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[QUOTE=DeMeter;3436297][URL]http://www.modernmandingo.com/no-black-apples-please/[/URL]

Why prostitutes reject black men.

Anyway I know one well-reviewed provider who usually reject young white dudes and most non-hawaiian white guys. She said it is a kind of jinx that she almost always had bad experience with young white guys like being treated like shit or ripped off such thing.[/QUOTE]This is the most accurate article on the topic I've ever read. I especially like how it illustrates that thinking women enjoy having sex with you as a client is an illusion.

[QUOTE=HMobius;3437496]A few years ago, like an ungrateful asshole, I asked Admin if they could clean things up by getting rid of outdated or no longer applicable threads (eg. The places are long gone) or was it required to keep everything. Never heard back.

I don't remember how many threads there were but it was way less than 171; so many that guys start new threads without seeing that WAY back there already is a thread for that topic. So some are duplicates such as BB Services and Bareback Service. Some are not actually threads, the guy hit the wrong button and created a thread when he meant to post a report, so there's only 1 or 0 posts.[/QUOTE]History is history and should not be deleted. It's one way people learn about the past and use it for a better tomorrow. It is commons that people don't look at history nor use history as a tool for research. Hence, duplicating threads, unnecessary questions about someplace or someone. Usasexguide has the tools to research pass reviews on threads, the unfortunate thing is most mongers don't take the time to use it nor how to use it.

[QUOTE=Honolulu808;3438263]History is history and should not be deleted. It's one way people learn about the past and use it for a better tomorrow. It is commons that people don't look at history nor use history as a tool for research. Hence, duplicating threads, unnecessary questions about someplace or someone. Usasexguide has the tools to research pass reviews on threads, the unfortunate thing is most mongers don't take the time to use it nor how to use it.[/QUOTE]I agree with you that is the scholarly view with respect to education, but in the prostitution world we move forward and wish the retired girls well, IMHO.

[QUOTE=HMobius;3437496]A few years ago, like an ungrateful asshole, I asked Admin if they could clean things up by getting rid of outdated or no longer applicable threads (eg. The places are long gone) or was it required to keep everything. Never heard back.

I don't remember how many threads there were but it was way less than 171; so many that guys start new threads without seeing that WAY back there already is a thread for that topic. So some are duplicates such as BB Services and Bareback Service. Some are not actually threads, the guy hit the wrong button and created a thread when he meant to post a report, so there's only 1 or 0 posts.[/QUOTE]*raises his hand* as a thread creator, Bareback service (which got locked.) Agree w / braddah CK813. Too many threads for every little thing. Call me OCD, but I prefer more organized folders- plus- it makes it much more easier to search for a particular girl or place. But yup esp the establishments that permanently close down.

Frequenting AMP will affect out real life in negative way?

With 2 benjis, we can choose one among many attractive women. We can rejct women easily. They will treat us like king though I am a man who can only afford macy's and can never afford diamond head house while their bags are from chanel and they earn as much as 1 k a day (some will get 10 customer a day) Without paying they may choose tall muscular haole men in night club or socially successful men.

If we are too accustomed to be treated like hero by pretty women there, will it affect us to be arrogant bs guy in "normal" date pool?? Rating women's attitude and looks as habit while women snob us thinking "I deserve better more attractive taller men"?

[QUOTE=DeMeter;3441939]Frequenting AMP will affect out real life in negative way?

With 2 benjis, we can choose one among many attractive women. We can rejct women easily. They will treat us like king though I am a man who can only afford macy's and can never afford diamond head house while their bags are from chanel and they earn as much as 1 k a day (some will get 10 customer a day) Without paying they may choose tall muscular haole men in night club or socially successful men.

If we are too accustomed to be treated like hero by pretty women there, will it affect us to be arrogant bs guy in "normal" date pool?? Rating women's attitude and looks as habit while women snob us thinking "I deserve better more attractive taller men"?[/QUOTE]Good point. But I try my best to keep fantasy and reality separate. Although, it does get difficult when you do get very close and begin to have a relationship with the provider. To me, it's like living 2 separate lives and never ever bridging them.

The only way I can find a negative impact is when the provider is like Cam. She is so great you will want that type of sex when you see your S / O. After Cam all I could think of how great the session was and how I wished I had that with the S / O. I had a hard time faking things with the S / O.

Maybe if you get seen walking in and out of an AMP but idc. I can make up things why I was there and the way I look and my background it will work. Until then keep fucking and sucking and have fun and fuck what everyone else thinks or says.

[QUOTE=DeMeter;3441939]Frequenting AMP will affect out real life in negative way?

With 2 benjis, we can choose one among many attractive women. We can rejct women easily. They will treat us like king though I am a man who can only afford macy's and can never afford diamond head house while their bags are from chanel and they earn as much as 1 k a day (some will get 10 customer a day) Without paying they may choose tall muscular haole men in night club or socially successful men.

If we are too accustomed to be treated like hero by pretty women there, will it affect us to be arrogant bs guy in "normal" date pool?? Rating women's attitude and looks as habit while women snob us thinking "I deserve better more attractive taller men"?[/QUOTE]

The sex trade is the valley of broken dolls. Not just the working girls, but the clientele too. Some find ways to compensate for the fault lines of their soul and lead a reasonable life and manage a network of healthy relationships, but that is rare or short-lived. Tread lightly, and do not linger too long if you cannot compartmentalize this part of your life.

