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Messaged me on sa. Was straight to the point of wanting to meet and asked my #. Not really my type but I gave her my number to see where the convo went. Immediately texted me a son story about being hungry. I asked about whether she could host or was willing to commute. She said she would host then sent me her cash app. Told her I wasn't sending $. We hadn't even set up a meet. Said she wasn't interested in talking anymore then. I'd stay away from that one unless you want scammed.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/11e58a0a-8ea2-45cf-be39-b44815c777f5[/URL]

[QUOTE=MartyC;7400928]Messaged me on sa. Was straight to the point of wanting to meet and asked my #. Not really my type but I gave her my number to see where the convo went. Immediately texted me a son story about being hungry. I asked about whether she could host or was willing to commute. She said she would host then sent me her cash app. Told her I wasn't sending $. We hadn't even set up a meet. Said she wasn't interested in talking anymore then. I'd stay away from that one unless you want scammed.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/11e58a0a-8ea2-45cf-be39-b44815c777f5[/URL][/QUOTE]I had the exact same experience with this one. After I told her no, she immediately unfriended me on snapchat. Then just this morning she adds me back and starts in on the begging again. Is it really this easy to scam people out of money?

Do they seriously get the rates they're asking for on tryst?

[QUOTE=BigAsaBat;7402527]Do they seriously get the rates they're asking for on tryst?[/QUOTE]A little OT.

But honestly tho I'm curious about this. Tryst prices seemed to have exploded over the last year. Is there really that many people paying 500+? Seems like everyone on there is asking that.

I don't know if management will allow this posting or not. Sorry if I'm breaking a rule. Not trying to promote any site or anything. Just thought members on here might like to know this. Oh and by the way I'm only on there to look; I've never paid a cent.

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[QUOTE=BigAsaBat;7402527]Do they seriously get the rates they're asking for on tryst?[/QUOTE]From my understanding with speaking to any of the girls that had gone over and started a Tryst account, they definitely get the prices they are asking for. However, for most of them, they have normal jobs and more so do it as side money, so it's not like they are flying through clientele on a daily basis like some girls are that are charging a 3rd of the rates. With it being side cash, having even just 1 maybe 2 appointments a week can cover a decent amount for them depending on bills and such, but yes they do get those prices from some guys that feel like it's worth it. Absolutely insane to me, but I guess you could say that my opinion is definitely subjective on placing a price on it. It's also why you see so many girls adjust prices up and down to find that sweet spot of the amount of clients they are going to want to get and then hold that rate steady when they feel like they are at the sweet spot for how many clients they want to see regularly. A couple of them that I have seen before they went to tryst have actually told me similar stories behind the rates they charge. At the same time, have you seen the rates they try and charge on seeking or SB? It's like a base rate that most have and then they either negotiate or stick to what they want for it, but those prices are high too. Benefit of seeking and SB that I have seen over the years is that it's not hourly or anything and most I have had encounters with it's like a non clock watched experience compared to ones on tryst.

In August, we exchanged a few messages on SB. I told her we must meet in public first, and I'm strictly PPM. She said I was looking for a booker. So I said "Bye!" Haven't heard a thing since.

She just messaged me saying she needs $40 immediately! I said no, many times over. Then she said she'd show me something. I again said no. Girl won't quit.

[QUOTE=BigAsaBat;7402527]Do they seriously get the rates they're asking for on tryst?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=MartyC;7402561]A little OT.

But honestly tho I'm curious about this. Tryst prices seemed to have exploded over the last year. Is there really that many people paying 500+? Seems like everyone on there is asking that.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=GSpotGilligan;7405001]From my understanding with speaking to any of the girls that had gone over and started a Tryst account, they definitely get the prices they are asking for. However, for most of them, they have normal jobs and more so do it as side money, so it's not like they are flying through clientele on a daily basis like some girls are that are charging a 3rd of the rates. With it being side cash, having even just 1 maybe 2 appointments a week can cover a decent amount for them depending on bills and such, but yes they do get those prices from some guys that feel like it's worth it. Absolutely insane to me, but I guess you could say that my opinion is definitely subjective on placing a price on it. It's also why you see so many girls adjust prices up and down to find that sweet spot of the amount of clients they are going to want to get and then hold that rate steady when they feel like they are at the sweet spot for how many clients they want to see regularly. A couple of them that I have seen before they went to tryst have actually told me similar stories behind the rates they charge. At the same time, have you seen the rates they try and charge on seeking or SB? It's like a base rate that most have and then they either negotiate or stick to what they want for it, but those prices are high too. Benefit of seeking and SB that I have seen over the years is that it's not hourly or anything and most I have had encounters with it's like a non clock watched experience compared to ones on tryst.[/QUOTE]

Years ago in the 2000s when things started popping online and we had escort dot com and the big doggie I and many others were able to negotiate rates. Not always mind you but many times. Now its a lot easier for them to see what everyone else is asking on Tryst and think they can get that too. GPS and the American way at its finest. And it does help if this isn't their only source of income. Some I think are doing pretty good making it on Onlyfans too. Also if somebody in Chicago or whatever is willing to pay all their expenses and several Ks per day to see them; the more power to the lady. She sure isn't going to say $$$HR here if she wants !K plus in those cities.

