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[QUOTE=JohnGuest;7291105]After fifteen terrific months, I thought it best for both of us to move on. We were together longer than I was married to my first wife! Tall, Asian, great lady! I had her permission to post this discreetly.
John Guest.[/QUOTE]Interested but your IB is full LOL.
Interested as well. Please share the details.
[QUOTE=JohnGuest;7291105]After fifteen terrific months, I thought it best for both of us to move on. We were together longer than I was married to my first wife! Tall, Asian, great lady! I had her permission to post this discreetly.
John Guest.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=JohnGuest;7291105]After fifteen terrific months, I thought it best for both of us to move on. We were together longer than I was married to my first wife! Tall, Asian, great lady! I had her permission to post this discreetly.
John Guest.[/QUOTE]Interested and I could hook you up with a UTR if you desire.
[QUOTE=JohnGuest;7291105]After fifteen terrific months, I thought it best for both of us to move on. We were together longer than I was married to my first wife! Tall, Asian, great lady! I had her permission to post this discreetly.
John Guest.[/QUOTE]I'm also interested and would love to see her! Just shoot me a dm! Thanks.
[QUOTE=JohnGuest;7291105]After fifteen terrific months, I thought it best for both of us to move on. We were together longer than I was married to my first wife! Tall, Asian, great lady! I had her permission to post this discreetly.
John Guest.[/QUOTE]I'm interested, can you please DM her contact details. Thank you very much.
[QUOTE=JohnGuest;7291105]After fifteen terrific months, I thought it best for both of us to move on. We were together longer than I was married to my first wife! Tall, Asian, great lady! I had her permission to post this discreetly.
John Guest.[/QUOTE]I bet the Queue is out the door. What is she looking for ideally? (ie. Allowance, frequency of meets, type of guy (or don't care)) Might help weed out tire kickers / people she'd not likely be interested int. If she's under 45/ and not a bigger girl, I'd be interested.
[QUOTE=JohnGuest;7291105]After fifteen terrific months, I thought it best for both of us to move on. We were together longer than I was married to my first wife! Tall, Asian, great lady! I had her permission to post this discreetly.
John Guest.[/QUOTE]I'm interested as well. What is she looking for?
Having a hard time getting back onto seeking. Seems the gift cards from Lowes no longer work. Anyone have an alternative method they would be willing to share? I have seen people hit or miss on using blackhawk branded visa / mastercard gift cards.
Good Morning Brothers, I hope you are having a peaceful, relaxing Memorial weekend. I've returned to Indy after a six month absence and I'm hoping to connect with a new to me personable, safe and sane UTR or SB woman who would be able to take care of me, a mature man, at her place afternoons during the week. If any brother knows of such a woman who you would recommend and be willing to facilitate an introduction please PM me. Many Thanks! Pete.
[QUOTE=Fireman469;7297139]Having a hard time getting back onto seeking. Seems the gift cards from Lowes no longer work. Anyone have an alternative method they would be willing to share? I have seen people hit or miss on using blackhawk branded visa / mastercard gift cards.[/QUOTE]You can create a new google account and then just load up google pay with cards since that is now an option.
I typically have just played in the escort realm but now I want to change it up. I have a date with someone who doesn't know that I am married. I want to ask her about having a SB relationship. It is highly unlikely that she does or has done this before. Can anyone offer me some advice on what a good approach would be as well as maybe some things to avoid?? I'm really unsure whether I should mention that I am married on our first lunch date. If things go well, I am happy to share! She's 5' and 100 pounds with a perfect body and around 30 years old.
Thanks in advance!
Fitz.
[QUOTE=Fitzyj76;7303463]I typically have just played in the escort realm but now I want to change it up. I have a date with someone who doesn't know that I am married. I want to ask her about having a SB relationship. It is highly unlikely that she does or has done this before. Can anyone offer me some advice on what a good approach would be as well as maybe some things to avoid?? I'm really unsure whether I should mention that I am married on our first lunch date. If things go well, I am happy to share! She's 5' and 100 pounds with a perfect body and around 30 years old.
