How about this one? “Barbielovestoplay”
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/2276b840-a5e4-4ad6-962e-cc3c1d32f007[/URL]
Her profile text makes it crystal clear that she's a hoe who indeed knows very well that she's a hoe. Has anyone been with her, or has anyone gotten in touch with her, and gotten a price quote and menu?
A huge difference in expectations
[QUOTE=TheList00;6442848]Dude, these hot chicks don't want nor need your 100 dollars. Move on to your fat old ladies.[/QUOTE]I was not surprised to read this post on some other forum. There is a huge difference in expectations from SBs and SDs. SB's post follows.
After being on Seeking for less than a week, I found my first SD.
This is the same man from my last post, "should I get a gift for my POT SD for our first meet". I did not end up bringing him a gift LOL. Our first meet, we got lunch at a place I chose. We talked about everything our hobbies, interests, desires, experiences, career goals. I loved just listening to him talk.
Anything he brought up that I'd never experienced, he'd say things like "well, you will" or "we can go this summer" or "I'll make sure you experience that". He made more statements that were. Hard to believe but I won't get into that. It seemed way too good to be true and I definitely thought he was just sweet talking me, so I didn't feed into it much.
When we started talking about our arrangement, he said he didn't like PPMs, as they felt too transactional. Oof. That took me out of the fantasy I was building in my mind. From what I've seen on this forum, when men say that (especially on the first meet), they're looking for ways to escape the financial side of an SR. Nevertheless, I know every situation is different, so I stayed hopeful. He did say that he's more of the type that will just give whenever his SB wants. Sure.
He noticed me paying for my valet online before we left the restaurant and said he'd take care of it for me later. He walked me back to valet, gave me a tight, warm hug, and I left. Soon after leaving, he texted me asking for my favorite money transfer app info. I sent it to him. Within a couple of minutes he sends me $XXX. I was SO surprised. I believe in platonic first meets and wasn't expecting anything at all, and this was a nice amount. He said he wanted me to have a fun, comfortable rest of my weekend. Oh, absolutely.
We kept texting throughout the weekend. We loved texting before we met up and that energy remained even though he'd went on a business trip and was very busy. Before my weekend was over, he sent more $XXX. So very unexpected, again. This time he lets me know that he will send much more once we hang out more. I let him know that I'm grateful for gifts, big or small.
He knew I had some important work in the coming week and kept letting me know that I can always ask if I ever need help. This is hard for me because I'm not used to just asking for things without giving back. I'd given him nothing but conversation at this point. So, I told him I'm fine and that maybe I'll ask later in the week.
During this time though, I did end up spending more than I liked, so I thought. I do have an SD. I message him asking for help for the first time. He immediately sends $XXXX. Wow. He seemed excited that I'd finally asked for something from him and he wished me a good rest of my evening.
We met up a couple of days ago after he returned from the business trip. He took me to a gorgeous restaurant. We talked and laughed the whole time. He mentioned he's not looking for anyone else that I will be his only SB. I had to ask him to hold me because it was a bit cold, and he did. He was warm and sweet. I kissed his cheek and he kissed mine back. Everything felt so good.
He drove me back to the hotel I was staying at for the weekend and showed no intentions of going in with me at all. I had more things to do that night and he knew that, so I'm glad he didn't even raise the question. As I was saying goodbye, I asked him for a kiss. He chuckled and leaned into me and we shared the sweetest, most passionate kiss I'd had in a while. I let out a little moan. So so so nice. It only lasted a couple of seconds and it left me wanting more.
We said our goodbyes. I exited the car and he watched me walk in as I looked back at him. UGHHHHHH. Soon after, he texted me saying he's a giver and he will happily give me whatever I want. We're hopefully meeting again this week at a coffee shop so he can help me with my career plans.
This is my update. I'm happy.