Lurker 2 cents about the money for the girls
I'm fascinated by the sugar baby stories.
My experience was in South Florida, a pussy paradise.
I had a different experience with a couple of girls because I met them not online, rather "freestyle " in the parlance.
Online girls know they can get a few more $$ if they find a generous guy.
I am polite but not a dinner coupon for them.
One time I was talking to the hottest of them on the phone and she asked me for a little money and I said "You know the rules, no pussy no money. ".
At the time I was standing at the ATM machine and people heard and laughed.
I paid the hot one a Benjamin, and no complaints.
Her chubby 37 year old friend was okay with $40-50. She kept her visits to me a secret from her hot friend.
There's no trust among thieves.
They all know what they are doing, if they can scam free meals from you they will do it.