the end of it. Yeah like I'm going travel, go through customs, etc with someone who might think it is a good idea to bring home some pharma as a souvenir. I'd love to explain why I'm paying for the airline ticket of someone like that when they get caught in a foreign country. If I want to fuck something young and sexy in Amsterdam I don't need to bring it with me luv.

The older SBs know how to behave on vacation, usually appreciate it immensely as an escape from their normal life, and can typically carry on interesting conversations or at least not make you wince with some comment every five minutes. The fuck toys view vacations as you being there to entertain them while the older SBs know it is the other way around. I tend to view the fuck toys as more like long term escorts and compartmentalize appropriately. The older ones are the ones that get treated like girlfriends because they typically demonstrate the willingness reciprocate the understanding.

So I've taken many vacations with the GF type SB and never had a bad experience, it just requires understanding what you have before inviting them. If I'm travelling domestically on vacation and don't have an older SB at the time then it is usually an easy alternative to source a local fuck toy upon arrival.

[QUOTE=ByzantineLoop;5033987]Do most of you not head to text before discussing amounts? I agree straight away is odd but I always end up there after 6-7 exchanges so that the discussions can be had in private.[/QUOTE]It depends on the girl. A lot of them want to keep it on the site until they're comfortable. You can most often nail a scammer because they immediately want to text and their first texts are almost always unsolicited pics. At least that's been my experience.

[QUOTE=SugarDaddio;5028209]I have often wondered what I should put in my profile about being married or not. I have always included that. It probably makes it more work to get a reply from an initial message but the reality is I have always had good success on SA. This week alone I have met up four times in four nights while on business. One is a unicorn (I met two different nights) and the other two were new and are keepers I'm thinking. I may share with the group here one of the new ones I just want another meet or two with her is all. Bottom line SA has been very good for me, even with "married" in my profile.

As always may the pussy be with you.

SD.[/QUOTE]There was a guy on here once that said he listed as divorced, even though he was married. He would tell the ladies he had younger kids at home, and full custody, so he couldn't host. Said it worked well for him. I prefer just to be up front, so there are no issues down the road if you meet a good one.

[QUOTE=Ozymandias;5034661]I did it once (trip to Bali), which was enough. Got it out of my system.

She was 19 or 20 (I was about double that), yes, super hot in (and out of) a bikini, and a great (top 5) fuck, but once my dick was tucked back into my pants, well? Not exactly a scintillating conversationalist.

Understand that *my* idea of a good time is reading books, attending the symphony or opera. I don't drink or use drugs, ever. I wake up early to work out. I attend lectures at Emory for fun. Things I hate include "clubbing", bars, and shopping. You can see where that would lead to.

So whereas I wanted to take a morning woodcarving class in Ubud, she wanted to go to Club Whatever's Hot Right Now and sleep late.

If it works, great. If you go to resort-type places you always see older guys with much younger mistresses, and generally they seem to be having a good time.

O.[/QUOTE]I hear you, the first domestic trip was with a 38 yo. She was a fine spinner 6 pack abs and loved sex. Being with an "adult" 24/7 is much better.

Like I said the 21 yo was bratty at times but we did have a nice time w / comedy shows, hot tubs, jet ski, snorkel and messing around in the streets in Mexico TBH.