Chrissy wants to meet you
If you are:
#1 not an asshole. This means you treat women like they are actually human beimgs and olay by the golden rule.
#2 contributing senior. This means you provide intel on the board or we have a history of pm intel exchange.
#3 not a bullshitter. You come through when you call, not just bug her so you can talk nasty.
If all 3 apply to you, pm for the digits for this nice lady who could use some well wishes from yall. I am feeling quite stingy with the digits for most of you. I'm still pissed yall were havimg a great time with Teen Mom star some years back but not a word on this board.
Always have a "no thank you" fee when you shop.
[QUOTE=DECreep;3804207]Older red head was Di I believe. [/QUOTE]I'm telling you Di is a good date. She is very street-wise so if you F with her, it won't be a pleasant outcome. That said, I have dated her before and always had fun. I guess because I am a nice guy and treat her well. She might have a phone again, and if so that means finding her when needed and not having to burn gas looking.
[QUOTE=DECreep;3804207]I follow your guidelines and am rather cautious of other vehicles and people borderline paranoid.[/QUOTE]Hey, nothing wrong with a little paranoia! That is what keeps one safe. When I started, I was afraid of my own shadow. But as I had experiences, both good & bad, I learned and I think for me it was the learning & experience that eased me off a bit of paranoia. Took me a while to tune the Spidey Senses yet learn to always listen to them!
[QUOTE=DECreep;3804207]I did not have any smaller bills, I was at casino earlier and that was all I had left. [/QUOTE]Reminds me of a story. But first a comment if I might? When a situation like that occurs, could one offer to buy the girl a soda or cigs, stop in the 7-11 or Wawa and thus break big bills? I have seen that that small bit of kindness often yield dividends during the date. (I'm just sayin'.
Anyway, I am reminded of a story that is kind of the opposite. Instead of having too much, having NOTHING! LOL Scooped a girl off MDA and on the way to the indoor place, I asked about the menu. Well she jumped in right away with I don't read Shakespeare, nor Dickinson, nor Burns! WOW! Then she starts in with GPS numbers and money up front. I stopped the car and turned around, headed back to MDA. She was arguing her point the whole way. It was clear by her style that it would have been a bad date anyway. So I get back to MDA and pull into the lot of the liquor store and ask her to get out! She flat out refuses and wants "her money!" WTF? For 10-min in the car and an argument? [I]red flag - stupid thinking on my part![/I].
We sat there for 15-min, me politely asking her to get out she yelling. Then even at one point yelling out the window that I shouldn't pick up streetwalkers. Shoot I even took the keys, got out, opened the passenger door and asked to get out. I wasn't gunna touch her or put hands on her as those could be charges on me. After 20-minutes of this pigheaded act I got in drove down the dirt road under the freeway, headed for the Amtrak place and offered her some unpleasantness and a walk back to the street on her own. Well that did it! She relented and agreed to be taken back to MDA. I would have given her a few bucks to get out of my car, but the point is that I had ZERO $ on me! I mean $5 o $10 would have avoided 40-minutes of over all drama. So what I learned from that "experience" was to always "shop" with a small "no thank you" fee! That way, the girl has something for "her time" and doesn't walk away empty handed. Like Charlie Sheen said, I don't pay for sex, I pay them to go home!
Later, I learned, from another girl, that the girl I scooped was pimped and he beat her regularly. So the fact that she got in a car and didn't come back for nearly an hour and came back with nothing to show for the time, meant she was getting a beat down from the pimp. So she was arguing as she knew that not bringing some money meant a beating. Sure wish I had had $5 to toss to her!
So, respect the Spidey Senses, keep learning from each experience, stay safe and have some fun!