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[QUOTE=Poogs;6077010]This was sparked by Ridley1991's post. How many of ya'll are married? Have kids? Have a girlfriend or whatever? I am not judging (I'm married), but I was genuinely curious. I went to an AMP in Iowa during a trip and the gal asked me if I was married. I said yes and that instigated the HE, I think she was kind of into jerking a married man off. If someone working asks do you lie? For clarification I am in my late 20's and have been married for almost 4 years. I'm not bored of my wife whatsoever but, like Ridley was saying, I get turned on by having some stranger seeing me nude and touching me, even if it doesn't end with an HE.[/QUOTE]There is no way I would discuss anything even approaching that area anywhere involving this hobby. I have thankfully never had a provider, from high-end escort to random AAMP gal even come close to asking me those kinds of questions. If one did, alarm bells would be going off. In my experience, providers want to keep their private life out of it and extend their clients the same courtesy. Just a bad idea all around to discuss this stuff. Vagueness, generalities, pleasantness in conversation to stay well away from any private details on either side.
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[QUOTE=CaptainHonest;6076801]My man! Should have asked if she wanted one, you may have gotten FS. All jokes aside, but yes I get asked that all the time. I'm not sure how old everyone is but all AMPs and providers ask me about my age, marriage, kids. I'm in my late thirties, average guy. I get the "your strong" compliment as well.
I can see how it's a total boner killer LOL.[/QUOTE]LOL. Wish I would have thought about that in the moment! Missed opportunity.
I really stirred up the conversation here with that post. She definitely was not asking to be invasive, it was weird compliment and poor timing. As far as sharing personal info, she has to look no further than my left ring finger to know I'm married. Even if I were to remove it, the obvious tan line is there.
I'll still go back here. I hear there are some younger cuties I haven't gotten the luck of the draw with yet.
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[QUOTE=MassErrection;6055071][URL]https://resortmassageandtanning.glossgenius.com/team[/URL]
TOFTT. Bet I score tonight![/QUOTE]Any news here Mass? It looks like a good massage place and nothing else to me.
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[QUOTE=Dream44;6072946]on the flip she asked for $70 for HE only. She said all her customers pay that.[/QUOTE]She's providing fake news to you. All her customers do not pay that much.
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Provider Question
[QUOTE=Poogs;6077010]This was sparked by Ridley1991's post. How many of ya'll are married? Have kids? Have a girlfriend or whatever? I am not judging (I'm married), but I was genuinely curious. I went to an AMP in Iowa during a trip and the gal asked me if I was married. I said yes and that instigated the HE, I think she was kind of into jerking a married man off. If someone working asks do you lie? For clarification I am in my late 20's and have been married for almost 4 years. I'm not bored of my wife whatsoever but, like Ridley was saying, I get turned on by having some stranger seeing me nude and touching me, even if it doesn't end with an HE.[/QUOTE]I am married as well, but was getting "massage" we'll before I even met my wife. I have many tattoos and some are symbols of my family. I get comments every time it's a new girl about my tattoos many love them but I always try and walk a thin line when talking about them. I to like the idea of being naked and spoiled but I am truly on the look out for the one provider who can give me a true therapeutic massage and HE. I think the AMP have the HE down but many time the massage is lacking. Then I always feel bad going to a therapeutic provider and leaving without the HE.
If anyone has this type of provider please PM I don't mind putting in the time and visits to build a relationship if I know sooner or later it will happen.
Cheers and happy hunting.
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Northeast by North
Through PMs with a fellow member I received this AMP lead. This is my abridged experience.
Called in the morning and made an afternoon appointment. Located at a small strip mall in a northeast by north metro suburb. Entered and introduced myself by my appointment time. A 40+ rather plain faced woman showed me to the first room and was asked to get comfortable. There was a sheet on the massage table and after undressing laid on that. A short time later she came back in and asked how much oil to use. But I have never been asked that before and thought maybe she wanted to know how hard, so I answered medium. She asked again and I figured it out this time and answered light because I did not want a little oil all day. In hindsight I should have asked for medium but it worked out anyway.
She started with a basic routine, alternating from one side to the other. Within maybe 10 minutes she would sprinkle in an intentional stroke in my upper inner thigh. Then she moved to position to better give direct attention to the stick and plums for a couple of minutes. Next she outstretched each leg one at a time and methodically massaged it. She moved back to teasing and rubbing the good bits and I accommodated better by getting on all fours. Lots of teasing is an understatement. At the flip it was right to slow teasing and stroking. I finished really hard, she stroked the whole way through. After cleanup the time was finished with a scalp and face massage. I did ask for topless, but she was not going to. Fine with me, everything was great.
