Non Pro's

[QUOTE=HBadger;4828806]Disregard females, acquire currency is your best bet. Why would you give someone thousands of dollars that you'll never see again. If you're seriously asking this question you might need some help in your life LOL if I'm done talking to a girl or she wants to stop, it's over. I'm done. I won't talk to her again and definitely won't give away my hard earned money even if she is in a tough situation as she says. Not my problem anymore.[/QUOTE]All of you have confirmed my thinking and I'm just going to block her. One of the reasons that I choose a SB over almost any provider is that I get to know them a little better and seem to have more of a connection. The one thing I hate about the "other" site is that 99% of the women on there want you to text them when you want to meet, expect you to show up at your allotted time and be ready to walk out the door 59 minutes later. That's fine and they can do what they want, but it simply doesn't work for me.

This SB was 19 YO and before we hooked up, we talked about her and family and a bunch of shit like that. And she's genuinely a good person. She had a great attitude, it was obvious that she needed money to take care of her kid (s) that she had when she was 16 and 17 (father was no longer around, of course). She always tried to make sure I was happy, if I needed something or a place to go in Miami, she had the hook up. She even set me up with her friend. So, it was a little more than showing up, paying her, fucking her and leaving. I understand with many of the ladies that I meet, it's just a game and way to get money. She was someone with a fucked up life that I was helping out and what I received from her was worth far more than what I paid. So, this is like having a somewhat good acquaintance suddenly having problems and needing help. Unfortunately, I'm thinking of her as a kid that needs help instead of an adult that needs to get her shit together.

[QUOTE=Michael1967;4828903]All of you have confirmed my thinking and I'm just going to block her. One of the reasons that I choose a SB over almost any provider is that I get to know them a little better and seem to have more of a connection. The one thing I hate about the "other" site is that 99% of the women on there want you to text them when you want to meet, expect you to show up at your allotted time and be ready to walk out the door 59 minutes later. That's fine and they can do what they want, but it simply doesn't work for me.[/QUOTE]I do think blocking her is the way to go, but at the same time, I think a lot of the guys responding are being too hard on you about this because I get it. I travel a lot too and there are some women out there that I have a decent connection with. And yes, it's better than what you get with a normal working girl. Like there's this girl I used to see twice a month out in Pensacola. When I'd go out there for work, she'd actually stay with me in my hotel room and we'd spend all day and all night together. I'd slip her $100/ day to help with bills and of course, would pay for all meals and entertainment and what not. Her kids even loved me! (Yes, I took out her kids a bunch). But in the end, she got a boyfriend and it all came to an end when she asked me if I'd slip her some cash to help get her boyfriend's car fixed. Listen, I know weren't a couple, but it's different buying her groceries than it is to pay to fix her boyfriend's alternator. We stopped talking or seeing each other after that, and she completely understood. And you know what? I get the feeling this girl of yours will understand too when you ghost her.

[QUOTE=TnaPorter;4829021]I do think blocking her is the way to go, but at the same time, I think a lot of the guys responding are being too hard on you about this because I get it. I travel a lot too and there are some women out there that I have a decent connection with. And yes, it's better than what you get with a normal working girl. Like there's this girl I used to see twice a month out in Pensacola. When I'd go out there for work, she'd actually stay with me in my hotel room and we'd spend all day and all night together. I'd slip her $100/ day to help with bills and of course, would pay for all meals and entertainment and what not. Her kids even loved me! (Yes, I took out her kids a bunch). But in the end, she got a boyfriend and it all came to an end when she asked me if I'd slip her some cash to help get her boyfriend's car fixed. Listen, I know weren't a couple, but it's different buying her groceries than it is to pay to fix her boyfriend's alternator. We stopped talking or seeing each other after that, and she completely understood. And you know what? I get the feeling this girl of yours will understand too when you ghost her.[/QUOTE]I have to totally agree here on the helping part. I refuse to help a girl who asks me for money to support her bf. Tell your man to "man up and get a fucking better job and support you. ".

I know most of you will roll your eyes and think I'm a sucker, but I gave her $500. I told her that no matter how embarrassed she is, it's her family's job to help her and she needed to swallow her pride and ask for help. I told her again that she needs to apply for unemployment and get that extra $600 a week and that it was that last she would get from me. Then I blocked her. I feel a tinge of guilt, but I'm not Bill Gates and can't fucking afford to try and save the world.

