How to Approach DIY (IMHO)
[QUOTE=Bigben99;1906270]I know I will get slammed for saying this but my standard response is to say "Really? I thought you wanted a tip? Unless I know that I am testing a place that may be legit and have no intel on others having fun. It has worked for me every time. And I tip accordingly.[/QUOTE]Here's how I would approach the situation when a lady tells me that the only thing offered is DIY:
I take her up on the suggestion and spend about 30 seconds doing DIY. Then I politely reach over and take her hand and reposition it on the part of me that's standing at attention. I let her know that if she lends a helping hand I'd be glad to leave a tip. I find that actions speak louder than words, and that until I touch myself and until I bring the lady's hand over, she might be concerned about entrapment. I never grab at the lady and I back right off if there's any resistance. I'd say that more than half the time, the masseuse winds up being reassured by my actions and then proceeds with the HE after all. It's when I leave everything at the conversational level that the masseuse typically just shakes her head over and over again.
I'm not pushy about it at all, and like I said, it usually works out fine.
Adobe.
Whatever works for you is good
My approach has yet to fail me but I like yours as well.
[QUOTE=Adobe;1906514]Here's how I would approach the situation when a lady tells me that the only thing offered is DIY:
I take her up on the suggestion and spend about 30 seconds doing DIY. Then I politely reach over and take her hand and reposition it on the part of me that's standing at attention. I let her know that if she lends a helping hand I'd be glad to leave a tip. I find that actions speak louder than words, and that until I touch myself and until I bring the lady's hand over, she might be concerned about entrapment. I never grab at the lady and I back right off if there's any resistance. I'd say that more than half the time, the masseuse winds up being reassured by my actions and then proceeds with the HE after all. It's when I leave everything at the conversational level that the masseuse typically just shakes her head over and over again.
I'm not pushy about it at all, and like I said, it usually works out fine.
Adobe.[/QUOTE]
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