There seems to be a lot of hesitation to post specific names and locations that I COMPLETELY support. To that end here is what I want to try. If you are interested in this NE metro location, you can send me two recent locations (with brief details) you recommend and I will send you this one and one other. AND, I will send your recommendations to the one who gave me this one.
You give me 2, I give you 2, and I pass back 2.
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[QUOTE=Ridley1991;6075967]I'm new to the hobby and this was becoming my usual place. Massages have been pretty good here and I've had three different ladies. I'm into the massage part of it because who doesn't like a good massage with some teasing? Also I guess the being exposed is a turn on for me. Like doing something totally normal like a massage but knowing that they can see and are looking at my junk is a turn on.
I'll cut to the chase. She's lightly teasing after the flip, towel was on for about 30 seconds and she holds her hands apart saying "you're strong man", like she's complimenting my size. Then she says "how many kids do you have?" It threw me for a loop for a second but I answered. So she starts stroking and I'm thinking about her question and guessing she was trying to pay me a compliment, like there is some correlation between size and virility.
Anyway, I tried to keep going but all I could think about was my kids and it killed my mood obviously. I stopped her and said thank you for the great massage but I don't think I can finish. I tipped her my usual amount anyway because I she was trying to be complimentary.
Has that ever happened to anyone else?
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I'll tell you how I accidentally got into AMPs next time.[/QUOTE]
There compliment you, because their looking for a bigger tip and It's hard for them to communicate that properly with the language barrier. I get that as well and I'm older than you guys.
If they're actually hitting on you it maybe to see if you have the potential to fund them and there family and a husband would certainly take care of any visa issues they maybe having.
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[QUOTE=Vio109;6079983]Through PMs with a fellow member I received this AMP lead. This is my abridged experience.
Called in the morning and made an afternoon appointment. Located at a small strip mall in a northeast by north metro suburb. Entered and introduced myself by my appointment time. A 40+ rather plain faced woman showed me to the first room and was asked to get comfortable. There was a sheet on the massage table and after undressing laid on that. A short time later she came back in and asked how much oil to use. But I have never been asked that before and thought maybe she wanted to know how hard, so I answered medium. She asked again and I figured it out this time and answered light because I did not want a little oil all day. In hindsight I should have asked for medium but it worked out anyway.
She started with a basic routine, alternating from one side to the other. Within maybe 10 minutes she would sprinkle in an intentional stroke in my upper inner thigh. Then she moved to position to better give direct attention to the stick and plums for a couple of minutes. Next she outstretched each leg one at a time and methodically massaged it. She moved back to teasing and rubbing the good bits and I accommodated better by getting on all fours. Lots of teasing is an understatement. At the flip it was right to slow teasing and stroking. I finished really hard, she stroked the whole way through. After cleanup the time was finished with a scalp and face massage. I did ask for topless, but she was not going to. Fine with me, everything was great..[/QUOTE]No offense to you, good Sir, but is sucks that the Scene in Minnesota has to be this way. Look up Dallas, Orlando, Orange County.
CA in this same board and great, useful information is openly exchanged on the boards. So sad in Liberal Minnesota Twin Cities.
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Questions
[QUOTE=PartTimeGuy;6077365]There is no way I would discuss anything even approaching that area anywhere involving this hobby. I have thankfully never had a provider, from high-end escort to random AAMP gal even come close to asking me those kinds of questions. If one did, alarm bells would be going off. In my experience, providers want to keep their private life out of it and extend their clients the same courtesy. Just a bad idea all around to discuss this stuff. Vagueness, generalities, pleasantness in conversation to stay well away from any private details on either side.[/QUOTE]You have never been asked any of those questions? Wow, you must be part time. I'd bet with AMPs, I'm asked those questions at least 75% of the time. Maybe its because I'm not married and don't have any children, but I have never gotten nervous about those questions. I've even asked them the same questions. I'll never ask where they are from or how they ended up in the United States but if they ask first, I'll ask if they are married or have children. I just look at it as small talk. When it comes to where I live or where I grew up, that I keep to very general terms. I have been asked with independents and agency providers but not as much. I had one provider I used to see, she got out during Covid, who claimed to be married that would always ask if I had a girlfriend yet. My answer was always, "no, because you are married. " She liked that answer.
