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[QUOTE=Sticky Rice;1479229]I just do a search for "w4m", I've even had success in the strictly platonic. Or missed connections. There seems to be more real people in those forums than the casual.[/QUOTE]Good point. I found a recently separated lady near my age a few months ago and we had a good time for a very reasonable donation to her rent fund. We repeated a few weeks later, and another good time was had on the same terms. Then oddly enough she called me a week later and we had a very relaxed and enjoyable lunch, which is about all I was expecting (Her treat, which really baffled me). It ended up being a full afternoon of "two friends doing what adults friends do", and on an overall basis I had one of the best times of my life. Because of the vibes I (awkwardly) asked near the end of it where we were at on the donation topic, and after a halting and uncertain conversation she advised it it wasn't the reason she had called. So I am not sure exactly were she and I are at, and I am not going to push to find out just yet, because I am certain she will share her thoughts soon enough. A reader's logical reaction to this could easily be "WTF?", and I have no problem with that at all. The point is that you encounter situations you never expected, and just have to decide "on your feet" what works, and what doesn't, and strive to keep an open mind in the process. Could be the lady is playing games, or is so upset over her situation that she isn't thinking clearly right now. And will change her mind. Or, well. There are a number of other possibilities, aren't there? The point is that people are people, even in a situation like "The Hobby". So. What would you have done?
Recent Reply from Needing Help with bills.
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I am a single 25 year old mother of two (2 years old and 4 months old) who recently graduated college student (Associates in Arts – Psychology) with high academics marks. I am re-enrolling at my college alma mater to get my Associates in Science degree (I was too late for the admission for NEIU and CSU). I am 5'2'.140 lbs with measurements of 36C-27-44 (so I am curvy, not fat). I am mixed with Haitian, Jamaican and Cherokee. I have a milk chocolate complexion, dark brown eyes and light brown / black hair. I do have a total of 7 piercings (5 in my ears, tongue, fairy kiss) and no tattoos. I am a non-drinker / smoker and disease, drug and drama free in conjunction with being very discreet.
I have a loan of $235 that I have to have paid off by July 6th, rent of $500 which is due by July 1st, a light bill of $238. 45 which is due by July 18th and a cell phone bill of $188. 61 which was due on June 26th.
Sounds interesting enough, just wondering if anyone else has met up with her?