Recent experience over the weekend
Over the weekend I had did a dream with a provider whom I've done business with over the course of time but haven't seeing her in a good minute until this weekend. So yesterday we had talked and she said that she was at a house she was staying at temporarily and wanted to do a date and she told me that the house was owned by older couple and it wouldn't be a problem. So since I had a report with her I took the chance and when I got there I saw that there was a lot of cars and people outside like it was a house party or something. So I got to the house and a dude came up to me and was like asking me quick question but knew who the provider was and of course I played it cool like I wasn't a problem. But the dude was like okay I know who you talkin about she's inside but do me a favor and spot me a twenty and I'll walk you in with no problem. Now I only carried the agreed donation rate on me so I gave him a 20 and he walk me in with no problem. Of course I would suspect on that but once I saw the provider I'll let her know about that and she was like he wasn't supposed to do that but it's all good so the remaining amount on the donation rate I gave to her and we did our dream and everything was cool. On my end I don't usually go to somebody's house to do a dream unless the report is solid but for there to be a scenario of where it looks like a house party is not my route. Especially if it's kinda of a suspicious crowd to where you don't know if these are thugs or so called pimps but I know that for now, regardless of if I've done good business with a provider, I ain't going to no house period. But luckily it was a good dream. Can't complain.
Little head, not the big one
I'll have to admit that I've had similar situations where something didn't seem *quite* right, but the small head was in overdrive mode. It's happened a time or five.
[QUOTE=DBlock615;4475180]But I tried to take the avoidable route most times but I guess my third leg had some type of advantage of my thought process LOL.[/QUOTE]
You Raise Some Interesting Questions
RK. I've been where you are for both fronts. I had a really incredible lady I saw, but her demons (in a bottle) hit a little too close to home for me due to family fights with addiction and in many ways I felt that continuing to see her was contributing (enabling) her downward spiral. I hated telling her that I couldn't continue because she was just that good in bed. She has reappeared after getting clean but the emotional ties are more than I am willing to accept. So for me it's been easier to stay away since I've gotten over not being with her in bed. But it would be very easy for me to slide down that slippery slope and get too caught up in the sex and mistaking it for a real emotional connection. As for the other one. I've had "arrangements" with UTRs (aka. Sugar baby) and in particular one who was a great "friend" with mediocre sex. When I ended that one (because I was more of the mentor / adviser than anything else), I had grown fond of her and used to providing that advice, but there was nothing I got out of it. So walking away on both fronts was best for me. Sometimes that's what it comes down to, for a change. What's best for you? Sorry to ramble on, but when I read your post I could understand the feelings that you are mulling over in your mind.
[QUOTE=RustyKuntz;4510162]Earlier this year I met a couple young ladies who I saw several times before they went away. One chose to be very UTR and the other idk what happened to her. The UTR was very pretty but soon her attitude turned ugly and I decided it was not worth dealing with, more drama than one could handle. Sexually, one was top notch and the other was not as open minded but still did well enough for me to continue seeing her. For the record, both played safe, which made me more comfortable, but they did BBBJ which I truly enjoyed with them. Months and months went by without having any contact with either, although one I chose to not contact. I probably would had gone broke if I had continued seeing them, on top of spending time with a former young porn star who visits town, and the occasional rendezvous with other ladies I meet.
Anyways, just when I thought they were long gone, out of the blue both contact me. One telling me how she misses me and the other wanting to see me again. One actually went away to get sober, the other is clean but her attitude pushed me away. The one who went to get sober is very cool but I'm worried she wants a real relationship. I'm very aware as to the struggles of staying sober and everything that comes with that. I know its her choice but I would hate to be part of any future failure. The other one, as much as I want to see her again, my mind tells me to stay away, I had given too many chances with the same results.
I would love to see one stay clean and do well, she deserves a better life. The other one, I think she does well enough, I don't think she really needs me financially, maybe she really likes me and wants me around for emotional support. It wasn't intended to be this way, I told myself I would not get involved emotionally with any.[/QUOTE]
Stings and uptick in crime
As we have all seen in the news, the crime seems to be going up. Murders and robberies, carjackings.