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[QUOTE=OnlyMe1234;6080666]You have never been asked any of those questions? Wow, you must be part time. I'd bet with AMPs, I'm asked those questions at least 75% of the time. Maybe its because I'm not married and don't have any children, but I have never gotten nervous about those questions. I've even asked them the same questions. I'll never ask where they are from or how they ended up in the United States but if they ask first, I'll ask if they are married or have children. I just look at it as small talk. When it comes to where I live or where I grew up, that I keep to very general terms. I have been asked with independents and agency providers but not as much. I had one provider I used to see, she got out during Covid, who claimed to be married that would always ask if I had a girlfriend yet. My answer was always, "no, because you are married. " She liked that answer.[/QUOTE]Just random chance, I guess. I have had several dozen AMP experiences over the last 5 years, about once a month except during the height of covid. Escorts maybe once every other month or so? Part time certainly in comparison to some folks, heh, heh. I guess I shouldn't say never been asked, I spent time with a provider over in Europe who asked those types of questions. I figured it was safe to provide a bit more info that far away from home. My experience has been the small talk just hasn't gone that direction, more what I do for work, hobbies, travel, the kind of thing both parties can have a good conversation about and never worry about revealing too much.
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Quest continues
"There seems to be a lot of hesitation to post specific names and locations that I completely support. To that end here is what I want to try." "You give me 2, I give you 2, and I pass back 2." "Sucks that the Scene in Minnesota has to be this way. Look up Dallas, Orlando, Orange County CA (Tucson. My winter tour) in this same board and great, useful information is openly exchanged on the boards. So sad in Liberal Minnesota Twin Cities." All this is to cautious for me. Single and over the dating BS with the reward hassle correlation. I also like the adventure of it being or requiring innuendo. But the joy of Tucson isn't out of mind. Attractive to Good Looking therapist with intimate skills that made hhr the norm. I still liked the hour to warm up and enjoy the anticipation. Not sure what my point is other than a desire for a great massage in MN with an attractive therapist and possibility. Then maybe the 3 V's (Variety, volume & VALUE). I'm sure I over tip cause I am greeted well. Just can't move to the AAMP cause of the value and curn of therapist.
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Really 2,2,2?
[QUOTE=QuestR76;6081736]"There seems to be a lot of hesitation to post specific names and locations that I completely support. To that end here is what I want to try." "You give me 2, I give you 2, and I pass back 2." "Sucks that the Scene in Minnesota has to be this way.[/QUOTE]I have been on a hiatus for a few months so I'm just catching up. The MN board / scene does not have to be that way. It is naive to think that LE doesn't know about this and other boards. Furthermore not reading them for some intel. Maybe they are or are not, I don't know nor do any of us I'm sure. But we do need to start posting reviews. They don't need to be lengthy or have specific details. Ie: "I checked out X and had left happy and relaxed. " Or "I checked out X and not worth the time. " "Senior members can message for more details. " Be more detailed if you like, but stating that you need to receive two to give two to pass on two is ridiculous. This is not intended to attack you or anyone else but if your posts are minimal with no recent reviews why should anyone trust the posting? How about instead, people just post a review as I stated above and we can grow as a community of hobbyists and learn to help one another as this board is intended for.
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[QUOTE=Dream44;6072946]Went to favorite on East Travelers in Burnsville. All the young ones were booked so I ended up with the owner, I believe. (First door on the left.) Anyway on the flip she asked for $70 for HE only. She said all her customers pay that. What. I said $40 is standard and she came down to $60. I countered with $40. She then came down to $50. I countered with $40. She agreed and said next time $70. I said yeah right. Wouldn't repeat unless I get the young ones.[/QUOTE]I'm still new here, lots of good info thanks to everyone. Here's my 2 cents. I've only been doing this for about 10 months but I hate the long haggle, it kills the mood for me. Honestly in my short experience all but twice there has been no discussion of money, just an ask if this is ok or a motion from them and a nod from me. I tip $4 for and good full body massage. If there is a money discussion and I'm into the massage I just go right to $5 and have had quick acceptance with that most times. The few times they wanted to continue to haggle I've politely said no thank you and complimented them on the nice massage and ask them to focus on another part of my body. Then when they are finishing up the massage I'll ask about the other people that work there. "So who are some of the other people that work here?" Once I get another name I'll say "tell me about her. " Or sometimes I'll ask who gives the best massage here? If they say they are the best I'll tell them "I need to try someone else next time to compare. " One time with that tactic she said "I'll do you again next time, you will like, ok?" Other times I've asked for someone else on the next visit.
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New in Town
Do you. I'm in the city for a few days for work. I've been looking on the sites but they all look like scams. Do you guys mind sending me some legit recommendations? PM or reply. Thanks in advance.
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