Thanks in advance!
Fitz.[/QUOTE]Break the ice by asking if she has a seeking account.
I had hoped to get some feedback either here or in pm. Somebody here has some advice? The only comment was absurd at best.
[QUOTE=Fitzyj76;7303463]I typically have just played in the escort realm but now I want to change it up. I have a date with someone who doesn't know that I am married. I want to ask her about having a SB relationship. It is highly unlikely that she does or has done this before. Can anyone offer me some advice on what a good approach would be as well as maybe some things to avoid?? I'm really unsure whether I should mention that I am married on our first lunch date. If things go well, I am happy to share! She's 5' and 100 pounds with a perfect body and around 30 years old.
Thanks in advance!
Fitz.[/QUOTE]
SLN Girl Kalani 19.
[URL]https://sugarlifenow.com/profile/kalani567/[/URL]
That was actually very good advice. I've used the same strategy. Craft a story about a friend you know who surprisingly told you about her adventures on a dating site or some variation of that theme. Duh.
[QUOTE=Fitzyj76;7306598]I had hoped to get some feedback either here or in pm. Somebody here has some advice? The only comment was absurd at best.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Fitzyj76;7303463]I typically have just played in the escort realm but now I want to change it up. I have a date with someone who doesn't know that I am married. I want to ask her about having a SB relationship. It is highly unlikely that she does or has done this before. Can anyone offer me some advice on what a good approach would be as well as maybe some things to avoid?? I'm really unsure whether I should mention that I am married on our first lunch date. If things go well, I am happy to share! She's 5' and 100 pounds with a perfect body and around 30 years old.
Thanks in advance!
Fitz.[/QUOTE]If you are wanting to make this a business transaction, then it isn't her business that you are married. I wouldn't tell her.
How did you get a date with someone you have no idea if they are in the business anyways? Why are you trying to push it into the business realm if you already have a date with her?
[QUOTE=Fitzyj76;7306598]I had hoped to get some feedback either here or in pm. Somebody here has some advice? The only comment was absurd at best.[/QUOTE]Not sure what you want. The first comment to ask if they have a seeking account is not absurd. That's an easy ice breaker.
She says Yes oh great, I was hoping we could have that type of an arrangement, I'm married and not looking for a new partner.
She says No Oh well it's basically where two people can get together and the guy helps the girl out financially, is that something you've ever thought about.
I do agree with the other comment though. If you are looking to ppm then your personal situation shouldn't be relevant. If she is going out with you now w / o knowing you are married, then she must have something she sees in you to like. Is the thought that doing ppm will make her OK with you being married?
[QUOTE=Fitzyj76;7306598]I had hoped to get some feedback either here or in pm. Somebody here has some advice? The only comment was absurd at best.[/QUOTE]My advice is I think you are playing with fire. You're dating someone who based on the information you provided isn't in this game. Assuming she has legitimate dating intentions you're elevating your risk profile towards unnecessarily ruining your marriage. She finds out, you lose. She turns you down on your sb proposal you lose. She sees you around town with your wife, you lose. There is a level of discretion that providers and mongers assume. You don't have that if you're just dating and going the route of a traditional "affair. " I'm risk averse. I'd say don't do it at all unless she knows you're married and doesn't care.
My 2 cents. Good luck.
[QUOTE=Captgol;7307365]My advice is I think you are playing with fire. You're dating someone who based on the information you provided isn't in this game. Assuming she has legitimate dating intentions you're elevating your risk profile towards unnecessarily ruining your marriage. She finds out, you lose. She turns you down on your sb proposal you lose. She sees you around town with your wife, you lose. There is a level of discretion that providers and mongers assume. You don't have that if you're just dating and going the route of a traditional "affair. " I'm risk averse. I'd say don't do it at all unless she knows you're married and doesn't care.
