Sugar babies and WTF moment
Guys.
With the issues lately of revolving providers, to some degree, worries about getting the full hour, multiple pops, risk of being caught, etc. I have been trying the SB route lately, with some success. And some failures, too. My latest failure came with a WTF moment, and with being pissed at someone in this area. I hope it's no one on this board.
Latest SB came on rather strong ithe negotiates, I thought. Wanted $500 minimum monthly allowance, and pay for play on a sliding scale, ending at another $500 for each visit where FS was engaged in. Now, Obviously if I wanted to see her a couple times a month, that's some high-dollar stuff! And I'm not sure about the worth.
Stupid is, though, so I sampled; the whole experience was "meh". Some of it may be youth: it's hard to communicate with a 21-year old who only texts, thinks she's smart, cute, and has a golden pussy, apparently. In telling her I wasn't sure about going forward for cost and personality reasons, here is what I learned, and the part that pissed me off.
She said if I didn't want to pay to play, I could pay $5000 grand monthly for unlimited everything! And apparently she thinks she can get it, here in this scruffy little city. She also told me some guy around here offered her $1500 first visit, $1200 / visit after that, just sex, no "relationship" in the SB / SD sense, at least two meetings per week!
Whoever you are, if you're reading this, you're fucking things up for everyone. I know I can't compete with the good doctor cash-wise, but I doubt even he would offer that much; or am I wrong? I never thought I was cheap, but damn, guys, just because you have money doesn't mean you spend it all and fuck all of us trying to get laid at the same time! This is not NYC or LA; you can find good, fresh, sexy young things for a lot less than those amounts; all you are doing is setting expectations that will hurt the majority of us in this area.
Rant off. I hope it's not Dr. Doctor I'm ranting at, he's been a good source, and seems like a good guy. I'm guessing it's some younger douche bag, hoping so anyway.
ROLMOA. Not ranting at me.
[QUOTE=Rrguy; 1488278]Guys.
Rant off. I hope it's not Dr. Doctor I'm ranting at, he's been a good source, and seems like a good guy. I'm guessing it's some younger douche bag, hoping so anyway.[/QUOTE]Just saw this. I'm amused. (and yes I'm nice guy. A husband or two would disagree ROLMOA).
I give them way too much but its usually in toys (cars, clothes, diamonds etc) , tuition, rent, kids to the doctor, etc. Not straight cash. Not guilty this time (this time but no guarantees for the future, LOL). But I know plenty who play sugardaddy including some new high roller players. There are lots around here that $5k a month would be nothing to them. I know a number that pony up that much per month and some with all added in double that. Have to say I have no problem using resources for getting the youngest, prettiest,...what other use for those resources.. I work hard for them.. use them to play with the best.. So I got no rant for guys spending a lot...
I guess I MIGHT understand the frustration for those with less to play with.. (on the other hand, have this gut feel to say "tough shit" too, lol but then I wouldn't be nice guy anymore).
Hate to tell you. Not too unusual for some around here not withstanding its not NY or Vegas. There are way more than you know that got those levels to use. The players I hang with all can. And trust me they do.
How it gets to them sometimes is interesting. Some UTR types that appear to have high paying jobs are in reality... " Personal assistants". Very personal. I know plenty getting $5k a month from my buddies in addition to rent, tuition, trips, cars etc. etc.
I've always said UTR generally cost more. lol. Put it this way, if a stripper is making $50k a year just stripping (and I know plenty that do).. To get her to doing something more ya got to beat that.. $5k a month would do it. LOL. (and some of you wonder why you are striking out at "take out")
Don't try to play in a game where you aint got the juice to play
[QUOTE=Rrguy; 1488278]Guys.
Whoever you are, if you're reading this, you're fucking things up for everyone. I know I can't compete with the good doctor cash-wise, but I doubt even he would offer that much; or am I wrong? I never thought I was cheap, but damn, guys, just because you have money doesn't mean you spend it all and fuck all of us trying to get laid at the same time! This is not NYC or LA; you can find good, fresh, sexy young things for a lot less than those amounts; all you are doing is setting expectations that will hurt the majority of us in this area.[/QUOTE]TOO BAD! I'm thinking this morning. Sorry, I'm all full of myself because of a hot 18 year old reason that still asleep. I'm not in the NBA. I'm to: ancient, short, fat and untalented at BBALL to play in any league. Even if I bought the damn team they wouldn't let me play. SO, I play games I can win at. Like expensive, young drop dead gorgeous UTR / SB pussy. And I get the real real expensive stuff that there's little or no traffic going in but me.
Last night got me thinking on the money post again. And laughing again too. I was in a local watering hole and struck out getting take out. College student wanted me to get her some plastic surgery. Wanted me to say," sure no problem" before giving it up. (would be about $10K). Whereas, I wanted to sample the goodies first (and if the take out wasn't good. Weasel on the price). Total impass in the negotiations! No takeout for me! So I change games. No whining or complaining or blaming my cheapness on somebody else (hint, hint, LOL). The take out had a price tag on it and I didn't want to pay that much. No biggie.