And the touring ladies have additional expense such as travel and hotels. Several of those "out of towners" post ads are fishing for dollars. No confirmed "dates" and/or deposits and they skip here and move on to another city. And the foreign ones usually have an agency that takes a cut. Just a couple of years ago the Latina ladies with TouringVIPGirls were $$.5 HHR and $$$-$$$.5 HR. All the ones that are still around have gone independent but they still use a screener "secretary". They probably share the same person but not the one previously with TVIP. They are now $$$$ or more HHR and $$$$$$ or more HR. Got a text message earlier this year from the "secretary" of one with the initials of VB who I've seen several times. I asked the rate but I knew what it was on Tryst. Got back $$$$$$ HR. I just said thanks but she's priced herself out of my budget. Another one with big naturals and the initals of TA is $$$$$$$ HR now. I know that's a heck of a lot lower than !K or more. But to each their own. I can sure eat more times at Texas Roadhouse for the price of Fogo de Chao or St Elmo's. And even more times at Arby's or the grill at Thorntons. LOL. East side humor.

I know times are tuff out there. However my SSA COLA hasn't increase that much to cover those increases. The Asians at the local AMPs are getting more share of my SSA payments.

[QUOTE=GSpotGilligan;7405001]From my understanding with speaking to any of the girls that had gone over and started a Tryst account, they definitely get the prices they are asking for. However, for most of them, they have normal jobs and more so do it as side money, so it's not like they are flying through clientele on a daily basis like some girls are that are charging a 3rd of the rates. With it being side cash, having even just 1 maybe 2 appointments a week can cover a decent amount for them depending on bills and such, but yes they do get those prices from some guys that feel like it's worth it. Absolutely insane to me, but I guess you could say that my opinion is definitely subjective on placing a price on it. It's also why you see so many girls adjust prices up and down to find that sweet spot of the amount of clients they are going to want to get and then hold that rate steady when they feel like they are at the sweet spot for how many clients they want to see regularly. A couple of them that I have seen before they went to tryst have actually told me similar stories behind the rates they charge. At the same time, have you seen the rates they try and charge on seeking or SB? It's like a base rate that most have and then they either negotiate or stick to what they want for it, but those prices are high too. Benefit of seeking and SB that I have seen over the years is that it's not hourly or anything and most I have had encounters with it's like a non clock watched experience compared to ones on tryst.[/QUOTE]I spent a few hundred $$ on SB. Got zero replies to anyone I initiated. Tried to stick with only opening messages from accounts it claimed viewed and favorited my profile before messaging me. And none of them ever replied.

Is there people actually having different experiences?

On SA I have done okay. I stay away from messaging girls who dress up in fancy dresses. In their pics so most of the girls I message who reply are 200-300. I'm still trying to figure out how to better navigate the conversations when discussing prices and 'menus' or whatever you want to call it.

[QUOTE=MartyC;7406514]I spent a few hundred $$ on SB. Got zero replies to anyone I initiated. Tried to stick with only opening messages from accounts it claimed viewed and favorited my profile before messaging me. And none of them ever replied.

Is there people actually having different experiences?

On SA I have done okay. I stay away from messaging girls who dress up in fancy dresses. In their pics so most of the girls I message who reply are 200-300. I'm still trying to figure out how to better navigate the conversations when discussing prices and 'menus' or whatever you want to call it.[/QUOTE]I've had luck on SB recently and SA (a couple years ago). I offer them a free lunch and $200 to meet, lunch only, NSA. About a quarter of the contacts show up. If we click, I discuss very generous terms for an hour of covered BF / GF fun. I've met about ten SB women for lunch this year, maybe five we met later at a hotel for fun. I always host at a decent hotel. Got a lovely 23 year old babe now. Our fifth meet will be Wednesday morning!

SB and SA work. You just have to put in a lot of time and money.

[QUOTE=MartyC;7406514]I spent a few hundred $$ on SB. Got zero replies to anyone I initiated. Tried to stick with only opening messages from accounts it claimed viewed and favorited my profile before messaging me. And none of them ever replied.