And if you do get into a relationship, don't try to be a savior. You will just get yourself crucified.

[QUOTE=DeMeter;3441939]Frequenting AMP will affect out real life in negative way?

With 2 benjis, we can choose one among many attractive women. We can rejct women easily. They will treat us like king though I am a man who can only afford macy's and can never afford diamond head house while their bags are from chanel and they earn as much as 1 k a day (some will get 10 customer a day) Without paying they may choose tall muscular haole men in night club or socially successful men.

If we are too accustomed to be treated like hero by pretty women there, will it affect us to be arrogant bs guy in "normal" date pool?? Rating women's attitude and looks as habit while women snob us thinking "I deserve better more attractive taller men"?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=LightBringer;3445198]The sex trade is the valley of broken dolls. Not just the working girls, but the clientele too. Some find ways to compensate for the fault lines of their soul and lead a reasonable life and manage a network of healthy relationships, but that is rare or short-lived. Tread lightly, and do not linger too long if you cannot compartmentalize this part of your life.

And if you do get into a relationship, don't try to be a savior. You will just get yourself crucified.[/QUOTE]Well said my friend. We should all remember this.

[QUOTE=LightBringer;3445198]The sex trade is the valley of broken dolls. Not just the working girls, but the clientele too. Some find ways to compensate for the fault lines of their soul and lead a reasonable life and manage a network of healthy relationships, but that is rare or short-lived. Tread lightly, and do not linger too long if you cannot compartmentalize this part of your life.

And if you do get into a relationship, don't try to be a savior. You will just get yourself crucified.[/QUOTE]One of the most awesome thing I've ever read here. And the savior rule seems to be the ultimate truth. I know someone who has taken on repair job after repair job, and always left with pain and legal bills. You nailed it. Hh.

Does anyone know how I can get someone to pay? He dug out and has done it a few times and owes me 900.

I guess joke is on me but does anyone have advice?

[QUOTE=LeiaBaby;3447160]Does anyone know how I can get someone to pay? He dug out and has done it a few times and owes me 900.

I guess joke is on me but does anyone have advice?[/QUOTE]A few times? After the first time, there should never have been again time.

[QUOTE=LeiaBaby;3447160]Does anyone know how I can get someone to pay? He dug out and has done it a few times and owes me 900.

I guess joke is on me but does anyone have advice?[/QUOTE]Wow, sorry that happened to you. You have so many fans here that I am sure a lot of guys will be willing to go track that asshole down and get your money for you, but do you really want yo go that route? If you have any of his real contact info you could threaten him or even blackmail him. Again, do you really want to go there. There are things you could do but sometimes it's better to just cut your losses, consider it a part of doing business, and try to prevent that from happening in the future. For one thing you said he's done it several times. Not sure why you ever repeated with him, if he already ripped you off. You can also warn other providers through blacklist sites and forums like this. You could (should) collect the donation up front. Some mongers will scoff at that, but too bad. You come from an AMP background and at AMPs the "tip" is usually collected at the end of the session. However you are now an independent escort and usually indies collect the "donation" upfront. It is standard practice.

Again sorry this happened to you. You are an excellent provider and genuine nice person, and certainly didn't deserve this. Just don't know how much you want to pursue this. The other sad thing is there are so many good clients missing the opportunity to see you because it is so hard to get an appointment and then you have guy's flaking, cancelling, no showing, and flat out ripping you off, getting through.

You will be missed when you leave here. Wish you the best in your future. And hope I get to see you again before you go. (If I can ever get a damn appointment! LOL) xo.

[QUOTE=LeiaBaby;3447160]Does anyone know how I can get someone to pay? He dug out and has done it a few times and owes me 900.

I guess joke is on me but does anyone have advice?[/QUOTE]Wow, I'm sorry to hear that. As others have suggested if it happens once, at your discretion, it may be a good idea to blacklist that person. If you decide to engage with them again, make sure you require payment in full of anything they owe and your service fee in advance.

In my line of work, we occasionally have to chase an overdue invoice for work that has already been completed. If that client requests any further work from my firm, they are now required to pay 100% in advance.

As Little Dickie suggested below, research standard practices for high end Indy escorts. On the mainland, I believe many independent escorts require the "donation" to be placed in plain sight on a desk or table before the session begins, in particular for first time customers. You have a solid reputation here on Oahu, so that might not be a bad screening procedure.

Guys here on the island are typically trained to not pay in advance at AMPs because it shifts the balance of power and can result in bad service, but I do think the Indy scene has different norms. I almost never paid in advance at an AMP, but I have no problem paying in advance if a girl has a good reputation for consistent service with low YMMV.

Sorry that doesn't help you recoup your losses with this deadbeat.

So sad, ms. Pretty.

But I know get some jerks running around doing this in AMPs too.

One time one AMP took surveillance photo of the jerk. Local guy, 20's with cheap aloha shirt long pants dresses like he came from work. They posted photo outside. The door.

Nowadays, you get one photo and can share with the world.

Get even baby. Door bell cameras.

[QUOTE=LeiaBaby;3447160]Does anyone know how I can get someone to pay? He dug out and has done it a few times and owes me 900.

I guess joke is on me but does anyone have advice?[/QUOTE]