Advice for BP. How to Stay Out of Trouble
I'm giving everyone my tips and tricks I've learned over the past 5 years. Hopefully it will help some of the newbies on the boards or anyone else looking to stay out of trouble.
Reviewed girls: These are girls who have reviews on this board or other boards. Read the reviews, if someone posts a negative experience or you get mixed reviews, then there's a good chance you'll be disappointed. For girls with positive reviews, I've never been disappointed so far, but nothing's ever a guarantee as these girls can go downhill fast.
Non-reviewed girls: This is where it gets tough. Here in CT there is a lack of local talent (who stays here year-round). So there's always the temptation to try out the new girls who pop on BP or CV. So here are some of my tips from what I've learned over the past five years: 1) Always check for reviews as mentioned above; 2) Take their photo and use Google image search, tineye, or some reverse image search program to see if their photo pops up elsewhere – you'll often find the same photo used for postings across all of the USA in the same day – you then know it's fake. Or sometimes the photo is of a model who is not an escort. Also fake. 3) See if what they say in their ad description makes any sense – ie. The ad states they are a black girl but the picture is of a white girl – should be a red flag and an immediate pass; 4) 98% of the girls lie about their age, so that is the one piece I wouldn't worry too much about; 5) Never, and I mean never, send out your real name, your address, work information, or a picture of yourself – you don't who or what they are doing with it – the girls who do "heavy" screening on BP and want your real information, I suggest you just pass; 6) use a burner phone or an app number, this is sort of piggybacking off the last point – I've had escorts text / call me unprompted so don't get yourself caught in a mess; 7) Use your gut – is the girl just giving you a bad vibe from texts or a phone conversation? If yes, your gut is normally right and just avoid them; 8) Take their phone number and search social media, ie. FB. I can't tell you how many times I've done a reverse phone search on FB and it ties back to a pimp. 9) Speaking of pimps, if you get any sense the girl is being pimped or handled by a dude, avoid her. Did you see a sketchy dude walk out of her incall as you were waiting? Just drive away. 10) If their BP ad states in any way the following – party favors, party friendly, poppers, snowing, molly, skiing, crack references – this means they are drug users and you want to avoid them. Seeing these girls is risky enough – do you really want to add drugs in the mix? 11) Be a detective – in the posted pictures, search the backgrounds for drugs / drug paraphenial, some of these girls have crack pipes sitting in the background; or some girls have visible scabs and track marks on their skin – avoid them. 12) Ask their rates and services before you show up, not after; 13) If you show up at an incall, and the picture wasn't real – just leave. They lied and the service won't get any better; 14) For girls you've never seen before, do a quick walkthrough of the incall to make sure no one else is in there, especially hiding in the bathroom. And make sure the door is locked and latched shut so no one else can enter; 15) Most incalls I go to are at motels / hotels – haven't had any problems thus far. I've been to some private residence incalls, ie. Their apartments / houses – it can get pretty scary. I've been to some really bad urban areas of Hartford, New Haven, Waterbury, New London for private residence incalls and I decided to bolt in most cases. One time in New Haven I saw members of the Bloods gang walking around the incall house and my car. No way. 16) Uncle LEO – most escorts who are seasoned know to be nude when you walk in the door – this is the Uncle LEO test. If I walk in and the girl is fully clothed, I'm immediately walking out, no discussions. 17) Be weary of any girls posting as 18,19 years old. This is inherently risky and Uncle LEO especially likes to use the lower ages for entrapping us mongers. 18) Remember, there is always another day and another girl to plow. Don't let your horniness get you ripped off or arrested. You can go home and beat off; 19) Always have an escape route. I know this sounds paranoid. Make note of exit points out of the hotel, motel. Make sure you have your car parked in a position to easily bolt; 20) This is just me, but I carry a self-defense weapon. I won't say what it is but maybe pepper spray, mini keychain taser, etc. Never had to use it and never hope I have to; 21) Girls who want you pay up front for the incall, don't do it. One escort wanted me to use my credit card for the room. Yeah right, sweetie.
Overall, be a detective, use common sense, go with your gut, think ahead, be prepared, and don't let your horniness get the best of you.
Any experience with this one?
Pics appear to be genuine, but based on texting with her, I get the feeling that she is into upselling. Every extra appears to be an extra charge. Has anyone seen her?
Looks cute, but I'm not into providers who nickel and dime for every little extra, like BBBJ.
Here is the ad: [URL]http://hartford.backpage.com/WomenSeekMen/sweet-like-candy-sexy-and-[/URL]ßε945;uty-now-945;vαilable-22-windsor-locks /17957098.