My 2 cents. Good luck.[/QUOTE]Literally took the words right out of my mouth with this one. Definitely playing with fire here. We all know how females can be sometimes, and I'm assuming you met this girl out in the wild somewhere. Her not knowing that you are currently married or anything can be a bombshell once you drop it. You may get lucky with some females that are okay with that, but the majority of them will probably be pissed about it. Even mentioning the whole SB world to her and seeing about being interested can be insulting to her depending on her personality and everything. That is basically in my eyes like you asking her if she has ever thought about being an escort. Now as much as the SB in this world want to assume that's not what they are, we all know the truth, and the ones who don't partake in it look at SB like that's what they are, so to me I would think she would feel like you are asking her if she ever thought to do that. Without any context on the girl and her personality or anything, seems like she would take offense to you asking if she is like most women that you have just met in the wild. Still not entirely sure why you're wanting to turn a free thing into a SB situation which with most guys they would just keep it standard and not have to spend anything as far as PPM at all. Most men know if it's for free then it's for me LOL. Stay Safe.
This was the feedback I was hoping to get! Thanks to all of the messages here as well as the pm's.
Some of you seemed a bit miffed at me thinking that breaking the ice with "ask if she has a seeking account" I am fairly certain that she does not a sb (anything's possible) and if she's not it would likely be taken in very poor taste. We met through work, we don't work together nor will we likely cross paths again at work (anything's possible). The thought process of sb was considered because I know what she does for a living and she doesn't make a great deal of money and I know she's a single mom. We are going on a date because I asked her on a date, she's hot and I couldn't help myself.
I've decided to just be straight up and break the ice with the fact that I'm married. If I get a glass of "x" in the face, I'll live. If she stay's, I'm golden! If things go well I will just "help her out" and we don't have to label that anything.
Although I don't agree with some of the comments / suggestions I do appreciate the feedback! This is not something I have done before and I wanted to see the situation from other angles. It's far more complicated that a 1 hour transaction with DI.
On a side note in one of the responses the term ppm is used, I assume this means pay per meet (ing)? If it's something else, I'd like to know.
Thanks Again!
Fitzy.
[QUOTE=Fitzyj76;7307502]This was the feedback I was hoping to get! Thanks to all of the messages here as well as the pm's.
Some of you seemed a bit miffed at me thinking that breaking the ice with "ask if she has a seeking account" I am fairly certain that she does not a sb (anything's possible) and if she's not it would likely be taken in very poor taste. We met through work, we don't work together nor will we likely cross paths again at work (anything's possible). The thought process of sb was considered because I know what she does for a living and she doesn't make a great deal of money and I know she's a single mom. We are going on a date because I asked her on a date, she's hot and I couldn't help myself.
I've decided to just be straight up and break the ice with the fact that I'm married. If I get a glass of "x" in the face, I'll live. If she stay's, I'm golden! If things go well I will just "help her out" and we don't have to label that anything.
Although I don't agree with some of the comments / suggestions I do appreciate the feedback! This is not something I have done before and I wanted to see the situation from other angles. It's far more complicated that a 1 hour transaction with DI.
On a side note in one of the responses the term ppm is used, I assume this means pay per meet (ing)? If it's something else, I'd like to know.
Thanks Again!
Fitzy.[/QUOTE]There is something very satisfying about recruiting a non-SB over to the dark side. After my Colombian cleaning lady visited a few times, I stopped her at the door, pulled out a hundred, and asked to see her tits. She was taken aback a bit, but took the hundred, lifted her bra and shirt, and said "No touch. " They were spectacular naturals. I pulled out another hundred, said "Touch?" and she took the cash. They were delicious and she moaned. She came back later, we took a shower, and had more fun for more cash. Unfortunately when she got a boyfriend, she dropped me as a client for cleaning and cocking. I don't think she could deal with the sex-for-money aspect.
I tried almost the same thing with a waitress at a local bar. She got pissed, demanded money for no service, told the bar owner, he took her side and banned me. This shit can blow up in your face.
I told my sexy barber that my regular SB had gotten married and that the job paid $300.00 per session. After speaking with her girlfriend, she told me to add another $200.00 and we may have a deal. I countered at another $100.00, but before we did business, we had a few drink dates, with a nice French kiss at the end of the last one. I think she wants a regular relationship, not an SB. I'm not sure which I prefer yet, but I do like pay per meeting.