I mosey down for take out at to a local strip club. Well I immediately see a gorgeous young college student naked on her back on stage. Way cuter and ten years younger than the one I struck out on. I also know she's not to happy at having to recently become a stripper. Maybe it was one of you that was standing next to me looking down into heaven. I start tossing down $20s. Guy next to me is giving her a few 1s. He turns and says,"I guess I can't compete with you" and goes away.
No shit sherlock. Got to have the juice to play whatever the going rate is for that league. If not, play where you got enough juice.
BTW, she's still asleep in my bedroom. I'll take her for some EXPENSIVE brunch when she wakes up. After, I also might go buy her first ever car too.
Here Here to the good Doctor!
Gentlemen,
I've been following along on the whole money issue. And not prolong the subject, but I agree with the good Doctor. The reality is that we all pay to play in one form or fashion and yes some of us have more means that others. But at the end of the day, let's not loose sight of what we are here to discuss the lady's. But the Dr's post is dead on. I'm just happy that we can agree to disagree. And for that, I salute the the good Doc!
Tinman
I'm teasing rguy some. Some. LOL
[QUOTE=Tinman3956; 1489305]Gentlemen,
I've been following along on the whole money issue. And not prolong the subject, but I agree with the good Doctor. The reality is that we all pay to play in one form or fashion and yes some of us have more means that others. But at the end of the day, let's not loose sight of what we are here to discuss the lady's. But the Dr's post is dead on. I'm just happy that we can agree to disagree. And for that, I salute the the good Doc!
Tinman[/QUOTE]I have some vehicle boy toys I finally allowed myself. Thinking about getting old banger so I can put it outside a motel and not get spotted. For damn sure can't cruise in it with ankgsf and let him teach me the ropes on other markets. LEO has stopped me in them in certain areas thinking I'm a dealer for sure.
But nobody has ever said I'm screwing up the car market for everybody else by buying them. You walk into a dealership and you ain't got the green for a Porche, Do you go and complain about me buying it? No. You get the KIA instead. Right?
So hows this different. LOL.
I'm just joshing ya rguy.
Very Good Take Out last Night.
I had some amazing take out last night, Fresh, juicy, warm, please me in every way. Didn't cost a fortune either.
The Deal- I wos pondering where to have dinner. Feeling indecisive between fast food or Sit down, I chose fast food. I drove around a little and decided on Wendys. I went in and was greeted by this cute little thing behind the counter. She took my order, a Baconater combo, side salad, and a sweet tea. We chatted it up while the food was prepared. I sat down and that's when my dream started. Just looking at that burger made my mouth water. It was all and more than I was hoping for. As I took a bite, the juices ran down my chin a little, I was in heaven. This was the best burger I've had in a while. 5 guys don't have anything compared to this one. I slowly enduldge in the delite of this awesome burger. I didn't eat the salad and barely drank any tea. I didn't want to ruin the event. I highly recommend this adventurous burger. I know I will repeat at least 2x a week.
Oh and BTW, the little hottie joined me when her shift ended. We continued our chat and she needed a ride home, which I was more than happy to offer. During our conversations she showed some interest and flirted as did I. She said she is having a hard time coming up with enough money for her bills this month, they cut her ours at Wendys. We got to her placed and she offered me a drink. I accepted the offer, She brought me sweat tea with a shot of whiskey in it. Told me that's the only liquor she had after her bf moved out last month. I didn't mind, as she asked if I cared to hang out while she took a shower. Of Course I waited. She may have been collecting her nerves in the shower, when she came out 30 minutes later, she had a towel wrapped around her. Didn't say a word, just walked over, took my hand and lead me to her room. She had an amazing body, no kids and young, I explored every inch. This morning we got up, had a small breakfast, and did the dead again, showered together after. We exchanged #s and agreed to keep this our secret. HAHA. I took some cash from my wallet and handed it to her. She was took aback for a minute and said "I'm not a working girl" I assured her I didn; t think that and was only wanting to help her with the bills this month." I was going to give you some cash with or without getting laid" I said. She only smiled and kissed me deeply. She has since been blowing my phone up with texts, I think I did things that poor little girl has never tried. She said it was amazing and wants me to come back tonight, Who am I to say no?
So gentlemen, I am still amazed where true take out is available and how inexpensive it can be. After following along the "I have more money than god" vs "You're ruining it for those who can't lay down that kind of smack" I have to put my $4 in this by saying "Who Cares!" We get what we can when we can get it. Don't hate the players, Don't hate the game, just live within your means. Personally I have spent from $0. Upwards of $1k locally, driven 1000 miles, flown across the country and to foreign asian lands to get laid. As it's been said, if you can't afford to play then don't. But as you can see, We all can manage to get laid without spending a cent. This game is played not only with money, but with grace and style. Learn the tricks and savy it takes if you can't afford to pay the price.
As always thanks to all who support and report.
TheDude