Is there people actually having different experiences?

On SA I have done okay. I stay away from messaging girls who dress up in fancy dresses. In their pics so most of the girls I message who reply are 200-300. I'm still trying to figure out how to better navigate the conversations when discussing prices and 'menus' or whatever you want to call it.[/QUOTE]Opposite for me. I got like 10 numbers off sb from one 89 token pack or whatever itvis. When I look at recently active and last online dates sb appears to be more active. More bots for sure but its been my go to.

Seems like it's getting harder and harder to use gift cards to set up accounts. Anyone have recent luck with a non-credit card way for Seeking or Secret Benefits?

So I have been on this site for a long time. Long enough I know and have met tabby (I know wrong thread). Anyways I have really made a post on here before. I am just always ultra scared about anything internet related because it's forever. So I am basically have stuck to different lines. So for example I am current and active on AM. I have had some luck there in the past. Not been active as of the last few years but I got back on and made connections with a couple different woman. They were both real because I ask them to send a picture doing a certain thing that makes it hard to find a stock image of that really helps weed out the fakes up front. Anyways I have had 2 different ladies talk to me and everything is going great and they are really flirty and almost aggressive with their flirtiness and sending pictures without me asking and then boom. They are gone off the channel we were talking and also off AM. Anyone else experience this? Mind you this is after we have swapped pictures and we are talking and flirting and everything is great. I mean I get having cold feet but 2 in one week is kinda odd to me. Just wanted to share the AM playing field and see if anyone else had similar experiences.

[QUOTE=MountainIce;7436232]So I have been on this site for a long time. Long enough I know and have met tabby (I know wrong thread). Anyways I have really made a post on here before. I am just always ultra scared about anything internet related because it's forever. So I am basically have stuck to different lines. So for example I am current and active on AM. I have had some luck there in the past. Not been active as of the last few years but I got back on and made connections with a couple different woman. They were both real because I ask them to send a picture doing a certain thing that makes it hard to find a stock image of that really helps weed out the fakes up front. Anyways I have had 2 different ladies talk to me and everything is going great and they are really flirty and almost aggressive with their flirtiness and sending pictures without me asking and then boom. They are gone off the channel we were talking and also off AM. Anyone else experience this? Mind you this is after we have swapped pictures and we are talking and flirting and everything is great. I mean I get having cold feet but 2 in one week is kinda odd to me. Just wanted to share the AM playing field and see if anyone else had similar experiences.[/QUOTE]What is AM?

[QUOTE=PhlipJ11;7436648]What is AM?[/QUOTE]I'm assuming Ashley Madison by the context.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b4cda2a8-62cf-499b-b5c9-6d04165a9ff2[/URL]

Any intel on this one?

[QUOTE=Captgol;7408037]Opposite for me. I got like 10 numbers off sb from one 89 token pack or whatever itvis. When I look at recently active and last online dates sb appears to be more active. More bots for sure but its been my go to.[/QUOTE]Capt, do you focus on verified accounts mostly or a mix? Any tips would help. I want to tip my toe in the SB waters, but want to make it worthwhile as I usually have success on SA.

[QUOTE=TVDinner;7445314]Capt, do you focus on verified accounts mostly or a mix? Any tips would help. I want to tip my toe in the SB waters, but want to make it worthwhile as I usually have success on SA.[/QUOTE]Nope. I don't even have a picture up. I have a brief description of myself and what I'm looking for as well as assurance that I'm real myself referencing Indianapolis.

Other than that I wish I had more tips to give. I message and reply to whos pictures look real and I find attractive. Things usually move pretty quick once I pay to open the message. I usually explain I'm looking for a friend with benefits, someone with a good personality who has some depth and good energy about them. They seem to eat that up rather than just saying let's fuck. Most responded well to that. Exchange info and off make contact off the app quickly because your message will get buried in their inbox as it gets flooded with other horny dudes.

Good luck.

[QUOTE=Captgol;7445510]Nope. I don't even have a picture up. I have a brief description of myself and what I'm looking for as well as assurance that I'm real myself referencing Indianapolis.

Other than that I wish I had more tips to give. I message and reply to whos pictures look real and I find attractive. Things usually move pretty quick once I pay to open the message. I usually explain I'm looking for a friend with benefits, someone with a good personality who has some depth and good energy about them. They seem to eat that up rather than just saying let's fuck. Most responded well to that. Exchange info and off make contact off the app quickly because your message will get buried in their inbox as it gets flooded with other horny dudes.