[QUOTE=Fitzyj76;7307502]
On a side note in one of the responses the term ppm is used, I assume this means pay per meet (ing)? If it's something else, I'd like to know.
Thanks Again!
Fitzy.[/QUOTE]You are correct PPM = Pay Per Meet. With a sugar situation you can PPM or do monthly / weekly allowance. Depends on the woman and what you both feel comfortable with etc.
Can you PM who your barber is?
[QUOTE=Midnightpass;7307698]There is something very satisfying about recruiting a non-SB over to the dark side. After my Colombian cleaning lady visited a few times, I stopped her at the door, pulled out a hundred, and asked to see her tits. She was taken aback a bit, but took the hundred, lifted her bra and shirt, and said "No touch. " They were spectacular naturals. I pulled out another hundred, said "Touch?" and she took the cash. They were delicious and she moaned. She came back later, we took a shower, and had more fun for more cash. Unfortunately when she got a boyfriend, she dropped me as a client for cleaning and cocking. I don't think she could deal with the sex-for-money aspect.
I tried almost the same thing with a waitress at a local bar. She got pissed, demanded money for no service, told the bar owner, he took her side and banned me. This shit can blow up in your face.
I told my sexy barber that my regular SB had gotten married and that the job paid $300.00 per session. After speaking with her girlfriend, she told me to add another $200.00 and we may have a deal. I countered at another $100.00, but before we did business, we had a few drink dates, with a nice French kiss at the end of the last one. I think she wants a regular relationship, not an SB. I'm not sure which I prefer yet, but I do like pay per meeting.[/QUOTE].
A better view of this SB [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/eda6adaf-e43f-4382-ba87-696d68b63790[/URL] can be found here: [URL]https://www.sexkuulutused.eu/naised/aljonababe/[/URL].
I've seen this one at the gym. Big fake Asian tits and fit body, but no butt. But I know for sure she's real and enjoys the finer things (Fine dining, LV, etc). Used to see her on WYP but she got scooped up for a while. She's back in the game: [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bfa88b2c-0b7b-45cc-9273-5a01769a2df1.[/URL] Interested to know if anyone's taken the plunge.
Here's the correct link: [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bfa88b2c-0b7b-45cc-9273-5a01769a2df1[/URL]
[QUOTE=RubGuy80;7312801]I've seen this one at the gym. Big fake Asian tits and fit body, but no butt. But I know for sure she's real and enjoys the finer things (Fine dining, LV, etc). Used to see her on WYP but she got scooped up for a while. She's back in the game: [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bfa88b2c-0b7b-45cc-9273-5a01769a2df1.[/URL] Interested to know if anyone's taken the plunge.[/QUOTE].
New SLN Girl, Ann 19.
[URL]https://sugarlifenow.com/profile/Ann_love19/[/URL]
Submissive baby, rough and raw, bring a friend.
I've never pursued a SB before but a very attractive 20-ish girl in my area had a post on FB about a needing assistance and a job. It looks like she might have a young kid. I messaged her about a "mutually beneficial" arrangement not expecting a reply. A few days went by and she replied "depends what you are looking for ". I didn't want to come across as purely sexual so I mentioned house cleaning too. Any tips on how to proceed and put her mind at ease? Is having her come to my house a bad idea? I live alone. What's the going allowance for something like this? I suggested 2 x per month.
[QUOTE=BjcimSeeker;7319578]I've never pursued a SB before but a very attractive 20-ish girl in my area had a post on FB about a needing assistance and a job. It looks like she might have a young kid. I messaged her about a "mutually beneficial" arrangement not expecting a reply. A few days went by and she replied "depends what you are looking for ". I didn't want to come across as purely sexual so I mentioned house cleaning too. Any tips on how to proceed and put her mind at ease? Is having her come to my house a bad idea? I live alone. What's the going allowance for something like this? I suggested 2 x per month.[/QUOTE]Invite her to dinner to discuss. Ask her what she needs. Be friendly. Talk about a friends with benefits situation. With an emphasis on friends. Talk about how you can help each other. You can feel less lonely, fell younger, more alive. Talk about how you don't want a traditional relationship, time restraints, emotional scarring etc.
