Girlfriend / Provider Same Difference.
[QUOTE=DMichaels69;3123483]Its all a con. Men give them money and they expect it and don't appreciate it. Best to keep it as a business transaction. No flowers, candy or anything else.[/QUOTE]A girlfriend is pretty much the same way. We give them money because they expect it and don't appreciate it. So even having a girlfriend around is like a business transaction. Just like a provider see how long a girlfriend stays with you when you don't spend money on her.
Sage advice from the forums
[QUOTE=DMichaels69;3123483]Its all a con. Men give them money and they expect it and don't appreciate it. Best to keep it as a business transaction. No flowers, candy or anything else.[/QUOTE]I've been playing this game off and on since 1979. This was the first and last time to get personally involved. But I bought them groceries rather than give her cash. When I paid the cellphone bill it was a trade for services. I think I'm going to stick with MP for a while. I need a break from the BP drama.
I've helped and still help some of the girls.
Just like I help anyone in my life who is in need of help. Regardless of their job or eye color.
I just don't like to see people in need who do need a little boost, suffer when it's so easy to help. I'm not talking life saving stuff, just some small tokens of kindness and charity.
That's just me, and maybe why I have so many of these girls and their friends as my friends too.
I walked into a place today and saw a girl I hadn't seen in over a year, just sitting their talking with my provider and she got up gave me a hug, kiss and I got a free 4 hand with the two of them. I can't tell you how many times this has happened to me over the years. It doesn't suck, and doesn't happen overnight either.
You don't have to believe me, but there is also no reason to lie either.
Most of these girls are NOT users of men, they are just girls, and to use others and get caught doing so would be "losing face" and that is huge in the Chinese community and non of them want that unless they are a true psycho of which there are not many of them. It is up to us as men to know when we are the fool or the friend. I think I know where to draw the line.
Oh well, carry on.
SouthSide European Massage
The past few months I've experienced 2 European Massage Therapists and thought I would report. Both advertise on CL and both are over 40. The first gives a first class massage and rates are in line with others She is hot, dresses provocatively, but I had absolutely no play. She moved away even when there was incidental contact, gave no hint of anything more available than one of the 2 or 3 best legitimate massages I have ever had. Her ad has a tropical flare. The second has been reviewed here previously. Her rates are a little higher, she is older than the first, somewhat scary with the makeup, but a good body for her age, and shows it off to a point. Gives an above average to a good plus massage imo, and provides good advice for some problem areas. I found the teasing before the flip very stimulating. She went for Jr without hesitation but when I tried to show my Roman and Russian heritage she shot me down. She finished everything, got cleaned up and a kiss goodby while I promised to return. I'll probably go back to both, 1 for a terrific massage, and 1 for the proximity and the need for help.