Good luck.[/QUOTE]Thanks, sir!

Met Layla off SA a few times. Seems to have two profiles. Very petite 19 yo. Not even sure she's 5' tall and very eager to meet. Negotiated her down quite a bit. Only downside was I get the impression she might've scheduled multiple dates the last time I seen her as she seemed to be rushing and her effort levels / enthusiasm was not like the first few times. So I moved on as my inbox has been flooded on there lately.

Curvy attractive Asian. She hmu very direct and invited me to her place. Ultimately declined due to her asking 8. Wasn't even going to try to negotiate cause I already had 3-4 girls on there I've been trying to set something up for half that right now. But seems like she would've been a good time.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/be61625a-26a4-43ad-8f98-c28904cde1d2[/URL]

Have a photo? I'm always on the lookout for new asian SB's but the link wasn't working for me.

[QUOTE=MartyC;7457543]Curvy attractive Asian. She hmu very direct and invited me to her place. Ultimately declined due to her asking 8. Wasn't even going to try to negotiate cause I already had 3-4 girls on there I've been trying to set something up for half that right now. But seems like she would've been a good time.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/be61625a-26a4-43ad-8f98-c28904cde1d2[/URL][/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=RubGuy80;7460709]Have a photo? I'm always on the lookout for new asian SB's but the link wasn't working for me.[/QUOTE]I don't. Seems to have deactivated her account. I know there's another one I've been talking to. Will post her in an update here soon.

This young girl is running the "I need my phone turned back on scam".

AVOID.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5608db89-2976-41b2-a79a-604b6970d692

[QUOTE=NiceGuysLast66;7461460]This young girl is running the "I need my phone turned back on scam".

AVOID.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5608db89-2976-41b2-a79a-604b6970d692[/QUOTE]Interesting I've tried to hit her up but never got a reply.

Zayia from Ohio is another one. Wanted to come see me right away. Just needed $15 for gas LOL. Told her I'd love to reimburse her for her expenses upon arrival.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7119bd1e-691c-427f-ae70-17979d0db635[/URL]

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Hey everyone Dave here, new SLN girl in Indianapolis, her name Riah and she is 19. This girl claims she will do anything and is all about pleasing, she wants to be your sl*t. Definitely down for a long session as she asked if we could get a bottle of Hennessy. Likes rough sex including, choking, slapping, spanking and being face f*ed. She is not into anal, but likes the idea of her ass being fingered when she rides and gets f*ed in doggy. She will do a 3 sum MFF and even has a friend she can bring, she will also do MFM. Wants a low to mid range PPM. BBFS is ok with recent testing.

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PM me if you are interested in my ambassador program.

Chloe.

An unusual encounter. Think her pics are AI, she's attractive tho and has that killer slim body / thick ass combo. Not from here and has a cute accent. We hung out for a while out in public and then she asked to head to her place for the bedroom. Tried to give me a FJ which is not my thing. Her asking price was a little high for the date was a little high. I countered with half and she was like yeah whatever's fine. Wasn't much chemistry and a meh encounter. Might try again and see if it improves. Something just off about the whole encounter. $$$ for a date.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/dccf89c6-606e-449a-8ba8-971cb538ecc7[/URL]

Kelsey.

Asked for 8. Said she's not into anal, but is open to about everything else. That would be more than I've ever spent on a girl. But I'm considering it.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a6c6c91b-f432-4fc3-8f2a-8c09eef006bd[/URL]

Nana.

Cute Asian. Says she's open minded in the bedroom. Asked me for 8 as well per date. So I passed tho we continued to talk. Seems like a cool person. Maybe some negotiation room.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/15c92426-cc4a-4a21-9b3e-6bb93ecea98e[/URL]

Linzey.

Meet at your own risk. Asked about her going out for drinks to verify she real and getting to know one another, she requested meeting at her place in AM instead and we could hang out there. Asked me to come right in. Door was cracked open as I approached and I could see a dude. I bailed. She was like nah he's family he doesn't care. Foolishly went through with it. Very skinny, which is kinda my type and when the time came she was the right type of crazy in the sack. When I say she was open to basically everything and with enthusiasm. She kinda gave off user vibes and the place was a mess. Also after finishing up the 'family member' at one point was walking through with a gun. The whole thing super sketch.

I'm seeing quotes for 8 - are you kidding me? These girls are off their rocker.

[QUOTE=MartyC;7466387]Chloe.