My thought is this: Do you think they are not doing stings lately because they need to focus on these violent crimes? I thought for sure when Megan B got caught taking dick in the cemetery that things would change LOL. LEO in Nashville are understaffed and I know we haven't heard much about stings lately. I don't want to become complacent but could the days of the stings be ending?
I remember when even trusted providers would be roped into working with LEO etc. Now I highly doubt that would happen. If anything they are focusing their attention on "sex trafficking" instead of a sting to arrest johns.
I don't know. Maybe just wishful thinking. Let me know what you guys think.
Low life's go by many names
You Members who had Smyrna kicked off the board -Bravo.
Be careful dealing with HG, Young Money, KC, Smyrna in Nashville and all the other names he's going by.
He is trying to BLACKMAIL some ladies here in Nashville. If a lady refuses to see him or he doesn't get his discounted price he feels he deserves! He attacks their character, bullies her through social media, text and phone calls.
He's been banned from the USASG board for months.
Now I see why! The ladies say he's gross with oder issues like loose flabby skin. Plus he's into bareback with the street girls. He's out of control.
I thought he was harmless. I was mistaken.
Well I smelled the smoke but. ,
[QUOTE=Murfy3712;4531802]Well it took some of you guys long enough to find out what a creep he is. I reported months ago, how he ran off attractive girls with explicit photos, from another site.
I actually didn't catch the new moniker BigMan40, until I looked more closely. Thanks for the heads up.[/QUOTE]Yeah I knew he was addicted to the hobby and figured the ladies would get the word out about this creep. He did the things you said however with Molly he had went as far as put her life and her child in danger.
Why? Because she refused to see him again because how ugly, classless, stinky. Loose hanging skin small duck guy he was. Pushed her to do bareback etc.
He's not a pimp but wants freebies. Discounted prices and control their advertising. I don't know how to classify that. He is definitely a predator of these young girls and then bullies and blackmails them. Once they meet him their all grossed out and refuse to see him again. He’s been prepping some of them for years.
Sorry I was late to the party of calling this creep out but honestly I was trying to stay out of the drama he caused. I've contacted numerous providers from the area and other states to warn them. Hell he had already contacted most of them. I have all his allies, phone numbers and his work address. One girl already got him fired from FEDX. Good for here. No body deserves to be harassed like he goes these young woman. The good ones have families they care about and he's using that as one of his blackmail methods.
Dude get a life! I know you only make medium wage and this makes you feel like big man in campus's but back off. Enjoy the hobby without trying to control every woman you meet. I never have been the type to stand back and let s bully attack someone. I know he had fans because of the number of young girls he finds.
If crack ****** is your thing stay on MEWE. He will harass them until they try the hobby and then end up with a nightmare like the other girls did.
He has nothing to loose besides his aces to these sites. I think he goes by at least 6 names. KC Underwood. Smyrna, young Money to name a few.
I'm backing away from this. Holly is changing her phone number and moving because of the threats and him posting her address and phone numbers on other sites.
Sorry I didn't see this when others were warning the community.
Many have asked how can you help?
I dint think there's anything that you can do for Molly. I recommend that she change her number and move if he knew her address. Another guy recommended that the providers "These girls should get a Restraining Order against him contacting them or coming in contact with them. It is easy to do and costs $125".
Hell I would have given her the money to do that! I appreciate the number of you who have responded and sent me the threats he sent them.
Only thing I know to do is warn these young providers and suggest they do the things above if he is stalking and harassing them.
I don't know what kind of men terrorize a young mother because she doesn't want to see their nasty ass again. It might be because she was giving some of us BBBJ AND WOULDN't touch his. Or he thought I got her to get away from him? Which I should have but didn't. All I told her was get her face off the pictures she sent out and If a client pays for an hour, give them an hour. No slam bam and out the door as many young providers do.
I really don't plan to spend anymore time on this.
His new thing is telling girls I'm a pimp. LMAO Also I'm infected with STDs. LMAO.
I'm low volume these days for many reasons. I gave up young providers years ago because of the drama and danger. I really miss the days of mature providers who knew what they wanted out of the hobby and lived what they did.
This entire experience has reminder me! "NO GOOD DEED GOES UNPUNISHED!