[QUOTE=Michael1967;4829376]I know most of you will roll your eyes and think I'm a sucker, but I gave her $500. I told her that no matter how embarrassed she is, it's her family's job to help her and she needed to swallow her pride and ask for help. I told her again that she needs to apply for unemployment and get that extra $600 a week and that it was that last she would get from me. Then I blocked her. I feel a tinge of guilt, but I'm not Bill Gates and can't fucking afford to try and save the world.[/QUOTE]Like the truly big reason why I don't approve is because (I'm probably projecting here.) I think she's a drug addict and that's what the money was really going towards. But anyway, you're good and did fine.

IMO, don't let any SW or monger tell you how to spend your money. Do what you want and what you feel is right. You're a more generous person than me and I would have went a different way, but at the end of the day, it's your $. Spend it how you want.

[QUOTE=Michael1967;4829376]I know most of you will roll your eyes and think I'm a sucker, but I gave her $500. I told her that no matter how embarrassed she is, it's her family's job to help her and she needed to swallow her pride and ask for help. I told her again that she needs to apply for unemployment and get that extra $600 a week and that it was that last she would get from me. Then I blocked her. I feel a tinge of guilt, but I'm not Bill Gates and can't fucking afford to try and save the world.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Michael1967;4828903]All of you have confirmed my thinking and I'm just going to block her. One of the reasons that I choose a SB over almost any provider is that I get to know them a little better and seem to have more of a connection. The one thing I hate about the "other" site is that 99% of the women on there want you to text them when you want to meet, expect you to show up at your allotted time and be ready to walk out the door 59 minutes later. That's fine and they can do what they want, but it simply doesn't work for me.

This SB was 19 YO and before we hooked up, we talked about her and family and a bunch of shit like that. And she's genuinely a good person. She had a great attitude, it was obvious that she needed money to take care of her kid (s) that she had when she was 16 and 17 (father was no longer around, of course). She always tried to make sure I was happy, if I needed something or a place to go in Miami, she had the hook up. She even set me up with her friend. So, it was a little more than showing up, paying her, fucking her and leaving. I understand with many of the ladies that I meet, it's just a game and way to get money. She was someone with a fucked up life that I was helping out and what I received from her was worth far more than what I paid. So, this is like having a somewhat good acquaintance suddenly having problems and needing help. Unfortunately, I'm thinking of her as a kid that needs help instead of an adult that needs to get her shit together.[/QUOTE]At the end of the day it was your money and you decide what to do with it. I see your point but for me it would be like trying to help out an ex if she needed help after we broke up. Call me an asshole but if I end it with someone I don't even want to talk to them and maybe I don't end on bad terms with some of these girls but if we decide to stop seeing each other than it's over and we won't text each other again. Again that's just me but at the end of the day, your choice, and your money. Don't feel guilt though LOL you have nothing to feel bad about.

[QUOTE=Michael1967;4829376]I know most of you will roll your eyes and think I'm a sucker, but I gave her $500. I told her that no matter how embarrassed she is, it's her family's job to help her and she needed to swallow her pride and ask for help. I told her again that she needs to apply for unemployment and get that extra $600 a week and that it was that last she would get from me. Then I blocked her. I feel a tinge of guilt, but I'm not Bill Gates and can't fucking afford to try and save the world.[/QUOTE]You're a good man, Michael! Hopefully, she'll get things in order and take care of her kids before she thinks of her next high, but that likely won't happen. Glad you ended it in a way that works for you.

Rock Chalk.

[QUOTE=Michael1967;4829376]I know most of you will roll your eyes and think I'm a sucker, but I gave her $500. I told her that no matter how embarrassed she is, it's her family's job to help her and she needed to swallow her pride and ask for help. I told her again that she needs to apply for unemployment and get that extra $600 a week and that it was that last she would get from me. Then I blocked her. I feel a tinge of guilt, but I'm not Bill Gates and can't fucking afford to try and save the world.[/QUOTE]I guess you could call it a Finder's Fee for helping you find the hot one. Any further info on the hot one or is she UTR?

[QUOTE=Michael1967;4828903]All of you have confirmed my thinking and I'm just going to block her. One of the reasons that I choose a SB over almost any provider is that I get to know them a little better and seem to have more of a connection. The one thing I hate about the "other" site is that 99% of the women on there want you to text them when you want to meet, expect you to show up at your allotted time and be ready to walk out the door 59 minutes later. That's fine and they can do what they want, but it simply doesn't work for me.

