[QUOTE=TheGenteelMan;2452426]UPDATE:
Sass was not very fond of my review. She blew up my phone with criticism of what I have reported. She wasn't really nasty about, just not very happy and let me know it. Over and over again. I asked her if there was anything that I reported that was untrue or needed to be modified. Her initial response, "No, I'll fix it myself." She rambled on, "I am so done with USA."
She then went on to explain away her lack of response as well as delayed responses. Interestingly enough, after reading my review, she was the most responsive that I've ever experienced. For example, reply-texts were within 1-2 minutes of my texts (most excellent response time, BTW); not 30 minutes to hours later.
Long story short, we agreed on a date where she would buy me a beer at a place and time of convenience to me, and in return I would call everything even. Since her scathing but somewhat civil texts obliterated the interest I initially held for her, buying me a beer at my convenience was more than a fair deal in my book. The morning of our date, I texted Sass - Crickets. As the day wore on, I texted Sass again - crickets. The date has come and gone just like my funds.
As I stated before, I am certain this is not an atypical Sass-experience, just mine.
So it goes.
TGM.[/QUOTE]I read your original repost, as well as this follow up. I would consider this to be an "opportunistic cash-and-dash". She already has the money so there is absolutely no incentive for her to see you. As far as she's concerned, she would be "losing money" in gas and room fees. I do have one question. After the "room will be painted" call, did you offer for her to keep the cash until next time, or did she ask to keep the cash until next time?
I ask because if it was your idea, you are responsible for 50% of the blame. Now, if she asked to keep the fee and promised to come through, then you got played and setup. I suspect she planned it because that "call", no way in hell was that legit. As to why she would chose to rob you now, when she has come through on appointments before, I would guess that she needed the money but could not perform to something like it was her time of the month. In the back of her mind, she might even have intended to make it up to you. But with nothing to gain from a future meeting, the incentive to spread her legs for you is gone.
But that's just me, being my nutty self.
-the'Nut.