An unusual encounter. Think her pics are AI, she's attractive tho and has that killer slim body / thick ass combo. Not from here and has a cute accent. We hung out for a while out in public and then she asked to head to her place for the bedroom. Tried to give me a FJ which is not my thing. Her asking price was a little high for the date was a little high. I countered with half and she was like yeah whatever's fine. Wasn't much chemistry and a meh encounter. Might try again and see if it improves. Something just off about the whole encounter. $$$ for a date.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/dccf89c6-606e-449a-8ba8-971cb538ecc7[/URL]

Kelsey.

Asked for 8. Said she's not into anal, but is open to about everything else. That would be more than I've ever spent on a girl. But I'm considering it.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a6c6c91b-f432-4fc3-8f2a-8c09eef006bd[/URL]

Nana.

Cute Asian. Says she's open minded in the bedroom. Asked me for 8 as well per date. So I passed tho we continued to talk. Seems like a cool person. Maybe some negotiation room.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/15c92426-cc4a-4a21-9b3e-6bb93ecea98e[/URL]

Linzey.

Meet at your own risk. Asked about her going out for drinks to verify she real and getting to know one another, she requested meeting at her place in AM instead and we could hang out there. Asked me to come right in. Door was cracked open as I approached and I could see a dude. I bailed. She was like nah he's family he doesn't care. Foolishly went through with it. Very skinny, which is kinda my type and when the time came she was the right type of crazy in the sack. When I say she was open to basically everything and with enthusiasm. She kinda gave off user vibes and the place was a mess. Also after finishing up the 'family member' at one point was walking through with a gun. The whole thing super sketch.[/QUOTE]

Had a wonderful weekly arrangement with LucyCoco for 15 months. We parted on very good terms. This February is our two year anniversary since we met. I'm thinking of meeting her for coffee to see how she's doing.

Any ideas or news?

John Guest.

[QUOTE=JohnGuest;7470593]Had a wonderful weekly arrangement with LucyCoco for 15 months. We parted on very good terms. This February is our two year anniversary since we met. I'm thinking of meeting her for coffee to see how she's doing.

Any ideas or news?

John Guest.[/QUOTE]She's under the recently active on SB for however reliable that is.

[QUOTE=JohnGuest;7470593]Had a wonderful weekly arrangement with LucyCoco for 15 months. We parted on very good terms. This February is our two year anniversary since we met. I'm thinking of meeting her for coffee to see how she's doing.

Any ideas or news?.[/QUOTE]She's under the recently active on SB for however reliable that is.

[QUOTE=JohnGuest;7470593]Had a wonderful weekly arrangement with LucyCoco for 15 months. We parted on very good terms. This February is our two year anniversary since we met. I'm thinking of meeting her for coffee to see how she's doing.

Any ideas or news?

John Guest.[/QUOTE]Yes she is still there. Take her for a ride. JB.

[QUOTE=JohnBuddy;7471288]Yes she is still there. Take her for a ride. JB.[/QUOTE]Thanks guys. I'll send her a couple texts in Feb to see if she wants to meet for coffee and talk.

[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/d48459599d2f50b4[/URL]

She's real messaged her last night. She replied today then we text then she came over, good oral skills. Definitely an addict if you got a problem with that skip. She was jumping up and down like she hit the lottery because I gave her $200.

[QUOTE=Bob0324;7472951][URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/d48459599d2f50b4[/URL]

She's real messaged her last night. She replied today then we text then she came over, good oral skills. Definitely an addict if you got a problem with that skip. She was jumping up and down like she hit the lottery because I gave her $200.[/QUOTE]We've exchanged a few messages on SB. Just haven't had time to follow through.

[QUOTE=JohnGuest;7474385]We've exchanged a few messages on SB. Just haven't had time to follow through.[/QUOTE]She has messaged me several times since we met and I've been ghosting her. I don't plan on repeating.

Met her once but never had a second date or any personal time together. Can you PM what you were offering her and any further info on your experiences with her?

[QUOTE=JohnGuest;7471678]Thanks guys. I'll send her a couple texts in Feb to see if she wants to meet for coffee and talk.[/QUOTE].

This gal used to be on Seeking, not sure if she's still active. I remember someone here saying she went psycho on him. But you know what they say, crazy in the head, crazy in the bed.

Found her on escort Babylon. Also on tryst. My god what a nice body and perfect set of tits! [URL]https://escortbabylon.net/posts_view/214534939/4636735195[/URL].

Anyone been with her?

[QUOTE=RubGuy80;7476628]Met her once but never had a second date or any personal time together. Can you PM what you were offering her and any further info on your experiences with her?.[/QUOTE]I promise all ladies complete discretion and keep my word.

When we parted the final meeting, she said it was ok to say she was free and post she was an awesome SB on Secret Benefits.