This SB was 19 YO and before we hooked up, we talked about her and family and a bunch of shit like that. And she's genuinely a good person. She had a great attitude, it was obvious that she needed money to take care of her kid (s) that she had when she was 16 and 17 (father was no longer around, of course). She always tried to make sure I was happy, if I needed something or a place to go in Miami, she had the hook up. She even set me up with her friend. So, it was a little more than showing up, paying her, fucking her and leaving. I understand with many of the ladies that I meet, it's just a game and way to get money. She was someone with a fucked up life that I was helping out and what I received from her was worth far more than what I paid. So, this is like having a somewhat good acquaintance suddenly having problems and needing help. Unfortunately, I'm thinking of her as a kid that needs help instead of an adult that needs to get her shit together.[/QUOTE]You're a gentleman Michael. You did what you thought was the right thing to do with your money. At the end of the day remember one thing. You are not a chump. You gave her a payment. Told her how it is and blocked her. That made her understand will stand for no more. Plus she all too well realized that you could have blocked her before you gave her anything. So she understands 1) you are a stand-up guy 2) This is the end of the line for hand outs.

[QUOTE=Jonderin;4829907]I guess you could call it a Finder's Fee for helping you find the hot one. Any further info on the hot one or is she UTR?[/QUOTE]I don't know what she is. She could make a mint as an escort if she wanted to. I feel like I hit the jackpot. Here's another photo of her.

[QUOTE=Michael1967;4829376]I know most of you will roll your eyes and think I'm a sucker, but I gave her $500. I told her that no matter how embarrassed she is, it's her family's job to help her and she needed to swallow her pride and ask for help. I told her again that she needs to apply for unemployment and get that extra $600 a week and that it was that last she would get from me. Then I blocked her. I feel a tinge of guilt, but I'm not Bill Gates and can't fucking afford to try and save the world.[/QUOTE]Ever have a child with a heroin addiction? The number one rule as taught by Naranon is to NEVER give money in any way shape or form. And it is true in EVERY case I have seen. The 500 bucks you gave her went went immediately to her drug connection. Yes we are all contributing to these girls addictions, but don't think you in any way shape or form "helped " her by giving her 500 bucks. You just got ripped off with no services rendered.

[QUOTE=CookieGuy;4830111]Ever have a child with a heroin addiction? The number one rule as taught by Naranon is to NEVER give money in any way shape or form. And it is true in EVERY case I have seen. The 500 bucks you gave her went went immediately to her drug connection. Yes we are all contributing to these girls addictions, but don't think you in any way shape or form "helped " her by giving her 500 bucks. You just got ripped off with no services rendered.[/QUOTE]It's funny you should mention that. My ex (now dead from drugs) had a heroin addiction and I recently had to throw a step daughter out of my home because of addiction issues (we are now raising her kids). One of the reasons I posted here is because I thought it may be an drug issue. I simply don't want to waste my money on drug addicts, but if she truly needed help and was doing everything she can to get back on her feet, I'd have zero issues with spending (wasting) money to help. That is what made this so difficult. If it's drugs, I don't give a shit, she can suffer. If she is REALLY struggling, I'm not hurting and I can throw some money at her. I'm simply a realist and I just don't want to waste it on a drug addict or a scammer.

Just to get out of that gloomy state of that Florida girl LOL So I haven't been on SA since last year in July, which went really well BTW, I been thinking about going back on SA. I been getting quite a good amount of messages, likes and favorites from a lot of girls but I don't have a premium so I haven't responded. Do you guys think it's currently a good idea to go back on? It just seems to me like more and mote girls are getting gps. That's just from reading their profiles, it seems like a lot of them think that they're super high quality girls but they really aren't. I mean, if they don't bring anything to the table besides just their snatch, it's not really worth it. Some of them are fat or ugly and say they just want a "platonic" relationship. If that's all I wanted I would never get on their. If someone can at least say that they've found a good quality girl in the past couple months than I might go back, you don't have to share her if you don't want but I just want a thumbs up from a couple guys saying it's still a good place as long as I'm willing to seep through all the bs.

[QUOTE=HBadger;4831732]Just to get out of that gloomy state of that Florida girl LOL So I haven't been on SA since last year in July, which went really well BTW, I been thinking about going back on SA. I been getting quite a good amount of messages, likes and favorites from a lot of girls but I don't have a premium so I haven't responded. Do you guys think it's currently a good idea to go back on? It just seems to me like more and mote girls are getting gps. That's just from reading their profiles, it seems like a lot of them think that they're super high quality girls but they really aren't. I mean, if they don't bring anything to the table besides just their snatch, it's not really worth it. Some of them are fat or ugly and say they just want a "platonic" relationship. If that's all I wanted I would never get on their. If someone can at least say that they've found a good quality girl in the past couple months than I might go back, you don't have to share her if you don't want but I just want a thumbs up from a couple guys saying it's still a good place as long as I'm willing to seep through all the bs.[/QUOTE]


My vote on that site is negative, sooo many scammers and not real profiles it was just a waste of time over 2 months of looking and digging, looking through a lot of coal to find a diamond which i did not find