Best of luck.
Dave.
[QUOTE=BjcimSeeker;7319578]I've never pursued a SB before but a very attractive 20-ish girl in my area had a post on FB about a needing assistance and a job. It looks like she might have a young kid. I messaged her about a "mutually beneficial" arrangement not expecting a reply. A few days went by and she replied "depends what you are looking for ". I didn't want to come across as purely sexual so I mentioned house cleaning too. Any tips on how to proceed and put her mind at ease? Is having her come to my house a bad idea? I live alone. What's the going allowance for something like this? I suggested 2 x per month.[/QUOTE]Send her to my house and I'll get it all figured out for you.
[QUOTE=DaveRue;7319595]Invite her to dinner to discuss. Ask her what she needs. Be friendly. Talk about a friends with benefits situation. With an emphasis on friends. Talk about how you can help each other. You can feel less lonely, fell younger, more alive. Talk about how you don't want a traditional relationship, time restraints, emotional scarring etc.
Best of luck.
Dave.[/QUOTE]This right here is probably the best approach for that situation. Definitely ease into the conversation of something mutually beneficial over going to dinner and breaking the ice at first. I would somehow get into the topic of asking if she ever though about going down the SB route and see what she says and definitely go from there. Like DaveRue said though, emphasis more on the friend part at the beginning and ease into it as we all know that a lot of times when it comes to even SB, they don't want to be perceived as being escorts, even though we all know the truth. Start small and then just work your way from there in conversation once you get a feel for how she is as a person and whether or not she will go for anything more.
She's back again and desperate for money. DO NOT cashapp her a dime!
[QUOTE=NiceGuysLast66;7289557]Stay away from this one. We chatted occasionally while she was out of the game. So when she came back, I agreed to help her a little and we made some plans. Big shock. Day of. Ghosts, NC / NS and no response since. Gave her a week to come correct. Now I have to trash her business.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9bfa4c9c-8a9d-4421-8072-1c31d84a9452[/URL]
Real name is Shelby. Goes by Sophie / Danielle / Shelby. And if she tries to sell you pics / vids. PM me. I'll give them away.[/QUOTE]
Has anyone seen this woman? I've been chatting her up.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/594f5143-f709-7d96-b07b-a134a65e86bf[/URL]
[QUOTE=Ptime5068;7391617]Has anyone seen this woman? I've been chatting her up.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/594f5143-f709-7d96-b07b-a134a65e86bf[/URL][/QUOTE]Nice lady. Korean I believe. Worth your time.
[QUOTE=Radarorielly;7391827]Nice lady. Korean I believe. Worth your time.[/QUOTE]Thank you!
I have a lead on a 24 year-old mixed, hot. If you know my type, she's hot to me. 5 foot two about 95 pounds if that decent size C cups. I've been seeing her for about two weeks and I think she stayed off the site the whole time but I'm about to tell her that I'm not going to see her anymore. I don't need to hear from you if you don't have secret benefits because I'm not giving her number out because I don't have her permission to do that and I'm not going to ask.
[QUOTE=Ptime5068;7391617]Has anyone seen this woman? I've been chatting her up.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/594f5143-f709-7d96-b07b-a134a65e86bf[/URL][/QUOTE]If this is Alexis, AKA the Korean Bombshell in Noblesville, I'd avoid her. Be sure to use a pseudonym and a burner phone.
[QUOTE=JohnGuest;7392738]If this is Alexis, AKA the Korean Bombshell in Noblesville, I'd avoid her. Be sure to use a pseudonym and a burner phone.[/QUOTE]Why is that?
Met Isssa on seeking. Cute, but seen heavier than many of the pics. Allowed bare if that's what you're into.
Chatted for a bit, gave me her #. But then tried to sell content and said wasn't willing to meet.